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The Family
As the School of Love

          © 2002 International Educational Foundation
   IEF is responsible for the content of this presentation only
            if it has not been altered from the original.
                                                                  © IEF 1
Cornerstone of
Civilization

    “The famil is the cul e-
               y          tur
     creating institution par
     excelence.”
          l
                  Brigitte Berger




                                    © IEF 2
“Again and again…humans have
 reaffirmed theirdependence on
 the famil as the basic unitof
          y
 human l iving.”
         Mar etMeade, Fam ily, 1 965
            gar




                                       © IEF 3
The School of
Love
                 Nurture heart
                  & character
                 Primary
                  training
                  ground for
                  relationships


                                  © IEF 4
Natural Order in the
Family
Vertical
 Order Grandparents
                               Individual
                                 Order
           Parents


    Brother Sister Brother Sister   Children

                      Horizontal
                        Order               © IEF 5
Natural Order in the
Universe




                       © IEF 6
Natural Order in the
Universe
  Vertical
   Order        Center of
                 Galaxy
                                     Individual
                                       Order
                   Sun


Mercury Venus     Earth     Mars   Jupiter

                             Horizontal
                               Order          © IEF 7
Positions in the Family
          Grandparen
             ts &
            Parents
                  Younge
            Tru      r
 Husban      e    Sibling
            Lov         Wife
   d
       Elder e
      Siblin
        g
           Children &
         Grandchildre          © IEF 8
The Four Spheres of
Love
             Child’s
              Sphere
             Sibling’ s
              Sphere
             Spouse’s
              Sphere
             Parent’s
              Sphere       © IEF 9
Sphere of Child’ s Love




                          © IEF 10
Child’ s Love Grows in
Response to Parents Love




                           © IEF 11
Primary Virtues of
Child’ s Love




        Respect &    © IEF 12
Sphere of Sibling’ s
Love

                  Peers
                  Friend
                   s
                  Cousin
                   s

                            © IEF 13
Parental Influence
Harmonizes Sibling’ s Love




                         © IEF 14
Diverse Relationships
Round Out the Personality




                        © IEF 15
Peers Increase in
Importance




                    © IEF 16
Primary Virtues of
Sibling’ s Love




     Harmony & Purity
                        © IEF 17
Sphere of Spouse’ s
Love




                      © IEF 18
Spouse’ s Sphere
Draws on Other
Spheres
   Husband         Wife
   Friend          Friend
   Father          Mother
   Son             Daughter
   Elder           Elder
    brother          sister
   Younger         Younger
    brother          sister
                                © IEF 19
Primary Virtues of
Spouse’ s Love




        Fidelity &   © IEF 20
Sphere of Parent’ s
Love




                      © IEF 21
Primary Virtues of
Parent’s Love




       Investment &   © IEF 22
Character Development
through Four Spheres of
Love
  Parent
            Higher spheres —
  Spouse     Founded on lower
              spheres
             More unselfish &
  Sibling     responsible
             Require effort
  Child
                                 © IEF 23
Society — Extension of
Family Leaders
                   Parents          Younger
                                     Peers
                         Younger
               True       Sibling
               Love
  Husband                      Wife
         Elder
         Sibling
 Elder
 Peers             Children
              Subordinates                    © IEF 24
The Three Subject Roles



True Parent              True
                       Teacher



               True
              Leader             © IEF 25
Family —
Embedded in the Social
Order

   Vertical   Society
    Order

              Parents

               Child
                         © IEF 26
Strong Families Have
Focus Higher than
Self

                 Altruistic
                  purpose
                 Service
                  to
                  communit
                  y
                               © IEF 27
Working for the Greater
Good
        Peacemaking

         Patriotism

      Good Citizenship

         Filial Piety

                          © IEF 28
Cornerstone of World
Peace
             Families
              bridge
              cultures
             Peaceful
              families
              support
              peaceful
              nations
             Basis for   © IEF 29
“R i g h te o u s n e s s i n
th e h e a r t… b e a u ty
i n th e c h a r a c te r …
Ha r m o n y i n th e
home …
o r d e r i n th e n a ti o n …
pe a c e i n th e wo r l d . ”
                 Th e Gr e a t
Le a r n i n g
                                  © IEF 30

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04 fsl TIMD-IEF Philosophy 4

Editor's Notes

  1. The Need for Moral & Ethical Education
  2. Government Spending & Social Problems (U.S. from 1960Ð1990) 500% increase in spending on social problems ¥ Violent crime rose 500% ¥ Births outside marriage rose 400% ¥ Divorce rose 400% ¥ Children living in single parent homes rose 300% ¥ Teenage suicides rose 200% Source: William Bennett, speech ÒSearch for A New World CultureÓ to conference, Washington, D.C., Apr 23, 1997
  3. Traditional Role of Education 1. Passing on knowledge and cultural values 2. Teaching moral standards and social responsibilities 3. Preparing good citizens
  4. U.S. Education Ð Founded with Moral Purposes Morality and knowledge considered essential to a good society 1. Schools actively promoted good character and citizenship 2. Earliest universities Ð Established by religious organizations ¥ Harvard ¥ Yale ¥ Georgetown
  5. 1960s Ð Breakdown of Traditional Values 1. Decline of adult moral authority 2. Rise of selfish individualism and moral relativism
  6. Explosion of Destructive Youth Behavior Since 1940s 1940s School Problems 1. Talking out of turn 2. Chewing gum 3. Making noise 4. Running indoors 5. Getting out of line 6. Improper clothing 7. Littering 1990s School Problems 1. Drug abuse 2. Alcohol abuse 3. Pregnancy 4. Suicide 5. Rape 6. Robbery 7. Assault Source: William J. Bennett et al., Index of Leading Cultural indicators, Empower America, Mar. 1993
  7. Characteristics of ÒNon-DirectiveÓ Education 4. Rejects the authority of traditional moral teaching 5. Undermines the parentsÕ role in education
  8. Early Appeal of Non-Directive Education 1. Used interactive methodology 2. Supported by the science of its time 3. Coincided with the loss of confidence in traditional values 4. Seemed to promote tolerance
  9. Interactive Methodology 1. Participatory, not didactic 2. Engages students as agents in their own learning 3. Draws out studentsÕ knowledge & experience
  10. U.S. Policy Recognizes Limitations of Non-Directive Methods Rejects Òopen-ended decision-making, values clarification and therapeuticÉ strategiesÓ in drug abuse education Source: U.S. Dept. of Education guidelines for drug prevention education, 1988 Mandates federal funding for directive abstinence-oriented sex education Source: Act of Congress, 1996
  11. Why Moral & Ethical Education Was Neglected 1. Rise of moral relativism ¥ All values subjective 2. Increasing pluralism ¥ Unclear whose values should be taught 3. Confusion that teaching values was promoting religion
  12. Part 2. Why Give Priority to Moral & Ethical Education?
  13. Moral & Ethical Education Recognizes Universal Values
  14. Ò The greater our material power, the greater our need for the spiritual insight and virtue to use our power for good and not evilÉWe have never been adequate spiritually for handling our material power; and today the morality gap isÉgreater than it has ever been in any previous age.Ó Source: Arnold Toynbee British Historian, ÔCivilization on Trial
  15. Two Dimensions of Values
  16. ÒCharacter is destiny.Ó Heraclitus, Greek philosopher
  17. Part 3. What Is a Balanced Education?
  18. Philosophy & Science of Education Philosophy of Education Purpose Ideals Goals Science of Education Curriculum Methods Administration
  19. Good Character Inner disposition conducive to right conduct ¥ Attitudes and habits ¥ For the purpose of loving
  20. Cultivation of Heart 1. Cultivation of moral feeling ¥ Empathy ¥ Loving motivation ¥ Love of goodness 2. Learning through experiences of love ¥ Gaining the capacity to love through family life 3. Training in good character ¥ Develop self-control ¥ Strengthen the conscience 4. Internalizing moral standards 5. Valuing people and respecting things
  21. First Goal of Education
  22. Education in Ethical Standards 1. Understanding the standards for good relationships 2. Fulfilling family roles & responsibilities 3. Training in behavior, attitudes and manners ¥ Creating harmony
  23. Throughout history...education has had two great goals: To help young people to become smart and...become good.Ó Source: Dr. Thomas Lickona, ÔEducating for Character
  24. Morals Goal — Loving Relationships & Family Strong marriages Effective parenting Ethical practice living for higher purpose