You can please some of the people all of the time and all of the people some of the time but you can't please all of the people all of the time. This is especially true in preaching.

1. The Problem With
Preaching

2. (1 Cor 9:19-22) For though I am free from all
men, I have made myself a servant to all, that I
might win the more; {20} and to the Jews I
became as a Jew, that I might win Jews; to
those who are under the law, as under the
law, that I might win those who are under the
law; {21} to those who are without law, as
without law (not being without law toward
God, but under law toward Christ), that I might
win those who are without law; {22} to the
weak I became as weak, that I might win the
weak. I have become all things to all men, that
I might by all means save some.

3. The old man,
the boy & the donkey

4. An old fable tells about an elderly man who was
traveling with a boy and a donkey. As they walked
through a village, the man was leading the donkey
and the boy was walking behind. The townspeople
said the old man was a fool for not riding, so to
please them he climbed up on the animal's back.
When they came to the next village, the people said
the old man was cruel to let the child walk while he
enjoyed the ride. So, to please them, he got off and
set the boy on the animal's back and continued on
his way. In the third village, people accused the
child of being lazy for making the old man walk, and
the suggestion was made that they both ride. So the
man climbed on and they set off again. In the fourth
village, the townspeople were indignant at the
cruelty to the donkey because he was made to carry
two people. The frustrated man was last seen
carrying the donkey down the road.

5. The problem with preaching
When I preach there are some who say,
they could listen to me all day.
Others think I preach too long,
or that I go about it all wrong.
Some say my sermon is deep,
but there are others it puts to sleep.
Some say I hold them spellbound,
while others squirm and look around.
Some declare me an orator,
others say I'm a perfect bore.
Some think I've too much fight,
others think I preach just right.

6. Some affirm I'm much too bold,
others say I'm much too old.
Some folk feel I've met success,
others think my work's a mess.
Some have said my pay's too low,
as they observe the pace I go.
Others assert my salary's peak,
much too high for three hours a week.
From all of this it's plain to see,
that as a preacher I'm up a tree.
I can't please men of such discord,
so I'll just try to please the Lord.

7. THE PROBLEM WITH
PREACHING
• You can please all of the people some of
the time and some of the people all of the
time but you can’t please all of the people
all of the time
• There may even be some people who can
never be pleased.
• There are problems in preaching and
trying to please people.

8. Please people or please God?
• I must not change the gospel
• (Gal 1:8-10) But even if we, or an angel from
heaven, preach any other gospel to you than
what we have preached to you, let him be
accursed. {9} As we have said before, so
now I say again, if anyone preaches any
other gospel to you than what you have
received, let him be accursed. {10} For do I
now persuade men, or God? Or do I seek to
please men? For if I still pleased men, I
would not be a bondservant of Christ.

9. Please people or please God?
• I must not preach error but seek to please
God.
• (1 Th 2:1-4) For you yourselves know,
brethren, that our coming to you was not in
vain. {2} But even after we had suffered before
and were spitefully treated at Philippi, as you
know, we were bold in our God to speak to
you the gospel of God in much conflict. {3}
For our exhortation did not come from error or
uncleanness, nor was it in deceit. {4} But as
we have been approved by God to be
entrusted with the gospel, even so we speak,
not as pleasing men, but God who tests our
hearts.

10. • We should not be offensive - (1 Cor 10:32-
33) Give no offense, either to the Jews or to
the Greeks or to the church of God, {33} just
as I also please all men in all things, not
seeking my own profit, but the profit of
many, that they may be saved.
PAUL TRIED TO PLEASE PEOPLE
IN SOME AREAS

11. • Be sensitive to other’s weaknesses - (Rom
15:1-3) We then who are strong ought to
bear with the scruples of the weak, and not
to please ourselves. {2} Let each of us
please his neighbor for his good, leading to
edification. {3} For even Christ did not
please Himself; but as it is written, "The
reproaches of those who reproached You
fell on Me."
PAUL TRIED TO PLEASE PEOPLE
IN SOME AREAS

12. PAUL TRIED TO PLEASE PEOPLE
IN SOME AREAS
• Identify with others. (1 Cor 9:19-22) For though I
am free from all men, I have made myself a
servant to all, that I might win the more; {20} and
to the Jews I became as a Jew, that I might win
Jews; to those who are under the law, as under
the law, that I might win those who are under the
law; {21} to those who are without law, as
without law (not being without law toward God,
but under law toward Christ), that I might win
those who are without law; {22} to the weak I
became as weak, that I might win the weak. I
have become all things to all men, that I might by
all means save some.

13. HOW I TRY TO PLEASE PEOPLE
• Balanced preaching
1. Old & New testaments
2. Varied Topics - no hobbies
3. Positive vs Negative
4. Adequate Use of scriptures
5. Problem: not everyone hears every
sermon

14. HOW I TRY TO PLEASE PEOPLE
• My Delivery
1. Rate of speech
2. Volume
3. Distracting mannerisms
4. Problem: different strokes - pleasant
voice or piercing voice?

15. HOW I TRY TO PLEASE PEOPLE
• Physical aspects
1. Stay behind pulpit
2. Walk around
3. Use PowerPoint
4. Use of notes
a. Visible
b. Not visible
4. Problem: what one likes another
doesn't

16. HOW I TRY TO PLEASE PEOPLE
• Preparation
1. Aware of needs of congregation
2. Appropriate application of scripture
3. Problem: what one person needs
others may not - don't preach to one
person only

17. • God is not willing that any should perish 2
Peter 3:9
• You can be saved by…
–Believing in Jesus - John 8:24
–Repenting of your sins - Acts 17:30
–Confessing Jesus as the Son of God -
Romans 10:9-10
–Being baptized for the remission of your
sins - Acts 2:38
–Living for Jesus faithfully till death -
Revelation 2:10
ARE YOU PLEASING GOD,
OTHERS OR SELF?

19. TONIGHT’S SERMON
EXPERIENCING THE JOY