by Adriana Tanese Nogueira
What Is Feminism?
                   
Feminism is a collection of movements aimed at
defining, establishing, and defending equal political,
economic, and social rights for women. In addition,
feminism seeks to establish equal opportunities for
women in education and employment.

Feminism has been the first political moment of historical critique
to family and society.
Manifesto di rivolta femminile, luglio 1970
                                                              Feminism is a state of mind.
                                                                  Lee Johnson-Kaufmann
If You're Not a Feminist, Then You're a Bigot


                    
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dddgkEg2XSA
Anyone who:
 Who Is feminist?               • Supports the political, social and
                                  economic equality between the
                                  sexes, believing that women has
                                  been and still are, in different ways,
                                  discriminated and subordinated to
                                  men;
                                • Is convinced that the biological sex
                                  should not be a pre-determinant
                                  factor that shapes the social identity
                                  or the sociopolitical and economic
                                  rights of a person;
                                • Is affiliated to the political, cultural
                                  and social movement born in the
This is What a Feminist Looks     „800, which has claimed and still
Like                              claims equal rights and dignity for
http://www.youtube.com/watch      women and men, and that in various
?v=3YA13GNT8Mc&feature=relat      ways is interested to comprehend the
ed                                dynamics of gender oppression.
There‟s More Than One
                 Feminism
                                      
 Liberal:                             Postmodern:
      Empowering women and helping        Using deconstruction and
       them overcome the limits and
       constraints of patriarchal           discourse analysis to show
       socialization                        how reality is constructed
 Cultural:                            Women-of-Color
    Infusing society with women‟s        (Womanists):
     values
                                           Racism, classism, sexism, and
 Radical:                                  heterosexism are all
    Social activism                        interlocked
 Socialist:                           Lesbian:
    Race, class, nationality, and         Heterosexism at the core of
     historical biases                      women‟s oppression
Is feminism
universal
(transnational)?


                          YES
               We need to work on the world so it
                   will not be so oppressive.
                        James Hillman
Naomi Wolf and Germaine Greer

                        
Naomi Wolf on Third Wave Feminism
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cCQI-
ougLsg&feature=fvwrel

Germaine Greer thinks women still have cause to be
angry
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CITBPjJCU9o
Feminist Therapy
                 
   Value-driven
more than technique-
      driven.
Feminist therapy is a revolutionary
  therapeutic modality, which…
means not only a technique but also
 a theory of individual and social
              change.
    Elizabeth Friar Williams
Feminism in Therapy Is…
                             
…a sensibility, a political and aesthetic center that informs a
work pervasively. One does not merely make clinical
interventions in the family as a feminist; one also greets the
family and sets the fee as a feminist. The words spoken
during a session that catch one’s attention or that slip by, the
things that make one feel warm toward the family, and the
things that offend are all determined in part by this
sensitivity.
                                             Deborah Anna Leupnitz
Towards the Others
                                 
 Oppositional character
 Critique of the psychotherapeutic mainstream

Standards of mental health for women emphasized the qualities that men
wanted and needed in women. The result was that women who could not
or would not meet those standards suffered from the anger and abuse,
emotional and physical, of frustrated men as well as from the rejection
from male intimates, co-workers, and bosses.

                                                Elizabeth Friar Williams
Common Points in Feminist
         Family Therapy
                           
 Patriarchy is alive and sick in sociopolitical life and in
  the life of families;
 “Normal family” is too often a life not good for women;
 Power in relationships, therapy and society must be
  addressed, analyzed and challenged;
 Reforming families in ways that fully empower and
  enfranchise women economically, socially, and
  politically;
 Positive attitude toward women, social analyses, explicit
  consideration of gender issues for both genders and
  treating the personal as political.
Women in the “adequate” (also called
            normal) families were [are!]
            “overwhelmed with responsibility”,
            “obese”, “psychosomatically ill”, and
            “sexual dissatisfied”. The men in these
            same families were “functioning well”
            and were not sexually dissatisfied. Thus
            … an adequate family consists of a
            husband and children who are
            functioning adequately and a wife who is
            not.
                            Deborah Anna Leupnitz



The “normal”
family, not so
normal.
Feminist Therapy Beliefs
                 
In the sociocultural causes of distress
 In valuing women‟s experiences
In integrated analysis of oppression
       And in social change
Who Is Sick?
                        
  My practice tells me I can no longer distinguish
   clearly between neurosis of self and neurosis of
world, psychopathology of self and psychopathology
of world. Moreover, it tells me that to place neurosis
 and psychopathology solely in personal reality is a
      delusional repression of what is actually,
           realistically, being experienced.
                   James Hillman
Wake Up, Therapists!
                                         
Therapies that avoid gender issues contribute to gender
oppression both in theory and in practice:

 Gender is part of the therapist‟s psychological, social, and
  economical own system;
 Issues that the therapist is not aware of are reproduced in
  therapy, thus supporting the maintenance of the status quo.


    I'm the result of upbringing, class, race, gender, social prejudices, and economics.
                             So I'm a victim again. A result.
                                     James Hillman
Who Is Afraid of Feminism?
                    
Anyone who takes advantage of the patriarchal
       system: men and women alike.
Feminism Is Feared Because:
             
           It disrupts traditional family
            homeostasis;
           It challenges men‟s decision
            making and leadership;
           It unearths the underlying power
            issues that underpin most
            romantic relationships;
           It forces self-questioning and
            self-awareness, interrupting the
            convenient flow of complicity and
            inertia.

Feminist Theory Video
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OcEwKpnTsoQ&f
eature=related

Naomi Wolf debunks the myths around pregnancy
and motherhood
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L9ZX3T-rzLM
Feminist Awareness in Psychotherapy

                           
 In all or most of couple relationships there‟s a latent
  power issue that if not solve will undermine the
  relationship.
 Society as a whole is evolving. Avoiding to face power
  issues both in gender and society reflects an
  understanding of counseling as a bubble separated from
  the larger environment;
 Many women (and also men) show spontaneous
  conscious evolution of gender issues; therapists who
  don‟t take it in consideration are pushing backward their
  client‟s process.
Continued

                         
 Feminism implies in a broader conception of what
  human beings are and a philosophy about their life
  together.
A female therapist should set an example for her
 clients. Because she honors and respects herself she‟s
 a feminist. A male therapist should be feminist
 because he honors and respect his female partner,
 mother and girlfriends, thus representing a model for
 his male clients. A gay therapist should be feminist in
 solidarity of the discrimination they both know.
Key Concepts in Feminist Therapy

                
        Honoring the
         experience and
         perceptions of
         women
        The personal is
         political
        Social transformation
         and advocacy
Feminist Family Therapy Goals
                          
 Developing egalitarian relationships
 Learning to value women‟s voices and perspectives
 Making room for gender-unique identity
  development
 Analyzing sex-role socialization in the life of families
 Identity internalized sex-role messages and beliefs
 Challenging and replacing sex-role stereotypes and
  scripts
 More self-enhancing belief and stories
Feminist Identity Development
                   by Downing and Rousch (1984)


Step 1. Passive
                                
acceptance
 Feminism? What is it?
 I suffer no machismo in my life.
 It is what it is.
 I don‟t believe in feminism.
 Feminism is anti-family.
 I can‟t have a romantic
  relationship and being feminist.
 Feminism is against God.
 Everyone has their own
  righteous place in society.
Feminist Identity Development
                    by Downing and Rousch (1984)

                                  
Step 2. Revelation
 Oh my goodness! I‟m a victim!
 They abused and still abuse me.
 That‟s not fair.
 I don‟t want this for me and my
  daughter.
 I‟ve been living for years in this
  and I didn‟t realize it!
 He‟s not the man I thought he
  was.
 I don‟t want to be a victim!
Feminist Identity Development
                  by Downing and Rousch (1984)

                                
Step 3. Embeddedness
 To hell with men!
 I want to know what other
  women‟s lives look like.
 Women = my sisters
 Feminine and feminist culture
  is mine.
 Looking for the Sacred
  Feminine.
 Let‟s create a women‟s group, a
  women‟s studies, a women‟s
  world!
Feminist Identity Development
            by Downing and Rousch (1984)
                                 
Step 4. Synthesis
 There are some good men.
 Creating alliances that can
  favor women.
 Oppression is a larger issue.
 Solidarity with other minorities.
 Men friends of women do exist.
 We‟ll change the patriarchal
  system gradually.
 Empowering people on the
  move for a more just and
  tolerant world.
Feminist Identity Development
            by Downing and Rousch (1984)
                                  
Step 5. Active
commitment
 Self-appreciation
 Personal freedom
 Pride in being a woman
 Appreciation of women in
  general
 Appreciation of some
  aspects/part of the dominant
  culture
 Real change = only through
  social and political activism
Feminist Family Therapists:
                              
 Meet families in whatever
  stage form and at whatever
  stage they are in;
 Facilitate development;
 Allow and contextualize the
  expression of feelings from
  fear and anger to pride and
  celebration;
 Help members of the
  dominant culture look at
  themselves, challenge their
  perspectives, and find ways to
  become supportive of their
  partner and children.
Feminist Therapists Role and Function

                              
 Congruence between their     De-pathologize behaviors
  personal and professional     and interactions
  lives
                              - What were you told in the hospital?
 Promoting egalitarian
                              - I am borderline.
  relationships
                              - You were molested and raped in your
 Listen and acknowledge      childhood – let’s see, starting when you
  women‟s voice               were 6. Your mother was in jail on drug
                              charges when you were sent to live with
 Reframing                   you aunt and uncle. And older male
 Affirming and valuing       cousin also molested you; your uncle
                              abused you; and you have been in two
  feminine characteristics    marriages where men have verbally and
                              physically abused you, but you are
                              borderline!?! James R. Bitter
Tecnique
               
 1. Egalitarian
 relationships
 Collaboration
 Partnership
 Consent form
 Therapy purposes
Tecnique                 continued


                 
2. Consciousness-
     raising                   Link personal experience to
                                one‟s position as a woman in
  Leaderless group in          a male-dominated culture;
   order to:                   Identify oneself as a woman
    Gain a validated           who shares a common fate
     voice                      with all women
    Share personal stories    Taking action to change
                                oneself and the social
    Raise awareness            structure that oppresses
                                women.
Tecnique           continued


                     
 3. Gender role and
   power analyses
  Families are institutions that
have most thoroughly absorbed
   the stereotyped roles and
 power imbalances imposed by
   dominant global cultures.
Tecnique               continued


                 
4. Appropriate self-         Connecting individual‟s
                               and family‟s struggles to the
    disclosure                 collective experiences of
                               women and families;

Grounded in authenticity     Normalizing thoughts,
                               feelings, and actions;
and a sense of mutuality.
                             Helping clients to realized
                               that they are not alone in
                               their struggles.
Tecnique         continued


                
5. Bibliotherapy
 Non-fiction
 “Her stories”
 Feminist psychology and
  counseling
 Self-help books
 Educational videos and
  films
 Movies
 Novels
Tecnique         continued


             
6. Assertiveness    Self-esteem
    training        Confidence
                    Feeling capable in the
        =            world
Standing up for     Speaking up
     oneself
Tecnique         continued


                    
     7. Reframing
 Elevate positive intention;
 Shift the focus from
  individual to systemic
  perspective;
 From scapegoating women
  to consider how dominant
  cultural has affected
  individuals.
Tecnique           continued


                 
  8. Relabeling
 Deconstruct the power
  and negative effects of
  societal norms and
  expectations;
 Analysis of causes of life
  difficulties;
 Normalize human
  development;
 Support people were they
  are at and open up new
  possibilities for change.
Conditions and Dimensions of
 Empowerment in Feminist Therapy
                                    
                        Personal          Interpersonal       Sociopolitical
                     (Power within)        (Power with          (Power in
                                             others)             society)
   Permission        Individual rights      Approval or        Legal rights
  (May I? Am I         and freedom        permission from
    worthy?)                                  another
  Enablement         Personal resources     Support and         Access to
  (Can I? Am I                             advocacy from        resources
     able?)                                    others
  Information         “Know thyself”      Sharing stories,     Questioning
(What do I need to                        breaking silences    “the truth”
     know?)
Growth and Expansion
                           
     Although therapists are often
nicknamed “shrinks,” I prefer to think
    of the work we do as having an
   expansive effect on clients. … we
  enable clients to open inner doors,
  widen horizons, unfurl leaves, and
        develop inner potentials.
       Lesly Irene Shore, PhD
For every woman who is tired of acting weak when she is strong,
         there is a man who is tired of appearing strong when he feels
         vulnerable,
For every woman who is tired of acting dumb,
         there is a man who is burdened with the constant expectations of
         “knowing it all”,
For every woman who is tired of being called an “emotional female,”
         there is a man who is denied the right to be weak and gentle.
For every woman who is tired of being a sex object,
         there is a man who must worry about his potency.
For every woman who is denied meaningful employment, with equal pay,
         there is a man who must bear full financial responsibility for
         another human being.
For every woman who was not taught the intricacies of an automobile,
         there is a man who was not taught the satisfactions of cooking.
For every woman who takes a step toward her own liberation.
         there is a man who finds the way of freedom has been made a
         little easier.

                                                              Maria Fadli
Concluding and Opening a New Venue

                                     The feminist perspective
Feminism opened a window on           goes far beyond the initial
the reality of society,
relationships and individual          feminist movement. It
psychology. It‟s about:               addresses different layers of
1. Full human rights for              the question, one deeper
    women;                            than the other.
2. Balancing gender power in
    the relationship;
3. Recovering the value of
    feelings, emotions and the
    “irrational” within the
    relationship;
4. Espousing one‟s inner other
    side/opposite.
                                 It’s like peeling an onion. Some cry, others
                                     finally get a new flavor to their life.

Feminist Family Therapy Seminar

  • 1.
  • 2.
    What Is Feminism?  Feminism is a collection of movements aimed at defining, establishing, and defending equal political, economic, and social rights for women. In addition, feminism seeks to establish equal opportunities for women in education and employment. Feminism has been the first political moment of historical critique to family and society. Manifesto di rivolta femminile, luglio 1970 Feminism is a state of mind. Lee Johnson-Kaufmann
  • 3.
    If You're Nota Feminist, Then You're a Bigot  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dddgkEg2XSA
  • 4.
    Anyone who: WhoIs feminist? • Supports the political, social and economic equality between the sexes, believing that women has been and still are, in different ways, discriminated and subordinated to men; • Is convinced that the biological sex should not be a pre-determinant factor that shapes the social identity or the sociopolitical and economic rights of a person; • Is affiliated to the political, cultural and social movement born in the This is What a Feminist Looks „800, which has claimed and still Like claims equal rights and dignity for http://www.youtube.com/watch women and men, and that in various ?v=3YA13GNT8Mc&feature=relat ways is interested to comprehend the ed dynamics of gender oppression.
  • 5.
    There‟s More ThanOne Feminism   Liberal:  Postmodern:  Empowering women and helping  Using deconstruction and them overcome the limits and constraints of patriarchal discourse analysis to show socialization how reality is constructed  Cultural:  Women-of-Color  Infusing society with women‟s (Womanists): values  Racism, classism, sexism, and  Radical: heterosexism are all  Social activism interlocked  Socialist:  Lesbian:  Race, class, nationality, and  Heterosexism at the core of historical biases women‟s oppression
  • 6.
    Is feminism universal (transnational)? YES We need to work on the world so it will not be so oppressive. James Hillman
  • 7.
    Naomi Wolf andGermaine Greer  Naomi Wolf on Third Wave Feminism http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cCQI- ougLsg&feature=fvwrel Germaine Greer thinks women still have cause to be angry http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CITBPjJCU9o
  • 8.
    Feminist Therapy  Value-driven more than technique- driven. Feminist therapy is a revolutionary therapeutic modality, which… means not only a technique but also a theory of individual and social change. Elizabeth Friar Williams
  • 9.
    Feminism in TherapyIs…  …a sensibility, a political and aesthetic center that informs a work pervasively. One does not merely make clinical interventions in the family as a feminist; one also greets the family and sets the fee as a feminist. The words spoken during a session that catch one’s attention or that slip by, the things that make one feel warm toward the family, and the things that offend are all determined in part by this sensitivity. Deborah Anna Leupnitz
  • 10.
    Towards the Others   Oppositional character  Critique of the psychotherapeutic mainstream Standards of mental health for women emphasized the qualities that men wanted and needed in women. The result was that women who could not or would not meet those standards suffered from the anger and abuse, emotional and physical, of frustrated men as well as from the rejection from male intimates, co-workers, and bosses. Elizabeth Friar Williams
  • 11.
    Common Points inFeminist Family Therapy   Patriarchy is alive and sick in sociopolitical life and in the life of families;  “Normal family” is too often a life not good for women;  Power in relationships, therapy and society must be addressed, analyzed and challenged;  Reforming families in ways that fully empower and enfranchise women economically, socially, and politically;  Positive attitude toward women, social analyses, explicit consideration of gender issues for both genders and treating the personal as political.
  • 12.
    Women in the“adequate” (also called normal) families were [are!] “overwhelmed with responsibility”, “obese”, “psychosomatically ill”, and “sexual dissatisfied”. The men in these same families were “functioning well” and were not sexually dissatisfied. Thus … an adequate family consists of a husband and children who are functioning adequately and a wife who is not. Deborah Anna Leupnitz The “normal” family, not so normal.
  • 13.
    Feminist Therapy Beliefs  In the sociocultural causes of distress In valuing women‟s experiences In integrated analysis of oppression And in social change
  • 14.
    Who Is Sick?  My practice tells me I can no longer distinguish clearly between neurosis of self and neurosis of world, psychopathology of self and psychopathology of world. Moreover, it tells me that to place neurosis and psychopathology solely in personal reality is a delusional repression of what is actually, realistically, being experienced. James Hillman
  • 15.
    Wake Up, Therapists!  Therapies that avoid gender issues contribute to gender oppression both in theory and in practice:  Gender is part of the therapist‟s psychological, social, and economical own system;  Issues that the therapist is not aware of are reproduced in therapy, thus supporting the maintenance of the status quo. I'm the result of upbringing, class, race, gender, social prejudices, and economics. So I'm a victim again. A result. James Hillman
  • 16.
    Who Is Afraidof Feminism?  Anyone who takes advantage of the patriarchal system: men and women alike.
  • 17.
    Feminism Is FearedBecause:   It disrupts traditional family homeostasis;  It challenges men‟s decision making and leadership;  It unearths the underlying power issues that underpin most romantic relationships;  It forces self-questioning and self-awareness, interrupting the convenient flow of complicity and inertia.
  • 18.
     Feminist Theory Video http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OcEwKpnTsoQ&f eature=related NaomiWolf debunks the myths around pregnancy and motherhood http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L9ZX3T-rzLM
  • 19.
    Feminist Awareness inPsychotherapy   In all or most of couple relationships there‟s a latent power issue that if not solve will undermine the relationship.  Society as a whole is evolving. Avoiding to face power issues both in gender and society reflects an understanding of counseling as a bubble separated from the larger environment;  Many women (and also men) show spontaneous conscious evolution of gender issues; therapists who don‟t take it in consideration are pushing backward their client‟s process.
  • 20.
    Continued   Feminism implies in a broader conception of what human beings are and a philosophy about their life together. A female therapist should set an example for her clients. Because she honors and respects herself she‟s a feminist. A male therapist should be feminist because he honors and respect his female partner, mother and girlfriends, thus representing a model for his male clients. A gay therapist should be feminist in solidarity of the discrimination they both know.
  • 21.
    Key Concepts inFeminist Therapy   Honoring the experience and perceptions of women  The personal is political  Social transformation and advocacy
  • 22.
    Feminist Family TherapyGoals   Developing egalitarian relationships  Learning to value women‟s voices and perspectives  Making room for gender-unique identity development  Analyzing sex-role socialization in the life of families  Identity internalized sex-role messages and beliefs  Challenging and replacing sex-role stereotypes and scripts  More self-enhancing belief and stories
  • 23.
    Feminist Identity Development by Downing and Rousch (1984) Step 1. Passive  acceptance  Feminism? What is it?  I suffer no machismo in my life.  It is what it is.  I don‟t believe in feminism.  Feminism is anti-family.  I can‟t have a romantic relationship and being feminist.  Feminism is against God.  Everyone has their own righteous place in society.
  • 24.
    Feminist Identity Development by Downing and Rousch (1984)  Step 2. Revelation  Oh my goodness! I‟m a victim!  They abused and still abuse me.  That‟s not fair.  I don‟t want this for me and my daughter.  I‟ve been living for years in this and I didn‟t realize it!  He‟s not the man I thought he was.  I don‟t want to be a victim!
  • 25.
    Feminist Identity Development by Downing and Rousch (1984)  Step 3. Embeddedness  To hell with men!  I want to know what other women‟s lives look like.  Women = my sisters  Feminine and feminist culture is mine.  Looking for the Sacred Feminine.  Let‟s create a women‟s group, a women‟s studies, a women‟s world!
  • 26.
    Feminist Identity Development by Downing and Rousch (1984)  Step 4. Synthesis  There are some good men.  Creating alliances that can favor women.  Oppression is a larger issue.  Solidarity with other minorities.  Men friends of women do exist.  We‟ll change the patriarchal system gradually.  Empowering people on the move for a more just and tolerant world.
  • 27.
    Feminist Identity Development by Downing and Rousch (1984)  Step 5. Active commitment  Self-appreciation  Personal freedom  Pride in being a woman  Appreciation of women in general  Appreciation of some aspects/part of the dominant culture  Real change = only through social and political activism
  • 28.
    Feminist Family Therapists:   Meet families in whatever stage form and at whatever stage they are in;  Facilitate development;  Allow and contextualize the expression of feelings from fear and anger to pride and celebration;  Help members of the dominant culture look at themselves, challenge their perspectives, and find ways to become supportive of their partner and children.
  • 29.
    Feminist Therapists Roleand Function   Congruence between their  De-pathologize behaviors personal and professional and interactions lives - What were you told in the hospital?  Promoting egalitarian - I am borderline. relationships - You were molested and raped in your  Listen and acknowledge childhood – let’s see, starting when you women‟s voice were 6. Your mother was in jail on drug charges when you were sent to live with  Reframing you aunt and uncle. And older male  Affirming and valuing cousin also molested you; your uncle abused you; and you have been in two feminine characteristics marriages where men have verbally and physically abused you, but you are borderline!?! James R. Bitter
  • 30.
    Tecnique  1. Egalitarian relationships  Collaboration  Partnership  Consent form  Therapy purposes
  • 31.
    Tecnique continued  2. Consciousness- raising  Link personal experience to one‟s position as a woman in  Leaderless group in a male-dominated culture; order to:  Identify oneself as a woman  Gain a validated who shares a common fate voice with all women  Share personal stories  Taking action to change oneself and the social  Raise awareness structure that oppresses women.
  • 32.
    Tecnique continued  3. Gender role and power analyses Families are institutions that have most thoroughly absorbed the stereotyped roles and power imbalances imposed by dominant global cultures.
  • 33.
    Tecnique continued  4. Appropriate self-  Connecting individual‟s and family‟s struggles to the disclosure collective experiences of women and families; Grounded in authenticity  Normalizing thoughts, feelings, and actions; and a sense of mutuality.  Helping clients to realized that they are not alone in their struggles.
  • 34.
    Tecnique continued  5. Bibliotherapy  Non-fiction  “Her stories”  Feminist psychology and counseling  Self-help books  Educational videos and films  Movies  Novels
  • 35.
    Tecnique continued  6. Assertiveness  Self-esteem training  Confidence  Feeling capable in the = world Standing up for  Speaking up oneself
  • 36.
    Tecnique continued  7. Reframing  Elevate positive intention;  Shift the focus from individual to systemic perspective;  From scapegoating women to consider how dominant cultural has affected individuals.
  • 37.
    Tecnique continued  8. Relabeling  Deconstruct the power and negative effects of societal norms and expectations;  Analysis of causes of life difficulties;  Normalize human development;  Support people were they are at and open up new possibilities for change.
  • 38.
    Conditions and Dimensionsof Empowerment in Feminist Therapy  Personal Interpersonal Sociopolitical (Power within) (Power with (Power in others) society) Permission Individual rights Approval or Legal rights (May I? Am I and freedom permission from worthy?) another Enablement Personal resources Support and Access to (Can I? Am I advocacy from resources able?) others Information “Know thyself” Sharing stories, Questioning (What do I need to breaking silences “the truth” know?)
  • 39.
    Growth and Expansion  Although therapists are often nicknamed “shrinks,” I prefer to think of the work we do as having an expansive effect on clients. … we enable clients to open inner doors, widen horizons, unfurl leaves, and develop inner potentials. Lesly Irene Shore, PhD
  • 40.
    For every womanwho is tired of acting weak when she is strong, there is a man who is tired of appearing strong when he feels vulnerable, For every woman who is tired of acting dumb, there is a man who is burdened with the constant expectations of “knowing it all”, For every woman who is tired of being called an “emotional female,” there is a man who is denied the right to be weak and gentle. For every woman who is tired of being a sex object, there is a man who must worry about his potency. For every woman who is denied meaningful employment, with equal pay, there is a man who must bear full financial responsibility for another human being. For every woman who was not taught the intricacies of an automobile, there is a man who was not taught the satisfactions of cooking. For every woman who takes a step toward her own liberation. there is a man who finds the way of freedom has been made a little easier. Maria Fadli
  • 41.
    Concluding and Openinga New Venue  The feminist perspective Feminism opened a window on goes far beyond the initial the reality of society, relationships and individual feminist movement. It psychology. It‟s about: addresses different layers of 1. Full human rights for the question, one deeper women; than the other. 2. Balancing gender power in the relationship; 3. Recovering the value of feelings, emotions and the “irrational” within the relationship; 4. Espousing one‟s inner other side/opposite. It’s like peeling an onion. Some cry, others finally get a new flavor to their life.

Editor's Notes

  • #9 Williams, E. F. 1995, p. ix.
  • #39 Marrow, S. L. and Hawxhurst, D. M. (1998). Feminist Therapy: Integrating Political Analysis in Counseling and Psychotherapy (p. 43). In Hill, M. (editor) (1998). Feminist Therapy as a Political Act. New York/London: The Haworth Press, Inc.
  • #40 Shore, 1994, p. 63.
  • #41 Fadli, M. (1995) “Feminist and Multi-Cultural Therapy”. In: Williams, E. F., p. 100.