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Feminism 
and culture 
A JOURNAL ON AFRICAN WOMEN’S EXPERIENCES 
Volume 2 / Issue 2 / December 2013
EDITORIAL 
By Alice Kanengoni 
T All of this reminded me of the tendency of 
his was the response given by one 
young woman at the start of OSISA’s 
annual regional feminism training course 
in Zimbabwe. And it is definitely not an 
isolated perception of the much talked 
about relationship between feminism and 
culture – part of the reason why the two-week 
feminism course hosted by OSISA 
and the Institute for Peace, Leadership 
and Governance at Africa University is 
so important! It got me thinking about 
how the nexus between feminism and 
culture has often been understood – or 
misunderstood – and how this has shaped 
people’s understanding of their realities. 
One thing was very clear here – at least for 
me – that feminism was regarded as some 
appendage to one’s life, which somehow had 
to be ‘fitted’ and ‘married’ to one’s cultural 
context. And it also got me thinking about 
how culture has often been viewed as some 
kind of container into which behaviours, 
practices and actions have to ‘fit’. 
many people to plead ‘culture’ when they 
want to dismiss arguments and behaviours 
that challenge the status quo. This issue of 
BUWA! provides space to critically engage 
with the positive and negative aspects of 
cultures, which influence the lives of women, 
and to explore women’s and feminists’ 
experiences and understanding of these as 
well as to look at some of the perceptions and 
misconceptions about the interface between 
culture and feminism – both of which are 
broad and multi-faceted phenomena. 
This issue offers some definitional 
considerations from an anthropological 
perspective, as well as exploring the interplay, 
and manifestations, of culture in the web of 
human existence, including in the realms of 
spirituality and faith, tradition and custom, 
body politics and associated relationships, 
among many others. And it covers a range of 
topics – from exploring the interface between 
states and cultures to establishing how state 
policies and administrative structures have 
colluded with cultural practices to deny and/ 
or jeopardise women rights, as in the pieces 
by Shamillah Wilson and Onai Hara. 
A cluster of articles draws attention to 
the dynamics of how men have related 
with culture in defining certain kinds of 
masculinities. Many men invoke culture 
to justify unhealthy masculinities that 
take away the freedoms of women and 
girls. Kopano Ratele and Mbuyiselo 
Botha discuss the broader theoretical 
understandings of masculinities, while Julio 
Langa brings it closer to home by providing 
an African perspective. Stephanie Leitch 
demonstrates how, further afield, some 
men have gone to the extent of invoking 
the law and legal frameworks to reclaim 
men’s rights, as evidenced by how men 
are organising in the Caribbean. This is 
also a phenomenon that our region has 
“I am not a feminist because I cannot divorce myself from my 
cultural context and also because feminism is not practical in my 
culture, and is for the elite.” 
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Nowhere are body politics as pronounced as 
in the institution of marriage – an institution 
that is often regarded as a sacred cow in 
cultural debates. Marriage for most women, 
especially in Africa, equates to signing away 
control of their bodies. A telling illustration is 
the skewed way in which women – especially 
those in heterosexual marital relationships – 
have been infected and affected by HIV and 
AIDS compared to their male counterparts. 
There are mixed views among feminists 
regarding the institution of marriage and 
how it has positioned women. While some 
feminists have argued that many of our 
continent’s cultures have set heterosexual 
marriage relationships and feminist principles 
on an inevitable collision course, others 
view the apparent clash between the two as 
not all that dramatic. Mike Zulu describes 
how the nature of his 26-year marriage to 
Doo Aphane has allayed some of these 
fears among their friends and relatives. 
It is worth noting that discourses and debates 
about marriage, culture and the positioning 
of women often pit heterosexual marriage 
relationships against same sex marriage 
alternatives or, in some cases, relationships 
outside of marital relationships. In this 
issue, Hleziphi Nyanungo sheds light on 
some lesser-known models of same sex and 
non-sexual marriages among women in 
Africa, which still, she argues, tend to follow 
patriarchal dynamics of power and control. 
Another institution that has also been 
regarded as a sacred cow is religion, 
and feminists have long focused on how 
patriarchy employs religion as a tool – often 
in partnership with culture – to oppress and 
suppress women. A lot has been written over 
the years on some of the key religions that 
are prevalent in southern Africa, including 
Christianity and some African traditional 
religions. Less has been shared about the 
realities of women practising the Islamic faith 
in the context of southern Africa. Ruthelle 
Kunje shares the peculiarities of a woman 
growing up as a Muslim in Zimbabwe. She 
observes that Islamic religious practices 
and traditional Shona practices are not very 
different – both suppress women, especially 
with regard to women not being able to 
make important decisions about their lives. 
Closely linked to culture and religion are 
the arts and people’s performances, which, 
to a significant extent, reflect and mirror a 
community’s beliefs and practices, and in 
turn influence and shape those practices. 
Some artistic forms of expression that have 
embodied this are songs, music and dance. 
While feminist research has looked into 
how some song lyrics denigrate women 
and perpetuate patriarchy, dance forms 
have drawn less attention. Gibson Ncube 
and Margaret Chipara provide a feminist 
analysis of erotic dance styles, and argue that 
while some feminists find such dance styles 
demeaning and denigrating of women, their 
bodies and sexuality, erotic dancing can also 
be considered as a means of empowering 
women given that it allows them to subvert 
patriarchal ontologies that regard women 
as objects that are to be deployed by men 
for their own pleasure. Ncube and Chipara 
challenge feminist readers and writers to 
explore this debate further so as to discover 
how useful erotic dance is in the struggle for 
women’s emancipation and empowerment. 
But what about pop music? There are often 
heated debates about whether such music 
could possibly incorporate any progressive 
and/or affirming messages about women. 
Emma Machokoto looks at contemporary 
pop artists, such as Lady Gaga, Beyoncé 
and others, and highlights the tensions 
that exist between their song lyrics and the 
video images that often accompany them. 
This issue paints a picture of cultures that 
are constantly evolving but that do not 
necessarily change the underlying way that 
women are perceived and treated. This is 
aptly captured by Monica Cheru in her 
analysis of how practices of welcoming new 
brides into a family have transformed in 
shape, but have remained essentially the 
same in terms of value and the message 
that they put across about women. One 
would have expected that with information 
technologies changing the way that 
people in the world relate to one another 
and how cultures evolve, there would be 
have been some fundamental shifts in 
how women are structurally positioned. 
However, Fungai Machirori confirms that 
this has not been the case, arguing that 
feminists have not effectively appropriated 
the social media and ICT tools that 
have revolutionised social, commercial 
and other relations across the globe. 
The issue concludes with a piece by 
Hleziphi Nyanungo, who argues that 
feminists are not talking to each other 
enough across generations and that this 
has to change if harmful cultural and other 
practices are ever going to be replaced by 
real respect for women’s rightful citizenship 
and freedoms. There is, she believes, an 
urgent need for greater intergenerational 
dialogue to foster real change. 
Alice is the Editor of BUWA! Write to her with comments and 
submissions at alicek@osisa.org 
been increasingly experiencing, although 
the trend has been more in relation to 
men organising to promote gender 
equality rather than to reclaim men’s 
rights. Initiatives such as the Fatherhood 
Initiative have pushed the envelope to focus 
more on redefining masculinities through 
encouraging progressive fatherhood 
practices. It is important to note that in all 
these initiatives – as well as in most of the 
articles in this issue – culture is often at the 
centre of such discourses and debates. 
One of the most visible – and sometimes 
also most invisible – sites on which culture 
has impacted on women’s rights and 
freedoms is their bodily integrity. There 
is a lot of politics that plays out in relation 
to women’s bodies in the name of culture 
– from women elongating their labia for 
men’s sexual pleasure as Chanda Katongo 
decries, to myths and mysteries around 
masturbation and menstruation as explained 
by Glenda Muzenda, to cultural barriers 
to women’s access to strategic economic 
resources, such as mineral wealth, as 
Wadzanai Chimhepo illustrates by using 
the experience of women in the gold mining 
fields of Zimbabwe’s Penhalonga district. 
Part of this politics stems from the debate 
about women’s fashion and notions of female 
beauty, with culture again being used as 
the key determinant of what is beautiful, 
what is fashionable and what is acceptable. 
Varyanne Sika argues that fashion has 
shaped women’s identities and makes a 
case for using fashion to achieve feminist 
objectives, while pushing for a feminist 
body of knowledge around the subject to 
allow this to happen. Similarly, Portia Loeto 
tracks the historical transformation of what 
is defined as an ‘attractive’ woman’s body, 
from tubular to slender and many other 
shapes in between, and tries to address 
the central question – what is beautiful? 
She concludes that these ‘attractiveness’ 
trends have damaged women’s self-esteem, 
self-confidence and self-worth. 
feminists are not talking to each other 
enough across generations and this 
has to change if harmful cultural and 
other practices are ever going to be 
replaced by real respect for women’s 
rightful citizenship and freedoms. 
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CONTENTS 57 63 
Notions of Beauty and Attractiveness 
By Portia Loeto 
I am Married to a Feminist 
By Mike Zulu 
Female Husbands without Male Wives: 
Women, culture and marriage in Africa 
By Hleziphi Naomie Nyanungo 
Feminist Perspectives on Islam and Culture 
By Ruthelle M. Kunje 
Dancing with Power: 
Does Erotic Dance Empower or Commodify Women? 
By Gibson Ncube co-authored with Margaret Chipara 
“Who Runs the World…Girls!” (Beyoncé) 
Feminist or Not? 
By Emmah Machokoto 
Old and New Ways to Celebrate a Bride 
By Monica Zodwa Cheru 
Technologies and Power Dynamics in Women’s 
Public and Private Spheres 
By Fungai Machirori 
I Am Not Your Daughter! 
– A fictional conversation on intergenerational dialogue in the 
women’s movement 
By Hleziphi Naomie 
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The State, Culture and Oppression 
By Shamillah Wilson 
State Culture and Oppression 
By Onai Hara 
Profeminist Black Men: 
Engaging Women Liberationists, Undermining Patriarchy 
By Kopano Ratele and Mbuyiselo Botha 
Notions of Sex, Masculinity and 
Manhood in African Cultures 
By Julio Langa 
Mixed Messages: 
The Ideological Schizophrenia of Men’s Organizing 
Around Fathering 
By Stephanie Leitch 
Elongation of the Labia Minora: 
A Violation of women’s bodily autonomy 
By Chanda Buumba Katongo 
Menstruating and Masturbating: 
The stains and strains of experiencing bodily 
pleasure for women 
By Glenda Muzenda 
Women and Mining: 
A Case of Golden Crumbs 
By Wadzanai Chimhepo 
Fashion for Feminists: 
How fashion and dress shape women’s identities 
By Varyanne Sika 
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of gender equality has been attacked by the patriarchal structure and 
sexism of ‘traditional’ culture as a foreign concept. All state policies 
have gender implications and affect the social status of women as 
well as their control over their livelihoods. Women’s marginalisation 
at the level of the state and state policy-making is clearly visible 
in the low number of women parliamentarians worldwide. In fact, 
women’s status has never been the main issue on party platforms, 
in electoral campaigns or in any party manifesto. In reflecting on 
visible power, Veneklasen et al (2006) note that visible power 
discriminates against certain interests and people through biased laws 
and policies as well as unrepresentative decision-making structures, 
which do not adequately involve the voices or interests of women. 
As such, some feminists have formulated the term ‘patriarchal state’, 
whereby the state functions mainly in the interests of men and 
maintains or actively supports the oppression of women (Dahlerup, 
1987; Kong and Chan, 2000). For feminists, the dominance of 
men in this particular arena is but one of the key characteristics 
of a patriarchal state. While a significant number of women now 
occupy important positions in government and civil society, 
these women are challenged by the continued dominance of the 
‘male discourse’. Regardless of how many women enter into the 
political arena, if that arena is still defined by men’s perspectives, 
there will be few opportunities to promote women's issues. 
The traditional human rights framework places an emphasis on 
the duty of the state to uphold the rights of its citizens within the 
public sphere (i.e., politics and the market). The state (as opposed 
to individuals, communities, multinational corporations, etc.) is taken 
to be the primary violator of rights. However, a major obstacle is 
Analysis 
One of the greatest achievements of feminist movements is 
our analysis of power. Analysis and concepts are necessary 
ingredients for effective action as they help us to ground our 
strategies, and develop critical thinking and political skills. And 
each time we analyse issues and situations, we gain new insights. 
In looking at the state of women’s rights, our analysis as feminists 
starts with our understanding of patriarchy as being a system of 
male authority that legitimises the oppression of women through 
political, social, economic, legal, cultural, religions and military 
institutions. Men’s access to, and control over, resources and 
rewards within the private and public sphere derives its legitimacy 
from the patriarchal ideology of male dominance. Patriarchal 
ideology enables and legitimises the structuring of every aspect 
of our lives by enabling the framework within which society 
defines and views men and women to construct male supremacy 
(AFF, 2006). A critical component of our understanding of 
patriarchy is that it is systemic and not directed at individuals but 
is a broad system that maintains unequal relations of power. 
The state 
In the context of guaranteeing women’s rights, activists have 
directed considerable attention towards the ‘state’. In referring to 
the ‘state’, I refer to governmental institutions, both elective and 
administrative, at both local and national levels. In the developing 
world, states have complex and different formations, although most 
are moving towards democracy and neoliberalism in the global era. 
This is also the most visible form of power that we see as citizens. 
Prior to the establishment of the modern state, other institutions – 
including churches, clans, tribes and traditional authorities – upheld 
the rules and managed the processes related to the reproduction of 
life. The norms, symbols, rituals and traditions that are ascribed to 
a particular society are often referred to as culture. While culture in 
its essence is meant to be an uplifting force in societies, the realities 
are that culture and tradition can enable or obstruct; they can 
oppressive or liberating for different people at different times (Jolly, 
2002). However, culture is not static. It changes and it is within this 
context that meanings are ascribed to terms such as gender, gender 
dynamics and gender roles in African society (Tamale, 2007). 
In looking at the reality of women’s lives, we have to understand 
that in many African countries, civil law exists alongside customary 
law. While the onset of democracy on the continent was meant 
to herald the promotion of equality for all, we still suffer from 
some very strong and outdated attitudes towards differences in 
genders and the rights of men or women. Very often, the project 
“For feminists, the dominance of men in 
this particular arena is but one of the 
key characteristics of a patriarchal 
state. While a significant number of 
women now occupy important positions 
in government and civil society, these 
women are challenged by the continued 
dominance of the ‘male discourse.” 
The State, Culture and Oppression 
The State, Culture 
and Oppression 
By Shamillah Wilson 
T block progress towards the goal of social transformation. Some 
he state as an institution has invariably colluded with patriarchy to 
oppress women, and this has been done through codification of 
cultural identities that advantage men and disadvantage women. This 
piece exposes the relationship between state, culture and oppression. 
In the past few decades, women’s and feminist movements 
have made great strides in advancing the rights of women. 
The engagement of women in international development 
processes following the United Nations Decade of Women 
(1975–85) signalled a transition for women’s movements – as 
they began developing holistic analyses of the issues impacting 
on women’s lives, and made connections between political, 
economic, social and cultural realities as well as between local, 
national and global spaces for organising and advocating. 
But reflecting on the current state of women’s rights, particularly 
on the African continent, gives us much to ponder on. The 
realities that women encounter on a daily basis include pervasive 
violence, economic inequality, and a struggle to survive conflict, 
environmental changes and a backlash in many places against the 
gains of recent decades. The fact that only 32 out of 54 African 
countries had signed the Protocol on Women’s Rights in Africa 
by the end of 2012 is indicative of the challenges that continue to 
would argue that 32 signatories is a success since there is no 
denying the importance of ensuring that we have the necessary 
national, regional and global legal instruments in place to tackle 
gender inequality. Yet, our reflections over time have made 
us realise that getting progressive policies adopted is but one 
step in a broader process since legislation on its own does not 
necessarily translate into broader gender equality nor has it really 
transformed the daily lives of many African women. Culturally, the 
patriarchal status quo remains relatively unchanged, and requires 
us to confront and challenge it unequivocally – and holistically. 
When considering how to move forward, what we know is that, 
despite the promise of our past successes, many activists now find 
themselves struggling – in the face of increasing conservatism – to 
hold the line and ensure that there are no further rollbacks of the 
important gains we have made. So as we search for more effective 
ways to engage and transform power, we have to ask ourselves 
why our current strategies and approaches seem inadequate 
in terms of the struggle to overcome poverty and injustice. To 
do this we need to understand the complexities of power and 
empowerment, and then we have to strategize about how best to 
respond to them in ways that use, build and transform power. 
Shamillah Wilson is an independent feminist consultant and life 
coach. She is based in South Africa, but her work has focused on 
women's human rights, young feminist leadership development 
and institutional development across the globe. 
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makes sure that women 
remain monogamous. 
At the same time, the 
law does not disturb or 
challenge the polygynous 
sexuality of African men. 
A number of examples 
are telling in this regard. 
For instance, the tabling 
of the Traditional Courts 
Bill in South Africa in 2012 
caused considerable debate. The bill will enable traditional leaders 
to be appointed presiding officers of traditional courts, where they 
will rule on both civil and criminal matters involving members of 
traditional communities. These presiding officers will be able to hand 
down fines, forced labour or, perhaps most controversially, remove 
‘traditional benefits’. In the context of communal land ownership 
– common in most of South Africa’s traditional-authority areas – 
this includes access to land, which in turn translates into access to 
food, income and shelter. The ability to earn a living and feed one’s 
family will be dependent on the whims of traditional leaders. 
Legally, chiefs will rule over their subjects, making laws, deciding on 
cases and handing down punishments, with near complete control 
over people, law-making and access to benefits and land. This 
particular bill is set to have the most harmful impact on women. 
Already, in many traditional courts, women are not allowed to 
represent themselves or even speak during proceedings. This bill 
reinforces this by allowing for women to be represented by their 
husbands or family members (the bill prohibits legal representation 
in traditional courts) – entrenching existing discriminatory practices. 
In practice, many rural women already struggle with decisions by 
traditional authorities that regularly attempt to strip them of things like 
land access and inheritance rights. Other gaps include the fact that 
there is no explicit recognition of crimes such as physical and sexual 
abuse, which are currently considered private or ‘domestic’ matters 
not fit to be brought before a public court. Fortunately, the bill was 
withdrawn until further notice in late November 2012 (BuaNews, 
2012), but the fact that such a dreadful bill could have been tabled 
in the first place highlights the on-going power of patriarchy in 
South Africa – in spite of the country’s progressive constitution. 
Similarly, in November 2012 in Swaziland, policy-makers opposed the 
protection of women from stalking. The senators argued that stalking 
was part of social and cultural norms and so proscribing it would 
violate the culture of Swazis. One senator went even further and 
decried the criminalization of forced marriages saying that the custom 
was important as it ensured that a girl’s father was able to benefit from 
his daughter’s marriage since 
the girl would be given to a 
man who has cattle to pay the 
bride price (Littlejohn, 2012). 
In enforcing progressive 
national legislation, the 
key challenge is influential 
religious and traditional 
leaders who use religion and 
culture to compromise the 
human rights of women. For 
"...there is no explicit recognition of 
crimes such as physical and sexual 
abuse, which are currently considered 
private or ‘domestic’ matters not fit 
to be brought before a public court." 
example, Liberia and Mali are obliged under Article 5 of the Protocol 
to enact laws that criminalise Female Genital Mutilation (FGM) 
but due to pressure from religious and traditional leaders they have, 
to-date, failed to honour this obligation. Article 14 on reproductive 
health rights is another sensitive issue with religious leaders and 
has resulted in Kenya and Uganda entering reservations against 
some sub-articles, while other countries have delayed ratification. 
In addition, some countries have taken issue with 18 years being the 
minimum age of marriage, even though all countries have ratified 
the UN Convention on the Rights of the Child (D’Almeida, 2011). 
In April 2013, Uganda considered a series of extraordinary 
measures, including one that would see women arrested for 
wearing skirts above the knee in public. The proposed law would 
mark a return to the era of Dictator Idi Amin, who banned short 
skirts by decree. The government-backed bill would also see 
many films and television dramas banned and personal internet 
use closely monitored by officials. Introduced by the Ethics and 
Integrity Minister, a former Catholic priest, the anti-pornography 
bill contends that there has been an ‘increase in pornographic 
materials in the Ugandan mass media and nude dancing in the 
entertainment world’. It proposes that anyone found guilty of 
abetting pornography faces a 10-million shillings (US$4,000) 
fine or a maximum of 10 years in jail, or both (AWID, 2013). 
The attacks on women’s bodies and freedoms even extend to 
slashing national budgets to deal with fiscal deficits. The effects 
on women are compounded. They range from increasing poverty 
among women, unemployment as shrinking budgets lead to 
job cuts in health care and education (industries where women 
predominate), and ultimately a situation where women suffer the 
consequences of the State’s inability to take care of its citizens. 
While there are specificities according to local contexts and 
traditions, the common trait behind these policies and practices 
is the desire to exercise control and to regulate sexual and human 
reproduction, which impacts most dramatically on the lives and 
that in most African states, colonial laws provided that the long 
arm of rights did not extend into the private or domestic sphere. 
In pluralist legal systems, this realm was basically governed by 
indigenous customs and cultures. Many post-independence African 
constitutions exempted personal (private) laws (e.g., marriage, 
divorce, adoption, burial, inheritance and succession) from the 
operation of the non-discrimination principle. In reality, males 
have created – and still create – political culture worldwide, so it 
is no surprise that male values, needs and ambitions dominate. 
Furthermore, in a context of increasing conservatism and religious 
fundamentalism, relationships between state and religious and 
cultural groups are governed by whether or not the state needs the 
help of those groups to consolidate its power. This type of power is 
referred to as hidden power (Venklasen et al, 2006). While religious 
and cultural groups may not be formal decision-makers (elected, 
appointed or otherwise), they nevertheless maintain their influence by 
controlling who gets to the decision-making table and what gets on 
the agenda. Hidden power works to exclude and devalue the concerns 
and representation of other less powerful groups, like women. In 
addition to controlling the public agenda and public debate, public 
and private institutions are often structured to systematically exclude 
and discriminate against certain types of people and ideas. 
We know that the family is a gendered space closely associated with 
women (albeit headed by men). Therefore, it follows that the African 
Protocol on the Rights of Women views women as the custodians of 
morals and traditional values. In as far as this holds true, when ‘rights’ 
and ‘culture’ are constructed as conflicting parallel systems, the points 
of contact between gender, rights and culture become extremely 
foggy. In other words, if African culture is synonymous with women, 
and the concepts of ‘rights’ and ‘culture’ continue to be viewed as 
being at odds with each other, then African women would first have to 
strip themselves of culture before enjoying their rights (Tamale, 2007). 
Ultimately, the perseverance of a patriarchal model of governance 
continues to make women the objects of political decisions that 
they do not shape politically, and which are biased towards men, 
especially male state bureaucrats, and traditional and cultural leaders. 
How does the patriarchal State collude 
to maintain women’s oppression? 
The response to who defines law depends on which law one is 
referring to. Where reference is made to state law, it is the state that 
defines the law through its established institutions and channels. It 
is the state again which takes responsibility for the implementation 
of such laws through the hierarchy of courts established under its 
judiciary and other quasi-judicial structures that may be in place. 
This view of the state as the sole definer of law is referred to as 
legal centralism. It puts the state and its structures at the centre 
of social order. Feminism recognises that there are regulatory 
forces other than the state, which the state takes into account. 
The multiple legal codes in operation in Africa are part of the 
colonial legacy and they reflect customary, religious and imported 
common law values. However, this reality raises questions about 
whose customary laws are recognised by the courts since custom 
and culture are dynamic. Feminism is concerned with the regressive 
interpretations of customary and religious law by courts. It is just 
as concerned about the individual rights of women as it is about 
communal rights that are espoused by customary law. The multiple 
legal codes commonly find application in family law matters such as 
marriage, inheritance, maintenance, custody of children and property 
ownership by women, which is where the personal status of women is 
determined. Women also take with them into the public arena the status 
already accorded them within the family. Adherence to patriarchal 
traditionalist values lends itself to a particularly masculinist terrain that 
promotes gender inequality in the operation of multiple legal codes. 
How this plays out in our lives is that the system of patriarchy ultimately 
works through a process of law to create a system that defines what 
it means to be men and women in a society. Veneklasen et al (2006) 
refer to this as invisible power. It is the most insidious of the three 
dimensions of power and – by influencing how individuals think about 
their place in the world – it shapes people’s beliefs, sense of self and 
acceptance of the status quo, including their own sense of superiority 
or inferiority as ‘natural’. This is how the process of socialization, 
culture and ideology perpetuate exclusion and inequality by defining 
what is normal, true and acceptable. These processes also help to 
make injustices like poverty and sexism invisible to the society at 
large, and make those who experience systematic discrimination 
the object of blame – indeed they often blame themselves. 
This is evident in how the structuring of family, institutionalisation of 
marriage and heteronormativity serve as effective gatekeepers for 
women, especially as the concepts are introduced at an early age and 
so they are internalized by both men and women. As noted by Tamale 
(2007), the main reasons why patriarchal, capitalist societies need to 
regulate and control the sexuality and reproductive capacity of women 
is to keep women’s bodies in the domestic arena, where as ‘decent 
wives’ and ‘good mothers’ they remain dependent on their breadwinner 
husbands. Secondly, and more importantly, it is supposed to guarantee 
the paternity and legitimacy of the children of the marriage. 
Guaranteeing paternity is considered vital to ensuring that descent 
through the male line is retained and that property is bequeathed to 
the husband’s offspring. In order to achieve this objective, the law 
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while the state is correctly seen as patriarchal and clearly 
biased against women, much of the (women’s) movement’s activism 
is, in fact, addressed to the state and carries a definite, albeit 
unarticulated expectation that the state will, or should, or 
must, support women’s rights and equality” (Shaheed 1997). 
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Saigol. Engendering the Nation-State. Lahore: 
Simorgh Publications 
Tamale, S (2007). The Right to Culture and 
the Culture of Rights: A Critical Perspective on 
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To that end, we have to challenge o bodies of women. Therefore, they link very closely with the political urselves with this quote: 
project of patriarchy to help keep women in the domestic sphere by 
depriving them of the possibility of developing their full potential. 
Moving forward 
We need to locate our strategies in the understanding of the changed 
political-economic context within which we work – a context of 
neo-liberal globalisation in which conservatism and fundamentalism 
fuel, and are fuelled by, ever-increasing militarization. In addition, 
we need to understand how this impacts on the range of African 
women’s rights but particularly our reproductive and sexual rights, 
and our capacity to address the violations we experience. 
Firstly, we need to come up with a combination of old and new-fangled 
ways of engaging with the decision-making and power 
structures of cultural and religious institutions. To do this, we 
need to map our possible allies and those who we can persuade 
to join in our efforts. It is important that we direct our efforts at 
all three levels of power – visible, invisible and hidden – in order 
to continue the fight for African women’s rights in the private 
sphere. Our articulation of the notion of democracy and how we 
conceive our states must be grounded in the idea of moving from 
purely representative democracies to more participatory ones. 
This implies moving our struggle for political participation beyond 
the usual debates about quantity and quality to debates on the 
governance structures we are participating in, and whether or not 
they facilitate active, participatory democracy – and how to ensure 
that they confront the very systemic characteristics of patriarchy. 
African women have fought patriarchy and male privilege for 
centuries. But we need new tools – new activist tools – that 
we have had a part in designing and formulating. Although we 
recognise the state as an important perpetuator of patriarchal 
power, it can also become a significant source of social reform 
even if the factors driving reform are not entirely pro-women. 
"African women have fought patriarchy and male privilege 
for centuries. But we need new tools – new activist tools 
– that we have had a part in designing and formulating. " 
The State, Culture and Oppression 
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When my application was finally considered, I was given a 
confirmation letter and a declaration of renunciation that I had 
to deliver to the Zambian embassy to denounce my Zambian 
citizenship – a citizenship I don’t believe I ever owned in the first place. 
The processing took a few days. It looked as though the Zambians 
were quite eager to offload me to someone else – although they 
(the Zimbabwean authorities) didn’t appear very eager to take me 
in! But at last I could now apply for a Zimbabwean passport. 
This whole experience made me wonder what citizenship really 
means. I now hold a Zimbabwean passport and citizenship, but I 
also now feel that I do not truly belong here. If I belonged here why 
did I have to struggle that much to get documentation? Had it not 
been for my education, I would not have gone through all the long 
processes required to get my hands on Zimbabwean citizenship. 
At least I am not now sitting at some border with an unknown 
citizenship status. But I wonder how many other people are 
sitting at various borders – not knowing who they are anymore. 
How many people have suffered because of the decisions that 
were made by their parents before they were even born? And 
what hope do they have when all the power to decide where they 
‘belong’ resides with countries’ laws and regulations governing 
citizenship – particularly outdated patriarchal laws and regulations 
that still prioritise fathers – and is not necessarily based on their 
understanding of who they really feel they are? I sincerely think 
a better way to make such decisions should be considered. 
It troubled me for months that I could be treated as a foreigner after 
being born and living in a country for the first 18 years of my life – 
without ever leaving it. It broke my heart. I thought it was impossible 
for somebody to be said to belong nowhere. Surely everyone 
belongs somewhere? And I did not see why I had to suffer because 
my father was a Tumbuka born in Zambia, and I had no trace of him. 
Growing up, I never identified with my Zambian relatives whom I 
had never seen and had no desire or motivation – or indeed hope 
– of ever meeting. I thought I had nothing to do with them. In my 
current predicament I began to feel that at least being identified as 
one of them might have been much better than being said to belong 
nowhere. Since my father was not around to explain to me who the 
Tumbuka people are, I had to learn about their beliefs and practices 
from books and whenever I had an opportunity to interact with some 
of them. I felt forced to relate with people I really didn’t identify with. 
By then I was in the final year of my A level studies at school. I 
needed to belong somewhere: I had to be a citizen of some country 
to hold a passport, since I intended to go to university the following 
year. Since enrolments are limited at Zimbabwean universities, 
preference is often given to citizens, which would obviously 
hamper my citizenshipless chances. In addition, foreign students 
are required to pay double the tuition fees, and to apply for study 
permits. Without a passport, it would also be impossible for me to 
leave Zimbabwe to go to university abroad. My tertiary education 
and my future were now at stake. I felt my future slipping away 
from under my feet. I felt really disadvantaged by the system. 
I seriously considered exploring how to get Zambian 
citizenship. But I knew this was going to be another very long 
process and I knew that my mother did not have the capacity 
to finance all the necessary expenses. And since my family 
lives in Zimbabwe, it would be impossible for me to stay in 
Zambia and study there because I do not know anyone there, 
as we have failed to trace any of my father’s relatives. 
At this point in time, my urgent need for a passport meant that I 
was left with no option but to renounce my ‘foreign’ citizenship. 
I was informed that the process would take anything between 
six months to God-knows how many years! I was informed that 
there was an option to make an emergency application and 
that this would reduce the waiting time significantly. This made 
sense since it was an ‘emergency application’. But the reality 
soon dawned on me, as I joined the long and winding queues 
at the offices for these ‘emergency documents’. My greatest 
worry at this point was all the time I was spending in queues 
rather than in class – and I was in an important examination 
year: a critical year in my studies. Indeed, in my life. 
"Without a passport, it would 
also be impossible for me 
to leave Zimbabwe to go to 
university abroad. My tertiary 
education and my future 
were now at stake. I felt my 
future slipping away from 
under my feet. I felt really 
disadvantaged by the system." 
State, Culture and 
Oppression 
By Onai Hara 
Onai Hara is an undergraduate student at the University of Zimbabwe 
studying for a BA (Hons) in Social work. She is also an active youth 
volunteer with the CAAF Trust. She is particularly interested in helping 
orphans and vulnerable children and rural disadvantaged women to 
unlock their potential and discover their inherent purpose. 
never imagined that a simple act of processing identity 
documents – that I thought I was entitled to – could be 
I 
that demanding, complicated and tiresome. I soon realised 
that I had neither power nor control over the procedures 
as they are stipulated in statutory instruments. 
My father, being Zambian, migrated to work in Zimbabwe 
where he got married and where my siblings and I were born. 
This is where we have lived our entire lives. Even after my 
father left for Zambia (and never returned), we all remained 
and lived in Zimbabwe. This was about 15 years ago, and ever 
since then my siblings and I have been under the care of our 
mother. We were all raised among the local people and naturally 
shared the local norms, beliefs and languages: I speak all three 
of Zimbabwe’s official languages. I had a Zimbabwean birth 
certificate and national identity card. As far as I was concerned, 
this made me Zimbabwean. Indeed, nothing could have made 
me more Zimbabwean than that. And this was my blissful 
belief for the first 18 years of my life. How wrong I was! 
When I turned 18 my world changed completely. I confidently 
went to the passport offices to apply for passport. I was informed 
that it was impossible for me to apply for a passport as I did not a 
valid citizenship certificate with me. I was obviously confused since 
I had both a Zimbabwean identity card and a Zimbabwean birth 
certificate. Besides, for 18 years I had lived in the country, gone to 
school and had participated in all other normal activities – and at no 
point had I ever been asked to justify my nationality or citizenship. 
I needed someone to explain this bizarre situation to me. 
I was told that I was, in fact, 
citizenshipless – I was neither 
Zimbabwean nor Zambian. I 
wondered if this meant that 
I belonged nowhere. 
The explanation was that because my father was born in Zambia 
that also made me Zambian, even though I had never been to 
Zambia myself! Because my father held a Zambian passport, my 
own Zimbabwean national documents were now rendered irrelevant 
in deciding my citizenship. This meant I could not get a passport of 
the nationality that I had known myself to belong to my entire life. I 
couldn’t help but reflect on the fact that it had been 15 years since my 
father had left us in Zimbabwe, never to return and never to contact 
us again. However, this was just the beginning of my nightmare. 
The system in my home country (Zimbabwe) could not grasp 
that I was not a foreigner in this place – the land of my birth 
and home. Surely a Zimbabwean birth certificate and identity 
card confirmed my right to be a Zimbabwean? But apparently 
not. Indeed, the response wrecked my world: I was told that 
I was, in fact, citizenshipless – I was neither Zimbabwean nor 
Zambian. I wondered if this meant that I belonged nowhere. 
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Introduction 
e put it up front that we disagree 
with each other about whether it 
is appropriate for men to call themselves 
feminist. On the one hand, Mbuyiselo is 
convinced that it is not only conceivable for 
men to be feminist, but that it is courageous 
and ethically desirable, and that (African 
male) feminism is an elaboration of ubuntu/ 
botho. As Mbuyiselo has said, and Kopano 
fully agrees, ubuntu/botho is a negation of 
any form of oppression, and feminism is thus 
an articulation of this philosophy of non-oppressive 
relationality that ‘I am because 
you are, and you are because I am’. “At the 
most simple level,” Mbuyiselo has said, “to be 
a feminist male means to embrace values that 
seek gender justice for all.” (Botha, 2012). 
On the other hand, Kopano feels that, given 
the power of words, the use of the term 
feminist for men should be used with caution. 
For him the best term for men working with 
women on gender equality is pro-feminist. 
This disagreement over what to call ourselves 
– feminist, pro-feminist, anti-patriarchal or 
antisexist men – may be significant at one 
or other point in time, but it only represents 
a difference in tactics. Frankly, we cannot 
consider what men call themselves to be 
as fundamental as their active support for 
struggles against gender inequality, sexual 
and gender-based violence, or any other 
issue relevant to women’s struggles against 
patriarchal domination. However, at the 
strategic objective level, it is important 
that men refrain from being opportunistic, 
hijacking or undermining the gains made 
by the women-led feminist movement. 
Indeed, we are in agreement that the 
struggle should be fought side-by-side, 
with women leading the gender struggle. 
The same lesson about who must lead 
different struggles for social justice was 
learned during the national liberation of 
South Africa – namely that the liberation 
struggle would be led by African people. 
“At the most simple level,” Mbuyiselo has said, “to 
be a feminist male means to embrace values that 
seek gender justice for all.” (Botha, 2012). 
It is important to underline that on 
several occasions we disagree with one 
another, and often enough challenge 
each other with love. This, we believe, is 
significant enough to make explicit. 
The debates 
Writing in the Introduction to the 1996 
edition of Biko’s collected essays on 
black consciousness, I write what I like, his 
comrades Malusi and Thoko Mpumlwana 
(1996, page xiii), argued: ‘The struggle to 
re-order the attitudes and relationships of 
women themselves, between women and 
men…is as fundamental as the struggle ever 
was for the re-ordering of race relations for 
blacks in South Africa and the world.’ It was, 
of course. And it remains so to this day. 
What this seeks to demonstrate is that even 
though many political activists and scholars 
have tended to privilege one struggle over 
another – whether class over race, race over 
gender, gender over sexual orientation, or 
vice versa – particularly African and black 
women have lived within the strangling sense 
of being pressed to keep some parts of their 
lives in the dark. For instance, a number 
of African and black women authors have 
articulated the experience of being almost 
compelled to consider racial liberation as 
more urgent than gender rights, or the 
converse. In a similar vein, it is self-evident 
at this moment in our history that for 
South African black lesbians, transgender 
individuals and gay men, equality on the basis 
of gender and race without specific attention 
to sexual identities and freedom can mean 
the difference between death and life – that 
right on the basis of race does not protect 
one from violent injury. For these individuals, 
obviously the struggle for recognition of 
their gendered sexualities continues. 
For African and black women liberationists 
and feminists the world over – amongst 
whom there are, to be sure, important internal 
contestations – what the Mpumlwanas came 
to recognise goes without saying. Yet, if 
activists and critical writers also fail at times 
to see the forms of inequality as interlocking, 
it behoves us to talk more, teach better, 
protest more effectively, march longer and 
write more powerfully against race oppression 
(or gender, or other forms of oppression) to 
undermine the grid of injustice. In order to 
better perceive the nature and changing faces 
of inequality, men and women must come 
to see that the struggles against racialised 
inequality do not do away with the need to 
struggle against gender, sexual and economic 
inequalities and other forms of injustice. 
Inequality structures the world. Power over 
others is attractive and systemic. Through 
various channels, patriarchal power and 
heterosexism, just like racist domination, 
are rendered psycho-socially enjoyable to 
many men and women. The same is true for 
other kinds of power, with power related to 
money perhaps the clearest embodiment 
of the enjoyment that people derive from 
power over others. Oppression, then, takes 
W 
Profeminist Black Men: Engaging Women Liberationists, Undermining Patriarchy 
Profeminist Black Men: 
Engaging Women Liberationists, 
Undermining Patriarchy 
By Kopano Ratele and Mbuyiselo Botha 
Kopano Ratele is a Professor in the Institute of Social and Health Sciences at the 
University of South Africa (UNISA) and co-director of the Medical Research Council- 
UNISA Safety and Peace Promotion Research Unit. He has a range of scholarly and 
wider cultural interests including in the areas of violence, sexuality, race and traditions, 
and men and masculinities. He is chair of Sonke Gender Justice. 
Mbuyiselo Botha works for Sonke Gender Justice Network where he is responsible for 
media and government relations. He worked extensively as the dissemination officer 
for the International Red Cross based in South Africa in the 80s. He was a founder 
member of the South African Men’s Forum and is currently the secretary general of the 
Forum, where he deals with issues of advocacy, training and community based structure 
building. He is also a member of the national steering committee for the planning of the 
annual activities for the 16 Days of activism against violence against women and children 
campaign. Mbuyiselo co-hosts a weekly talk-show on Kaya FM (In conversation with 
men). In 2007, then President of South Africa Thabo Mbeki expressed his appreciation 
for Mbuyiselo’s work with men to enhance gender equality in South Africa. 
Simply for men to be present in the room when important explicit discussions of 
gender inequality are being held, to be listening without being dominant, and to 
be on the side of the interests of gender equality, is a game changer. 
– Sisonke Msimang, 2013. 
The power of patriarchy has been to make maleness feared and to make men feel 
it is better to be feared than to be loved. 
– bell hooks, 2004. 
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easier and concern ourselves with the gender 
politics of another stalwart of the national 
liberation struggle, current president of the 
ANC and head of state of South Africa, 
Jacob Zuma (cf., Ratele 2006). Or we could 
delve deeper into the sexual politics of the 
expelled leader of the ANC Youth League, 
Julius Malema, for which Mbuyiselo Botha 
and Sonke Gender Justice Network took 
him to the Equality Court and won1 (see 
Ratele, Shefer & Botha 2011). Or, because 
as we write this we are challenged by and 
could respond to the retrogressive discourse 
of gender represented by the businessman 
and television personality Kenny Kunene 
and his fifteen or more girlfriends who know 
each other and live in his house and are 
currently dominating the South Africa media 
space2, we could concern ourselves with that 
discourse of black masculinity. However, we 
cannot only take the seemingly easy cases. It 
is a belief that we hold dear that sometimes 
we must resist the urge to go along. 
The fact is there are many reactionary 
discursive currents undermining the 
development of anti-patriarchal masculinities 
in South Africa that must be addressed. 
These include the hyper-visible pattern 
of masculinity, which tends to be most 
attractive to certain kinds of mass media that 
champions consumption as is represented 
by Kunene and other prominent men. It 
seems to us that Kunene and more generally 
masculinity (and gender) that revolves around 
capitalist consumption are attractive to the 
media for the very reason that they are an 
effective check against the real liberation 
of young black men and women from 
capitalist patriarchy: they send confusing 
messages about sexual relationships, 
money, masculinities and femininities. 
Secondly, there is a resurgent traditionalist 
gender position that seeks to recreate 
tribalistic masculinities and femininities, 
represented by traditional and political 
leaders such as Chief Phatekile Holomisa3 
and the king of the Zulus, Goodwill 
Zwelithini.4 President Zuma also sometimes 
employs a discourse based on Zulu culture 
and tradition to support his gender and sexual 
practices.5 One of the main problems with 
gender traditionalism is its refusal to critically 
reflect on the contents of culture and tradition 
as prejudiced against women and supportive 
of an injurious patriarchy (Ratele 2013). 
While cognisant of the differences within 
women’s movement and gender activism, 
as well being aware of many feminists who 
work with men, there is, thirdly, a discourse 
that appropriates gender talk to argue that 
men cannot change. This discourse may also 
be tied to a view that is largely indifferent to 
men’s lives except in connection to violence 
against women. bell hooks (2006) suggests 
that this type of reformist talk sees gender 
‘freedom as simply women having the right to 
be like powerful patriarchal men’ (as opposed 
to being like ‘poor and working class men’). 
Interestingly, this reactionary discourse 
mirrors the monist antiracist discourse (that 
we started with above), which understands 
black men’s social condition as primarily a 
result of white racism, thus minimising black 
men’s and women’s oppression by (both white 
and black) patriarchy. It must be obvious 
that we regard both racism and patriarchy, 
among others, as imprisoning black men 
(and women) from living truly free lives. 
Defining ourselves as black in the way Biko 
spoke of blackness is to learn to question the 
prevailing socio-political and economic order. 
To claim to be Biko’s black (as opposed to 
non-white) is the beginning of the process 
of unlearning a still hegemonic view of 
what it means to be a black in the world. 
Yet Biko’s black subject needs a sex, a 
gender. He – although, as shown above, the 
subject at times is a she – needs a liberating 
sex/gender education. Liberated black 
manhood is about, in our view, a questioning 
attitude towards the patriarchal and sexual, 
not only the racial, order. Black manhood 
is a gender value, not only a racial attitude. 
Progressive black masculinity is a stance and 
a perspective on the patriarchal, heterosexist, 
white world – where all the terms carry 
equitable weight, although we are well aware 
that these are not exhaustive of all the terms 
in the struggle for justice and equality. 
We are not aware of whether Malusi and 
Thoko Mpumlwana were gender and queer 
activists. However, what is clear from their 
Introduction is that to come to be part 
of struggles whose aim is to make wider 
society realise that we are not only black, 
men (and women) need a consciousness of 
women’s liberation and feminist struggles. 
The transformation of black men into 
active supporters of gender and sexual 
equality demands engaging in deliberate 
education for social justice. It is only through 
a consciousness of women’s liberation 
struggles and feminist insights that men 
come to appreciate that a racist injury is 
no worse than sexist traumatisation. It will 
not happen by itself that men (and women) 
comprehend the fact that sexual and gender-based 
violence is a systematic weapon of 
hetero-patriarchal masculinity. (Again, we 
admit, the picture is more complex, the 
violence more entwined). Conscientisation 
in feminism and women’s liberation struggles 
is the surest route towards grasping the 
perversity of the patriarchal condition, where 
biological femaleness reduces a person to 
the status of a perpetual minor or second 
class citizen – and to voicelessness. 
It might be obvious to many people, but 
it is important to state this: we are not 
only men. We are also well-employed, 
black, heterosexual subjects. While critical 
work with men and masculinities gives 
privileged focus to men as a gender, to the 
constitutive power of gender in relation 
to racial order, the converse is also vital to 
understand. In other words, we need to 
understand black men’s gender construction 
from the location of race. If some men 
see their problem with gender equality as 
caused by the colonial destabilisation of 
Profeminist Black Men: Engaging Women Liberationists, Undermining Patriarchy 
on various entrancing guises in different 
contexts. As such, women’s and men’s 
struggles are ultimately always against unjust 
power. It is not against symptomatic injustice 
that we ultimately struggle. Although it might 
be urgent at different points of history and 
in different contexts to mount resistance, 
it is not merely against isolated oppressive 
acts of racism, gender and sexual violence, 
economic exclusion, nationalism, culturally 
oppressive practices, or any other monistic 
view of oppression that we need to fight. For 
black women and men especially, it would 
appear that this view of struggle as more than 
simply against any single form of injustice 
would be obvious. Evidently, it is not. To be 
sure, all of us are given daily mis-education 
about how to think about the world and our 
own lives through various means (actually 
induced and estranged from thinking 
for ourselves) – with the media, formal 
education system and our social relationships 
being the most powerful vehicles in this 
process of alienation. Therefore, none 
of us can do without on-going critical 
political education or conscientisation. 
The Mpumlwanas also noted that, while 
they shared Biko’s passion for the liberation 
of black people from apartheid, they slowly 
came to admit the masculinist politics of 
Biko’s emancipatory project. Their insight 
possibly provides the foundation for the 
transformation of (antiracist) black men’s 
masculinities. The two activists observed 
that the experience of being oppressed 
because of one’s sex is no less, and no 
more, than being subjugated because of 
one’s skin colour. Even then, the two black 
consciousness activists would also state that 
the gender prejudices in Biko’s work must be 
seen in the context of his historical period, 
and that Biko was a product of his time. 
But this reads like a careful attempt not to 
say something negative about Biko. It comes 
across as a justification for the gender biases 
that characterised Biko’s politics. The truth is 
that Biko was ahead of his time in many ways. 
He was a man who did not quietly accept 
what the apartheid government intended 
black people to be – docile, unquestioning 
and politically unaware. He stood up against 
the racial order that wanted to put him in 
his subservient black place. He questioned 
the world not only for himself. As part of the 
founders of a new progressive movement in 
South Africa, he led black people towards 
the on-going task of imagining themselves 
anew. In initiating projects informed by 
a self-belief in black abilities and beauty, 
he started the continuing endeavour to 
give a new content to blackness in South 
Africa. And Biko’s inquiring attitude was not 
only directed at the racist system. He also 
questioned his would-be student fellow-travellers 
in the then dominant white-led 
student organisation, the National Union 
of South African Students (NUSAS), and 
led a walkout from the organisation. He 
convincingly rejected the representations 
about black conditions from both the white 
and black media as contained in his ‘Letter to 
SRC presidents’ (Biko, 1996). And, publically, 
he cuttingly questioned the recognised 
black political leaders, including the leaders 
of the African National Congress (ANC), 
the Pan-Africanist Congress of Azania and 
the South African Communist Party, and 
stalwarts of the national liberation struggles – 
such as Nelson Mandela, Oliver Tambo and 
Robert Sobukwe, let alone people like Gatsha 
Buthelezi and other homeland leaders. 
In brief, if Biko was a product of his 
patriarchal racist time, he was, thankfully, 
a bad factory design both for apartheid 
and the conservative black order. For his 
insubordination, his psycho-political acumen 
in relation to the workings of power, Biko is 
the best starting point for black conscious 
men committed to gender equality. The key 
point here is that we could make our lives 
all of us are given daily mis-education about 
how to think about the world and our own lives 
through various means (actually induced and 
estranged from thinking for ourselves) – with 
the media, formal education system and our 
social relationships being the most powerful 
vehicles in this process of alienation. 
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Endnotes 
1. Julius Malema, ex-president of the African 
National Congress Youth League, told a 
meeting of students in January 2009 that 
when a woman didn’t enjoy it, she leaves 
early in the morning. Those who had a nice 
time will wait until the sun comes out, request 
breakfast and ask for taxi money.” Malema’s 
comments were an oblique response to the 
woman who had taken ANC president and 
current head of the state Jacob Zuma to 
court for rape in 2006. Zuma was acquitted 
of the charge. At the time, the Young League 
leader appeared to be close to Jacob Zuma, 
the president of the mother body, the ANC. 
Malema has since been expelled from the 
ANC for behaviour unrelated to his sexism. 
2.See Charles Cilliers 7 April 2013. Inside 
the Sushi King’s sexy Sandton harem. 
City Press. Retrieved 17 April 2013 from 
http://www.citypress.co.za/entertainment/ 
inside-the-sushi-kings-sexy-sandton-harem/. 
For feminist responses see, e.g., Lizl 
Morden April 15 2013 The case of Kenny 
Kunene and the 15 girlfriends. FeministsSA. 
com. Retrieved 17 April 2013 from http:// 
feministssa.com/2013/04/15/the-case-of- 
kenny-kunene-and-the-15-girlfriends/; 
Pumla Gqola 14 April 2013 Sushi King’s 
monster’s ball. City Press. Retrieved 17 
April from http://www.citypress.co.za/ 
columnists/sushi-kings-monsters-ball/ 
3. Chief Phatekile Holomisa, Head of the 
Congress of Traditional Leaders and an ANC 
member of parliament, was reported to have 
said that “homosexuality was a condition that 
occurred when certain cultural rituals have 
not been performed.” He also said that the 
National House of Traditional Leaders “wants 
to remove a clause from the Constitution 
which protects people on the grounds of 
sexual orientation.” (Rossouw, 2012, p. 5). 
4.In 2012, the Zulu monarch was reported 
to have called people with same-sex desires 
‘rotten’. According to media reports, King 
Zwelithini said, “Traditionally, there were 
no people who engaged in same-sex 
relationships. There was nothing like that 
and if you do it, you must know that you 
are rotten. I don’t care how you feel about 
it. If you do it, you must know that it is 
wrong and you are rotten. Same sex is not 
acceptable.” The king was speaking during 
the 133rd commemoration of the Battle of 
Isandlwana at Nquthu in northern KwaZulu- 
Natal. (Mdletshe 2012, SAPA 2012) 
5. See Pillay, Verashni (22 Aug 2012). 
Zuma: Women must have children. Mail 
& Guardian Online. Retrieved 18 April 
from http://mg.co.za/article/2012-08- 
21-zuma-women-must-have-children. 
their culture by western white traditions, 
we cannot afford to be dismissive of such 
views. We exist within orbits of hegemony 
and subordination. Therefore, to be 
successful, anti-patriarchal black projects 
on masculinity must grapple with not one 
issue – patriarchy only – but rather with 
all of the entangled roots of inequality. 
Concluding reflections 
Our disagreements notwithstanding, we 
are clear about what connects us. Above 
all, we are connected by the idea that for 
men like us both patriarchy and racism hurt 
our health. We are agreed that the aim of 
the project to liberate black masculinities 
is to challenge the twinned ideologies of 
male and white superiority (as well as other 
social injustices). We are opposed to sexual 
and gender-based violence and hetero-patriarchal 
racial power. We seek to reveal 
the deleterious effects of men’s gender 
power over women. After the feminist insight 
by, for example, Chandra Talpade Mohanty 
(1988) – and significantly, other feminists 
from the global South or black American 
feminists – who showed that women are not 
an ahistorical, universal and fixed category, 
we are aware that men are not homogenous 
and that due to their economic, racial, 
political, cultural and sexual positions they 
have power over other men. We challenge 
the structural and episodic violence of, and 
on, men. We want to contribute to founding 
new forms of healthy manhood. Following 
bell hooks, we think our work in partnership 
to feminist women and gender activists is to 
show that ‘patriarchal culture continues to 
control the hearts of men precisely because 
it socializes males to believe that without 
their role as patriarchs they will have no 
reason for being’ (hooks, 2004, page 115). 
This is, then, what we learned from the black 
consciousness movement and the struggle 
for national liberation more generally. We 
learned to love justice for all women and 
men. We learned to learn from women, to 
listen without fear, aggression, or prejudice. 
We learned to question power. We learned 
about what a critical black self-awareness 
as part of identities entails. We learned to 
love ourselves quietly again. We learned, 
therefore, that we would never be true to 
ourselves if we went back to an obedient, 
unreflective ‘yes baas’ kind of existence. A 
reflective, profeminist black view implies 
always approaching our condition and 
practices as heterosexual, married, men and 
black with a constructive questioning attitude. 
It entails always examining and ‘doing’ race, 
gender, sexuality and other categories 
within which we are socially positioned, 
and all men’s and women’s practices more 
generally, with a critical eye. Thus, whereas 
we learn from the anti-racist project of the 
black consciousness movement to love 
blackness and overcome the ideology of 
white superiority, from feminism we learn to 
reject male superiority and to create new self-definitions 
that liberate masculinities from 
patriarchal, homophobic and capitalist power. 
Out of these lessons, we come to the 
conclusion that what we are doing in claiming 
the space of profeminist African masculinities 
is engaging in the process of contributing 
towards moulding a different social order 
that will allow out children to flourish. We are 
investing in the future where the boys and 
girls we are raising can live in a world where 
they can be anything they set their minds to 
be. There are times when we recognise that 
we might not get to such a world ourselves. 
Nonetheless, with Martin Luther King in 
mind, we see ourselves as fertilising the 
ground for a future where girls are educated 
for a feminist, confident, happier and healthier 
life, and black boys and white boys genuinely 
believe – in their hearts and not just their 
brains – in girls’ and women’s rights to their 
own views, goals, feelings, bodies, health and 
independent lives. In that future, boys are also 
empowered with a progressive education, 
which prepares them for an egalitarian, 
democratic, non-violent and healthier life. 
“Out of these lessons, we 
come to the conclusion 
that what we are 
doing in claiming the 
space of profeminist 
African masculinities 
is engaging in the 
process of contributing 
towards moulding a 
different social order 
that will allow our 
children to flourish." 
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In many African communities, the initiation 
rite constitutes a very crucial stage in an 
individual’s life. The initiation rites symbolize 
the transition from boyhood to manhood. 
During this process, boys are exposed 
to community traditions so that they can 
learn how to behave. They are trained to 
become full community members. It is a 
very influential process and strongly affects 
what individuals subsequently consider 
to be wrong or right. Initiation rites are 
perhaps one of the most ‘definitive’ of all 
the rituals – during which we are told about 
social expectations, about who we must be, 
and about what we are permitted to think, 
speak and experience (Osório 2009). 
For that reason, when I learned about 
this gang rape, I first felt deeply sorry for 
the young lady, whose life was in great 
danger and whose future had been so 
viciously and seriously compromised 
– particularly given the fact that there 
are significant institutional, political 
and economic challenges that limit the 
support that can be given to survivors of 
sexual violence in Mozambique. Indeed, 
the double victimization of women 
survivors of violence is very common 
practice even within those institutions 
that are supposed to be supportive and 
helpful such as the police and hospitals. 
But I also asked myself why she was subjected 
to such a punishment. What makes a 
group of young men rape a woman as if it 
is a natural thing to do? And I felt deeply 
concerned about the expectations that were 
being created among the boys as future 
full community members. They were being 
taught to look at women’s bodies as objects 
and without any kind of restraint. The rape of 
a young woman during such a critical social 
shaping process will create an even stronger 
belief in men’s dominance over women – and 
ensure that men’s ‘right’ to engage in similar 
practices will be dangerously reinforced. In 
my understanding, this is particularly worrying 
in a context of highly sexualized masculinities. 
Indeed, several studies (Matsinhe 2005, 
Macie and Maharaj 2011, Ratele 2011) 
have shown that in most of our so-called 
‘African cultures’, the male identity tends 
to be strongly sexualized. To a large 
extent, it is constructed around sexual 
experiences and attitudes towards sex and 
women that shape, and are shaped by, 
men’s conceptions about what is it to be 
(or not to be) a real man. Examples of how 
sex is a significant constitutive theme in 
dominant masculinity narratives includes 
the fact that “it is closely associated with 
our sexual partners, their sexual appeal, 
the size of our penises, the claims that we 
make about our sexual stamina, whether 
we can maintain a healthy erection and 
how virile we are.” (Ratele 2011, page.399) 
From youth to adulthood, we tend to over 
value our sexual performance, which is 
commonly reduced to penetration and 
long lasting intercourse. We often refrain 
from engaging in expressions of sexuality 
that involve a strong component of 
communication, endearment, tenderness 
or any demonstration of emotion since this 
is not supposedly part of the male world. 
Usually, a man who shows ‘too much’ 
affection, particularly to a woman, is likely 
to be ridiculed by his peers and to have his 
manhood questioned. How many of us have 
never felt embarrassed when using terms of 
endearment such as ‘darling’, ‘sweetheart’ 
and ‘baby’ in our relationships? How easy 
has it been for us to say ‘I love you!’ to our 
beloved people? 
It is not surprising that in our masculinity 
narratives we usually tend to represent 
ourselves as sexually skilful and successful. 
This is often expressed through stories of 
seduction and sexual stamina, which often 
resemble ‘olympic’ endurance competitions. 
It is also noteworthy that having a sexual 
narrative seems to be of vital importance 
to many of us – so that we can confirm and 
reconfirm our manhood with others. Even 
if we have to make up a story, in one way 
“To many of us, there is 
nothing more frightening 
than to be seen as 
sexually weak! The idea 
that we can also have 
challenges in our sexual 
life – such as early 
ejaculation, infertility 
or erectile problems 
– is unimaginable." 
or another we seek to demonstrate how 
knowledgeable and experienced we are 
in sexual matters. This is probably one of 
the reasons why we sometimes find almost 
ridiculous gaps between what some men 
tell about their sexual experiences and what 
they really do or even know about sex. 
To many of us, there is nothing more 
frightening than to be seen as sexually 
weak! The idea that we can also have 
challenges in our sexual life – such as 
early ejaculation, infertility or erectile 
problems – is unimaginable. The 
construction of a friendship with a woman 
is also impossible for many of us because 
we fail to regard women’s bodies as 
anything other than an exclusive place for 
‘realising our manhood’. Any woman we 
meet is a potential target for our sexual 
satisfaction. Yet, male erotic stories – 
regardless of their accuracy or not – play 
an important role in the construction and 
reproduction of friendships among men 
as well as in shaping the masculine ethos. 
Notions of Sex, Masculinity and Manhood in African Cultures 
Notions of Sex, Masculinity 
and Manhood in African 
Cultures 
By Julio Langa 
n January 2012, a very shocking sexual 
assault was reported in one of the 
I 
main Mozambican daily newspapers.1 A 
group of 17 young men, supported by their 
‘spiritual leader’ raped a young woman in 
the northern city of Pemba. As reported 
in the newspaper, these young men were 
going through an initiation rite, which was 
taking place in an area relatively isolated 
from the rest of the community members. 
This event – as commonly happens in many 
other similar rituals and practices in African 
communities – is surrounded by a set of 
fixed prohibitions and norms that should 
guide the behaviour of those being initiated, 
but also their relationship with others during 
Julio Langa is a Mozambican trained in Social Science and 
Anthropology at Eduardo Mondlane University in Maputo. In the 
past 8 years, he has been working in the field of social work, research 
and human rights. He has worked with national and international 
institutions such as the Foundation for Community Development, 
UN Women, Forum Mulher, Engender Health and Helvetas as a 
Programme Manager, consultant, trainer and activist. Julio is co-founder 
of the Men for Change Network (HOPEM), a civil society 
movement dedicated to the advancement of healthy masculinities, 
education for gender equality and peace building in Mozambique. 
Currently he is the National Coordinator of HOPEM. 
the course of the initiation. This event tends 
to be strongly mystified and sanctified so 
that people are not supposed to talk about 
it or question it. In this case, the victim was 
raped, allegedly, because she knowingly 
and repeatedly ‘profaned’ the geographical 
(and symbolic) limits that were established 
between the initiation site and the other 
community areas. Therefore, she was 
brutally ‘sentenced’ to terrifyingly violent 
sexual punishment. 
This act of aggression was extremely 
outrageous and problematic in many ways. 
On the one hand, the victim was subjected 
to an unbelievably horrific experience in 
which a number of her fundamental rights 
– enshrined in Mozambique’s constitution 
and laws – were violated. On the other hand, 
it also explicitly revealed a lot about the 
values, attitudes and behaviour of young 
men towards women that are perpetuated 
in the name of culture and tradition. In this 
case, we had a striking example of how 
masculine mentality and practices can 
totally women’s human rights. Furthermore, 
this kind of violation promotes a sense of 
entitlement among boys and men, which 
legitimates their punishment of women 
whenever they think it is necessary. It also 
sent a very clear message about male 
supremacy over women’s bodies. 
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and unemployment many men have 
not been able to conform to this ideal 
of masculinity. Therefore, they have 
been using sexuality to compensate 
for this ‘lost’ of social power. 
In this context, sexuality and violence 
are reactions to this ‘crisis’ in traditional 
masculinity. These men strive to keep their 
manhood by sexually dominating their 
partners, being unfaithful and living a life 
of very liberal sexuality. Violence against 
women is also an apparent alternative to 
not having economic power, particularly 
for young men who cannot provide their 
partners with gifts and money (Groes- 
Green 2009). The idea behind this trend 
is that if I am not economically successful 
at least I am successful in seducing women 
and I can offer erotic experiences through 
good sexual performance and skills. Thus, 
they try to preserve some control over 
women through sexuality (Aboim 2008 
and Groes-Green 2009). In this context, it 
is not surprising that 54 percent of female 
respondents to a survey on violence against 
women reported having suffered some sort 
of male physical and/or sexual violence at 
some point in their lifetime (MMAS 2004). 
Among young men, there are several 
myths about not having sex. In one group 
discussion with young men that I attended, 
it was said that if you do not have sex 
for long time ‘you will be nervous all the 
time’, ‘you will become infertile’ and ‘you 
can even go crazy’. In Mozambique, the 
pressure for young people to behave 
according to the standards expected by 
their peers is often symbolized by the 
notion of ‘matreco’. This expression is 
very popular in young men’s slang all 
over the country and it has an equivalent 
word with a similar meaning in almost all 
native languages. It carries a number of 
ambivalent and negative connotations 
about men’s attitudes and behaviour, 
particularly in the context of sexuality. 
The ‘matreco’ is, for instance, a man 
who is not sexually pro-active or ever 
seen with a female partner; is unable 
to make many girls his girlfriends or 
sexually ‘satisfy’ them; cannot keep his 
girlfriend ‘under control’; does not show 
‘attitude’ or shows ‘too much’ sensitivity; 
and demonstrates ‘women-like’ attitudes 
and behaviour, such as talking about 
his feelings, being too emotional etc. 
This notion of ‘matreco’ is dangerous 
to young men and women. Under 
this kind of categorisation, young 
people grow up believing that the use 
of strength to address interpersonal 
relationship challenges – as well as (self) 
exclusion from sexual and reproductive 
responsibilities – is quite acceptable for 
a man. And they end up engaging in a 
sexual culture conducive to HIV infection 
and sexual dominance over women. 
Some final thoughts 
Undoubtedly, the sexual terrain is one 
of the central loci of masculinity and 
male power in our societies. The attempt 
by many men to behave according to 
predominant and strongly sexualized 
forms of masculinity explains a number of 
challenges that we face today in the field 
of sexuality and human rights. Existing 
values and beliefs in the society as a 
whole, along with specific expectations 
placed on male individuals, also create 
a favourable context for many men to 
engage in dangerous masculinities. In 
this article I gave a few examples on how 
men tend to express masculinity and 
sexuality. This is something which has 
only been possible with the active – or 
silent – complicity of many of our cultural 
institutions. I did not intend to generalise 
the ideas or examples that I raised in this 
article (it is known that masculinity can 
take many forms and interact with several 
factors according to specific contexts) 
but simply to interrogate problematic 
notions of sex and masculinities. 
Indeed, I think it is time for us, as men, 
to challenge all harmful views, beliefs 
and values about what it means to be 
a man, particularly those concepts 
that are harmful to women but often 
negative to us too. While the kind of 
men that we are today is a result of how 
we have been socialised within a broad 
set of social institutions, we should never 
forget that through the same processes 
of socialisation it is possible to unlearn 
gender and masculinity myths. Besides, 
social institutions can also be changed. 
There is evidence that we can make changes 
in the way we deal with sexuality and other 
issues constitutive of masculinity. A World 
Health Organization study (WHO 2007) 
came to the conclusion that the behaviour 
and attitudes of men and boys that have 
often been considered unchangeable 
can, actually, be changed and lead to 
better health outcomes for men, their 
partners, families and children. Therefore, 
seeking change in our masculinities is 
not only beneficial for the millions of 
"These men strive to keep 
their manhood by sexually 
dominating their partners, 
being unfaithful and 
living a life of very 
liberal sexuality. 
Violence against women 
is also an apparent 
alternative to not having 
economic power..." 
The issue of male engagement with multiple partners is one of the 
most visible consequences of the phallocentric construction 
of masculinity. It has been widely discussed and recognised as 
one of the main drivers of the HIV epidemic, which needs to be 
addressed in public policies and programmes across Africa. 
In fact, to be (or at least to be seen as) 
sexually competent, especially in the eyes 
of other men, is usually ‘rewarding’ to our 
manhood. This ‘competence’ includes 
always being ready for a sexual adventure 
and placing a high value on ‘success’ with 
women, which is often translated into 
engagement with several partners and 
efforts to have sex without any emotional 
involvement. These are very prominent 
elements of manhood in our context. They 
are also part of the most desirable and 
celebrated forms of manhood. Usually, these 
elements come with the notion that we, as 
men, know all about sex and sexuality and 
that we understand the matter better that 
women – therefore we have to teach them 
everything. But, deplorably, often the basic 
physical characteristics of sex are all that we 
know about sexuality. It seems to me that 
we are still very far from a comprehensive 
understanding of sexuality. 
So, as we tend to place sex at the centre of 
our relationships, our sexual stamina is like a 
natural weighing-machine that tells us how 
manly we are. Having an erect penis (the 
tusa or kustumba in southern Mozambique) 
is apparently the most important thing in 
our lives. Judging by the way we tend to 
overestimate and ‘obey’ our erect penises, 
one would end up thinking that the rest 
of the body is part of the penis and not 
the other way round – or even that sexual 
desire is above any other human need. To a 
large extent, the male power in the society 
is built on a functional and active penis. 
Our sexuality and, therefore, our manhood 
are generally phallocentric. This explains, 
partially, why we seek to demonstrate the 
functionality of our penises or exercise their 
erections in many problematic ways – from 
using our status to get sex (in schools, 
workplaces etc.) to having many kids with 
different women to engaging in sex with 
multiple partners. In many cases, the 
centrality of the tusa to our self-(or sex-) 
esteem results in sexual assaults and other 
abusive behaviour towards women. 
Almost madly we tend to create a number 
of arguments to sustain our efforts to praise 
and satisfy our penises. One of the most 
common arguments is that having several 
female partners is an inherent characteristic 
of what we call ‘African culture’ – so people 
should not deny their own cultures. Some 
men also believe that having sex with 
several partners is very important to their 
health as much as we need to eat different 
kinds of food (Macie and Maharaj, 2011) 
so “a man cannot eat the same food 
every day, he needs to have a varied diet.” 
(Matsinhe 2005, page.167) Another ‘reason’ 
is that having a lot of sex, including with 
several partners, is natural because men 
have greater sexual needs than women. 
(Matsinhe 2005, Macie and Maharaj, 2011) 
The issue of male engagement with 
multiple partners is one of the most 
visible consequences of the phallocentric 
construction of masculinity. It has been 
widely discussed and recognised as one of 
the main drivers of the HIV epidemic, which 
needs to be addressed in public policies 
and programmes across Africa. Research 
in Mozambique shows that the violation of 
women’s sexual rights is also one of the root 
causes of the HIV/AIDS epidemic. Many 
young men are still growing up believing 
that having several partners is an indicator 
of real manhood. In addition, the perception 
that the man is the one who has to take 
control and make decisions about a couple’s 
sexual life is common among young people 
(Cruz e Silva, Teresa e Andrade, Ximena 
2006) since they are socialised to be the 
‘head’ of the relationship with their female 
partners (Groes-Green 2009). Among 
certain groups of men, sexuality seems to be 
the last bastion of their masculinity. 
According to some studies (Aboim 2008 
and Groes-Green 2009), economic 
dynamics where men are not necessarily 
the main breadwinners any more have 
challenged traditional conceptions of 
masculinity. Traditionally, male power over 
women was based on the man’s financial 
authority and ability to provide for the 
family, along with sexual dominance. 
However, due to the dynamics of poverty 
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Mixed Messages: 
The Ideological Schizophrenia of 
Men’s Organizing Around Fathering 
By Stephanie Leitch 
Stephanie Leitch is a social activist and conceptual artist. Her 
work focuses on issues of gender equality through performance 
and organizing. Her mediums include installation, public space 
intervention, street theatre and film. Stephanie is currently 
pursuing a Master's Degree at the Institute of Gender and 
Development Studies UWI, St. Augustine and has been 
a tutor within the department for the past three years. In 
line with her popular alias Barefoot Contessa, Stephanie 
produces the series Barefoot Trails on the Caribbean's 
premiere art magazine ARC's web-platform, as well as weekly 
features at the Trinidad Express WOMAN magazine. 
n the Caribbean, there are a number of men’s groups who 
advocate for the rights of men and one of their primary 
concerns is parenting. Considering the extensive theorising 
around ‘male absenteeism’ in the region by both Anglo and 
Caribbean scholars in an attempt to explain dysfunctional 
Caribbean homes, this recent phenomenon of male activism 
around father’s rights takes on some level of poetic irony. 
According to the Single Father’s Association of Trinidad and 
Tobago (SFATT), the reason that so many female-headed 
households exist in the Caribbean is not because men are 
absent but because they have been forcibly pushed out of their 
children’s lives. As a result, their attempts to achieve ‘equality’ 
within the legal justice framework in relation to custody and 
visitation rights have been consistently anti-woman and anti-feminist 
in their approach. In other words, women and mothers 
have become the new enemy of functional families, even 
though the ways families are seen as functioning has shifted. 
Renowned Caribbean feminist scholar Rhoda Reddock argues 
that a ‘new men’s movement’ emerged in the Caribbean in the 
1990s. Some of the more active groups concerned with parenting 
across the region include the Caribbean Male Action Network 
(CARIMAN), Fathers Incorporated (recently re-named ‘The 
Barry Chevannes Fathers' Resource Centre) in Jamaica, the Men’s 
Educational Support Association (MESA) in Barbados, and the 
SFATT. According to Reddock, men’s groups typically take one of 
three forms: men’s rights that seek to ‘regain’ rights that have been 
taken; conservative men’s groups that advocate for a reversion 
to the ‘ways things were’ based on a divine or religious basis; and 
pro-feminist men’s groups, which are committed to rethinking 
masculinity and acknowledging how traditional gender roles have 
been detrimental to women and men. Some positive examples 
of male organising include the regional organisation CARIMAN, 
which is widely cross-sectional in its advocacy and committed to 
gender justice, and Fathers Incorporated, which was founded by 
one of the Caribbean’s most significant male feminist scholars 
and activists Barry Chevannes. However, the work of these 
groups is not very visible for a number of reasons. Despite the 
ambition and promises of the Caribbean Community Secretariat 
(CARICOM), many island states remain disconnected from each 
other and civil society organisations have not been much more 
successful in establishing sustainable networks at a regional level. 
Notions of Sex, Masculinity and Manhood in African Cultures 
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women whose bodies have been used as 
the terrain for many of us to exert our 
dominance but also to our own health. It 
is an opportunity to develop knowledge 
and skills that will allow us to fully enjoy 
positive and healthy expressions of 
sexuality, which we have been neglecting 
for the sake of being a superman. 
The idea of ‘African culture’ as an 
excuse to continue practices that violate 
women’s human rights seems to me, in 
many ways, a very difficult argument to 
sustain. There are not any attitudes or 
behaviours that are essentially ‘African’, 
that would genuinely distinguish us from 
the rest of the world and that are not 
subjected to historical and social change. 
Furthermore, the complete welfare of 
African women and girls – a reality that has 
been historically denied and continuously 
postponed in most of our countries – should 
be placed above any culture. We should 
consider it an ultimate goal in itself. 
As men, I think we have a huge responsibility 
towards the women of our communities. 
Praising our cultures should not hinder 
the advancement of human rights. We 
should redirect the efforts that we tend 
to waste on realising our manhood into 
addressing the challenges that many women 
face as a result of our own behaviour and 
discriminatory social institutions. For me, 
this is what it means to be more responsible 
to the society that we are part of! 
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Buwa Culture and Feminism

  • 1. Feminism and culture A JOURNAL ON AFRICAN WOMEN’S EXPERIENCES Volume 2 / Issue 2 / December 2013
  • 2. EDITORIAL By Alice Kanengoni T All of this reminded me of the tendency of his was the response given by one young woman at the start of OSISA’s annual regional feminism training course in Zimbabwe. And it is definitely not an isolated perception of the much talked about relationship between feminism and culture – part of the reason why the two-week feminism course hosted by OSISA and the Institute for Peace, Leadership and Governance at Africa University is so important! It got me thinking about how the nexus between feminism and culture has often been understood – or misunderstood – and how this has shaped people’s understanding of their realities. One thing was very clear here – at least for me – that feminism was regarded as some appendage to one’s life, which somehow had to be ‘fitted’ and ‘married’ to one’s cultural context. And it also got me thinking about how culture has often been viewed as some kind of container into which behaviours, practices and actions have to ‘fit’. many people to plead ‘culture’ when they want to dismiss arguments and behaviours that challenge the status quo. This issue of BUWA! provides space to critically engage with the positive and negative aspects of cultures, which influence the lives of women, and to explore women’s and feminists’ experiences and understanding of these as well as to look at some of the perceptions and misconceptions about the interface between culture and feminism – both of which are broad and multi-faceted phenomena. This issue offers some definitional considerations from an anthropological perspective, as well as exploring the interplay, and manifestations, of culture in the web of human existence, including in the realms of spirituality and faith, tradition and custom, body politics and associated relationships, among many others. And it covers a range of topics – from exploring the interface between states and cultures to establishing how state policies and administrative structures have colluded with cultural practices to deny and/ or jeopardise women rights, as in the pieces by Shamillah Wilson and Onai Hara. A cluster of articles draws attention to the dynamics of how men have related with culture in defining certain kinds of masculinities. Many men invoke culture to justify unhealthy masculinities that take away the freedoms of women and girls. Kopano Ratele and Mbuyiselo Botha discuss the broader theoretical understandings of masculinities, while Julio Langa brings it closer to home by providing an African perspective. Stephanie Leitch demonstrates how, further afield, some men have gone to the extent of invoking the law and legal frameworks to reclaim men’s rights, as evidenced by how men are organising in the Caribbean. This is also a phenomenon that our region has “I am not a feminist because I cannot divorce myself from my cultural context and also because feminism is not practical in my culture, and is for the elite.” BUWA! A Journal on African Women's Experiences 1 100
  • 3. Nowhere are body politics as pronounced as in the institution of marriage – an institution that is often regarded as a sacred cow in cultural debates. Marriage for most women, especially in Africa, equates to signing away control of their bodies. A telling illustration is the skewed way in which women – especially those in heterosexual marital relationships – have been infected and affected by HIV and AIDS compared to their male counterparts. There are mixed views among feminists regarding the institution of marriage and how it has positioned women. While some feminists have argued that many of our continent’s cultures have set heterosexual marriage relationships and feminist principles on an inevitable collision course, others view the apparent clash between the two as not all that dramatic. Mike Zulu describes how the nature of his 26-year marriage to Doo Aphane has allayed some of these fears among their friends and relatives. It is worth noting that discourses and debates about marriage, culture and the positioning of women often pit heterosexual marriage relationships against same sex marriage alternatives or, in some cases, relationships outside of marital relationships. In this issue, Hleziphi Nyanungo sheds light on some lesser-known models of same sex and non-sexual marriages among women in Africa, which still, she argues, tend to follow patriarchal dynamics of power and control. Another institution that has also been regarded as a sacred cow is religion, and feminists have long focused on how patriarchy employs religion as a tool – often in partnership with culture – to oppress and suppress women. A lot has been written over the years on some of the key religions that are prevalent in southern Africa, including Christianity and some African traditional religions. Less has been shared about the realities of women practising the Islamic faith in the context of southern Africa. Ruthelle Kunje shares the peculiarities of a woman growing up as a Muslim in Zimbabwe. She observes that Islamic religious practices and traditional Shona practices are not very different – both suppress women, especially with regard to women not being able to make important decisions about their lives. Closely linked to culture and religion are the arts and people’s performances, which, to a significant extent, reflect and mirror a community’s beliefs and practices, and in turn influence and shape those practices. Some artistic forms of expression that have embodied this are songs, music and dance. While feminist research has looked into how some song lyrics denigrate women and perpetuate patriarchy, dance forms have drawn less attention. Gibson Ncube and Margaret Chipara provide a feminist analysis of erotic dance styles, and argue that while some feminists find such dance styles demeaning and denigrating of women, their bodies and sexuality, erotic dancing can also be considered as a means of empowering women given that it allows them to subvert patriarchal ontologies that regard women as objects that are to be deployed by men for their own pleasure. Ncube and Chipara challenge feminist readers and writers to explore this debate further so as to discover how useful erotic dance is in the struggle for women’s emancipation and empowerment. But what about pop music? There are often heated debates about whether such music could possibly incorporate any progressive and/or affirming messages about women. Emma Machokoto looks at contemporary pop artists, such as Lady Gaga, Beyoncé and others, and highlights the tensions that exist between their song lyrics and the video images that often accompany them. This issue paints a picture of cultures that are constantly evolving but that do not necessarily change the underlying way that women are perceived and treated. This is aptly captured by Monica Cheru in her analysis of how practices of welcoming new brides into a family have transformed in shape, but have remained essentially the same in terms of value and the message that they put across about women. One would have expected that with information technologies changing the way that people in the world relate to one another and how cultures evolve, there would be have been some fundamental shifts in how women are structurally positioned. However, Fungai Machirori confirms that this has not been the case, arguing that feminists have not effectively appropriated the social media and ICT tools that have revolutionised social, commercial and other relations across the globe. The issue concludes with a piece by Hleziphi Nyanungo, who argues that feminists are not talking to each other enough across generations and that this has to change if harmful cultural and other practices are ever going to be replaced by real respect for women’s rightful citizenship and freedoms. There is, she believes, an urgent need for greater intergenerational dialogue to foster real change. Alice is the Editor of BUWA! Write to her with comments and submissions at alicek@osisa.org been increasingly experiencing, although the trend has been more in relation to men organising to promote gender equality rather than to reclaim men’s rights. Initiatives such as the Fatherhood Initiative have pushed the envelope to focus more on redefining masculinities through encouraging progressive fatherhood practices. It is important to note that in all these initiatives – as well as in most of the articles in this issue – culture is often at the centre of such discourses and debates. One of the most visible – and sometimes also most invisible – sites on which culture has impacted on women’s rights and freedoms is their bodily integrity. There is a lot of politics that plays out in relation to women’s bodies in the name of culture – from women elongating their labia for men’s sexual pleasure as Chanda Katongo decries, to myths and mysteries around masturbation and menstruation as explained by Glenda Muzenda, to cultural barriers to women’s access to strategic economic resources, such as mineral wealth, as Wadzanai Chimhepo illustrates by using the experience of women in the gold mining fields of Zimbabwe’s Penhalonga district. Part of this politics stems from the debate about women’s fashion and notions of female beauty, with culture again being used as the key determinant of what is beautiful, what is fashionable and what is acceptable. Varyanne Sika argues that fashion has shaped women’s identities and makes a case for using fashion to achieve feminist objectives, while pushing for a feminist body of knowledge around the subject to allow this to happen. Similarly, Portia Loeto tracks the historical transformation of what is defined as an ‘attractive’ woman’s body, from tubular to slender and many other shapes in between, and tries to address the central question – what is beautiful? She concludes that these ‘attractiveness’ trends have damaged women’s self-esteem, self-confidence and self-worth. feminists are not talking to each other enough across generations and this has to change if harmful cultural and other practices are ever going to be replaced by real respect for women’s rightful citizenship and freedoms. Editorial BUWA! A Journal on African Women's Experiences 3 100 2 100
  • 4. Sex and Health CONTENTS 57 63 Notions of Beauty and Attractiveness By Portia Loeto I am Married to a Feminist By Mike Zulu Female Husbands without Male Wives: Women, culture and marriage in Africa By Hleziphi Naomie Nyanungo Feminist Perspectives on Islam and Culture By Ruthelle M. Kunje Dancing with Power: Does Erotic Dance Empower or Commodify Women? By Gibson Ncube co-authored with Margaret Chipara “Who Runs the World…Girls!” (Beyoncé) Feminist or Not? By Emmah Machokoto Old and New Ways to Celebrate a Bride By Monica Zodwa Cheru Technologies and Power Dynamics in Women’s Public and Private Spheres By Fungai Machirori I Am Not Your Daughter! – A fictional conversation on intergenerational dialogue in the women’s movement By Hleziphi Naomie 53 The State, Culture and Oppression By Shamillah Wilson State Culture and Oppression By Onai Hara Profeminist Black Men: Engaging Women Liberationists, Undermining Patriarchy By Kopano Ratele and Mbuyiselo Botha Notions of Sex, Masculinity and Manhood in African Cultures By Julio Langa Mixed Messages: The Ideological Schizophrenia of Men’s Organizing Around Fathering By Stephanie Leitch Elongation of the Labia Minora: A Violation of women’s bodily autonomy By Chanda Buumba Katongo Menstruating and Masturbating: The stains and strains of experiencing bodily pleasure for women By Glenda Muzenda Women and Mining: A Case of Golden Crumbs By Wadzanai Chimhepo Fashion for Feminists: How fashion and dress shape women’s identities By Varyanne Sika 44 34 10 5 96 4 96 53 58 61 67 70 76 81 86 93 06 12 14 20 25 30 34 40 47
  • 5. of gender equality has been attacked by the patriarchal structure and sexism of ‘traditional’ culture as a foreign concept. All state policies have gender implications and affect the social status of women as well as their control over their livelihoods. Women’s marginalisation at the level of the state and state policy-making is clearly visible in the low number of women parliamentarians worldwide. In fact, women’s status has never been the main issue on party platforms, in electoral campaigns or in any party manifesto. In reflecting on visible power, Veneklasen et al (2006) note that visible power discriminates against certain interests and people through biased laws and policies as well as unrepresentative decision-making structures, which do not adequately involve the voices or interests of women. As such, some feminists have formulated the term ‘patriarchal state’, whereby the state functions mainly in the interests of men and maintains or actively supports the oppression of women (Dahlerup, 1987; Kong and Chan, 2000). For feminists, the dominance of men in this particular arena is but one of the key characteristics of a patriarchal state. While a significant number of women now occupy important positions in government and civil society, these women are challenged by the continued dominance of the ‘male discourse’. Regardless of how many women enter into the political arena, if that arena is still defined by men’s perspectives, there will be few opportunities to promote women's issues. The traditional human rights framework places an emphasis on the duty of the state to uphold the rights of its citizens within the public sphere (i.e., politics and the market). The state (as opposed to individuals, communities, multinational corporations, etc.) is taken to be the primary violator of rights. However, a major obstacle is Analysis One of the greatest achievements of feminist movements is our analysis of power. Analysis and concepts are necessary ingredients for effective action as they help us to ground our strategies, and develop critical thinking and political skills. And each time we analyse issues and situations, we gain new insights. In looking at the state of women’s rights, our analysis as feminists starts with our understanding of patriarchy as being a system of male authority that legitimises the oppression of women through political, social, economic, legal, cultural, religions and military institutions. Men’s access to, and control over, resources and rewards within the private and public sphere derives its legitimacy from the patriarchal ideology of male dominance. Patriarchal ideology enables and legitimises the structuring of every aspect of our lives by enabling the framework within which society defines and views men and women to construct male supremacy (AFF, 2006). A critical component of our understanding of patriarchy is that it is systemic and not directed at individuals but is a broad system that maintains unequal relations of power. The state In the context of guaranteeing women’s rights, activists have directed considerable attention towards the ‘state’. In referring to the ‘state’, I refer to governmental institutions, both elective and administrative, at both local and national levels. In the developing world, states have complex and different formations, although most are moving towards democracy and neoliberalism in the global era. This is also the most visible form of power that we see as citizens. Prior to the establishment of the modern state, other institutions – including churches, clans, tribes and traditional authorities – upheld the rules and managed the processes related to the reproduction of life. The norms, symbols, rituals and traditions that are ascribed to a particular society are often referred to as culture. While culture in its essence is meant to be an uplifting force in societies, the realities are that culture and tradition can enable or obstruct; they can oppressive or liberating for different people at different times (Jolly, 2002). However, culture is not static. It changes and it is within this context that meanings are ascribed to terms such as gender, gender dynamics and gender roles in African society (Tamale, 2007). In looking at the reality of women’s lives, we have to understand that in many African countries, civil law exists alongside customary law. While the onset of democracy on the continent was meant to herald the promotion of equality for all, we still suffer from some very strong and outdated attitudes towards differences in genders and the rights of men or women. Very often, the project “For feminists, the dominance of men in this particular arena is but one of the key characteristics of a patriarchal state. While a significant number of women now occupy important positions in government and civil society, these women are challenged by the continued dominance of the ‘male discourse.” The State, Culture and Oppression The State, Culture and Oppression By Shamillah Wilson T block progress towards the goal of social transformation. Some he state as an institution has invariably colluded with patriarchy to oppress women, and this has been done through codification of cultural identities that advantage men and disadvantage women. This piece exposes the relationship between state, culture and oppression. In the past few decades, women’s and feminist movements have made great strides in advancing the rights of women. The engagement of women in international development processes following the United Nations Decade of Women (1975–85) signalled a transition for women’s movements – as they began developing holistic analyses of the issues impacting on women’s lives, and made connections between political, economic, social and cultural realities as well as between local, national and global spaces for organising and advocating. But reflecting on the current state of women’s rights, particularly on the African continent, gives us much to ponder on. The realities that women encounter on a daily basis include pervasive violence, economic inequality, and a struggle to survive conflict, environmental changes and a backlash in many places against the gains of recent decades. The fact that only 32 out of 54 African countries had signed the Protocol on Women’s Rights in Africa by the end of 2012 is indicative of the challenges that continue to would argue that 32 signatories is a success since there is no denying the importance of ensuring that we have the necessary national, regional and global legal instruments in place to tackle gender inequality. Yet, our reflections over time have made us realise that getting progressive policies adopted is but one step in a broader process since legislation on its own does not necessarily translate into broader gender equality nor has it really transformed the daily lives of many African women. Culturally, the patriarchal status quo remains relatively unchanged, and requires us to confront and challenge it unequivocally – and holistically. When considering how to move forward, what we know is that, despite the promise of our past successes, many activists now find themselves struggling – in the face of increasing conservatism – to hold the line and ensure that there are no further rollbacks of the important gains we have made. So as we search for more effective ways to engage and transform power, we have to ask ourselves why our current strategies and approaches seem inadequate in terms of the struggle to overcome poverty and injustice. To do this we need to understand the complexities of power and empowerment, and then we have to strategize about how best to respond to them in ways that use, build and transform power. Shamillah Wilson is an independent feminist consultant and life coach. She is based in South Africa, but her work has focused on women's human rights, young feminist leadership development and institutional development across the globe. 7 96 6 96
  • 6. makes sure that women remain monogamous. At the same time, the law does not disturb or challenge the polygynous sexuality of African men. A number of examples are telling in this regard. For instance, the tabling of the Traditional Courts Bill in South Africa in 2012 caused considerable debate. The bill will enable traditional leaders to be appointed presiding officers of traditional courts, where they will rule on both civil and criminal matters involving members of traditional communities. These presiding officers will be able to hand down fines, forced labour or, perhaps most controversially, remove ‘traditional benefits’. In the context of communal land ownership – common in most of South Africa’s traditional-authority areas – this includes access to land, which in turn translates into access to food, income and shelter. The ability to earn a living and feed one’s family will be dependent on the whims of traditional leaders. Legally, chiefs will rule over their subjects, making laws, deciding on cases and handing down punishments, with near complete control over people, law-making and access to benefits and land. This particular bill is set to have the most harmful impact on women. Already, in many traditional courts, women are not allowed to represent themselves or even speak during proceedings. This bill reinforces this by allowing for women to be represented by their husbands or family members (the bill prohibits legal representation in traditional courts) – entrenching existing discriminatory practices. In practice, many rural women already struggle with decisions by traditional authorities that regularly attempt to strip them of things like land access and inheritance rights. Other gaps include the fact that there is no explicit recognition of crimes such as physical and sexual abuse, which are currently considered private or ‘domestic’ matters not fit to be brought before a public court. Fortunately, the bill was withdrawn until further notice in late November 2012 (BuaNews, 2012), but the fact that such a dreadful bill could have been tabled in the first place highlights the on-going power of patriarchy in South Africa – in spite of the country’s progressive constitution. Similarly, in November 2012 in Swaziland, policy-makers opposed the protection of women from stalking. The senators argued that stalking was part of social and cultural norms and so proscribing it would violate the culture of Swazis. One senator went even further and decried the criminalization of forced marriages saying that the custom was important as it ensured that a girl’s father was able to benefit from his daughter’s marriage since the girl would be given to a man who has cattle to pay the bride price (Littlejohn, 2012). In enforcing progressive national legislation, the key challenge is influential religious and traditional leaders who use religion and culture to compromise the human rights of women. For "...there is no explicit recognition of crimes such as physical and sexual abuse, which are currently considered private or ‘domestic’ matters not fit to be brought before a public court." example, Liberia and Mali are obliged under Article 5 of the Protocol to enact laws that criminalise Female Genital Mutilation (FGM) but due to pressure from religious and traditional leaders they have, to-date, failed to honour this obligation. Article 14 on reproductive health rights is another sensitive issue with religious leaders and has resulted in Kenya and Uganda entering reservations against some sub-articles, while other countries have delayed ratification. In addition, some countries have taken issue with 18 years being the minimum age of marriage, even though all countries have ratified the UN Convention on the Rights of the Child (D’Almeida, 2011). In April 2013, Uganda considered a series of extraordinary measures, including one that would see women arrested for wearing skirts above the knee in public. The proposed law would mark a return to the era of Dictator Idi Amin, who banned short skirts by decree. The government-backed bill would also see many films and television dramas banned and personal internet use closely monitored by officials. Introduced by the Ethics and Integrity Minister, a former Catholic priest, the anti-pornography bill contends that there has been an ‘increase in pornographic materials in the Ugandan mass media and nude dancing in the entertainment world’. It proposes that anyone found guilty of abetting pornography faces a 10-million shillings (US$4,000) fine or a maximum of 10 years in jail, or both (AWID, 2013). The attacks on women’s bodies and freedoms even extend to slashing national budgets to deal with fiscal deficits. The effects on women are compounded. They range from increasing poverty among women, unemployment as shrinking budgets lead to job cuts in health care and education (industries where women predominate), and ultimately a situation where women suffer the consequences of the State’s inability to take care of its citizens. While there are specificities according to local contexts and traditions, the common trait behind these policies and practices is the desire to exercise control and to regulate sexual and human reproduction, which impacts most dramatically on the lives and that in most African states, colonial laws provided that the long arm of rights did not extend into the private or domestic sphere. In pluralist legal systems, this realm was basically governed by indigenous customs and cultures. Many post-independence African constitutions exempted personal (private) laws (e.g., marriage, divorce, adoption, burial, inheritance and succession) from the operation of the non-discrimination principle. In reality, males have created – and still create – political culture worldwide, so it is no surprise that male values, needs and ambitions dominate. Furthermore, in a context of increasing conservatism and religious fundamentalism, relationships between state and religious and cultural groups are governed by whether or not the state needs the help of those groups to consolidate its power. This type of power is referred to as hidden power (Venklasen et al, 2006). While religious and cultural groups may not be formal decision-makers (elected, appointed or otherwise), they nevertheless maintain their influence by controlling who gets to the decision-making table and what gets on the agenda. Hidden power works to exclude and devalue the concerns and representation of other less powerful groups, like women. In addition to controlling the public agenda and public debate, public and private institutions are often structured to systematically exclude and discriminate against certain types of people and ideas. We know that the family is a gendered space closely associated with women (albeit headed by men). Therefore, it follows that the African Protocol on the Rights of Women views women as the custodians of morals and traditional values. In as far as this holds true, when ‘rights’ and ‘culture’ are constructed as conflicting parallel systems, the points of contact between gender, rights and culture become extremely foggy. In other words, if African culture is synonymous with women, and the concepts of ‘rights’ and ‘culture’ continue to be viewed as being at odds with each other, then African women would first have to strip themselves of culture before enjoying their rights (Tamale, 2007). Ultimately, the perseverance of a patriarchal model of governance continues to make women the objects of political decisions that they do not shape politically, and which are biased towards men, especially male state bureaucrats, and traditional and cultural leaders. How does the patriarchal State collude to maintain women’s oppression? The response to who defines law depends on which law one is referring to. Where reference is made to state law, it is the state that defines the law through its established institutions and channels. It is the state again which takes responsibility for the implementation of such laws through the hierarchy of courts established under its judiciary and other quasi-judicial structures that may be in place. This view of the state as the sole definer of law is referred to as legal centralism. It puts the state and its structures at the centre of social order. Feminism recognises that there are regulatory forces other than the state, which the state takes into account. The multiple legal codes in operation in Africa are part of the colonial legacy and they reflect customary, religious and imported common law values. However, this reality raises questions about whose customary laws are recognised by the courts since custom and culture are dynamic. Feminism is concerned with the regressive interpretations of customary and religious law by courts. It is just as concerned about the individual rights of women as it is about communal rights that are espoused by customary law. The multiple legal codes commonly find application in family law matters such as marriage, inheritance, maintenance, custody of children and property ownership by women, which is where the personal status of women is determined. Women also take with them into the public arena the status already accorded them within the family. Adherence to patriarchal traditionalist values lends itself to a particularly masculinist terrain that promotes gender inequality in the operation of multiple legal codes. How this plays out in our lives is that the system of patriarchy ultimately works through a process of law to create a system that defines what it means to be men and women in a society. Veneklasen et al (2006) refer to this as invisible power. It is the most insidious of the three dimensions of power and – by influencing how individuals think about their place in the world – it shapes people’s beliefs, sense of self and acceptance of the status quo, including their own sense of superiority or inferiority as ‘natural’. This is how the process of socialization, culture and ideology perpetuate exclusion and inequality by defining what is normal, true and acceptable. These processes also help to make injustices like poverty and sexism invisible to the society at large, and make those who experience systematic discrimination the object of blame – indeed they often blame themselves. This is evident in how the structuring of family, institutionalisation of marriage and heteronormativity serve as effective gatekeepers for women, especially as the concepts are introduced at an early age and so they are internalized by both men and women. As noted by Tamale (2007), the main reasons why patriarchal, capitalist societies need to regulate and control the sexuality and reproductive capacity of women is to keep women’s bodies in the domestic arena, where as ‘decent wives’ and ‘good mothers’ they remain dependent on their breadwinner husbands. Secondly, and more importantly, it is supposed to guarantee the paternity and legitimacy of the children of the marriage. Guaranteeing paternity is considered vital to ensuring that descent through the male line is retained and that property is bequeathed to the husband’s offspring. In order to achieve this objective, the law The State, Culture and Oppression 9 96 8 96
  • 7. while the state is correctly seen as patriarchal and clearly biased against women, much of the (women’s) movement’s activism is, in fact, addressed to the state and carries a definite, albeit unarticulated expectation that the state will, or should, or must, support women’s rights and equality” (Shaheed 1997). References AFF (2006). Charter of Feminist Principles for African Feminists. African Feminist Forum AWID (2013). Uganda Bill criminalises mini-skirts http://www.awid.org/News-Analysis/Women-s- Rights-in-the-News2/Uganda-Bill-criminalises-miniskirts BuaNews (2012). Controversial Traditional Courts Bill withdrawn http://www.polity.org.za/article/controversial-traditional- courts-bill-withdrawn-2012-11-29 Chimtom, NK (2012). Giving women land, giving them a future http://farmlandgrab.org/post/view/21174 D’Almeida, M (2011). African Women’s Organizing for Ratification and Implementation of the Maputo Protocol http://awid.org/News-Analysis/Friday-Files/ African-Women-s-Organizing-for-the- Ratification-and-Implementation-of-the- Maputo-Protocol Dahlerup, D. (1987) ‘Confusing Concepts – Confusing Reality: A Theoretical Discussion of the Patriarchal State’ in A. Showstack Sassoon (ed) Women and the State. London: Hutchinson. Jolly, S (2002). Gender and Cultural Change. Overview Report. Bridge Cutting Edge Pack Kong, L.L.L. and Chan, J. ‘Patriarchy and Pragmatism: Ideological Contradictions in State Policies’, Asian Studies Review 24(4): 501-531. Littlejohn, Maureen (2012). Stalking in the Name of Culture. Date: 25 November 2012 http://maureenlittlejohn.com/2012/11/stalking-in- the-name-of-culture/ Shaheed, Farida. (1997) “Women, State and Power: The Dynamics of Variation and Convergence Across East and West” in Neelam Hussain, Samilya Mumtaz and Rubina Saigol. Engendering the Nation-State. Lahore: Simorgh Publications Tamale, S (2007). The Right to Culture and the Culture of Rights: A Critical Perspective on Women’s Sexual Rights in Africa, Sex Matter, Urgent Action Fund. 2007 Veneklasen, L, Valerie Miller, Lisa Veneklasen, Molly Reilly and Cindy Clark (2006 Making Change Happen: Power: Concepts for Revisioning Power for Justice, Equality and Peace. Just Associates. To that end, we have to challenge o bodies of women. Therefore, they link very closely with the political urselves with this quote: project of patriarchy to help keep women in the domestic sphere by depriving them of the possibility of developing their full potential. Moving forward We need to locate our strategies in the understanding of the changed political-economic context within which we work – a context of neo-liberal globalisation in which conservatism and fundamentalism fuel, and are fuelled by, ever-increasing militarization. In addition, we need to understand how this impacts on the range of African women’s rights but particularly our reproductive and sexual rights, and our capacity to address the violations we experience. Firstly, we need to come up with a combination of old and new-fangled ways of engaging with the decision-making and power structures of cultural and religious institutions. To do this, we need to map our possible allies and those who we can persuade to join in our efforts. It is important that we direct our efforts at all three levels of power – visible, invisible and hidden – in order to continue the fight for African women’s rights in the private sphere. Our articulation of the notion of democracy and how we conceive our states must be grounded in the idea of moving from purely representative democracies to more participatory ones. This implies moving our struggle for political participation beyond the usual debates about quantity and quality to debates on the governance structures we are participating in, and whether or not they facilitate active, participatory democracy – and how to ensure that they confront the very systemic characteristics of patriarchy. African women have fought patriarchy and male privilege for centuries. But we need new tools – new activist tools – that we have had a part in designing and formulating. Although we recognise the state as an important perpetuator of patriarchal power, it can also become a significant source of social reform even if the factors driving reform are not entirely pro-women. "African women have fought patriarchy and male privilege for centuries. But we need new tools – new activist tools – that we have had a part in designing and formulating. " The State, Culture and Oppression Photographed by K. Kendall 11 96 10 96
  • 8. When my application was finally considered, I was given a confirmation letter and a declaration of renunciation that I had to deliver to the Zambian embassy to denounce my Zambian citizenship – a citizenship I don’t believe I ever owned in the first place. The processing took a few days. It looked as though the Zambians were quite eager to offload me to someone else – although they (the Zimbabwean authorities) didn’t appear very eager to take me in! But at last I could now apply for a Zimbabwean passport. This whole experience made me wonder what citizenship really means. I now hold a Zimbabwean passport and citizenship, but I also now feel that I do not truly belong here. If I belonged here why did I have to struggle that much to get documentation? Had it not been for my education, I would not have gone through all the long processes required to get my hands on Zimbabwean citizenship. At least I am not now sitting at some border with an unknown citizenship status. But I wonder how many other people are sitting at various borders – not knowing who they are anymore. How many people have suffered because of the decisions that were made by their parents before they were even born? And what hope do they have when all the power to decide where they ‘belong’ resides with countries’ laws and regulations governing citizenship – particularly outdated patriarchal laws and regulations that still prioritise fathers – and is not necessarily based on their understanding of who they really feel they are? I sincerely think a better way to make such decisions should be considered. It troubled me for months that I could be treated as a foreigner after being born and living in a country for the first 18 years of my life – without ever leaving it. It broke my heart. I thought it was impossible for somebody to be said to belong nowhere. Surely everyone belongs somewhere? And I did not see why I had to suffer because my father was a Tumbuka born in Zambia, and I had no trace of him. Growing up, I never identified with my Zambian relatives whom I had never seen and had no desire or motivation – or indeed hope – of ever meeting. I thought I had nothing to do with them. In my current predicament I began to feel that at least being identified as one of them might have been much better than being said to belong nowhere. Since my father was not around to explain to me who the Tumbuka people are, I had to learn about their beliefs and practices from books and whenever I had an opportunity to interact with some of them. I felt forced to relate with people I really didn’t identify with. By then I was in the final year of my A level studies at school. I needed to belong somewhere: I had to be a citizen of some country to hold a passport, since I intended to go to university the following year. Since enrolments are limited at Zimbabwean universities, preference is often given to citizens, which would obviously hamper my citizenshipless chances. In addition, foreign students are required to pay double the tuition fees, and to apply for study permits. Without a passport, it would also be impossible for me to leave Zimbabwe to go to university abroad. My tertiary education and my future were now at stake. I felt my future slipping away from under my feet. I felt really disadvantaged by the system. I seriously considered exploring how to get Zambian citizenship. But I knew this was going to be another very long process and I knew that my mother did not have the capacity to finance all the necessary expenses. And since my family lives in Zimbabwe, it would be impossible for me to stay in Zambia and study there because I do not know anyone there, as we have failed to trace any of my father’s relatives. At this point in time, my urgent need for a passport meant that I was left with no option but to renounce my ‘foreign’ citizenship. I was informed that the process would take anything between six months to God-knows how many years! I was informed that there was an option to make an emergency application and that this would reduce the waiting time significantly. This made sense since it was an ‘emergency application’. But the reality soon dawned on me, as I joined the long and winding queues at the offices for these ‘emergency documents’. My greatest worry at this point was all the time I was spending in queues rather than in class – and I was in an important examination year: a critical year in my studies. Indeed, in my life. "Without a passport, it would also be impossible for me to leave Zimbabwe to go to university abroad. My tertiary education and my future were now at stake. I felt my future slipping away from under my feet. I felt really disadvantaged by the system." State, Culture and Oppression By Onai Hara Onai Hara is an undergraduate student at the University of Zimbabwe studying for a BA (Hons) in Social work. She is also an active youth volunteer with the CAAF Trust. She is particularly interested in helping orphans and vulnerable children and rural disadvantaged women to unlock their potential and discover their inherent purpose. never imagined that a simple act of processing identity documents – that I thought I was entitled to – could be I that demanding, complicated and tiresome. I soon realised that I had neither power nor control over the procedures as they are stipulated in statutory instruments. My father, being Zambian, migrated to work in Zimbabwe where he got married and where my siblings and I were born. This is where we have lived our entire lives. Even after my father left for Zambia (and never returned), we all remained and lived in Zimbabwe. This was about 15 years ago, and ever since then my siblings and I have been under the care of our mother. We were all raised among the local people and naturally shared the local norms, beliefs and languages: I speak all three of Zimbabwe’s official languages. I had a Zimbabwean birth certificate and national identity card. As far as I was concerned, this made me Zimbabwean. Indeed, nothing could have made me more Zimbabwean than that. And this was my blissful belief for the first 18 years of my life. How wrong I was! When I turned 18 my world changed completely. I confidently went to the passport offices to apply for passport. I was informed that it was impossible for me to apply for a passport as I did not a valid citizenship certificate with me. I was obviously confused since I had both a Zimbabwean identity card and a Zimbabwean birth certificate. Besides, for 18 years I had lived in the country, gone to school and had participated in all other normal activities – and at no point had I ever been asked to justify my nationality or citizenship. I needed someone to explain this bizarre situation to me. I was told that I was, in fact, citizenshipless – I was neither Zimbabwean nor Zambian. I wondered if this meant that I belonged nowhere. The explanation was that because my father was born in Zambia that also made me Zambian, even though I had never been to Zambia myself! Because my father held a Zambian passport, my own Zimbabwean national documents were now rendered irrelevant in deciding my citizenship. This meant I could not get a passport of the nationality that I had known myself to belong to my entire life. I couldn’t help but reflect on the fact that it had been 15 years since my father had left us in Zimbabwe, never to return and never to contact us again. However, this was just the beginning of my nightmare. The system in my home country (Zimbabwe) could not grasp that I was not a foreigner in this place – the land of my birth and home. Surely a Zimbabwean birth certificate and identity card confirmed my right to be a Zimbabwean? But apparently not. Indeed, the response wrecked my world: I was told that I was, in fact, citizenshipless – I was neither Zimbabwean nor Zambian. I wondered if this meant that I belonged nowhere. State, Culture and Oppression BUWA! A Journal on African Women's Experiences 13 100 12 100
  • 9. Introduction e put it up front that we disagree with each other about whether it is appropriate for men to call themselves feminist. On the one hand, Mbuyiselo is convinced that it is not only conceivable for men to be feminist, but that it is courageous and ethically desirable, and that (African male) feminism is an elaboration of ubuntu/ botho. As Mbuyiselo has said, and Kopano fully agrees, ubuntu/botho is a negation of any form of oppression, and feminism is thus an articulation of this philosophy of non-oppressive relationality that ‘I am because you are, and you are because I am’. “At the most simple level,” Mbuyiselo has said, “to be a feminist male means to embrace values that seek gender justice for all.” (Botha, 2012). On the other hand, Kopano feels that, given the power of words, the use of the term feminist for men should be used with caution. For him the best term for men working with women on gender equality is pro-feminist. This disagreement over what to call ourselves – feminist, pro-feminist, anti-patriarchal or antisexist men – may be significant at one or other point in time, but it only represents a difference in tactics. Frankly, we cannot consider what men call themselves to be as fundamental as their active support for struggles against gender inequality, sexual and gender-based violence, or any other issue relevant to women’s struggles against patriarchal domination. However, at the strategic objective level, it is important that men refrain from being opportunistic, hijacking or undermining the gains made by the women-led feminist movement. Indeed, we are in agreement that the struggle should be fought side-by-side, with women leading the gender struggle. The same lesson about who must lead different struggles for social justice was learned during the national liberation of South Africa – namely that the liberation struggle would be led by African people. “At the most simple level,” Mbuyiselo has said, “to be a feminist male means to embrace values that seek gender justice for all.” (Botha, 2012). It is important to underline that on several occasions we disagree with one another, and often enough challenge each other with love. This, we believe, is significant enough to make explicit. The debates Writing in the Introduction to the 1996 edition of Biko’s collected essays on black consciousness, I write what I like, his comrades Malusi and Thoko Mpumlwana (1996, page xiii), argued: ‘The struggle to re-order the attitudes and relationships of women themselves, between women and men…is as fundamental as the struggle ever was for the re-ordering of race relations for blacks in South Africa and the world.’ It was, of course. And it remains so to this day. What this seeks to demonstrate is that even though many political activists and scholars have tended to privilege one struggle over another – whether class over race, race over gender, gender over sexual orientation, or vice versa – particularly African and black women have lived within the strangling sense of being pressed to keep some parts of their lives in the dark. For instance, a number of African and black women authors have articulated the experience of being almost compelled to consider racial liberation as more urgent than gender rights, or the converse. In a similar vein, it is self-evident at this moment in our history that for South African black lesbians, transgender individuals and gay men, equality on the basis of gender and race without specific attention to sexual identities and freedom can mean the difference between death and life – that right on the basis of race does not protect one from violent injury. For these individuals, obviously the struggle for recognition of their gendered sexualities continues. For African and black women liberationists and feminists the world over – amongst whom there are, to be sure, important internal contestations – what the Mpumlwanas came to recognise goes without saying. Yet, if activists and critical writers also fail at times to see the forms of inequality as interlocking, it behoves us to talk more, teach better, protest more effectively, march longer and write more powerfully against race oppression (or gender, or other forms of oppression) to undermine the grid of injustice. In order to better perceive the nature and changing faces of inequality, men and women must come to see that the struggles against racialised inequality do not do away with the need to struggle against gender, sexual and economic inequalities and other forms of injustice. Inequality structures the world. Power over others is attractive and systemic. Through various channels, patriarchal power and heterosexism, just like racist domination, are rendered psycho-socially enjoyable to many men and women. The same is true for other kinds of power, with power related to money perhaps the clearest embodiment of the enjoyment that people derive from power over others. Oppression, then, takes W Profeminist Black Men: Engaging Women Liberationists, Undermining Patriarchy Profeminist Black Men: Engaging Women Liberationists, Undermining Patriarchy By Kopano Ratele and Mbuyiselo Botha Kopano Ratele is a Professor in the Institute of Social and Health Sciences at the University of South Africa (UNISA) and co-director of the Medical Research Council- UNISA Safety and Peace Promotion Research Unit. He has a range of scholarly and wider cultural interests including in the areas of violence, sexuality, race and traditions, and men and masculinities. He is chair of Sonke Gender Justice. Mbuyiselo Botha works for Sonke Gender Justice Network where he is responsible for media and government relations. He worked extensively as the dissemination officer for the International Red Cross based in South Africa in the 80s. He was a founder member of the South African Men’s Forum and is currently the secretary general of the Forum, where he deals with issues of advocacy, training and community based structure building. He is also a member of the national steering committee for the planning of the annual activities for the 16 Days of activism against violence against women and children campaign. Mbuyiselo co-hosts a weekly talk-show on Kaya FM (In conversation with men). In 2007, then President of South Africa Thabo Mbeki expressed his appreciation for Mbuyiselo’s work with men to enhance gender equality in South Africa. Simply for men to be present in the room when important explicit discussions of gender inequality are being held, to be listening without being dominant, and to be on the side of the interests of gender equality, is a game changer. – Sisonke Msimang, 2013. The power of patriarchy has been to make maleness feared and to make men feel it is better to be feared than to be loved. – bell hooks, 2004. 15 BUWA! A Journal on African Women's Experiences 100 14 100
  • 10. easier and concern ourselves with the gender politics of another stalwart of the national liberation struggle, current president of the ANC and head of state of South Africa, Jacob Zuma (cf., Ratele 2006). Or we could delve deeper into the sexual politics of the expelled leader of the ANC Youth League, Julius Malema, for which Mbuyiselo Botha and Sonke Gender Justice Network took him to the Equality Court and won1 (see Ratele, Shefer & Botha 2011). Or, because as we write this we are challenged by and could respond to the retrogressive discourse of gender represented by the businessman and television personality Kenny Kunene and his fifteen or more girlfriends who know each other and live in his house and are currently dominating the South Africa media space2, we could concern ourselves with that discourse of black masculinity. However, we cannot only take the seemingly easy cases. It is a belief that we hold dear that sometimes we must resist the urge to go along. The fact is there are many reactionary discursive currents undermining the development of anti-patriarchal masculinities in South Africa that must be addressed. These include the hyper-visible pattern of masculinity, which tends to be most attractive to certain kinds of mass media that champions consumption as is represented by Kunene and other prominent men. It seems to us that Kunene and more generally masculinity (and gender) that revolves around capitalist consumption are attractive to the media for the very reason that they are an effective check against the real liberation of young black men and women from capitalist patriarchy: they send confusing messages about sexual relationships, money, masculinities and femininities. Secondly, there is a resurgent traditionalist gender position that seeks to recreate tribalistic masculinities and femininities, represented by traditional and political leaders such as Chief Phatekile Holomisa3 and the king of the Zulus, Goodwill Zwelithini.4 President Zuma also sometimes employs a discourse based on Zulu culture and tradition to support his gender and sexual practices.5 One of the main problems with gender traditionalism is its refusal to critically reflect on the contents of culture and tradition as prejudiced against women and supportive of an injurious patriarchy (Ratele 2013). While cognisant of the differences within women’s movement and gender activism, as well being aware of many feminists who work with men, there is, thirdly, a discourse that appropriates gender talk to argue that men cannot change. This discourse may also be tied to a view that is largely indifferent to men’s lives except in connection to violence against women. bell hooks (2006) suggests that this type of reformist talk sees gender ‘freedom as simply women having the right to be like powerful patriarchal men’ (as opposed to being like ‘poor and working class men’). Interestingly, this reactionary discourse mirrors the monist antiracist discourse (that we started with above), which understands black men’s social condition as primarily a result of white racism, thus minimising black men’s and women’s oppression by (both white and black) patriarchy. It must be obvious that we regard both racism and patriarchy, among others, as imprisoning black men (and women) from living truly free lives. Defining ourselves as black in the way Biko spoke of blackness is to learn to question the prevailing socio-political and economic order. To claim to be Biko’s black (as opposed to non-white) is the beginning of the process of unlearning a still hegemonic view of what it means to be a black in the world. Yet Biko’s black subject needs a sex, a gender. He – although, as shown above, the subject at times is a she – needs a liberating sex/gender education. Liberated black manhood is about, in our view, a questioning attitude towards the patriarchal and sexual, not only the racial, order. Black manhood is a gender value, not only a racial attitude. Progressive black masculinity is a stance and a perspective on the patriarchal, heterosexist, white world – where all the terms carry equitable weight, although we are well aware that these are not exhaustive of all the terms in the struggle for justice and equality. We are not aware of whether Malusi and Thoko Mpumlwana were gender and queer activists. However, what is clear from their Introduction is that to come to be part of struggles whose aim is to make wider society realise that we are not only black, men (and women) need a consciousness of women’s liberation and feminist struggles. The transformation of black men into active supporters of gender and sexual equality demands engaging in deliberate education for social justice. It is only through a consciousness of women’s liberation struggles and feminist insights that men come to appreciate that a racist injury is no worse than sexist traumatisation. It will not happen by itself that men (and women) comprehend the fact that sexual and gender-based violence is a systematic weapon of hetero-patriarchal masculinity. (Again, we admit, the picture is more complex, the violence more entwined). Conscientisation in feminism and women’s liberation struggles is the surest route towards grasping the perversity of the patriarchal condition, where biological femaleness reduces a person to the status of a perpetual minor or second class citizen – and to voicelessness. It might be obvious to many people, but it is important to state this: we are not only men. We are also well-employed, black, heterosexual subjects. While critical work with men and masculinities gives privileged focus to men as a gender, to the constitutive power of gender in relation to racial order, the converse is also vital to understand. In other words, we need to understand black men’s gender construction from the location of race. If some men see their problem with gender equality as caused by the colonial destabilisation of Profeminist Black Men: Engaging Women Liberationists, Undermining Patriarchy on various entrancing guises in different contexts. As such, women’s and men’s struggles are ultimately always against unjust power. It is not against symptomatic injustice that we ultimately struggle. Although it might be urgent at different points of history and in different contexts to mount resistance, it is not merely against isolated oppressive acts of racism, gender and sexual violence, economic exclusion, nationalism, culturally oppressive practices, or any other monistic view of oppression that we need to fight. For black women and men especially, it would appear that this view of struggle as more than simply against any single form of injustice would be obvious. Evidently, it is not. To be sure, all of us are given daily mis-education about how to think about the world and our own lives through various means (actually induced and estranged from thinking for ourselves) – with the media, formal education system and our social relationships being the most powerful vehicles in this process of alienation. Therefore, none of us can do without on-going critical political education or conscientisation. The Mpumlwanas also noted that, while they shared Biko’s passion for the liberation of black people from apartheid, they slowly came to admit the masculinist politics of Biko’s emancipatory project. Their insight possibly provides the foundation for the transformation of (antiracist) black men’s masculinities. The two activists observed that the experience of being oppressed because of one’s sex is no less, and no more, than being subjugated because of one’s skin colour. Even then, the two black consciousness activists would also state that the gender prejudices in Biko’s work must be seen in the context of his historical period, and that Biko was a product of his time. But this reads like a careful attempt not to say something negative about Biko. It comes across as a justification for the gender biases that characterised Biko’s politics. The truth is that Biko was ahead of his time in many ways. He was a man who did not quietly accept what the apartheid government intended black people to be – docile, unquestioning and politically unaware. He stood up against the racial order that wanted to put him in his subservient black place. He questioned the world not only for himself. As part of the founders of a new progressive movement in South Africa, he led black people towards the on-going task of imagining themselves anew. In initiating projects informed by a self-belief in black abilities and beauty, he started the continuing endeavour to give a new content to blackness in South Africa. And Biko’s inquiring attitude was not only directed at the racist system. He also questioned his would-be student fellow-travellers in the then dominant white-led student organisation, the National Union of South African Students (NUSAS), and led a walkout from the organisation. He convincingly rejected the representations about black conditions from both the white and black media as contained in his ‘Letter to SRC presidents’ (Biko, 1996). And, publically, he cuttingly questioned the recognised black political leaders, including the leaders of the African National Congress (ANC), the Pan-Africanist Congress of Azania and the South African Communist Party, and stalwarts of the national liberation struggles – such as Nelson Mandela, Oliver Tambo and Robert Sobukwe, let alone people like Gatsha Buthelezi and other homeland leaders. In brief, if Biko was a product of his patriarchal racist time, he was, thankfully, a bad factory design both for apartheid and the conservative black order. For his insubordination, his psycho-political acumen in relation to the workings of power, Biko is the best starting point for black conscious men committed to gender equality. The key point here is that we could make our lives all of us are given daily mis-education about how to think about the world and our own lives through various means (actually induced and estranged from thinking for ourselves) – with the media, formal education system and our social relationships being the most powerful vehicles in this process of alienation. 17 100 16 100 BUWA! A Journal on African Women's Experiences
  • 11. References Biko, Stephen B. 1996. I Write What I Like. London: Bowerdean Publishing. Botha, Mbuyiselo. 6 October 2012. I may be a proud feminist, but I am no sissy. City Press. Retrieved 17 April 2013 from http://www. citypress.co.za/Columnists/I-may-be-a-proud-feminist- but-I-am-no-sissy-20121006/. hooks, bell. 2004. The Will to Change: Men, Masculinity, and Love. New York: Washington Square Press. Mohanty, Chandra Talpade. Under Western Eyes: Feminist Scholarship and Colonial Discourses. Feminist Review 30 (1988): 61-88. Mpumlwana, Malusi & Mpumlwana, Thoko 1996. ‘Introduction’, in Biko, Stephen B. I Write What I Like (x-xxiv). London: Bowerdean Publishing. Msimang, Sisonke 2013. ‘Chairperson’s Letter’ in Sonke Gender Justice Network Annual Report: March 2011 – February 2012. Johannesburg/ Cape Town: Sonke Gender Justice Network. www.genderjustice.org,za. Ratele Kopano 2006. Ruling masculinity and sexualities. Feminist Africa 6, 48-64. Ratele, Kopano 2013. Masculinity without Tradition. Politikon: South African Journal of Political Studies, 40:1, 133-156. Ratele Kopano, Shefer Tammy and Botha Mbuyiselo. 2011. Navigating past “the white man’s agenda” in South Africa: Organizing men for gendered transformation of society, in Elisabetta Ruspini, Jeff Hearn, Bob Pease and Keith Pringle (eds), (2011) Men and Masculinities Around the World: Transforming Men’s Practices (Global Masculinities Series) (247-259). New York: Palgrave MacMillan. SAPA (23 January 2012). ‘Zwelithini: Gay comment was a ‘reckless translation’’. Mail & Guardian. Available online at http://mg.co.za/ article/2012-01-23-zwelithini-gay-comment-was- a-reckless-translation/ (accessed 11 May 2012). Endnotes 1. Julius Malema, ex-president of the African National Congress Youth League, told a meeting of students in January 2009 that when a woman didn’t enjoy it, she leaves early in the morning. Those who had a nice time will wait until the sun comes out, request breakfast and ask for taxi money.” Malema’s comments were an oblique response to the woman who had taken ANC president and current head of the state Jacob Zuma to court for rape in 2006. Zuma was acquitted of the charge. At the time, the Young League leader appeared to be close to Jacob Zuma, the president of the mother body, the ANC. Malema has since been expelled from the ANC for behaviour unrelated to his sexism. 2.See Charles Cilliers 7 April 2013. Inside the Sushi King’s sexy Sandton harem. City Press. Retrieved 17 April 2013 from http://www.citypress.co.za/entertainment/ inside-the-sushi-kings-sexy-sandton-harem/. For feminist responses see, e.g., Lizl Morden April 15 2013 The case of Kenny Kunene and the 15 girlfriends. FeministsSA. com. Retrieved 17 April 2013 from http:// feministssa.com/2013/04/15/the-case-of- kenny-kunene-and-the-15-girlfriends/; Pumla Gqola 14 April 2013 Sushi King’s monster’s ball. City Press. Retrieved 17 April from http://www.citypress.co.za/ columnists/sushi-kings-monsters-ball/ 3. Chief Phatekile Holomisa, Head of the Congress of Traditional Leaders and an ANC member of parliament, was reported to have said that “homosexuality was a condition that occurred when certain cultural rituals have not been performed.” He also said that the National House of Traditional Leaders “wants to remove a clause from the Constitution which protects people on the grounds of sexual orientation.” (Rossouw, 2012, p. 5). 4.In 2012, the Zulu monarch was reported to have called people with same-sex desires ‘rotten’. According to media reports, King Zwelithini said, “Traditionally, there were no people who engaged in same-sex relationships. There was nothing like that and if you do it, you must know that you are rotten. I don’t care how you feel about it. If you do it, you must know that it is wrong and you are rotten. Same sex is not acceptable.” The king was speaking during the 133rd commemoration of the Battle of Isandlwana at Nquthu in northern KwaZulu- Natal. (Mdletshe 2012, SAPA 2012) 5. See Pillay, Verashni (22 Aug 2012). Zuma: Women must have children. Mail & Guardian Online. Retrieved 18 April from http://mg.co.za/article/2012-08- 21-zuma-women-must-have-children. their culture by western white traditions, we cannot afford to be dismissive of such views. We exist within orbits of hegemony and subordination. Therefore, to be successful, anti-patriarchal black projects on masculinity must grapple with not one issue – patriarchy only – but rather with all of the entangled roots of inequality. Concluding reflections Our disagreements notwithstanding, we are clear about what connects us. Above all, we are connected by the idea that for men like us both patriarchy and racism hurt our health. We are agreed that the aim of the project to liberate black masculinities is to challenge the twinned ideologies of male and white superiority (as well as other social injustices). We are opposed to sexual and gender-based violence and hetero-patriarchal racial power. We seek to reveal the deleterious effects of men’s gender power over women. After the feminist insight by, for example, Chandra Talpade Mohanty (1988) – and significantly, other feminists from the global South or black American feminists – who showed that women are not an ahistorical, universal and fixed category, we are aware that men are not homogenous and that due to their economic, racial, political, cultural and sexual positions they have power over other men. We challenge the structural and episodic violence of, and on, men. We want to contribute to founding new forms of healthy manhood. Following bell hooks, we think our work in partnership to feminist women and gender activists is to show that ‘patriarchal culture continues to control the hearts of men precisely because it socializes males to believe that without their role as patriarchs they will have no reason for being’ (hooks, 2004, page 115). This is, then, what we learned from the black consciousness movement and the struggle for national liberation more generally. We learned to love justice for all women and men. We learned to learn from women, to listen without fear, aggression, or prejudice. We learned to question power. We learned about what a critical black self-awareness as part of identities entails. We learned to love ourselves quietly again. We learned, therefore, that we would never be true to ourselves if we went back to an obedient, unreflective ‘yes baas’ kind of existence. A reflective, profeminist black view implies always approaching our condition and practices as heterosexual, married, men and black with a constructive questioning attitude. It entails always examining and ‘doing’ race, gender, sexuality and other categories within which we are socially positioned, and all men’s and women’s practices more generally, with a critical eye. Thus, whereas we learn from the anti-racist project of the black consciousness movement to love blackness and overcome the ideology of white superiority, from feminism we learn to reject male superiority and to create new self-definitions that liberate masculinities from patriarchal, homophobic and capitalist power. Out of these lessons, we come to the conclusion that what we are doing in claiming the space of profeminist African masculinities is engaging in the process of contributing towards moulding a different social order that will allow out children to flourish. We are investing in the future where the boys and girls we are raising can live in a world where they can be anything they set their minds to be. There are times when we recognise that we might not get to such a world ourselves. Nonetheless, with Martin Luther King in mind, we see ourselves as fertilising the ground for a future where girls are educated for a feminist, confident, happier and healthier life, and black boys and white boys genuinely believe – in their hearts and not just their brains – in girls’ and women’s rights to their own views, goals, feelings, bodies, health and independent lives. In that future, boys are also empowered with a progressive education, which prepares them for an egalitarian, democratic, non-violent and healthier life. “Out of these lessons, we come to the conclusion that what we are doing in claiming the space of profeminist African masculinities is engaging in the process of contributing towards moulding a different social order that will allow our children to flourish." Profeminist Black Men: Engaging Women Liberationists, Undermining Patriarchy 19 100 18 100 BUWA! A Journal on African Women's Experiences
  • 12. In many African communities, the initiation rite constitutes a very crucial stage in an individual’s life. The initiation rites symbolize the transition from boyhood to manhood. During this process, boys are exposed to community traditions so that they can learn how to behave. They are trained to become full community members. It is a very influential process and strongly affects what individuals subsequently consider to be wrong or right. Initiation rites are perhaps one of the most ‘definitive’ of all the rituals – during which we are told about social expectations, about who we must be, and about what we are permitted to think, speak and experience (Osório 2009). For that reason, when I learned about this gang rape, I first felt deeply sorry for the young lady, whose life was in great danger and whose future had been so viciously and seriously compromised – particularly given the fact that there are significant institutional, political and economic challenges that limit the support that can be given to survivors of sexual violence in Mozambique. Indeed, the double victimization of women survivors of violence is very common practice even within those institutions that are supposed to be supportive and helpful such as the police and hospitals. But I also asked myself why she was subjected to such a punishment. What makes a group of young men rape a woman as if it is a natural thing to do? And I felt deeply concerned about the expectations that were being created among the boys as future full community members. They were being taught to look at women’s bodies as objects and without any kind of restraint. The rape of a young woman during such a critical social shaping process will create an even stronger belief in men’s dominance over women – and ensure that men’s ‘right’ to engage in similar practices will be dangerously reinforced. In my understanding, this is particularly worrying in a context of highly sexualized masculinities. Indeed, several studies (Matsinhe 2005, Macie and Maharaj 2011, Ratele 2011) have shown that in most of our so-called ‘African cultures’, the male identity tends to be strongly sexualized. To a large extent, it is constructed around sexual experiences and attitudes towards sex and women that shape, and are shaped by, men’s conceptions about what is it to be (or not to be) a real man. Examples of how sex is a significant constitutive theme in dominant masculinity narratives includes the fact that “it is closely associated with our sexual partners, their sexual appeal, the size of our penises, the claims that we make about our sexual stamina, whether we can maintain a healthy erection and how virile we are.” (Ratele 2011, page.399) From youth to adulthood, we tend to over value our sexual performance, which is commonly reduced to penetration and long lasting intercourse. We often refrain from engaging in expressions of sexuality that involve a strong component of communication, endearment, tenderness or any demonstration of emotion since this is not supposedly part of the male world. Usually, a man who shows ‘too much’ affection, particularly to a woman, is likely to be ridiculed by his peers and to have his manhood questioned. How many of us have never felt embarrassed when using terms of endearment such as ‘darling’, ‘sweetheart’ and ‘baby’ in our relationships? How easy has it been for us to say ‘I love you!’ to our beloved people? It is not surprising that in our masculinity narratives we usually tend to represent ourselves as sexually skilful and successful. This is often expressed through stories of seduction and sexual stamina, which often resemble ‘olympic’ endurance competitions. It is also noteworthy that having a sexual narrative seems to be of vital importance to many of us – so that we can confirm and reconfirm our manhood with others. Even if we have to make up a story, in one way “To many of us, there is nothing more frightening than to be seen as sexually weak! The idea that we can also have challenges in our sexual life – such as early ejaculation, infertility or erectile problems – is unimaginable." or another we seek to demonstrate how knowledgeable and experienced we are in sexual matters. This is probably one of the reasons why we sometimes find almost ridiculous gaps between what some men tell about their sexual experiences and what they really do or even know about sex. To many of us, there is nothing more frightening than to be seen as sexually weak! The idea that we can also have challenges in our sexual life – such as early ejaculation, infertility or erectile problems – is unimaginable. The construction of a friendship with a woman is also impossible for many of us because we fail to regard women’s bodies as anything other than an exclusive place for ‘realising our manhood’. Any woman we meet is a potential target for our sexual satisfaction. Yet, male erotic stories – regardless of their accuracy or not – play an important role in the construction and reproduction of friendships among men as well as in shaping the masculine ethos. Notions of Sex, Masculinity and Manhood in African Cultures Notions of Sex, Masculinity and Manhood in African Cultures By Julio Langa n January 2012, a very shocking sexual assault was reported in one of the I main Mozambican daily newspapers.1 A group of 17 young men, supported by their ‘spiritual leader’ raped a young woman in the northern city of Pemba. As reported in the newspaper, these young men were going through an initiation rite, which was taking place in an area relatively isolated from the rest of the community members. This event – as commonly happens in many other similar rituals and practices in African communities – is surrounded by a set of fixed prohibitions and norms that should guide the behaviour of those being initiated, but also their relationship with others during Julio Langa is a Mozambican trained in Social Science and Anthropology at Eduardo Mondlane University in Maputo. In the past 8 years, he has been working in the field of social work, research and human rights. He has worked with national and international institutions such as the Foundation for Community Development, UN Women, Forum Mulher, Engender Health and Helvetas as a Programme Manager, consultant, trainer and activist. Julio is co-founder of the Men for Change Network (HOPEM), a civil society movement dedicated to the advancement of healthy masculinities, education for gender equality and peace building in Mozambique. Currently he is the National Coordinator of HOPEM. the course of the initiation. This event tends to be strongly mystified and sanctified so that people are not supposed to talk about it or question it. In this case, the victim was raped, allegedly, because she knowingly and repeatedly ‘profaned’ the geographical (and symbolic) limits that were established between the initiation site and the other community areas. Therefore, she was brutally ‘sentenced’ to terrifyingly violent sexual punishment. This act of aggression was extremely outrageous and problematic in many ways. On the one hand, the victim was subjected to an unbelievably horrific experience in which a number of her fundamental rights – enshrined in Mozambique’s constitution and laws – were violated. On the other hand, it also explicitly revealed a lot about the values, attitudes and behaviour of young men towards women that are perpetuated in the name of culture and tradition. In this case, we had a striking example of how masculine mentality and practices can totally women’s human rights. Furthermore, this kind of violation promotes a sense of entitlement among boys and men, which legitimates their punishment of women whenever they think it is necessary. It also sent a very clear message about male supremacy over women’s bodies. BUWA! A Journal on African Women's Experiences 21 100 20 100
  • 13. and unemployment many men have not been able to conform to this ideal of masculinity. Therefore, they have been using sexuality to compensate for this ‘lost’ of social power. In this context, sexuality and violence are reactions to this ‘crisis’ in traditional masculinity. These men strive to keep their manhood by sexually dominating their partners, being unfaithful and living a life of very liberal sexuality. Violence against women is also an apparent alternative to not having economic power, particularly for young men who cannot provide their partners with gifts and money (Groes- Green 2009). The idea behind this trend is that if I am not economically successful at least I am successful in seducing women and I can offer erotic experiences through good sexual performance and skills. Thus, they try to preserve some control over women through sexuality (Aboim 2008 and Groes-Green 2009). In this context, it is not surprising that 54 percent of female respondents to a survey on violence against women reported having suffered some sort of male physical and/or sexual violence at some point in their lifetime (MMAS 2004). Among young men, there are several myths about not having sex. In one group discussion with young men that I attended, it was said that if you do not have sex for long time ‘you will be nervous all the time’, ‘you will become infertile’ and ‘you can even go crazy’. In Mozambique, the pressure for young people to behave according to the standards expected by their peers is often symbolized by the notion of ‘matreco’. This expression is very popular in young men’s slang all over the country and it has an equivalent word with a similar meaning in almost all native languages. It carries a number of ambivalent and negative connotations about men’s attitudes and behaviour, particularly in the context of sexuality. The ‘matreco’ is, for instance, a man who is not sexually pro-active or ever seen with a female partner; is unable to make many girls his girlfriends or sexually ‘satisfy’ them; cannot keep his girlfriend ‘under control’; does not show ‘attitude’ or shows ‘too much’ sensitivity; and demonstrates ‘women-like’ attitudes and behaviour, such as talking about his feelings, being too emotional etc. This notion of ‘matreco’ is dangerous to young men and women. Under this kind of categorisation, young people grow up believing that the use of strength to address interpersonal relationship challenges – as well as (self) exclusion from sexual and reproductive responsibilities – is quite acceptable for a man. And they end up engaging in a sexual culture conducive to HIV infection and sexual dominance over women. Some final thoughts Undoubtedly, the sexual terrain is one of the central loci of masculinity and male power in our societies. The attempt by many men to behave according to predominant and strongly sexualized forms of masculinity explains a number of challenges that we face today in the field of sexuality and human rights. Existing values and beliefs in the society as a whole, along with specific expectations placed on male individuals, also create a favourable context for many men to engage in dangerous masculinities. In this article I gave a few examples on how men tend to express masculinity and sexuality. This is something which has only been possible with the active – or silent – complicity of many of our cultural institutions. I did not intend to generalise the ideas or examples that I raised in this article (it is known that masculinity can take many forms and interact with several factors according to specific contexts) but simply to interrogate problematic notions of sex and masculinities. Indeed, I think it is time for us, as men, to challenge all harmful views, beliefs and values about what it means to be a man, particularly those concepts that are harmful to women but often negative to us too. While the kind of men that we are today is a result of how we have been socialised within a broad set of social institutions, we should never forget that through the same processes of socialisation it is possible to unlearn gender and masculinity myths. Besides, social institutions can also be changed. There is evidence that we can make changes in the way we deal with sexuality and other issues constitutive of masculinity. A World Health Organization study (WHO 2007) came to the conclusion that the behaviour and attitudes of men and boys that have often been considered unchangeable can, actually, be changed and lead to better health outcomes for men, their partners, families and children. Therefore, seeking change in our masculinities is not only beneficial for the millions of "These men strive to keep their manhood by sexually dominating their partners, being unfaithful and living a life of very liberal sexuality. Violence against women is also an apparent alternative to not having economic power..." The issue of male engagement with multiple partners is one of the most visible consequences of the phallocentric construction of masculinity. It has been widely discussed and recognised as one of the main drivers of the HIV epidemic, which needs to be addressed in public policies and programmes across Africa. In fact, to be (or at least to be seen as) sexually competent, especially in the eyes of other men, is usually ‘rewarding’ to our manhood. This ‘competence’ includes always being ready for a sexual adventure and placing a high value on ‘success’ with women, which is often translated into engagement with several partners and efforts to have sex without any emotional involvement. These are very prominent elements of manhood in our context. They are also part of the most desirable and celebrated forms of manhood. Usually, these elements come with the notion that we, as men, know all about sex and sexuality and that we understand the matter better that women – therefore we have to teach them everything. But, deplorably, often the basic physical characteristics of sex are all that we know about sexuality. It seems to me that we are still very far from a comprehensive understanding of sexuality. So, as we tend to place sex at the centre of our relationships, our sexual stamina is like a natural weighing-machine that tells us how manly we are. Having an erect penis (the tusa or kustumba in southern Mozambique) is apparently the most important thing in our lives. Judging by the way we tend to overestimate and ‘obey’ our erect penises, one would end up thinking that the rest of the body is part of the penis and not the other way round – or even that sexual desire is above any other human need. To a large extent, the male power in the society is built on a functional and active penis. Our sexuality and, therefore, our manhood are generally phallocentric. This explains, partially, why we seek to demonstrate the functionality of our penises or exercise their erections in many problematic ways – from using our status to get sex (in schools, workplaces etc.) to having many kids with different women to engaging in sex with multiple partners. In many cases, the centrality of the tusa to our self-(or sex-) esteem results in sexual assaults and other abusive behaviour towards women. Almost madly we tend to create a number of arguments to sustain our efforts to praise and satisfy our penises. One of the most common arguments is that having several female partners is an inherent characteristic of what we call ‘African culture’ – so people should not deny their own cultures. Some men also believe that having sex with several partners is very important to their health as much as we need to eat different kinds of food (Macie and Maharaj, 2011) so “a man cannot eat the same food every day, he needs to have a varied diet.” (Matsinhe 2005, page.167) Another ‘reason’ is that having a lot of sex, including with several partners, is natural because men have greater sexual needs than women. (Matsinhe 2005, Macie and Maharaj, 2011) The issue of male engagement with multiple partners is one of the most visible consequences of the phallocentric construction of masculinity. It has been widely discussed and recognised as one of the main drivers of the HIV epidemic, which needs to be addressed in public policies and programmes across Africa. Research in Mozambique shows that the violation of women’s sexual rights is also one of the root causes of the HIV/AIDS epidemic. Many young men are still growing up believing that having several partners is an indicator of real manhood. In addition, the perception that the man is the one who has to take control and make decisions about a couple’s sexual life is common among young people (Cruz e Silva, Teresa e Andrade, Ximena 2006) since they are socialised to be the ‘head’ of the relationship with their female partners (Groes-Green 2009). Among certain groups of men, sexuality seems to be the last bastion of their masculinity. According to some studies (Aboim 2008 and Groes-Green 2009), economic dynamics where men are not necessarily the main breadwinners any more have challenged traditional conceptions of masculinity. Traditionally, male power over women was based on the man’s financial authority and ability to provide for the family, along with sexual dominance. However, due to the dynamics of poverty Notions of Sex, Masculinity and Manhood in African Cultures BUWA! A Journal on African Women's Experiences 23 100 22 100
  • 14. Mixed Messages: The Ideological Schizophrenia of Men’s Organizing Around Fathering By Stephanie Leitch Stephanie Leitch is a social activist and conceptual artist. Her work focuses on issues of gender equality through performance and organizing. Her mediums include installation, public space intervention, street theatre and film. Stephanie is currently pursuing a Master's Degree at the Institute of Gender and Development Studies UWI, St. Augustine and has been a tutor within the department for the past three years. In line with her popular alias Barefoot Contessa, Stephanie produces the series Barefoot Trails on the Caribbean's premiere art magazine ARC's web-platform, as well as weekly features at the Trinidad Express WOMAN magazine. n the Caribbean, there are a number of men’s groups who advocate for the rights of men and one of their primary concerns is parenting. Considering the extensive theorising around ‘male absenteeism’ in the region by both Anglo and Caribbean scholars in an attempt to explain dysfunctional Caribbean homes, this recent phenomenon of male activism around father’s rights takes on some level of poetic irony. According to the Single Father’s Association of Trinidad and Tobago (SFATT), the reason that so many female-headed households exist in the Caribbean is not because men are absent but because they have been forcibly pushed out of their children’s lives. As a result, their attempts to achieve ‘equality’ within the legal justice framework in relation to custody and visitation rights have been consistently anti-woman and anti-feminist in their approach. In other words, women and mothers have become the new enemy of functional families, even though the ways families are seen as functioning has shifted. Renowned Caribbean feminist scholar Rhoda Reddock argues that a ‘new men’s movement’ emerged in the Caribbean in the 1990s. Some of the more active groups concerned with parenting across the region include the Caribbean Male Action Network (CARIMAN), Fathers Incorporated (recently re-named ‘The Barry Chevannes Fathers' Resource Centre) in Jamaica, the Men’s Educational Support Association (MESA) in Barbados, and the SFATT. According to Reddock, men’s groups typically take one of three forms: men’s rights that seek to ‘regain’ rights that have been taken; conservative men’s groups that advocate for a reversion to the ‘ways things were’ based on a divine or religious basis; and pro-feminist men’s groups, which are committed to rethinking masculinity and acknowledging how traditional gender roles have been detrimental to women and men. Some positive examples of male organising include the regional organisation CARIMAN, which is widely cross-sectional in its advocacy and committed to gender justice, and Fathers Incorporated, which was founded by one of the Caribbean’s most significant male feminist scholars and activists Barry Chevannes. However, the work of these groups is not very visible for a number of reasons. Despite the ambition and promises of the Caribbean Community Secretariat (CARICOM), many island states remain disconnected from each other and civil society organisations have not been much more successful in establishing sustainable networks at a regional level. Notions of Sex, Masculinity and Manhood in African Cultures I References Aboim, Sofia (2008) “Masculinidades Violence and Sexual Performance Among MMAS (2004) National Survey on Violence na encruzilhada: hegemonia, dominação Young Mozambican Men” in Nordic Against Women. 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Engaging men and comportamento sexual dos homens em boys in changing gender-based Groes-Green, Christian (2009) “Hegemonic Moçambique” in; Teles, Nair et al (orgs) inequity in health: Evidence from and Subordinated Masculinities: Class, Mosaico Sociólogico. Maputo: UEM programme interventions. Geneva Endnotes 1. Noticias 14 de Janeiro de 2012. Maputo women whose bodies have been used as the terrain for many of us to exert our dominance but also to our own health. It is an opportunity to develop knowledge and skills that will allow us to fully enjoy positive and healthy expressions of sexuality, which we have been neglecting for the sake of being a superman. The idea of ‘African culture’ as an excuse to continue practices that violate women’s human rights seems to me, in many ways, a very difficult argument to sustain. There are not any attitudes or behaviours that are essentially ‘African’, that would genuinely distinguish us from the rest of the world and that are not subjected to historical and social change. Furthermore, the complete welfare of African women and girls – a reality that has been historically denied and continuously postponed in most of our countries – should be placed above any culture. We should consider it an ultimate goal in itself. As men, I think we have a huge responsibility towards the women of our communities. Praising our cultures should not hinder the advancement of human rights. We should redirect the efforts that we tend to waste on realising our manhood into addressing the challenges that many women face as a result of our own behaviour and discriminatory social institutions. For me, this is what it means to be more responsible to the society that we are part of! BUWA! A Journal on African Women's Experiences 25 100 24 100