The document provides guidance on proper dress etiquette for different types of events based on the dress code listed in the invitation. It discusses what is appropriate to wear for black tie, white tie, black tie preferred, black tie optional, and semi-formal events. Business attire guidelines are also outlined.

1. Dressing Etiquette Lecture 5

3. When to Wear a Tuxedo When the invitation states Formal, Black Tie, Black Tie Invited or Black Tie Optional To the opening of the opera, ballet or symphony Ball or formal dance Formal dinner party or reception Dinner at a formal restaurant (some think: be dressed at least as well as your waiter)

4. Invitation Types If the invitation says “Black Tie” Generally accepted that “Black Tie” requires formal attire Take advantage of this opportunity to truly look and feel your very best in a tuxedo Today, “Black Tie” means formal attire, not specifically to wear a black tie

5. Invitation Types If the Invitation says “White Tie” or “Full Dress” You can step into the special occasion in a traditional tailcoat. Wear a white wing collar shirt, a white vest, white tie, and black trousers accented by a formal satin stripe. Complete your outfit with patent shoes

7. Invitation Types If the Invitation says “Black Tie Preferred” It indicates that the host prefers guests to wear formal evening attire to the special occasion. Black Tuxedo. White Dinner Jacket or a dark contemporary style tuxedo are acceptable (no tailcoats). Non formal dress suits are also acceptable but not preferred by the host

8. Invitation Types If the Invitation says “Black Tie Optional” Not as strong as a statement for formal attire as “Black Tie” or “Black Tie Preferred” yet formal dress is wholly appropriate and acceptable Styles may include Black Tuxedo, White Dinner Jacket or dark contemporary style Tuxedo (no tailcoats).

9. Invitation Types If the invitation says “Black Tie Invited” Starting to appear more frequently than “preferred” or “optional” Usually in the context of large gatherings of civic or business groups, such as a dinner sponsored by the Chamber of Commerce

10. Black Tie Invited (cont’d) Can dress in formal attire if they would like but it is not required Styles for these affairs are the same as for “Black Tie Optional”

11. Invitation Types Semi Formal: in strict and very proper social circles, “Semi-Formal” means “Black Tie” Otherwise, this allows any style of tuxedo or Dinner Jacket Must have good knowledge of your local community Good taste and common sense come into play

12. Semi-Formal For example: Dinner party at a local country club: dress more formally Dance celebrating a local college football victory: Dress less formally If a lady wears a floor length gown, it is appropriate for her escort to wear formal attire

13. Semi-Formal If you are ever unsure about how to dress, call the host or hostess for guidance in dressing for the special occasion

15. Invitation Types Clubhouse Etiquette Please wear appropriate clothing (casual dress and shoes) at all times in the clubhouse

16. How to wear a Tuxedo Buy, don’t rent for a quality garment tailored to fit you (same for a suit) Stay traditional and avoid colourful cummerbunds (a broad sash), socks, etc. Cummerbunds should match the fabric on the jacket Keep it simple for the most elegant look No clip on bow ties, tie it yourself

19. The Right Size The sleeves of any jacket should reach the base of the hand when the arms are straight by the side The collar should fit closely round the back of the neck About half an inch of shirt collar showing above the jacket

20. The Right Size Shirt cuffs should show a little below the jacket sleeves Jackets such as the dinner jacket and lounge jacket should be long enough to cover the seat of the trousers and should hang evenly all round The bottom of the trouser leg rests on the front of the shoe and slightly longer in the back

22. Business Attire (Men + Women) Conservative two-piece business suit (solid dark blue or grey is best) Conservative long sleeved shirt/blouse (white is best, pastel is next best) Clean, polished conservative dress shoes (black or brown) Socks: simple and coordinate with the colour of the suit

23. Business Attire (Men + Women) Light briefcase or portfolio case, traditional in either black or brown leather Well groomed hairstyle Well brushed teeth and fresh breath, no body odour Clean and trimmed fingernails Minimal cologne or perfume

24. Business Attire (Men + Women) Minimal jewelry Empty pockets—no bulges or tinkling coins No gum, candy, cigarettes, or other objects in your mouth No visible body piercing (nose rings, eyebrow rings etc) Only conservative ear piercings for women

25. Personal Grooming Hands: clean and well-maintained Nails: no longer than ½ inch beyond finger tips, and nail polish should be applied with care Hair: well combed and trimmed Carry mouthwash or mints Make up: moderate to enhance your natural features not create new ones

27. What to wear to work Dress professionally Better to be overdressed than underdressed Avoid clothing that is too flamboyant or revealing

28. Etiquette of the Job Interview Be punctual Things NOT TO DO Bringing someone with you Smoking, eating or chewing gum Asking to use the phone Ignoring the receptionist’s attempts to talk to you

29. Etiquette of the Job Interview Listening to ipod or music on an mp3 player Applying make up or brushing your hair Make sure your hands are warm and dry and give a firm handshake Greet your interviewer by name and continue to use the interviewers name during the interview

30. Preparation for Job Interview Be prepared to answer many of the same questions over and over again Research the company and make sure that you know the key things about the company and how to relate it to your strengths

31. Telus http://about.telus.com/community/english https://telus.taleo.net/careersection/10000/jobsearch.ftl?lang=en http://csr.telus.com/en/areas_of_innovation/environment1/courage_to_innovate_env http://csr.telus.com/en/areas_of_innovation/customers/innovate_and_enhance_customer_experience

32. Class Assignment Mock Interviews Handout on a company Answer the following questions…

33. What can you tell me about yourself? Why do you want to work for us? Why should I hire you? How do you feel about your progress? What would you like to be doing in five years? What is your greatest strength/weakness? What goals have you set and how did you meet them?