The document discusses authentic love and what is required to experience it. Authentic love respects the individuality of both people and their freedom of thought and expression. It requires resolving past issues and sorrows that prevent being fully present. True love sees no disagreements between people and brings no division; it allows feelings of love to continue after a relationship ends through fond memories. Authentic love ultimately comes from loving oneself - when one is able to do that, love for others will always be present regardless of circumstances.
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Authentic Love
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March 10, 2018!
Everyone claims to love a lot of things. Love is illusory or fleeting,
especially when it meets up with another. No one can suit up and play
in a professional football game who hasn’t proven his expertise and
been vetted for that. Likewise, no one can just dash out of the starting
chute with no prior qualifications, and be a master of love. Your
sorrows and unresolved issues of your past, that blocks whats needed
to be a master in the field of love, must be ‘fixed’. !
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Many are good at loving their pet dog, cat, salamander, small child, and it’s wonderful but one thing’s missing? Since
each needs you to feed and protect them, and with their limited brain capacity (no offense meant) they touch a type of
love that has little to do with loving a ‘mirror’ of yourself, or another person who is fully capable of feedback albeit they
are likely no more adept at giving or receiving love. What goes around goes around, meaning those who struggle in
‘self love’ project that on another. Round and round, love never found but fleeting glimpses. !
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Loving deeply is easy, but you can’t beg, borrow, or hope all you want, with out the right conditions, it’s like a sailboat
without wind, isn’t going to sail anywhere. Love is authentic only if it gives freedom, and it respects the other’s
individuality. All secrets need to be shared while not being fearful of the others
individuality, and their response. Not doing so, will make each other’s life more
miserable. Keep changing and moving. But you can’t be carrying a lot of baggage if
you want to do that, physically or spiritually.!
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Authentic love for another sees no disagreement.
Why disagree with yourself, and it must be
remembered in authentic love their is no division
without feelings of love.True love that has been said
is forever is the wrong notion. Things are always
changing. A flower blooms for a while, not for ever.
The fragrance of a love, or love itself continues in
memory, as it should in healthy people. !
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Be loving and sensitive, at least if love doesn’t come
easy. Turn your sorrows and frustrations into treasured gold. You can have more love
than you currently have. If the love isn’t there after years of separation, it never was true love, but ironically it’s not so
much about the other person as it is you loving yourself. When you do that, love for anyone will always be in your
heart regardless. Love is the ultimate karma! Love will always find you - if you’re in your heart. Love is a spiritual path.!
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