The document provides advice for getting back an ex after a breakup. It recommends maintaining a positive attitude and focusing on solutions rather than dwelling on heartbreak. Being honest with yourself about your role in the relationship problems is important so that the same issues don't resurface. Asking friends or your ex's friends for their perspective can also provide honest feedback to help you improve. The chances of rekindling the relationship depend on the circumstances of the breakup and whether the person who ended things is willing to reconcile.

1. It’s my bet that you are reading this article you are experiencing the pain and
suffering of a break-up. Many forlorn lovers frequently search for advice and tips to
get back their ex, and even though at the moment it may seem impossible and a tough
challenge, it’ not impossible.
Some of the best things you can do to get your ex back may seem deceptively simple
and subsequently you may be inclined to take little notice, but don't. Some of the
information available really can help. One piece of advice is: to continue to live your
life with a positive attitude.
When you are feeling the emotional stress of a break-up it’s easy to lose sight of the
good things in life, but don't let it ruin your life. If you do let things get you down too
much, you won't be the kind of person that your ex will want to be around.
If you give in to the heart break you can actually push your ex further away from you.
A better and more positive tact is to put your attention on finding workable solutions
to the problems that caused your relationship collapse.
This is not always easy. The bigger of a jerk you were, the harder it is to want to face
up to that fact. But if you don't, get brutally honest with yourself you’ll stay in a state
of denial about the things you may have did wrong, you will never make things better
and you might as well ignore this advice to get back your ex because it isn’t going to
won't work for you.
You don’t need me, or anyone else to tell you that your relationship is over because
something went badly wrong. If changes are not made then the same things that went
wrong will just continue to go wrong again and your ex won’t want to go through the
pain and over again.
If it you find it difficult to be honest with yourself then ask your friends for their take
on things, or better still you could try asking your exes friends. That is probably the
most honest opinion you will get and it can be a real eye opener.
Of course, if you just fly off the handle and get mad if you hear something you don't
like not only will you have ruined any chance you may have had to get back with your
ex, but you probably shouldn't even try.
If your first response is denial and anger do your ex a favor and leave them alone. Let
them find a new person who is mature enough to face up to his flaws and who is
willing to fix them. Harsh,but true.
If you were the one who dumped their ex and you now regret it, it may actually be
harder to work things out. If you tell your ex you were wrong they may be happy to
hear it and take you back with open arms. But they may also be really pissed at all the
pain you put them through and may never trust you again.
Whatever situation led to your breakup, this is some good advice to help you work
out how to get back your ex.