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- 2. • GURU is the bright mask which GOD wears to come to us. Guru means removal of darkness. The entire basis of spiritual progress is based on Guru disciple relationship. He is the conveyance in which the spiritual influence is brought to you. He is needed not to worship but to direct you. • # Life needs some power to push us up."GURU" is that power. When a devotee prays intensely to GOD..GOD sends him a GURU to guide him and develop his own intimate relationship with GOD which is very tangible. The GURU disciple relationship is divine, where the disciple's heart is bathed in the aura of the GURU'S unconditional love. Happy Guru Purnima.
- 4. MenMen areare fromfrom MarsMars WomenWomen areare fromfrom VenusVenus Presented by Professor & Lawyer Puttu Guru Prasad VVIT-Nambur Amaravathi World class capital of A.P Few useful ideas for Men and women from Dr John Gray’s book
- 5. Dr. JOHN GRAY, PhD Author of MMWV
- 6. Once upon a time Martians and Venusians met, fell in love, and had happy relationships together because they respected and accepted their differences. Then they came to Earth and amnesia set in: they forgot they were from different planets.
- 8. Based on years of successful counseling of couples and individuals, MenMen AreAre fromfrom Mars,Mars, WomenWomen AreAre fromfrom VenusVenus has helped millions of couples transform
- 10. • Now viewed as a modern classic, this phenomenal book has helped men and women realize how different they really are and how to communicate their needs in such a way that conflict doesn't arise and intimacy is given every chance to grow.
- 11. Intimacy
- 12. An example of the theories it offers is that women complain about problems because they want their problems to be acknowledged, while men complain about problems because they are asking for solutions.
- 14. Other concepts in the book are the difference between women and men's point systems and how they react under stress.
- 16. Men tend to give larger blocks of points (20, 30, 40 points etc.) for what they think are Big Acts, while women give each act of love one point at a time.
- 19. Example :A man might count a Rs2000 present as 20 points and helping her to carry a heavy bag as 1 point (or he may not even assign any point to the latter), but a woman may count these acts as only 1 point each.
- 21. For Women the total sum of points comes from different aspects. For example: - the different parts of the environment where the present is given each get 1 point (candles, music, privacy, location etc.) - the card gets 1 point, - flowers get 1 point, - if he sincerely takes a moment to notice her and tells her "You look beautiful" in the evening it is 1 point,
- 22. - if he tells her "I love you" in the morning, it is 1 point, - if he hugs her, it is 1 point, - the gift itself gets 1 point. - if he helps her in cooking gets 1 point. If he listen to her problems gets 1
- 24. Most men are not even aware that all women "keep
- 26. The emotional stroke delivered by the sincere attention is as important as the value of the item.
- 28. Men tend to think they can do one Big Thing for her (scoring 50 points) and not do anything else. They assume the woman will be satisfied with it.
- 30. To the woman, she would rather have many many Little Acts on a regular basis. The reason is that women like to think their man is thinking of them and cares for them on a regular basis.
- 32. The cave and the waveHe believes that many men withdraw until they find a solution to the problem. He refers to this as "retreating into their cave." In some cases they may literally retreat, for example, spend time with friends.
- 34. Gray holds that this retreat into the cave has historically been hard for women to understand because when they are stressed their natural reaction is to talk about issues
- 36. This leads to a natural dynamic of the man retreating as the woman tries to grow closer. According to Gray this becomes a major source of conflict between any man and woman.
- 38. He claims that when Women feel full of love and energy to give to others their wave is in a stable place. As they give to others (and don't receive the same amount of love and attention given to them in return) their wave begins to grow until it eventually crashes. Natural Cycle of Wave
- 40. This is a time when a woman needs the love, listening, understanding and reassurance of those around her (including self love). Gray holds that once she is rejuvenated (by getting the support she needs) she is able to rise like a wave and once again has love and energy to give. Men must support this natural cycle by not being threatened by it or telling her why she should not feel this way.
- 43. Men can simply listen to her, constantly reassure her of His love/commitment/monogamy or take a few chores off her back (just a few simple chores will do).
- 45. Most men get threatened because they think, "Why can't she be happy?" or think she is blaming him, but that is not the case. There are several differences between Man and Women in Thinking, you will understood them in the following slides
- 46. Differences Between Men and Women
- 49. Differences Between Men and Women 49 Stress During crisis or stress, men get enjoyable hormone surges of testosterone, vasopressin, and serotonin by competing, fighting, or taking risks. Women do not get this. Rather, women are more likely to enjoy the surge of oxytocin they receive from involvement in conversation or caring relationships.
- 54. Differences Between Men and Women 54 Men's Brains Can Take 7 Hours Longer To Process Emotions Here's a big difference in the male brain that lies at the root of many marital confrontations. Neurological studies show that men may take up to seven hours longer than women to process complex emotional data.
- 62. 62 Differences Between Men and Women
- 65. End of the Presentation
Editor's Notes
- Animate a series of pictures with motion paths (Intermediate) To reproduce the first picture on this slide, do the following: On the Home tab, in the Slides group, click Layout, and then click Blank. On the Insert tab, in the Images group, click Picture. In the Insert Picture dialog box, select a picture and then click Insert. Select the picture. Under Picture Tools, on the Format tab, in the Size group, click the Size and Position dialog box launcher. In the Format Picture dialog box, resize or crop the image so that the height is set to 3.5” and the width is set to 5.2”. To crop the picture, click Crop in the left pane, and in the Crop pane, under Crop position, enter values into the Height, Width, Left, and Top boxes. To resize the picture, click Size in the left pane, and in the right pane, under Size and rotate, enter values into the Height and Width boxes. Under Picture Tools, on the Format tab, in the Picture Styles group, do the following: Click a selection from the Picture Styles gallery.Note: The picture style used in the template is the Round Diagonal Corner Rectangle, which is not a default shape in Microsoft PowerPoint 2010. To reproduce this shape, in the Picture Styles gallery, click on Round Diagonal Corner, White. Then in the Picture Styles group, click Picture Border and then click No Outline. Click Picture Effects, point to Shadow, and then under Outer click Offset Center (second row, second option from the left). On the Home tab, in the Drawing group, click Arrange, point to Align, and then do the following: Click Align to Slide. Click Align Center. Click Align Middle. To reproduce the animation effects for the first picture on this slide, do the following: On the Animations tab, in the Animations group, click Animation Pane. On the slide, select the picture and do the following: On the Animations tab, in the Advanced Animation group, click Add Animation, and then under Entrance click Fade. In the Timing group, do the following: In the Start list, select With Previous. In the Duration list, enter 00.50. On the Animations tab, in the Advanced Animation group, click Add Animation, and then click Lines. In the Timing group, do the following: In the Start list, select With Previous. In the Duration list, select 02.00. In the Animation Pane, select the second animation effect (down motion path). On the slide, point to the endpoint (red arrow) of the selected down motion path until the cursor becomes a two-headed arrow. Press and hold SHIFT, and then drag the endpoint about 0.5” above the bottom of the slide. On the slide, right-click the down motion path, and then click Reverse Path Direction. The red arrow will switch to the top end of the motion path. With the picture still selected, on the Animations tab, in the Advanced Animation group, click Add Animation, and then click More Motion Paths. In the Add Motion Path box, under Lines & Curves, click Up and click OK. In the Timing group, do the following: In the Start list, select After Previous. In the Duration list, select 00.50. Also in the Animation Pane, select the third animation effect (up motion path). On the slide, point to the endpoint (red arrow) of the selected up motion path until the cursor becomes a two-headed arrow. Press and hold SHIFT, and then drag the endpoint down to shorten the path to approximately 0.5”. (Note: Be careful not to drag the red arrow closer then 0.5” to the green arrow starting point, otherwise the position of the green arrow will change.) On the slide, right-click the selected up motion path and click Reverse Path Direction. (Note: The green arrow will switch to the top end of the motion path.) In the Animation Pane, select the second animation effect (down motion path). On the slide, point to the endpoint (red arrow) of the selected down motion path until the cursor becomes a two-headed arrow. Drag the endpoint of the motion path up about 0.5”, into the same position as the green arrow from the up motion path (third animation effect in the Animation Pane). On the slide, select the picture. On the Animations tab, in the Advanced Animation group, click Add Animation, and then click More Motion Paths. In the Add Motion Path box, under Lines & Curves, click Up and click OK. In the Timing group, do the following: In the Start list, select On Click. In the Duration list, select 00.50. Also in the Animation Pane, select the fourth animation effect (second up motion path). On the slide, point to the endpoint (red arrow) of the selected up motion path until the cursor becomes a two-headed arrow. Press and hold SHIFT, and then drag the endpoint down to shorten the path to approximately 0.5”. (Note: Make sure not to drag the red arrow closer than 0.5” to the green arrow starting point, otherwise the position of the green arrow will change.) On the Animations tab, in the Advanced Animation group, click Add Animation, and then click Lines. In the Timing group, do the following: In the Start list, select After Previous. In the Duration list, select 02.00. Also in the Animation Pane, select the fifth animation effect (second down motion path). On the slide, point to the endpoint (red arrow) of the selected down motion path until the cursor becomes a two-headed arrow. Press and hold SHIFT, and then drag the endpoint of the motion path about 0.5” above the bottom of slide, to the same position as the green arrow from the first down motion path (second animation effect in the Animation Pane). With the fifth animation effect (second down motion path) still selected, point to the start point (green arrow) of the selected motion path until the cursor becomes a two-headed arrow. Press and hold SHIFT, and then drag the start point of the motion path up approximately 0.5”, to the same position as the endpoint from the second up motion path (third animation effect in the Animation Pane). On the slide, select the picture. On the Animations tab, in the Advanced Animation group, click Add Animation, and then under Exit, click Fade. In the Timing group, do the following: In the Start list, select With Previous. In the Duration list, select 02.00. To reproduce additional pictures with animation effects on this slide, do the following: On the slide, select the first picture. On the Home tab, in the Clipboard group, click the arrow next to Copy, and then click Duplicate. Select the second picture. Under Picture Tools, on the Format tab, in the Adjust group, click Change Picture. In the Insert Picture dialog box, select a picture and then click Insert. Select the picture. Under Picture Tools, on the Format tab, in the Size group, click the Size and Position dialog box launcher. In the Format Picture dialog box, resize or crop the image so that the height is set to 3.5” and the width is set to 5.2”. To crop the picture, click Crop in the left pane, and in the Crop pane, under Crop position, enter values into the Height, Width, Left, and Top boxes. To resize the picture, click Size in the left pane, and in the right pane, under Size and rotate, enter values into the Height and Width boxes. Repeat steps 1 through 3 for each additional picture that you want to use. Press and hold CTRL, and then select all pictures. On the Home tab, in the Drawing group, click Arrange, point to Align, and then do the following: Click Align to Slide. Click Align Center. Click Align Middle. To reproduce the background effects on this slide, do the following: Right-click the slide background area, and then click Format Background. In the Format Background dialog box, click Fill in the left pane, select Gradient fill in the Fill pane, and then do the following: In the Type list, select Linear. Click the button next to Direction, and then click Linear Down (first row, second option from the left). Under Gradient stops, click Add or Remove until two stops appear on the slider. Also under Gradient stops, customize the gradient stops as follows: Select Stop 1 on the slider, and then do the following: In the Position box, enter 34%. Click the button next to Color, and then under Theme Colors click Black, Text 1 (first row, second option from the left). Select Stop 2 from the list, and then do the following: In the Stop position box, enter 100%. Click the button next to Color, and then under Theme Colors click Black, Text 1, Lighter 25% (fourth row, second option from the left).
- Animate a series of pictures with motion paths (Intermediate) To reproduce the first picture on this slide, do the following: On the Home tab, in the Slides group, click Layout, and then click Blank. On the Insert tab, in the Images group, click Picture. In the Insert Picture dialog box, select a picture and then click Insert. Select the picture. Under Picture Tools, on the Format tab, in the Size group, click the Size and Position dialog box launcher. In the Format Picture dialog box, resize or crop the image so that the height is set to 3.5” and the width is set to 5.2”. To crop the picture, click Crop in the left pane, and in the Crop pane, under Crop position, enter values into the Height, Width, Left, and Top boxes. To resize the picture, click Size in the left pane, and in the right pane, under Size and rotate, enter values into the Height and Width boxes. Under Picture Tools, on the Format tab, in the Picture Styles group, do the following: Click a selection from the Picture Styles gallery.Note: The picture style used in the template is the Round Diagonal Corner Rectangle, which is not a default shape in Microsoft PowerPoint 2010. To reproduce this shape, in the Picture Styles gallery, click on Round Diagonal Corner, White. Then in the Picture Styles group, click Picture Border and then click No Outline. Click Picture Effects, point to Shadow, and then under Outer click Offset Center (second row, second option from the left). On the Home tab, in the Drawing group, click Arrange, point to Align, and then do the following: Click Align to Slide. Click Align Center. Click Align Middle. To reproduce the animation effects for the first picture on this slide, do the following: On the Animations tab, in the Animations group, click Animation Pane. On the slide, select the picture and do the following: On the Animations tab, in the Advanced Animation group, click Add Animation, and then under Entrance click Fade. In the Timing group, do the following: In the Start list, select With Previous. In the Duration list, enter 00.50. On the Animations tab, in the Advanced Animation group, click Add Animation, and then click Lines. In the Timing group, do the following: In the Start list, select With Previous. In the Duration list, select 02.00. In the Animation Pane, select the second animation effect (down motion path). On the slide, point to the endpoint (red arrow) of the selected down motion path until the cursor becomes a two-headed arrow. Press and hold SHIFT, and then drag the endpoint about 0.5” above the bottom of the slide. On the slide, right-click the down motion path, and then click Reverse Path Direction. The red arrow will switch to the top end of the motion path. With the picture still selected, on the Animations tab, in the Advanced Animation group, click Add Animation, and then click More Motion Paths. In the Add Motion Path box, under Lines & Curves, click Up and click OK. In the Timing group, do the following: In the Start list, select After Previous. In the Duration list, select 00.50. Also in the Animation Pane, select the third animation effect (up motion path). On the slide, point to the endpoint (red arrow) of the selected up motion path until the cursor becomes a two-headed arrow. Press and hold SHIFT, and then drag the endpoint down to shorten the path to approximately 0.5”. (Note: Be careful not to drag the red arrow closer then 0.5” to the green arrow starting point, otherwise the position of the green arrow will change.) On the slide, right-click the selected up motion path and click Reverse Path Direction. (Note: The green arrow will switch to the top end of the motion path.) In the Animation Pane, select the second animation effect (down motion path). On the slide, point to the endpoint (red arrow) of the selected down motion path until the cursor becomes a two-headed arrow. Drag the endpoint of the motion path up about 0.5”, into the same position as the green arrow from the up motion path (third animation effect in the Animation Pane). On the slide, select the picture. On the Animations tab, in the Advanced Animation group, click Add Animation, and then click More Motion Paths. In the Add Motion Path box, under Lines & Curves, click Up and click OK. In the Timing group, do the following: In the Start list, select On Click. In the Duration list, select 00.50. Also in the Animation Pane, select the fourth animation effect (second up motion path). On the slide, point to the endpoint (red arrow) of the selected up motion path until the cursor becomes a two-headed arrow. Press and hold SHIFT, and then drag the endpoint down to shorten the path to approximately 0.5”. (Note: Make sure not to drag the red arrow closer than 0.5” to the green arrow starting point, otherwise the position of the green arrow will change.) On the Animations tab, in the Advanced Animation group, click Add Animation, and then click Lines. In the Timing group, do the following: In the Start list, select After Previous. In the Duration list, select 02.00. Also in the Animation Pane, select the fifth animation effect (second down motion path). On the slide, point to the endpoint (red arrow) of the selected down motion path until the cursor becomes a two-headed arrow. Press and hold SHIFT, and then drag the endpoint of the motion path about 0.5” above the bottom of slide, to the same position as the green arrow from the first down motion path (second animation effect in the Animation Pane). With the fifth animation effect (second down motion path) still selected, point to the start point (green arrow) of the selected motion path until the cursor becomes a two-headed arrow. Press and hold SHIFT, and then drag the start point of the motion path up approximately 0.5”, to the same position as the endpoint from the second up motion path (third animation effect in the Animation Pane). On the slide, select the picture. On the Animations tab, in the Advanced Animation group, click Add Animation, and then under Exit, click Fade. In the Timing group, do the following: In the Start list, select With Previous. In the Duration list, select 02.00. To reproduce additional pictures with animation effects on this slide, do the following: On the slide, select the first picture. On the Home tab, in the Clipboard group, click the arrow next to Copy, and then click Duplicate. Select the second picture. Under Picture Tools, on the Format tab, in the Adjust group, click Change Picture. In the Insert Picture dialog box, select a picture and then click Insert. Select the picture. Under Picture Tools, on the Format tab, in the Size group, click the Size and Position dialog box launcher. In the Format Picture dialog box, resize or crop the image so that the height is set to 3.5” and the width is set to 5.2”. To crop the picture, click Crop in the left pane, and in the Crop pane, under Crop position, enter values into the Height, Width, Left, and Top boxes. To resize the picture, click Size in the left pane, and in the right pane, under Size and rotate, enter values into the Height and Width boxes. Repeat steps 1 through 3 for each additional picture that you want to use. Press and hold CTRL, and then select all pictures. On the Home tab, in the Drawing group, click Arrange, point to Align, and then do the following: Click Align to Slide. Click Align Center. Click Align Middle. To reproduce the background effects on this slide, do the following: Right-click the slide background area, and then click Format Background. In the Format Background dialog box, click Fill in the left pane, select Gradient fill in the Fill pane, and then do the following: In the Type list, select Linear. Click the button next to Direction, and then click Linear Down (first row, second option from the left). Under Gradient stops, click Add or Remove until two stops appear on the slider. Also under Gradient stops, customize the gradient stops as follows: Select Stop 1 on the slider, and then do the following: In the Position box, enter 34%. Click the button next to Color, and then under Theme Colors click Black, Text 1 (first row, second option from the left). Select Stop 2 from the list, and then do the following: In the Stop position box, enter 100%. Click the button next to Color, and then under Theme Colors click Black, Text 1, Lighter 25% (fourth row, second option from the left).
- Animate a series of pictures with motion paths (Intermediate) To reproduce the first picture on this slide, do the following: On the Home tab, in the Slides group, click Layout, and then click Blank. On the Insert tab, in the Images group, click Picture. In the Insert Picture dialog box, select a picture and then click Insert. Select the picture. Under Picture Tools, on the Format tab, in the Size group, click the Size and Position dialog box launcher. In the Format Picture dialog box, resize or crop the image so that the height is set to 3.5” and the width is set to 5.2”. To crop the picture, click Crop in the left pane, and in the Crop pane, under Crop position, enter values into the Height, Width, Left, and Top boxes. To resize the picture, click Size in the left pane, and in the right pane, under Size and rotate, enter values into the Height and Width boxes. Under Picture Tools, on the Format tab, in the Picture Styles group, do the following: Click a selection from the Picture Styles gallery.Note: The picture style used in the template is the Round Diagonal Corner Rectangle, which is not a default shape in Microsoft PowerPoint 2010. To reproduce this shape, in the Picture Styles gallery, click on Round Diagonal Corner, White. Then in the Picture Styles group, click Picture Border and then click No Outline. Click Picture Effects, point to Shadow, and then under Outer click Offset Center (second row, second option from the left). On the Home tab, in the Drawing group, click Arrange, point to Align, and then do the following: Click Align to Slide. Click Align Center. Click Align Middle. To reproduce the animation effects for the first picture on this slide, do the following: On the Animations tab, in the Animations group, click Animation Pane. On the slide, select the picture and do the following: On the Animations tab, in the Advanced Animation group, click Add Animation, and then under Entrance click Fade. In the Timing group, do the following: In the Start list, select With Previous. In the Duration list, enter 00.50. On the Animations tab, in the Advanced Animation group, click Add Animation, and then click Lines. In the Timing group, do the following: In the Start list, select With Previous. In the Duration list, select 02.00. In the Animation Pane, select the second animation effect (down motion path). On the slide, point to the endpoint (red arrow) of the selected down motion path until the cursor becomes a two-headed arrow. Press and hold SHIFT, and then drag the endpoint about 0.5” above the bottom of the slide. On the slide, right-click the down motion path, and then click Reverse Path Direction. The red arrow will switch to the top end of the motion path. With the picture still selected, on the Animations tab, in the Advanced Animation group, click Add Animation, and then click More Motion Paths. In the Add Motion Path box, under Lines & Curves, click Up and click OK. In the Timing group, do the following: In the Start list, select After Previous. In the Duration list, select 00.50. Also in the Animation Pane, select the third animation effect (up motion path). On the slide, point to the endpoint (red arrow) of the selected up motion path until the cursor becomes a two-headed arrow. Press and hold SHIFT, and then drag the endpoint down to shorten the path to approximately 0.5”. (Note: Be careful not to drag the red arrow closer then 0.5” to the green arrow starting point, otherwise the position of the green arrow will change.) On the slide, right-click the selected up motion path and click Reverse Path Direction. (Note: The green arrow will switch to the top end of the motion path.) In the Animation Pane, select the second animation effect (down motion path). On the slide, point to the endpoint (red arrow) of the selected down motion path until the cursor becomes a two-headed arrow. Drag the endpoint of the motion path up about 0.5”, into the same position as the green arrow from the up motion path (third animation effect in the Animation Pane). On the slide, select the picture. On the Animations tab, in the Advanced Animation group, click Add Animation, and then click More Motion Paths. In the Add Motion Path box, under Lines & Curves, click Up and click OK. In the Timing group, do the following: In the Start list, select On Click. In the Duration list, select 00.50. Also in the Animation Pane, select the fourth animation effect (second up motion path). On the slide, point to the endpoint (red arrow) of the selected up motion path until the cursor becomes a two-headed arrow. Press and hold SHIFT, and then drag the endpoint down to shorten the path to approximately 0.5”. (Note: Make sure not to drag the red arrow closer than 0.5” to the green arrow starting point, otherwise the position of the green arrow will change.) On the Animations tab, in the Advanced Animation group, click Add Animation, and then click Lines. In the Timing group, do the following: In the Start list, select After Previous. In the Duration list, select 02.00. Also in the Animation Pane, select the fifth animation effect (second down motion path). On the slide, point to the endpoint (red arrow) of the selected down motion path until the cursor becomes a two-headed arrow. Press and hold SHIFT, and then drag the endpoint of the motion path about 0.5” above the bottom of slide, to the same position as the green arrow from the first down motion path (second animation effect in the Animation Pane). With the fifth animation effect (second down motion path) still selected, point to the start point (green arrow) of the selected motion path until the cursor becomes a two-headed arrow. Press and hold SHIFT, and then drag the start point of the motion path up approximately 0.5”, to the same position as the endpoint from the second up motion path (third animation effect in the Animation Pane). On the slide, select the picture. On the Animations tab, in the Advanced Animation group, click Add Animation, and then under Exit, click Fade. In the Timing group, do the following: In the Start list, select With Previous. In the Duration list, select 02.00. To reproduce additional pictures with animation effects on this slide, do the following: On the slide, select the first picture. On the Home tab, in the Clipboard group, click the arrow next to Copy, and then click Duplicate. Select the second picture. Under Picture Tools, on the Format tab, in the Adjust group, click Change Picture. In the Insert Picture dialog box, select a picture and then click Insert. Select the picture. Under Picture Tools, on the Format tab, in the Size group, click the Size and Position dialog box launcher. In the Format Picture dialog box, resize or crop the image so that the height is set to 3.5” and the width is set to 5.2”. To crop the picture, click Crop in the left pane, and in the Crop pane, under Crop position, enter values into the Height, Width, Left, and Top boxes. To resize the picture, click Size in the left pane, and in the right pane, under Size and rotate, enter values into the Height and Width boxes. Repeat steps 1 through 3 for each additional picture that you want to use. Press and hold CTRL, and then select all pictures. On the Home tab, in the Drawing group, click Arrange, point to Align, and then do the following: Click Align to Slide. Click Align Center. Click Align Middle. To reproduce the background effects on this slide, do the following: Right-click the slide background area, and then click Format Background. In the Format Background dialog box, click Fill in the left pane, select Gradient fill in the Fill pane, and then do the following: In the Type list, select Linear. Click the button next to Direction, and then click Linear Down (first row, second option from the left). Under Gradient stops, click Add or Remove until two stops appear on the slider. Also under Gradient stops, customize the gradient stops as follows: Select Stop 1 on the slider, and then do the following: In the Position box, enter 34%. Click the button next to Color, and then under Theme Colors click Black, Text 1 (first row, second option from the left). Select Stop 2 from the list, and then do the following: In the Stop position box, enter 100%. Click the button next to Color, and then under Theme Colors click Black, Text 1, Lighter 25% (fourth row, second option from the left).