Affective Sexuality
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This document discusses sexuality from multiple perspectives. It views sexuality as a sacred, creative energy given by God that is more than just genital pleasure. It explores three aspects of sexuality: primary sexuality relating to gender identity, genital sexuality regarding sexual expressions and attractions, and affective sexuality involving emotions, love, feelings and intimate relationships. Affective sexuality requires mature expression of emotions and healthy integration of sexual energy. The document also examines relationships, emotions, needs, and signs of healthy affective sexuality such as self-awareness, tolerance of others, and a basic security and trust in relationships.
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We are more interested in, drawn to, and fond of people we find physically attractive
Why does physical attractiveness matter so much?
Biological Physical attractiveness cues ability to provide resources and produce healthy offspring
Symmetrical faces, clear skin, healthy hair all signal genetic fitness
Societal Attraction signals social awareness, value, and desirability
Halo effect Attractive people are perceived a friendlier, cleaner, etc.
2. Similarity
We are attracted to people that are similar to us in:
Culture, identity
Interests, values, hobbies
Physical attractiveness
What about “opposites attract?”
“My friend Katie is an extrovert and her partner is an introvert”
“Katie is a White, college-educated, Jewish, Democratic, millennial extrovert and her partner is a White, college-educated, Jewish, Democratic, millennial introvert”
2. Similarity
Why do we care about similarity?
We like ourselves, and therefore like people similar to ourselves
I listen to rap music, so if you listen to rap music you have great taste
Similar people feel familiar to us, and we like familiarity
If you grew up in the same area as me, I have a positive association towards you
Similarity contributes to trust and cooperation
I go to Miami University, so if you do too, I can trust you more
Similarity reduces the likelihood of being rejected
I have more I can say/do to impress you if we have shared interests
3. Positive interactions
We are more attracted to people when we have positive interactions with them
This can come from a single, incredibly positive experience with someone
It can also come from frequent, generally positive experiences
Generally, we like the people we are around in the absence of any negative experiences
Gender Differences
Men and women are much more similar than different in their partner preferences
Partner preference differs more by type of relationship
Short-term mate preference We favor si.
Love and Relations.pdf
Psychologis Robert Sternberg planned a three-sided hypothesis of Adoration and contended that affection has three unique parts: Intimacy,Commitment and Passion.Intimacy is a structure where two individuals share confidences and different subtleties of their own lives, and is generally displayed in fellowships and heartfelt love affairs.Commitment then again is the assumption that the relationship is extremely durable, and the last type of affection is physical allure and passion.Passionate love is displayed in fixation as well as heartfelt love. All types of affection are seen as shifting blends of these three parts. Non-love does exclude any of these parts. Preferring just incorporates closeness. Charmed love just incorporates energy. Void love just incorporates responsibility. Heartfelt love incorporates both closeness and enthusiasm. Companionate love incorporates closeness and responsibility. Inane love incorporates energy and responsibility. In conclusion, perfect love incorporates every one of the three parts.
American clinician Zick Rubin tried to characterize love by psychometrics during the 1970s. His work expresses that three variables comprise love: connection, mindful, and closeness.
Clinician Erich Fromm kept up with in his book The Craft of Cherishing that adoration isn't simply an inclination but on the other hand is activities, and that as a matter of fact, the "feeling" of adoration is shallow in contrast with one's obligation to cherish through a progression of adoring activities over the long run. In this sense, Fromm held that affection is eventually not an inclination by any means, yet rather is a pledge to, and adherence to, cherishing activities towards another, oneself, or numerous others, over a supported span. Fromm likewise depicted love as a cognizant decision that in its beginning phases could start as a compulsory inclination, however which afterward no longer relies upon those sentiments, yet rather relies just upon cognizant responsibility.
Surely love is affected by chemicals (like oxytocin), neurotrophins (like NGF), and pheromones, and what individuals think and act in adoration is meant for by their originations of adoration. The ordinary view in science is that there are two significant drives in adoration: physical allure and connection. Connection between grown-ups is attempted to deal with the very rules that lead a newborn child to become appended to its mom. The customary mental view views love similar to a mix of companionate love and enthusiastic love. Energetic love is deep yearning, and is many times joined by physiological excitement (windedness, fast pulse); companionate love is warmth and a sensation of closeness not joined by physiological excitement.
In her book, Why We Love: The Nature and Science of Heartfelt Love, Helen Fischer - - - an American Anthropologist, human conduct researcher, and driving Master on science of adoration and attraction. She recommended that mankind has developed t
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This document discusses physical and cognitive development during early adulthood from ages 18-25. Key points include:
- This stage is called "emerging adulthood" and involves identity exploration, instability, and feeling between adolescence and adulthood.
- Physical performance peaks from ages 19-26. However, health risks like inactivity, substance abuse, and poor diet are common.
- Cognitive abilities are fully developed, but emerging adults face stress from academics, relationships, and finances that can impact mental health.
- Sexuality, relationships, and identity continue to develop during this transitional life stage. Both opportunities and challenges come with independence and responsibility as an adult.
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Affective Sexuality
- 2. Sexuality The energy for life and communication Ronald Rolheiser Beautiful Gift, Sacred Energy Powerful Gift by God Not a mere genital pleasure Freud Most powerful energy Creative power / energy Misunderstanding= Psychological
- 3. Primary Sexuality Genital Sexuality Affective Sexuality 3 Aspects of Sexuality
- 5. Primary Sexuality Primarily one is male / female Sexual Existence Gender Identity & Acceptance Genital Sexuality Sexual expressions, sexual fantasy, attractions, desires
- 6. Emotions, Love, Feelings, Closeness,Warmth, Intimate Relationships, Mutuality, Friendship, Sensitivity, Other centeredness Affective Sexuality
- 7. Affective Sexuality …..some forms of intimate relationship (Primarily I am a Human person….Then Priest) - Motivated to relate with everyone - Closeness in personal and social relationship - For the service of others - Creative persons ( Music, songs, books…)
- 8. Affective Sexuality Mature expressions of one’s feelings and emotions Healthy integration of sexual energy Acceptance of one’s own Sexuality – others Relationship / Friendship is important Person is important
- 9. Robert Stoller There is an unconscious link between sex and aggressiveness This can Block the development of Personality Hostility, Revenge, Arrogance, Violence
- 10. Affective Phenomena – 4 Possible Combinations 1. Emotions = (Envy, Anger, Guilt, Sexual desire) 2. Sentiments = ( Love & Grief) 3. Moods = (Being Cheerful, satisfied, Gloomy) 4. Affective Traits
- 11. Manage your Emotions otherwise the Emotions will manage U Emotions = Result of thinking Rationally or irrationally
- 12. Emotions = Shorter Time Sentiments & Moods = Hours, days, Weeks, Months Properties are Pain and Pleasures Affective Traits = Life Time Felt Tendency towards anything Intuitively Evaluated as Good / Bad Tendency / Strong subjective response
- 13. Management of Emotions - 4 levels Passive Dependent ….( I Loose….u win)Aggressive: ( I Win….u Loose) Passive Aggressive : ( I Loose…..u also Loose)Assertive: ( I win….U win) Heal the Emotions - Become Aware - Acceptance
- 14. Expressing the Emotions Unhealthy ways Push it to the unconscious, Suppress it, Repression…( keep quiet, no reaction) Acting out Healthy ways - Dialogue, - Share with your friend, - Self- dialogue
- 15. Affectivity A feeling or emotion as distinguished from cognition, thought, or action Affect is a felt tendency towards anything which is intuitively appraised as good / bad or (beneficial /harmful)
- 16. Ability to feel one’s emotions and to deal with it in a mature and prudent way Ability to deal with the negative emotions of anxiety, anger, sadness and fear without being overwhelmed by them. Affectivity
- 17. It is to know that I am a relational being to relate to oneself, others and with God Three requirements for affectivity a) self-awareness b) The ability to canalize c) self-esteem
- 18. Self acceptance and Responsible for Genuine Human Relationships. The more friends we have, the happier we are. LKM = LOVING KINDNESS MEDITATION
- 20. Causes: 1. Cultural Background 2. Negative View of Women / others 3. Caste Barriers 4. Overstress on Talents 5. Low Self Esteem 6. Identity Crisis 7. Negative View of Sexuality 8. Narcissism
- 21. Relationship (superiors, peers, inferiors) is characterized neither by dependence, nor by independence, but by interdependency
- 22. Relationships…. - Confusion - Conflict - Misunderstanding & Jealousy Meaningful Relationship - Spirit of dialogue - Attraction, - Admiration, - Appreciation
- 25. Capacity to face reality and confront it, rather than escape from it
- 26. Accept and integrate one’s needs with values and attitudes
- 27. Needs - Human persons born with needs -They are innate / inherent potentials - if they are met then one will be happy / sad - 21 basic Needs by Murray
- 28. Positive / agreeing Needs - Achievement - Organization - Affiliation - Nurturance - Counteraction - Knowledge - Domination Negative / non agreeing Needs - Abasement - Aggression - Avoidance of failure - Exhibition - Harm Avoidance - Sexual gratification - Succourance Neuter Needs -Autonomy - Acquirement - Submission - Playfulness - Recognition - Change - Excitement
- 30. Capacity to tolerate others
- 32. Expecting the other person for one’s own security and gratification. Love others for what they are, and not for what they offer; not with the anxiety of getting, but with the creative love of giving.
- 33. A basic interior security
- 34. A basic trust towards others
- 36. - Cheerful disposition - Positive self – image - Control over impulses - Ability to cope with stress and anxiety - Sensitivity to others’ needs & feelings
- 37. - Capacity to tolerate frustration - Openness to corrections - Sense of humour - Spirit of endurance - Ability to delay gratification