Romance and relationships between a man and a
woman often happens quite naturally. Two people meet
each other, fall in love and happily go about their lives
together. Beneath the surface, though, what actually
happens? What causes a man to choose one woman
over another? How can you use this information to
make a man fall in love with you when it appears that he
isn't interested? You are attracted to him and you have
many things in common yet sometimes these feelings or
emotions aren't returned. Why does this happen and
what can you do to be the woman of his dreams?
It's frustrating when you find someone that you like or
even love and he doesn't feel the same way. There
probably is nothing wrong with you. It's simply a matter
of attraction and understanding that men feel attracted
to women for some very strange reasons. Beyond
physical attraction, a man will fall in love with a woman,
or you, because of some emotions that he will feel when
he's around you. If you can recreate these emotions
then a man will feel attraction and eventually love no
matter what you look like or what your social status is.
Getting past that pain and those emotions just isn't as
easy as people might lead you to believe. You want to
get past the pain. You want to begin to live your life
again but it seems that no matter what you do you're
faced with these emotions day in and day out. Sure, you
might have a good day or two but when you least expect
it, those feelings come to the surface again and you feel
like you're right back where you were before.
First, stop trying to analyze everything. Stop trying to
make all of this more complicated than it needs to be.
Think of her just like you would any other woman. She's
not perfect and she is bound to have some flaws. If you
wind up putting her up on a pedastal and kissing her
feet she's going to lose respect for you and you're going
to start to give off a creepy vibe.
Understand that the breakup doesn't rest entirely upon
your shoulders. While it might be easy to take the brunt
of the blame on yourself since you are responsible for
your own actions, both you and your ex are to blame for
this breakup. Placing blame isn't really important
though. What is important is that you learn from the
past and move on towards your future.
Dwelling upon the past and what you did wrong can
damage your already broken ego. You probably feel bad
about yourself. You were rejected in some way in this
relationship and the resulting breakup. It's unfortunate
for your ex though because there will come a day when
you'll begin to feel better about yourself and your ex is
going to realize that they judged you poorly. No matter
what the circumstances were, you deserve to be loved
and cared for by someone special in this world. You
deserve to be treated well and while none of us is
perfect, you are unique and wonderful in your own way.
Loving yourself, accepting yourself as you are is
important. In this life there are going to be times when
you will be alone. You have to be your own best friend.
You have to treat yourself well and start doing things
that are going to make you happy. This might mean
something as simple as watching a movie that makes
you smile and improves your mood even when you don't
want to or treating yourself to a little shopping therapy.
A quick trip to the store to buy yourself a present can
prove to yourself that you love yourself. Before you
laugh or think that this is ridiculous, give it a try.
Be different and stand out from the crowd by being
yourself while understanding that a man needs to feel
certain emotions to fall in love. Be understanding of
what he needs and you will find that he becomes
magnetically attracted to you very quickly. Every man
wants and needs a woman in his life that can make him
feel true love. You can be that woman. The benefits are
apparent in a strong, healthy relationship based upon
mutual attraction and respect. If you have found that
perfect guy or you're already in a relationship with a guy
that seems to be slipping away from you, try some of
these tricks for making him love you. You won't be sorry.