Presented to :
ma’am Atia
PRESENTED BY
TAQDEES
IFTIKHAR
NIMRA TAHIR
Dowry originated in the upper caste
Hindu communities as a wedding
gift (cash or valuables) from the
bride's family to the grooms
DOWRY
• This is a totally un-Islamic practice. In Islam,
women are not the properties of their families
or a material good. This is an insulting practice
that we see being committed daily in our
society.
• The bridegroom to demand a certain amount
of money (or other items of value) from the
bride or her family, usually the bride's father,
without which the marriage cannot take place.
• The curse of this deplorable practice is such
that many women don’t get married because
their families cannot meet the long list of
demands by the bridegroom!
Demands
• Cultures that demand dowry from
the bride's family are actually
practicing the opposite of what
Allah has commanded.
• They have reversed Allah's words
in their practice. The bride is
forced to pay a negotiated amount
to the groom unless the man
chooses not to take it.
Demands from brides family
Demands from groom family
Effects
It is a sad irony that
women (mostly mothers-
in-law) are oppressive
towards other women
(daughters-in-law). Mostly,
mothers-in-law-to-be are
the ones who demand
dowry from the bride's
family and who end up
torturing the daughter-in-
law after marriage if she
brings less than the
negotiated amount.
Excessive money
demands by grooms
family after marriage.
Bride burning
When the woman brings less than the
negotiated amount, she has to endure
constant torture from her in-laws after
marriage.
When the husband or in-laws are not
satisfied with the dowry brought by the
bride, they even go to the extent of killing
the woman after marriage.
The most severe among all the dowry
abuse is "bride burning". The parties
engaged in the murder usually report the
case as an accident or suicide.
Example1.
• A family, where the combined income of father and son was Rs60,000
spent more than Rs800,000 on dowry, clothes, give-aways and
various functions related to their daughter’s wedding.
Example 2.
• In another instance, a poor farmer in the village married his daughter
to another farmer’s son and bore wedding expenses of Rs150,000 –
most of which was borrowed from relatives or contributed by
someone well-off.
Example 3
• Another old man married his son who was a taxi-driver to another
man’s daughter – of similar financial stature – and bought gold worth
Rs150,000 for the bride. He incurred additional expenses on
arranging the ‘customary’ functions. The money was again borrowed
from relatives and friends.
Victims of dowry
Sakina
While talking to
THE DAILY News
correspondent she told that she was
victimized by her husband, mother in law
and one sisters in law who burnt
her because of lack of dowry.
Khalida
While taking to daily jung
news
correspondent the
psychiatrist told that khalida
is in miserable condition after
dowry torture both physically
and mentally.
She is all alone and even does
not have a home to live in.
Pakistan.
• In Pakistan, dowry is called Jahez
in Arabic (derived from Islamic
jahez-e-fatimi).
• At over 2000 dowry-related
deaths per year, and annual rates
exceeding 2.45 deaths per
100,000 women from dowry-
related violence, Pakistan has the
highest reported number of
dowry death rates per 100,000
women in the world.
Laws
• Pakistan has passed several laws to address the problem of excessive
dowry demands: West Pakistan Dowry (Prohibition of Display) Act,
1967; Dowry and Bridal Gifts (Restriction) Act, 1976.
• Constitution of Pakistan, Art. 185(3)—Recovery of dowry articles.
• These laws were introduced to take measures to regulate, restrict and
ultimately eliminate the practice of dowry, but till today this
legislation has not been enforce
• Are you in favor of ending dowry system ?
70 % yes
20% No
10 % Neutral
• do you think govt. should legally ban dowry?
• 45% no
• 37% yes
• 18% don’t know
• Do you think dowry is main cause for female infanticide ?
40 % yes
35% may be one reason
10% no
15% neutral
dowry as social evil..

dowry as social evil..

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    Presented to : ma’amAtia PRESENTED BY TAQDEES IFTIKHAR NIMRA TAHIR
  • 3.
    Dowry originated inthe upper caste Hindu communities as a wedding gift (cash or valuables) from the bride's family to the grooms
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    DOWRY • This isa totally un-Islamic practice. In Islam, women are not the properties of their families or a material good. This is an insulting practice that we see being committed daily in our society. • The bridegroom to demand a certain amount of money (or other items of value) from the bride or her family, usually the bride's father, without which the marriage cannot take place. • The curse of this deplorable practice is such that many women don’t get married because their families cannot meet the long list of demands by the bridegroom!
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    Demands • Cultures thatdemand dowry from the bride's family are actually practicing the opposite of what Allah has commanded. • They have reversed Allah's words in their practice. The bride is forced to pay a negotiated amount to the groom unless the man chooses not to take it. Demands from brides family Demands from groom family
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    It is asad irony that women (mostly mothers- in-law) are oppressive towards other women (daughters-in-law). Mostly, mothers-in-law-to-be are the ones who demand dowry from the bride's family and who end up torturing the daughter-in- law after marriage if she brings less than the negotiated amount.
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    Excessive money demands bygrooms family after marriage.
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    Bride burning When thewoman brings less than the negotiated amount, she has to endure constant torture from her in-laws after marriage. When the husband or in-laws are not satisfied with the dowry brought by the bride, they even go to the extent of killing the woman after marriage. The most severe among all the dowry abuse is "bride burning". The parties engaged in the murder usually report the case as an accident or suicide.
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    Example1. • A family,where the combined income of father and son was Rs60,000 spent more than Rs800,000 on dowry, clothes, give-aways and various functions related to their daughter’s wedding.
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    Example 2. • Inanother instance, a poor farmer in the village married his daughter to another farmer’s son and bore wedding expenses of Rs150,000 – most of which was borrowed from relatives or contributed by someone well-off.
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    Example 3 • Anotherold man married his son who was a taxi-driver to another man’s daughter – of similar financial stature – and bought gold worth Rs150,000 for the bride. He incurred additional expenses on arranging the ‘customary’ functions. The money was again borrowed from relatives and friends.
  • 23.
    Victims of dowry Sakina Whiletalking to THE DAILY News correspondent she told that she was victimized by her husband, mother in law and one sisters in law who burnt her because of lack of dowry.
  • 24.
    Khalida While taking todaily jung news correspondent the psychiatrist told that khalida is in miserable condition after dowry torture both physically and mentally. She is all alone and even does not have a home to live in.
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    Pakistan. • In Pakistan,dowry is called Jahez in Arabic (derived from Islamic jahez-e-fatimi). • At over 2000 dowry-related deaths per year, and annual rates exceeding 2.45 deaths per 100,000 women from dowry- related violence, Pakistan has the highest reported number of dowry death rates per 100,000 women in the world.
  • 27.
    Laws • Pakistan haspassed several laws to address the problem of excessive dowry demands: West Pakistan Dowry (Prohibition of Display) Act, 1967; Dowry and Bridal Gifts (Restriction) Act, 1976. • Constitution of Pakistan, Art. 185(3)—Recovery of dowry articles. • These laws were introduced to take measures to regulate, restrict and ultimately eliminate the practice of dowry, but till today this legislation has not been enforce
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    • Are youin favor of ending dowry system ? 70 % yes 20% No 10 % Neutral
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    • do youthink govt. should legally ban dowry? • 45% no • 37% yes • 18% don’t know
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    • Do youthink dowry is main cause for female infanticide ? 40 % yes 35% may be one reason 10% no 15% neutral