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THE SOCRATIC METHOD: GETTING YOUR CHILD TO OPEN UP
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2. WHAT IS THE SOCRATIC METHOD?
This is a form of communication designed to challenge
thought and encourage meaningful dialogue. It works from a
non-judgmental position that is unconditionally accepting. It’s
particularly effective at separating thoughts from feelings.
The best part about the Socratic method
is that it cuts across contexts. Whether
you need to discuss school, friends
or feelings, Socratic questioning
can encourage a sense of safety
during conversations.

3. EXAMPLES
1. Ask questions to challenge assumptions.
Example: “Why do you think I suspended your iTunes account? If
you were in my shoes, what would you need to turn it back on?”
This checks to make sure your child understands the real
reason behind your actions and also opens the door for your
child to consider your perspective.
2. Ask questions to clarify thinking.
Example: “I understand that your sister makes you mad
sometimes. Why do you think we should support her anyway?”
This asks your child to separate thoughts from feelings and look
for reasons to behave in positive ways that might nevertheless
run counter to their emotions.

4. EXAMPLES
3. Ask questions to challenge reasoning.
Example: “Last time you left your homework to the last minute,
you got a D. What’s changed that you don’t feel you need to
start earlier this time?”
This asks your child to think through their decisions and check
to see if they’re based on impulse.
4. Ask questions to challenge perspectives.
Example: “What do you suppose your father feels like when you
speak to him that way?”
This asks your child to consider a viewpoint other than his or
her own.

5. EXAMPLES
5. Ask questions to probe for consequences.
Example: “If you spend your entire allowance on that video
game, what will happen then?”
This asks your child to think through the next steps after a
decision that leads to immediate gratification.
6. Ask questions to challenge their questions.
Example: “Out of curiosity, why is Marcia inviting you for a
sleepover now? Isn’t that short notice?”
This asks your child think about the implications of their
requests – and also lets them know that you’re paying attention.

6. Did you know emotional intelligence is highly predictive of
academic and life success?
Did you know you that emotional intelligence can be learned
and improved through training programs?
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