Choosing a spouse is a problem that is not easy to solve in modern times, because we choose a spouse according to the world's method. This page will mention how to choose a spouse in the kingdom of God. From observation and reaction to explain that importance of being a disciple is prerequisite of being a good spouse. When mentioning the connection of life and conforming to God’s will, noting that the worldview is not helpful in choosing a spouse. Finally, we mentioned a possible method that can save us a lot of time and make the right choice.

1. Disciple building sharing
A10 Choose a spouse
Observe reaction, disciple,
embellishment or life, narrow down,
yoke, step

2. Preface
• Choosing a spouse is a problem that is not easy to
solve in modern times, because we choose a
spouse according to the world's method. This
page will mention how to choose a spouse in the
kingdom of God. From observation and reaction
to explain that importance of being a disciple is
prerequisite of being a good spouse. When
mentioning the connection of life and conforming
to God’s will, noting that the worldview is not
helpful in choosing a spouse. Finally, we
mentioned a possible method that can save us a
lot of time and make the right choice.

3. Observe the response
• Observe how the candidate to treat parents,
powerful people, insignificant people, people
who rely on his support, attitudes when he is sick,
the discipline of daily life, when he has
encountering difficulties
• Look at his circle of friends
• Know his entertainment and like
• What exercise
• Eating habits
• Analyze his conversation

4. Observe the response
• The first thing we need to observe is how they treat
their parents, because this may be your future copy, to
see whether their attitude towards powerful people is
neither humble nor overbearing, or low-pitched. And
see how the he treats those who have no interest.
Especially for those who need to depend on you, such
as waiters in restaurants, and observe whether he
complain or solve problems when he is sick, and
observe whether his daily life has discipline and how to
deal with major difficulties. Yes, from the above to
observe whether is there a Christian image

5. Observe the response
• In addition, you need to see what kind of person
his friend is, how he entertain himself, what he
usually likes to do, whether he exercises regularly,
whether he eats in a moderate manner, and
whether he live out the Bible, and see what he
says, you can use the next webpage To analyze
• 8 complaining/Judge not/idle word Speaking
can defiles a man/ Keep your heart ppp
• https://discussion4disciple.blogspot.com/2020/
09/8-complainingjudge-notidle-word.html

6. Why must be a disciple
• Matt. 5:44 “But I say to you, love your enemies, bless
those who curse you, do good to those who hate you,
and pray for those who spitefully use you and
persecute you,”
• Love in the world is narrow mind and lack of definition.
In the life of a couple, there are inevitably some things
that you do not agree with each other. And because
men and women have different views on things, there
will inevitably have collisions, and they cannot
compromise, causing each other to become like
enemies. But if you are a disciple of Christian, you will
think of the verses in the situation, and there is room
for conversation, it is better to live on in this situation?

7. Why must be a disciple
• 20 world How does the evil one control the world?
Who do I belong to, the end of the last world ppp
• https://discussion4disciple.blogspot.com/2020/09/20
-world-how-does-evil-one-control.html
• If you are a disciple, you are a true spiritual person, you
can escape the clutches of the world and the presence
of Christ will happen
• 5 Jesus in-dwelling Bigger promise, Journey of abide
in word, Spiritual blessing, Faith/Chosen/ Eternal life
ppp
• https://discussion4disciple.blogspot.com/2020/09/5-
jesus-in-dwelling-bigger-promise.html

8. GOD’s food
• 19 129 God’s food, Overweight, Eat too much, Pesticide
issue? Excretion problems, enjoy the taste of the Lord’s
grace ppp
• https://discussion4disciple.blogspot.com/2020/09/19-
129-gods-food-overweight-eat-too.html
• A disciple is the one does God’s will, especially when it
comes to food. Do God’s will, it is very important to be
healthy. Because we are all created by God, and God puts
his good intentions in food, that we can get from food. You
can see his immortality and divinity, but if there is a spouse
that is not of God, then there will be a lot of conflicts in this
matter, and a spouse who does not follow suit will likely
have health problems in the future.

9. Bear the same Yoke
• 2Cor. 6:14 “Do not be unequally yoked together
with unbelievers. For what fellowship has
righteousness with lawlessness? And what
communion has light with darkness?”
• God has known for a long time that if you couple
don’t believe in the eternal God, many problems
will surely occur, just like the understanding of
love. But God said that love requires long-term
patience and cannot bear hatred. From this we
can see that there are big differences, so how can
there be peace?

10. Embellishment or life
• As we mentioned earlier that how to observe a possible
spouse in order know this person’s spiritual life. Why do we
spend so much time knowing this, because the world
believes that Christianity is an embellishment in our lives.
No, but God believes that Christianity is life itself. Please
see God’s webpage as follows. If you don’t understand this
huge difference, then all your related efforts will become
mere formalities.
• 1 GOD LORD/dominion/ By Him/GOD and man GOD’s
attribute/Our attitude ppp
• https://discussion4disciple.blogspot.com/2020/09/1-god-
lorddominion-by-himgod-and-man.html

11. How to narrow down the search
• Earlier we mentioned that we need to observe the
reaction, and then we mentioned that we need to find
disciples that conform to God’s will, but if there are
many people we meet, how can we find a way or have
enough time to see everyone? Below we will mention
several methods that the scope can be narrowed
down. For example, after a brief greeting, we can ask
the following questions:
• Do you have any spiritual experience recently? If this
question is too difficult, you can find a question to ask
the other person, for example, what do you think of
disaster? Do you think there is anything to be thankful?

12. How to narrow down the search/step
• Oops, are you joking. Who will be interested in
this question? I had tried for a long time and no
one can pass this test for two years. By the way,
the reason is as explained of seeing Christian life
is the embellishment or whole life. So I suggest
you can use this website, first build yourself to
become a disciple, and then ask interested
people to become a disciple by yourself, or you
can ask them to join your seminar. These people
or the people brought in may be your potential
marriage partners

13. contact method
• https://discussion4disciple.blogspot.com/
• the above is the disciple training website , I have
designed it according to what I know about the
Bible, if there is any inconsistency with the Bible
,please do not hesitate to contact me if you want
to start please start on the below webpage
• ppp S Summary Guide for disciple training
directory/usage
• https://discussion4disciple.blogspot.com/2020/0
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