A perfect relationship is rare, but possible..

1. INNER ORCHESTRA
August 26, 2020
Over a period of years, several angels came into my life to
add blessings that seemed from another time and place.
None of them (or I at the time) realized they were angels
bringing rapturous information that were beyond words, but
full of, feeling, and manifesting ecstatic joy and delight. Life is the flow of emotions and feelings
and not the emotions-less and feelings-less, mechanical rutting.
One of the great secrets for the best connection to yourself, and one who you are closest to is
to have an agreement consciously, or just ‘naturally’. For most people, and from years of
personal experience, the technique agreement I’m mentioning here works wonderfully, but
many, many people will forget what it is, and fall to patterns of relating which at best induces a
relationship that is good and at times, troublesome.
A near perfect relationship is rare, but very possible. On rare occasion, as
I’ve found, it can work from day one for life or for an agreeable positive
change in the relationship where deep love prevails and yet each
separately ventures on another journey. The key is to always assume each
of you means the best and that you are in full understanding of it, so you
always have total communication with each other. Never hidden secrets.
We seem to live in a world with many secrets from one another. In a deep
love relationship, which should be the only kind to have, there is one mind
with empathy and compassion for each’s individuality at the same time.
Most have some sense of fear in a relationship be it of
intimacy or fear of abandonment that has conquered
their mind and and heart. The fear is self created and
your defenses are up, and you are running scared and
not in control or harmony. If you ever find yourself
defending a position, explaining why, or justifying
anything, it means you are not in total loving sync.
It means you have not been able to accept the others point of view, or the
fact that you may be
wrong. Until you can accept the other (you don’t have to always agree),
and you are not threatened by the other, your positive connection will be
delayed. True loving harmony is accepting not resisting. Coupling can and should be in a
superconsciousness of love. Couples in that space are the most powerful force for world
change.
Mind is the greatest enemy if you have not conquered it and made it your best friend. When
meditation is mastered the mind is unwavering like a flame of a lamp in a windless place.
Whenever it harms your peacefulness, use your discretionary mind to bring it back to a
harmonious position. You are the product of your beliefs, come to the sense of knowing, and
you will be closer to the truths. Always be on the ‘same page’ so ‘assuming the positive’ is
automatic! You have to be willing to change FIRST!
Arhata~