1) The fear of not being liked and feeling paranoid during the divorce process. 2) Fears around balancing career and spending time with children during the divorce. 3) Fears of abandonment, not being good enough, and betrayal from the ending of the relationship.

1. Divorce – What Worries Women
Divorce is a horrible prospect for any woman. It is a
draining experience AND a stressful one too.
Not only do you have to deal with the man you loved
behaving irrationally and sometimes badly.
You have money concerns, what about the kids?, will
I be able to stay in the house?...the list goes on
and on doesn‟t it?
It‟s SCARY!

2. Women And Divorce - FEAR
FEAR is such a normal emotion during a break-up or
divorce.
Our ancient ancestors based fear mainly on „outside
factors‟ in their lives, like being eaten alive for
example by a wild animal.
Today our fears are not „external‟ BUT „internal‟.
And, for a woman experiencing divorce they fall into
3 areas that have to be tackled , acted upon and
above all UNDERSTOOD.
Here they are…..

3. The Fear Of Not Being Liked
When you get divorced Or are going through the
process this fear of not being liked can amplify.
You can easily feel PARANOID.
Women‟s brains relate early childhood experiences
where they played games of cooperation and
connectedness NOT competition.
Boys played games of confrontation like
“war”. Leopards don‟t change their spots!
Focus on liking yourself rather than whether others
like you. This will stop your feelings of not being
liked.

4. The Sacrifice Of Family Time For Work
2) If you asked yourself the question “are my
career and children in conflict with one another?”.
This will be magnified many times in your mind
during divorce. You can feel tense because of the
fear that work and fighting a divorce is stifling
your children‟s development.
To overcome this problem STOP multi tasking-
even though you are great at it! – and focus on
the present and one issue at a time whether it‟s
spending time with your kids or talking to your
lawyer! It WORKS.

5. The Relationship Ending Fear
Women want deep bonds with their partner and
love the idea of „forever‟. In divorce the fears of
abandonment, not being good enough and
betrayal all come to the fore. Perfectly NORMAL.
To beat these fears you need to be
CONFIDENT, COMFORTABLE and RESOLUTE
in who you are.
Realise that sometimes relationships are a journey
to where you need to get too in your life. This
thought pattern will help rationalize your
situation.

6. Find Out More Women’s Divorce Tips
Moving on from a relationship whether your choice or
not requires you to concentrate on the positives of
the relationship and your future life.
Stay focused on TODAY rather than worrying about
the future. This really helps.
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