1) A man became entangled in an emotional affair with a 50-something woman after becoming infatuated with her younger sister, whom he believes is his soulmate. 2) The affair became sexual and involved online sexual acts and plans to meet in person. However, the man still had strong feelings for the younger sister. 3) The 50-something woman became possessive and threatened self-harm if the man did not continue the affair. The man wants to end things to pursue a relationship with the younger sister, but fears the older woman's threats.

1. So I got a message from a guy who is entangled in a seemingly emotional affair and he wants out
desperately. He told me it started because he was so enamored by a woman who he believes to be his
soulmate and true love that he ignored her attention. Wrong move but he had his reasons, lots of
interference and he talked too much. This guy is used to easy women throwing themselves at him and the
woman he fell in love with doesn’t do that at all. In fact she was strangely quiet and busy in her life and
every once in a while she would say something on her social media about him and to him and he just
knew it was about him. So he got real curious about her and started asking all kinds of questions that he
could have asked her but he was too insecure to do that. He felt he was not up to par with someone of her
caliber so he never responded to her affections and attention. He started telling people that she was his
soulmate and what did he do that for. They got super jealous, she is a different race and some of them felt
it wasn’t fair. So they messed with him and scared him so bad he gave in to stuff he didn’t want any parts
of anymore. He listened to people that threatened him and told him he would never have a woman like her
and he started to believe it. They even threatened her so he was quick to listen because he didn’t want
anyone to harm her. He then started making some huge mistakes by repeating his behavior that he did
before he felt strong feelings for her. He wanted to get attention from as many women as possible and he
did and he is used it but he is greedy for it so he couldn’t stop and he was into mind control so he loved it
when he would tell a female what to do and she did it right away. He was that insecure and immature. He
kept telling women that this woman was his soulmate to see what they would do for him before he went
to her. She was clean and pure and they were not so they all said yes to his advances and I suppose he got
what he wanted but it was boring to him and he wanted something different, he wanted love and what he
was feeling was so strong he wanted to know what it was about but he got messed up with the attention,
the mind control, the information from his soulmates family about her that messed up his heart. They said
so much and it was all mean and he wasn’t sure what was true and what wasn’t but so what, he should
have asked her and obviously they were worse off than she was if they gave in to his mind games and
listened to everything so he wasn’t seeing things clearly.
The woman that he fell for did not respond to his mind control and he didn’t like that so he got mad and
kept messing with the easy women who would do pretty much anything to get his attention and they did
all kinds of crazy and twisted stuff he told them to do just to get a rise out of it, just to feed his sad
insecure ego. He told me he had some issues with women because of a female figure in his life who
controlled the hell out of him so he started to turn on women and he became the abuser so I could see
where he went wrong. This happens to many people and it happened to him. He was afraid this soulmate
of his would tell him what to do, control him like he was controlled before because she was so spiritual
and scary and controlled but she was not like he thought she would be and he didn’t want to find that out
at the time because he was addicted to what he was doing, to what anyone he talked to would do for him
because he told them to. It was exciting and wild and he didn’t want to stop this addiction but he knew he
had to if he wanted to land the affections of his soulmate and be with her.
It got so bad that he was telling this grown woman in her 50’s to act like a little girl because someone he
knew saw her do something on camera and she was acting like a little girl and he was fascinated,
pedophile fascinated I suppose. So he made a plan to travel to where she was and he and his friend went
there and they used her and used her and used her and she was on camera doing all kinds of crazy just to
get their attention because she was insecure too and a little bizarre with her sexual behavior. So for some
strange reason the woman this guy who emailed me was in love with found out about these shenanigans
and she posted something about it and he got scared, so scared he shut the whole thing down but the 50
something woman was so desperate for him to want her like he wanted the woman he kept saying was his
soulmate, that she wouldn’t leave him alone and he finally gave in to her so their emotional affair and
twisted sex games on line turned into a sexual fling that he did not what to continue. He tried to end it and
she kept talking to him all sweet and loving and he got caught up and he didn’t want to stop hearing what
she was saying to him because no one gave him that kind of attention, because he is used to being used
and he wasn’t doing the relationship thing much anymore because he was trying to wait for this so-called

2. soulmate of his but she was too goody two shoes for him. He liked the crazy women, the evil ones, the
mad ones, the ones that would do anything sexual that he wanted, kind of like that guy who played in the
movie Spiderhead. He kept telling that poor naked woman to keep at it, do it harder, do it so it hurts and
she kept doing it and she almost died because of him using mind control on her. So this guy who emailed
me was ashamed of his behavior and he hated himself and this 50 something woman was still trying to
hold on to him and it turns out the woman he was in love with is her younger sister but he was so afraid of
facing her and telling her how sorry he was for ignoring her (like the little boy who pushes the girl off the
swings because he likes her but he doesn’t know how to tell her except hurt her). This is pretty much what
he did to the younger sister, he displayed signs of jealousy and he was actually hating on her because her
50 something sister was so jealous of her she plotted and schemed to have her murdered and he listened to
everything, and he was on board for a while but he loved her and he lied and he said he would participate
because he was getting all of this attention, they were sexually involved and he didn’t want to disappoint
her so he got on board and got himself into some trouble with her husband.
However, this 50 something year olds husband was not that into her anymore because she was willing to
do anything to keep the guy she was having an affair with, and it was so twisted that they shared some
kind of satanic ritual so they would stay connected, because he kept talking to her about the soulmate
connection and star crossed lovers and true love and how the spirit of love continues on into other lives.
He shouldn’t have done that. She was super jealous so this satanic ritual, which was foolishness, he told
me, was all she had to hold on to him and he didn’t want to hold on to her anymore. He kept crying for
his soulmate and he wanted her forgiveness. Things got crazy and so out of hand he lost his mind almost
completely. Now, he wants out completely and he wants to marry his soulmate, the younger sister, he
wants to bond with her and be with her forever and his fling doesn’t like that because she thought she
would get him by giving herself to him sexually and this never works. Why do women think this will get
the guy? If he is already in love with her he is going to use you if he is not ready to be with her. He will
use you until he is tired of you and then throw you away and this is what this guy did. He threw her away
trying to get closer to his soulmate who was kind of indifferent and in shock and broken hearted that he
would go to her sister instead of coming to her.
His soulmate was there for him, she sent him so many loving messages that he got excited about but he
was getting the best of both worlds I suppose. Sweet messages from the older sister and sex, something he
was told his soulmate was waiting for until marriage. I suppose he didn’t like that and wasn’t ready to
wait for that but why did he go to her sister? I guess he could have had any woman that way until he was
ready to stop and wait with his soulmate but I think something bad happened and he felt obligated to stay
with the older sister so he did for a while and she fell for him, she was willing to leave her husband and
her son for him and everyone in her family and friends. How crazy is that? No man is worth that. He told
me they made plans together, sealed stuff that only soulmates could possibly seal. He messed up big time
and he can’t take anything he said back and he regrets all of it, so much so he became suicidal. He started
to hate the older sister for luring him into a trap and he wanted to give her a warning but he couldn’t bear
to hurt her because she was kind to him and he didn’t want to hurt the one who was kind, even though the
one he wanted was kind to him too but no sex there so you know what that’s about. It’s crazy though
because he didn’t even reach out to his soulmate for sex, he never tried anything, he wouldn’t budge and
wouldn’t talk to her so he doesn’t really know what he could get from her or what he missed out on
because he let her fo for fun and games with other people.
So, he loves the younger sister, he desperately wants to marry her so he can be with the one he is meant to
be with and he can stop messing around and acting like a bad boy in heat. The older sister keeps texting
him and she won’t stop and he won’t stop her because he is scared of what she will do if he does. She
keeps saying she will bust her head open or do something horrible to her son or to her younger sister. She
told him about a secret when her son was in 3rd grade and how she abused him so this man is torn. He has
all of this secret information, he doesn’t know what to do with and he keeps getting threats from her so he

3. is scared and he has told his soulmate this stuff and she doesn’t seem interested in marrying him because
he is not behaving like he wants to connect with her, because he is so messed up over this fling mistake he
made with her sister. So I told him if he doesn’t tell her to leave him alone, to stop harassing him he will
call the police because it’s harassment and he has a hard time making her stop. I also told him he needs to
bond with his soulmate and apologize to her because she already knows the whole truth so what is he so
afraid of? He needs to tell the older sister that their fling is over and he needs to make sure she knows it
was just a fling and he doesn’t love her or she will think he does because he is not talking to his soulmate
much because of fear.
He also needs to apologize to the husband because this was an adulterous affair and the husband can sue
for emotional distress. Adultery is illegal and he can easily divorce his wife if he chooses to. He also
needs to make sure that if he says he wants to marry this younger sister that he needs to make sure she
knows that because she sounds like a woman who will not put up with the foolish behavior of immature
men and I bet that means she has moved on already. So I hope he has found himself and trusts his heart
this time and does the right thing so both women are well prepared for the truth and he is confident
enough to say no to desperate women, knowing what he has already is sacred because it was written in the
stars and no satanic ritual can ever bond anyone. None of us belong to satan, we belong to God so that
was null and void. I heard this older was a Christian but she was not acting like one. Not cool. God does
not like ugly. Good luck foolish man with love for only his soulmate. I hope the older sister reads this and
realizes she can’t steal away a heart that belongs to someone else and wants someone else different than
he wanted her. It’s not the same. Sex is not love and no matter what you two talked about, he still loves
your sister and he will probably make plans for the future with her that will stick and mean something to
him because that’s all about love, not sex. I hope you get what you want foolish man and I hope you hurry
up and say something before she chooses someone else because that kind of love does not go away. Be
brave, funny that’s my theme for the month. I hope he finds his brave. Good luck and if you feel you can’t
do what you really want to do, ask God for help, because that is what we have a God for. Go after what
you want and ask her to forgive you and make some awesome plans with her so you can have a happy
heart, not a guilty one. Let me know what happens!