Finding Peace With Difficult Relationships


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Finding Peace With Difficult Relationships

  1. 1. The Angels Guide To:<br />Finding PeaceWith DifficultRelationships<br />
  2. 2. Peace Is Possible<br />Perhaps you are estranged from your Father<br />OR<br />Your marriage is over after 20 years.<br />OR<br />Friends frequently disappoint you.<br />OR<br />You experience frustration with colleagues.<br />
  3. 3. Will They Change?<br />Relationship stress can cause anxiety, depression, sadness, hopelessness, etc…<br />How can we heal these emotions?<br />By expecting the person to change? <br />To stop hurting us?<br />
  4. 4. The Power Of Peace Is With You<br />Those people who come into our lives by birth, choice, or circumstance are on a celestial assignment from God.<br /><ul><li>They are here to act as our SPIRITUAL CHANGE AGENTS and for our souls most divine growth.
  5. 5. With each relationship exists a SACRED CONTRACT between souls.
  6. 6. A lesson, a gift, a sacred something to teach us about our lives, our purpose, and ourselves.</li></li></ul><li>Spiritual Agents On Assignment<br />Your Mother<br />Your Husband<br />Your Sister<br />Your Brother<br />Your Best Friend<br />Your Father<br />Your Neighbor<br />Your Children<br />Your Boss<br />Your Boyfriend<br />
  7. 7. Sacred Contracts<br />We have a Sacred Contract with each person that touches our life.<br />They are all here to teach us something.<br />Sometimes it is easy and joyous…and sometimes it is challenging and difficult.<br />
  8. 8. 7 Steps To Peace<br />Peace is always possible and the most loving thing you can do for your soul.<br />There is a way…<br />
  9. 9. 1) Find The Gift<br />Even though these relationship may not be what you had expected, there is always a gift…something positive to learn and take away from the experience.<br /><ul><li>The key is discovering what that gift is…</li></li></ul><li>Hidden Blessings<br />Many times the gift is very difficult to see. <br />The relationship may bring you so much pain and frustration that finding a positive outcome seems useless.<br /><ul><li>But, it is worth the effort…because it is about YOU and your inner peace.</li></li></ul><li>Positive Possibilities<br />How has the relationship changed you?<br />Are you stronger? More Independent? Compassionate?<br />What did it teach you about yourself?<br />That you deserve to be treated with respect? Love? Kindness? <br />Were you inspired to make different choices?<br />Change jobs? Move? Healthier? More responsible?<br />
  10. 10. More Positive Possibilities<br />What would you not have in your life if it weren’t for this relationship?<br />Embarked on a journey of self-discovery? Advanced on your career?<br />How did the relationship shape your personality?<br />Made you a better parent? Friend? Lover?<br />Can You See The Blessings?<br />
  11. 11. A Light In The Dark<br />Chances are that you are able to see more than one gift from even the most challenging relationships in your life.<br /><ul><li>Some are big and some are smaller, but all are significant.</li></li></ul><li>2) Release Energetic Ties<br />There is an energetic cord that binds people together. Whether is it a casual, romantic, or parental relationship. <br /><ul><li>In order to release toxic feelings in a relationship, the cords must be cut.</li></li></ul><li>Cord Releasing Visualization<br />Imagine the Cord<br />What does it look like?<br />Where does it attach to you?<br />What does it feel like?<br />Ask the Angels to cut the cord and release any influence the person may have on you.<br />You can use imaginary scissors, or a laser, or even a chain saw! What ever it takes.<br />See the cord dismantling and falling away.<br />
  12. 12. 3) Send Love <br />Once you cut the cord, there is a void between you and the person.<br />Fill that void with UNCONDITIONAL LOVE<br />Send the love to them and to yourself.<br />You can ask the Angels for help with this…<br />
  13. 13. 4) Forgive Them and Yourself<br />Forgiveness is not excusing one’s behavior, it is about letting go of the need for them to change, express remorse, or be who you would like them to be.<br />
  14. 14. Resentment<br /><ul><li>When you cannot forgive another person, then you build up resentment, rage, and anger.</li></ul>Being unwilling to forgive can also indicate that there is a deep, and sometimes unconscious need for revenge (or being right).<br />These thoughts and feelings will not bring you peace and healing…only more pain.<br />
  15. 15. The Choice Is Yours<br />No other person can make you feel something that you do not ant to feel<br />You always have a choice!<br />
  16. 16. 5) Let It Go <br />Let go of wanting to:<br />Be right<br />Have the last word<br />Get validation<br />Change the person<br />Expect different<br />Gain approval<br />Release the ties that bind you and set yourself free! <br />
  17. 17. And Sometimes…<br />The relationship is too toxic and keeps you from living an authentic life.<br />Some relationships may cause you more harm than good, become unhealthy, or prevent you from being in truth.<br />In these situations, you might have to walk away…even from someone significant.<br />
  18. 18. 6) Protect Yourself<br />Surround yourself with a white light field of protection.<br />Universal or God’s Love will keep you safe.<br />This will allow to interact with the individual without reattaching any cords.<br />
  19. 19. 7) Love Yourself Enough<br />To go through this process…maybe even several times.<br />You must put your worth, your health, and your own life first. <br />When you show yourself love…then others will to!<br />PEACE<br />
  20. 20. Thank You For Flying With Us!<br />The Angels Guide To: Finding Peace With Difficult Relationships <br />By Alison Kelly<br />Angel Communicator<br />Spiritual Medium<br />Intuitive Counselor<br />Visit for more information on connecting with your Angels<br />If you would like a personal Angel reading from Alison, call 404.386.6130 or email<br />