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Chapter 8: HELP 
advice
ADVICE 
This is a word that is 
welcomed warmly by 
some people but not by 
everybody all the time.
ADVICE 
It helps in achieving goals in a 
better way, some advice really do 
make life for somebody, it 
encourages, corrects, teaches a lot 
of things to us as well as in every 
path of our career, but at the same 
time this at times acts a tool for 
discouragement, distracting, hurting 
somebody’s feeling and ego that 
brings down people towards 
disappointment.
FACTORS TO CONSIDER 
IN GIVING ADVICE 
 Give advice who 
welcomes it 
 Be particular rendering 
advice on certain 
matters 
 Respect the feeling of 
every person
Give advice who welcomes 
it 
When advice is given, it should 
be short, to the point without 
compelling others to follow 
your advice. It is also essential 
that while giving advice, one 
should be fair and not being 
biased.
Be particular rendering 
advice on certain matters 
If a friend of yours wants 
to buy a car and requests for 
your advice in the matter, our 
aim should be to give him 
details and recommendations 
about things to be purchased 
but we need not to say to go 
for some particular brand or 
item.
Respect the feeling of 
every person 
“It is all about how you express your 
suggestion or you want to enforce the 
suggestion to somebody, you express 
‘order’ in your words or you 
understand the need of the other 
person and look for the convenient 
time so that the piece of advice you 
give to the person is taken in a 
positive way that would help the 
person to apply it and acquire success 
in that particular field or as he likes.
FRAMEWORK IN 
ASKING AND GIVING 
ADVICE
Example of Asking 
and Giving Advice 
Andrew: I'm a terrible at English 
and I should do something about 
it. What do you suggest? 
Karen: You should try this blog. 
It is a fantastic blog. 
Andrew: I've heard about it, but, 
what do you think I should start 
with? 
Karen: You'd better start with the 
lessons. Then, try the activities.
Things to remember: 
 You use should and ought to when you are 
trying to say something is advisable. 
For example: You should buy a pen. or You ought to 
buy a pen. (It would be good if you buy a pen, but not 
urgent) 
 You use had better when you are giving urgent, 
strong advise. 
For example: You had better buy a pen. 
 Use: What do you think I should do? 
What do you suggest? 
What would you do (in this situation)
TAKING ADVICE
Six things to consider the next 
time someone says, “Well, if I 
were you.. 
A- Accept advice graciously. 
D- Don’t get defensive. 
V- View the advice-giver from 
the eyes of Christ. 
I- Inquire in prayer if the advice 
is applicable to your life. 
C- Consider the value of the 
relationship first. 
E- Evaluate with your spouse 
the best way to handle offensive 
advice.
IN SOME CASE, LISTENING 
ADVICE TAKES YOU FROM 
THIS..
To this….

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Advance Speaking Skills - Help

  • 2. ADVICE This is a word that is welcomed warmly by some people but not by everybody all the time.
  • 3. ADVICE It helps in achieving goals in a better way, some advice really do make life for somebody, it encourages, corrects, teaches a lot of things to us as well as in every path of our career, but at the same time this at times acts a tool for discouragement, distracting, hurting somebody’s feeling and ego that brings down people towards disappointment.
  • 4. FACTORS TO CONSIDER IN GIVING ADVICE Give advice who welcomes it Be particular rendering advice on certain matters Respect the feeling of every person
  • 5. Give advice who welcomes it When advice is given, it should be short, to the point without compelling others to follow your advice. It is also essential that while giving advice, one should be fair and not being biased.
  • 6. Be particular rendering advice on certain matters If a friend of yours wants to buy a car and requests for your advice in the matter, our aim should be to give him details and recommendations about things to be purchased but we need not to say to go for some particular brand or item.
  • 7. Respect the feeling of every person “It is all about how you express your suggestion or you want to enforce the suggestion to somebody, you express ‘order’ in your words or you understand the need of the other person and look for the convenient time so that the piece of advice you give to the person is taken in a positive way that would help the person to apply it and acquire success in that particular field or as he likes.
  • 8. FRAMEWORK IN ASKING AND GIVING ADVICE
  • 9. Example of Asking and Giving Advice Andrew: I'm a terrible at English and I should do something about it. What do you suggest? Karen: You should try this blog. It is a fantastic blog. Andrew: I've heard about it, but, what do you think I should start with? Karen: You'd better start with the lessons. Then, try the activities.
  • 10. Things to remember: You use should and ought to when you are trying to say something is advisable. For example: You should buy a pen. or You ought to buy a pen. (It would be good if you buy a pen, but not urgent) You use had better when you are giving urgent, strong advise. For example: You had better buy a pen. Use: What do you think I should do? What do you suggest? What would you do (in this situation)
  • 12. Six things to consider the next time someone says, “Well, if I were you.. A- Accept advice graciously. D- Don’t get defensive. V- View the advice-giver from the eyes of Christ. I- Inquire in prayer if the advice is applicable to your life. C- Consider the value of the relationship first. E- Evaluate with your spouse the best way to handle offensive advice.
  • 13. IN SOME CASE, LISTENING ADVICE TAKES YOU FROM THIS..