1. THE FIVE KEYS TO A GREAT RELATIONSHIP
1. HONESTY...WE HAVE TO BE COMPLETLY HONEST IN ALL OFF OUR AFFAIRS NOT
ONLY WITH OUR LOVE ONES, BUT WITH OURSELVES. Always WE NEED TO CHECK OUR
MOTIVES IN ANY THING WE DO THAT COULD AFFECT OUR LOVE ONE AND THEIR WELL
BEING. WE NEED TO BE ON GUARD FOR SELF-CENTERNESS, SELF-SEEKING AS
OPPOSED TO SELF-CARING AND SELF WORTH. NOTHING WILL DESTROY OUR LOVE
ONES TRUST AND ERODE THE FOUNDATION OF LOVE QUICKER THAN A PERSON WHO
LIES OR CHEATS, BEING ABLE TO BE TRUTHFUL EVEN WHEN WE KNOW THAT THE
TRUTH WILL HURT SOMETIMES IS WHAT MATTERS ,THAT OUR LOVE ONE WILL BE
TRUTHFUL AND TRUSTED IS THE TIE THAT BINDS US.
2. ADD TO IT... WE NEED TO GO INTO ANY NEW RELATIONSHIP WITH THE IDEAL THAT I
CAN ADD TO THAT OTHER PERSON'S LIFE TO GIVE ALL OF MYSELF TO THEM WITH NO
RESERVE, NOT BE SELF-SEEKING AND SELFISH IN OUR NEEDS AND WANTS, THE REAL
DEFINATION OF LOVE IS THE CARING AND NURTURING OF ANOTHER'S WELL BEING
AND SPIRITUAL GROWTH, NOT WHAT YOU CAN GET OUT OF IT, BUT WHAT CAN YOU
GIVE TO IT ! TOO MANY TIMES PEOPLE ARE LIKE SOME STREETS NAMED... ONE WAY
ONLY
3 NO EXPECTATIONS... HERE AGAIN WE HAVE TO LEARN TO ACCEPT OUR MATES AS
THEY ARE, NOT WHO WE WANT THEM TO BE. WE LIKE THEM FOR THEIR GOOD
QUALITY'S, BUT LOVE THEM FOR THEIR DEFECTS IS TRUE LOVE. CHANGE IN A PERSON
IS A INSIDE JOB AND ONLY GOD HAS THAT POWER TO GRANT THE CHANGE, WE MUST
BE ABLE TO TAKE THE GOOD WITH THE BAD AND VICE VERSA, NOBODY IS PERFECT
LET THEM BE WHO THEY ARE AND DON'T EXPECT THEM TO BE ANYONE ELSE, OR WE
WILL ALWAYS LIVE WITH DISAPPOINTMENT FOR A COMPANION.
4 DON'T KEEP SCORE... AVOID THIS AT ALL COST, FORGIVE AND FORGET. GET OVER
AND GET RID OF ANY RESENTMENTS OR THEY WILL DESTROY A RELATIONSHIP.
ARGUMENTS OVER MONEY OR CHILDREN AND USING RETALIATION TO PUNISH OR GET
BACK FOR ANY INJURY'S TO OUR FEELINGS OR PRIDE AND EGO WILL UPSET THE
APPLE CART. THIS SPIRITUAL ILLNESS WILL SNOWBALL ALL THE WAY TO THE END OF
THE DIVORCE, THEN AFTER IT ALL ENDS THEN YOU SEE THERE WAS NO WINNER ONLY
TWO LONELY LOSERS NOW ARE LEFT.
5 TRUST IN GOD... THE MOST BEAUTIFUL RELATIONSHIPS SURVIVE AND GROW
BECAUSE GOD WAS INVITED INTO THEM. IF GOD CAN GET YOU TO IT, GOD CAN GET
YOU THOUGH IT, THE SHORTEST DISTANCE BETWEEN A PROBLEM AND A SOLUTION, IS
THE SAME DISTANCE BETWEEN YOUR KNEES AND THE FLOOR. WHEN WE BOW
BEFORE GOD WE CAN STAND BEFORE ANY MAN OR WOMAN. TRUST IN THE LORD AND
HE WILL BLESS YOUR LOVE AND KEEP YOU WHOLE. TALK TO EACH OTHER AND SHARE
THIS COMMITMENT TO HONOR OUR FATHER AND USE HIS DEVINE GUIDENCE.