7 steps to writing the perfect LinkedIn InMail

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7 steps to writing the
perfect #LinkedIn
InMail
Dionne Kasian-Lew
@dionnelew
LinkedIn is the new
business lunch.
gone GLOBAL!
300 million people from 200
countries speaking 20
different languages are at this
table -
But in many respects it’s business as normal –
really it’s the new business as
normal because-
- it’s still about professional
development, business growth &
bringing people with mutual interests
together.
You already know how to do
this.
You can reach out to people on LinkedIn like you do
in real life and grow your network but you’ve got to
do that in the right way.
Would you walk up to a stranger at an event,
hand them a package and say:
“today our product is
20% off?”
NO WAY!
(you say)
It’s no different on
LinkedIn.
7 steps to writing the perfect LinkedIn InMail
You’ve got to get to know them –
Learn about their interests -
Tell them about yours –
Find the sweet spot -
Right time –
Right place –
Right sense –
Reach out -
But that’s not what this slide deck is about -
It assumes –
You’ve already got a great profile –
Are publishing & curating content –
Have got to know people through sharing or in groups
and are ready to -
REACH OUT –
With the right mindset (them-first)
In the right way (respect)
The time has come …
Write the perfect
InMail
But how?
(I hear you say)
7 steps
1.
Be Personal
Seem too obvious?
Well it’s not. We’ve all had those Hello All or
Everyone or Dear Sir (when you’re a
Ma’am).
Nothing smacks of spam and no-CARE than generic
openers.
7 steps to writing the perfect LinkedIn InMail
“Dear Jane”
(yes, this is a Dear Jane letter)
2.
Make it about them
YOU(it’s not about)
Talk about their interests –
(it may give you another 10
seconds if you’re lucky)
“I know that you’re a great
supporter of women in
leadership.”
Think about how you nod your head
and open up when someone tells you
something about yourself that is
true.
Same same.
3.
Be clear about the
connection
There’s a fine line between being attentive and
stalky.
You want to say –
“Look I’ve made the effort to learn about you but I’m
respectful.”
the
connection does that.
“I know that you’re a great
supporter of women in leadership
because we’re in the same Women
on Boards group.”
OR –
“I see from your profile that you support
women in leadership and are connected
with my colleague Paul who shares the
same interest.”
Strike the balance
Show you care and put in time and attention without
overstepping those invisible but important
boundaries people
have around their private space.
4.
Be clear about
your intention &
the sweet spot
What you want from people will
vary greatly.
It’s easier to ask someone
to be interviewed on your
podcast than for a
donation.
Make the connection between
your genuine mutual
interests and your request.
“I am not sure about you but I
believe the first step on this
journey is educating girls? That’s
why I am reaching out to you.”
It doesn’t matter what your
service is.
If you were a business coach with
a particular coaching model
you’d go to great lengths to find
those kind of clients who were
responsive to it.
•  Are you into heart-led leadership?
• Empathy-based coaching?
•  Is your point of difference that your work is
grounded in neuroscience?
“I know you’re interested in cutting-edge leadership
development & I’ve developed a coaching model based
on neuroscience that pushes the boundaries of how we
learn.”
It’s still about the match.
The SWEET spot.
Tell them who you are and
what you want.
5.
It’s still not about your
fabulousness –
but you need to say why you’re
reaching out and what it’s got
to do with your role.
“I am the development manager at Lead Women. We are
building a network of 1000 passionate women with a
strong sense of purpose and who want to give
something back to the world.”
(Ah, that makes
sense.)
6.
ASK
Ask specifically for
what you want.
“I’d love 5 minutes of your
time to talk about how you
could be involved.”
Your approach will change depending on what you want
and where you are in the contact cycle. If you’ve made
several connections you may have permission to ask
for a bit more.
Use good judgement.
6.
Close off. (Remember
your manners.)
Would you turn around after a
great conversation with someone
at an event and just walk
out?
NO WAY!
(you say)
Same same.
Close off & ask how
best to continue the
conversation.
“Please let me know if I can
talk to you further and how
best to do that.”
Be grateful for their
time and attention.
“Thanks for taking the time to
read this Jane, I appreciate it.”
Mean it.
Time is a scarce commodity.
Asking someone for five minutes of their time is like
asking them for $50. There’s no reason for them to
give it to you just because you want it.
Put together it
looks like this -
Dear Jane –
“I know that you’re a great supporter of women in leadership that’s because
we’re in the same Women on Boards group.
I am not sure about you but I believe the first step on this journey is
educating girls, which is why I am reaching out to you.
I am the development manager at Lead Women. We are building a network of
1000 passionate women with a strong sense of purpose and who want to give
something back to the world.
I’d love five minutes of your time to talk about how you could be involved.
Please let me know if you’re happy for me to talk to you further and if so,
how best to reach you.
Thanks for taking the time to read this Jane, I appreciate it.”
It’s a template - but not a
template.
Because what we are talking
about here is an
approach to
communication – any form of
communication.
That approach is structuring your
business approach to be
people-centric and
purposeful.
Embodying it by living
some simple core principles.
(If this part isn’t sorted out,
please don’t write the InMail
until it is.)
1.
Be personal –
social is about about human to human connection (as
Bryan Kramer says #h2h)
2.
Be of service –
think about other people’s needs first
3.
Right connection –
make connections that count
4.
Right intention –
find the sweet spot, mutuality matters (as Kare
Anderson says)
5.
Tell -
be clear about what you want (no hidden agendas)
6.
Ask -
ask for it (don’t waste people’s time)
7.
Gratitude –
say thank you
You already know all
this.
You’ve been doing it all
your professional life.
Time to bring the skills
you’ve already honed
offline,
online.
Same
Same
Hope this helps.
Speaker | Author | Consultant
@dionnelew
dionnekasianlew.com
thesocialexecutivebook.com
You CAN BOOK ME TO
speak to your team
+61 458 974 854 OR
dionne@dionnekasianlew.com
Thank you for your time and attention.
Ideas welcome. You can reach me on Twitter
@dionnelew or on
email dionne@dionnekasianlew.com
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