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FEAR
FACTOR
LIFE GREATEST PROBLEM =
FEAR
♦It robs us of happiness
♦It causes us to settle for less than
 we are capable of
♦It is the root cause of negative
 emotions
QUALITIES OF CHILDREN:
♦Born unafraid
 – except for the fear
   of loud noises and
   fear of falling.
QUALITIES OF CHILDREN
cont’d
♦Completely uninhibited

   Say and do
   exactly what
   they feel with
   no concern for
   others opinions
QUALITIES OF CHILDREN
cont’d
♦Completely
 spontaneous
QUALITIES OF CHILDREN
cont’d
♦Unconditional
 love for
 everyone
HOW CHILDREN LEARN:
♦ By imitation
♦ By moving away from discomfort to
  comfort
♦ By striving to be loved
   – Most of what we do is to get love or
     compensate for lack of love
   – They become fear driven rather than
     desire driven
Fear of failure:
 ♦Is a conditioned response
   learned in childhood
 DECIDE EXACTLY WHAT YOU WANT TO DO



THEN ACT AS IF IT WERE IMPOSSIBLE TO FAIL
BECAUSE FEAR IS LEARNED

  FEAR CAN BE
  UNLEARNED!
♦It matters not if you
 try and fail and try
 and fail again
♦It matters a great
 deal, if you fail to try.
♦Continuous effort, not
 strength or
 intelligence is the key
 to unlocking our
 potential
♦He who never fell never
 climbed.

♦Never…Never…Never
 Quit!!!
♦The true
joy of life
is the trip
THE WORLD OPENS UP FOR
        WINNERS

The world opens up for winners,
   Winners exactly like you
People who welcome a challenge
  Who are willing to see a task
            through.
THE WORLD OPENS UP FOR
      WINNERS cont’d

No matter how tough was the going,
No matter how steep was your road,
  You were willing to focus your
              vision,
 No matter how heavy your load.
THE WORLD OPENS UP FOR
       WINNERS cont’d
 Your courage has made you a
             winner,
You can hold up your head with
               pride.
 Today marks a new beginning
  As into the future you stride.
THE WORLD OPENS UP FOR
     WINNERS cont’d

So, celebrate your successes,
Tomorrow is waiting for you
 For the world opens up for
           winners,
  Winners exactly like you
The story about the
   tiny frogs….
    Life’s lesson




      There once was a bunch of tiny frogs,...

      … who arranged a running competition.
The goal was to reach the top of a very high tower.
A big crowd had gathered around the tower to see the race and cheer on the
                              contestants...
                            The race began...
Honestly:
No one in the crowd really believed
that the tiny frogs would reach the
          top of the tower.
  You heard statements such as:
      "Oh, WAY too difficult!!
  They will NEVER make it to the
                 top."
                  or:
   "Not a chance that they will
 succeed. The tower is too high!"
The tiny frogs began collapsing.
            One by one...
... Except for those who in a fresh
 tempo were climbing higher and
              higher...
The crowd continued to yell
"It is too difficult!!! No one will make it!"



More tiny frogs got tired and gave up...
...But ONE continued higher and higher
             and higher...
       This one wouldn’t give up!
At the end everyone else had given up
climbing the tower. Except for the one
tiny frog who after a big effort was the
    only one who reached the top!
    THEN all of the other tiny frogs
naturally wanted to know how this one
        frog managed to do it?
A contestant asked the tiny frog how
the one who succeeded had found the
     strength to reach the goal?



            It turned out...
    That the winner was DEAF!!!!
The wisdom of this story is:
Never listen to other people’s tendencies to be
           negative or pessimistic...
    …cause they take your most wonderful
 dreams and wishes away from you. The ones
            you have in your heart!


   Always think of the power words have.
  Because everything you hear and read will
            affect your actions!

                  Therefore:
ALWAYS be…




                 POSITIVE!


                      
               And above all:


Be DEAF when people tell YOU that YOU can not
           fulfill YOUR dreams!
Always think:
            I can do this!

Pass this message on to 5 “tiny frogs”
           you care about.
    Give them some motivation!!!
ESSAY
♦ ANSWER THIS QUESTION:


 What one great thing
 would you dare to
 dream if you knew you
 could not fail?
SELECT ONE AS YOUR
DEFINITE PURPOSE IN LIFE
RIGHT NOW

♦
               “Do I want
    ASK YOURSELF:

    it badly enough, and
    am I willing to pay
    the price?”

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Fear factor

  • 2. LIFE GREATEST PROBLEM = FEAR ♦It robs us of happiness ♦It causes us to settle for less than we are capable of ♦It is the root cause of negative emotions
  • 3. QUALITIES OF CHILDREN: ♦Born unafraid – except for the fear of loud noises and fear of falling.
  • 4. QUALITIES OF CHILDREN cont’d ♦Completely uninhibited Say and do exactly what they feel with no concern for others opinions
  • 7. HOW CHILDREN LEARN: ♦ By imitation ♦ By moving away from discomfort to comfort ♦ By striving to be loved – Most of what we do is to get love or compensate for lack of love – They become fear driven rather than desire driven
  • 8. Fear of failure: ♦Is a conditioned response learned in childhood DECIDE EXACTLY WHAT YOU WANT TO DO THEN ACT AS IF IT WERE IMPOSSIBLE TO FAIL
  • 9. BECAUSE FEAR IS LEARNED FEAR CAN BE UNLEARNED!
  • 10. ♦It matters not if you try and fail and try and fail again ♦It matters a great deal, if you fail to try.
  • 11. ♦Continuous effort, not strength or intelligence is the key to unlocking our potential
  • 12. ♦He who never fell never climbed. ♦Never…Never…Never Quit!!!
  • 13. ♦The true joy of life is the trip
  • 14. THE WORLD OPENS UP FOR WINNERS The world opens up for winners, Winners exactly like you People who welcome a challenge Who are willing to see a task through.
  • 15. THE WORLD OPENS UP FOR WINNERS cont’d No matter how tough was the going, No matter how steep was your road, You were willing to focus your vision, No matter how heavy your load.
  • 16. THE WORLD OPENS UP FOR WINNERS cont’d Your courage has made you a winner, You can hold up your head with pride. Today marks a new beginning As into the future you stride.
  • 17. THE WORLD OPENS UP FOR WINNERS cont’d So, celebrate your successes, Tomorrow is waiting for you For the world opens up for winners, Winners exactly like you
  • 18. The story about the tiny frogs…. Life’s lesson There once was a bunch of tiny frogs,... … who arranged a running competition.
  • 19. The goal was to reach the top of a very high tower. A big crowd had gathered around the tower to see the race and cheer on the contestants... The race began...
  • 20. Honestly: No one in the crowd really believed that the tiny frogs would reach the top of the tower. You heard statements such as: "Oh, WAY too difficult!! They will NEVER make it to the top." or: "Not a chance that they will succeed. The tower is too high!"
  • 21. The tiny frogs began collapsing. One by one... ... Except for those who in a fresh tempo were climbing higher and higher...
  • 22. The crowd continued to yell "It is too difficult!!! No one will make it!" More tiny frogs got tired and gave up... ...But ONE continued higher and higher and higher... This one wouldn’t give up!
  • 23. At the end everyone else had given up climbing the tower. Except for the one tiny frog who after a big effort was the only one who reached the top! THEN all of the other tiny frogs naturally wanted to know how this one frog managed to do it?
  • 24. A contestant asked the tiny frog how the one who succeeded had found the strength to reach the goal? It turned out... That the winner was DEAF!!!!
  • 25. The wisdom of this story is: Never listen to other people’s tendencies to be negative or pessimistic... …cause they take your most wonderful dreams and wishes away from you. The ones you have in your heart! Always think of the power words have. Because everything you hear and read will affect your actions! Therefore:
  • 26. ALWAYS be… POSITIVE!   And above all: Be DEAF when people tell YOU that YOU can not fulfill YOUR dreams!
  • 27. Always think: I can do this! Pass this message on to 5 “tiny frogs” you care about. Give them some motivation!!!
  • 28. ESSAY ♦ ANSWER THIS QUESTION: What one great thing would you dare to dream if you knew you could not fail?
  • 29. SELECT ONE AS YOUR DEFINITE PURPOSE IN LIFE RIGHT NOW ♦ “Do I want ASK YOURSELF: it badly enough, and am I willing to pay the price?”