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Love in foreclosure
1. Love in Foreclosure
August 4, 2010
The ‘bank of love’ will ‘foreclose’ a marriage or partnership
if one or both are not making the required ‘payments of love’. One’s demonstrated love can be
mathematically measured much like house payments. The probability of being able to give
enough to sustain a growing, vital ‘house of love’ within a relationship can be predetermined
with incredible accuracy prior to ‘closing the love deal’. ‘Love is blind’, is not just a harmless
statement, but has verifiable meaning from infinite past observations. The ‘road of love’ is very
narrow, and only widens when the payments (communication) have been consistently met.
Love has different values to different people. It all depends on your understanding, intelligence,
alertness, and demonstrated fortitude of giving, and receiving unlimited love. People hear with
shallow interpretations, and give the same while protecting their vulnerabilities. Words have
different value from different mouths. When a person who is ignorant of love speaks, the words
of love are empty, and not sustaining. They have little value. When a person of unlimited, open
mind and love speaks, the meaning always has a much higher
value. The person behind the words, and expressions is them in
totalness.
The mind is both the locked gate to the heart
as well as the ‘gate-less gate’. The
vulnerable heart softens the negative mind to
allow its watch over what to let in to the heart.
The newly opened heart has taken a ‘leap of
faith’ into an unknown abyss that must be
met with constant reassurance that love is
coming back. Be open to risk everything for
love. Foreclosures in love happen typically
with couples remaining in the empty house of love as if it’s a premature coffin in a grave. Love
doesn’t require ‘deals’, but a total transformation into being love itself. Beyond trust is real love.
Love in it’s real sense cannot become ‘foreclosed’, or shut down. You become an instrument of
love that can stand alone, and yet never be alone. Never attempt to enter into a love that is a
‘fixer upper’ when the ‘love bank’ is not full for both, unless you’re prepared for ‘intentional
suffering’ from which you can learn more about yourself. Love gives freedom from each to the
other. Love doesn’t need ‘deals’ but monitors itself under all circumstances for the
blessings of love forever for each.
Yesss Self Love Center
