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Persuasion
Today’s most used principles of persuasion
Ethics
Everything can be turned in a bad way.
The act of persuasion can lead to great results. Always look
for a win-win situation
Not Ethical !
Not Ethical !
Not Ethical ! Useable but ethical issues
Careful !
Do Not Use. Ever !
Liking
Bonding/ Compassion
Do something without negotiation
Works with family, friends…
Confidence
Believe in what you do
Importance of body language: it has to match what you say
Tips : firm handshake , smile, have your hands in your back while
listening…
Framing
Give a frame to the person you want to persuade
Tip: mirror the other person, use the same gestures,
breathe the same way
This is GOOD framing
No sunglasses
Eating at the same time
Look in the eyes
Sunglasses
Elbows on the table
Looking down
Same leg position
1
2
But be Careful
One gesture has different meanings
You need a full sentence to understand the meaning of a
word. The same applies to a gesture
Similarity
Mr Washington lives in Washington Street
Louise lives in Louisiana
it works with numbers too
YAY
People born on 02/02 live in Two Rocks
People born in 03/03 live in Three Falls
Similarity
We like people who look like us
Trust
If you’re consistent in what you do, i’ll trust you more, it
lowers the uncertainty !
How to build trust?
Do no harm
Keep your promises
Always tell the truth
Reciprocity
Exchange
Humanitarian : Soudan helping Mexico after a flood
Sales: ‘You’re a friend’ best car seller in the US
Marketing : Free gifts
Religion : ex of Krishna Church
Thank you cards: Easy and efficient
Contrast
Hot water / cold water buckets experience
Compare yourself to others: people look up rather than down: they
feel poor
Compare two people: a good looking one will look average if the
other is even better looking.
Sales: buy expensive item first : the add-ons will appear cheaper ($20
000 car + $1000 navigation system)
Too much choice leads to indecisiveness
Hurt and Rescue
Good cop/bad cop: threats from bad cop, then good cop : ‘he’s
serious but I can help but you need to tell me now’
Consistency
Consistency (cont)
Foot in the door technique : start small and ask for more : (put a small
logo for road safety on your lawn 3 weeks later you’re more willing to
accept a huge billboard on your lawn for that cause)
Alignment
Be consistent in your communication, consistent messages leads to trust
When your actions aren’t aligned with your beliefs:
cognitive dissonance
Arousal
Sexy door-to-door salesperson can trick you into the
consistency principle
Not Ethical !
Association
Pavlov : sound = food
Assumption
Leader with a vision: act like if it was true until it becomes
real
Daring
‘I dare you
to do this’
Refuse
No reward
I’m a
coward
I’m
inconsistent
Accept
Maybe a
reward
I’m not a
coward
I’m
consistent
Dare somebody to do something in presence of a good
looking member of the opposite sex works very well:
Daring (cont)
How to convince a:
Complainer
Risk taker
Extravert
Fragmentation
Divide you main goal in smaller goals,
Create a momentum towards it.
Story of man crossing the South Pole ‘my next
goal is to go to this mountain top’
Harmony
As human beings, we like harmony
Negotiation : find little points of agreement to create consensus
Don’t go against the flow (also social proof)
Ownership
We tend to value something more when we own it
Marketing : Part of identity : you + object = 1
Apple (defend product very hard = ‘fanboy’ behavior)
Auctions : Feeling of ownership: we feel like we already own the
object, we don’t let go. Loss of rationality
Persistence
Using same technique over and over:
The ennemy gets weaker everytime.
Ex: Child with mom grocery shopping
‘If it the front door is closed : use the back door. If the back door is
closed : use a ladder’
Social Proof
Social Proof
Highway: one line might be very long while the other one is empty
‘they might know something that I don’t know’
Social Proof
Sales : Amazon.com : ratings from other users : gives more credit
We tend to like what other people like
Entertainment: laugh tracks
Social Proof (bystander effect)
Kitty Genovese story: killed while 38 people were watching, noone
called 911 because everyone thought someone else would do it
Asch’s experience
http://www.dailymotion.com/video/x2vf3u_asch-experience_tech
Asch Principle : We’re influenced by other peoples opinion even when
we know we’re right.
If we see only this infographic we may tend to think that climate change
is really not happening. But were all these scientists asked about the
subject?
Amplification
Not Ethical !!!
Authority
Authority
We’re taught to always listen to authority (parents, teacher, police…)
Milgram experiment
Evidence
Not Ethical !
Listen to the credibility of the messenger rather than the credibility of
the message
Scarcity
Scarcity (booking.com)
Scarcity (H&M)
Constantly sell a new collection
Scarcity (cont)
Diamond market: The De Beer family buys a lot of diamonds to keep
the market in scarcity and thus high selling prices.
Exclusivity
Information that is exclusive is better valued
Scarcity (exp)
The last biscuit is valued more than the first ones
Appeal
Talk to people’s ‘good side’
Charities: how can you say no?
Closure
The mental experience of relief after a period of tension.
Buy a product during shopping
Saying ‘yes’ during a negotiation
‘Aha feeling’ after discovey
Project management : needs closure
Burrying : closure of life.
Can be dangerous : addictive : look for tension to be relieved.
Deception
Not Ethical !
Usually people trust others : The other person can’t know that you’re
lying. (trust principle)
Good lie : persuade yourself: you have to embody the lie.
Also: even better: group lie: the bigger it is, the more we tend to
believe it.
Deceipt (Body Language)
Beware of body language. You can catch signals of deceipt:
Hand to head gestures
mouth cover
nose touch
ear grab
eye rub
(Among many others)
Passion
Be passionate about what you do !!
Salesperson : believe in your product, embody it, talk about with
passion.
Don’t talk negatively about the opponent’s product but defend yours
/ Trash talk between can aslo create a story for your company
Enthousiasm is communicative: smile leads to other smiles
Substitution
Create a story so that the
other customer can identify
himself in it. Be a lovemark !
Inspire yourself from chefs:
they share their recipes and
don’t feel threatened bw
copycats.
Read it, its’ good
Uncertainty
When in situtation of uncertainty : you tend to use three principles
Social proof: you copy other people’s behavior
Scarcity: uncertainty about the future
Authority: you do what you’re told to
Miscelleanous
Distraction
Credits
Bernhard Baumgartner
bbaumgartner88@gmail.com
Robert Cialdini, Arizona State University
David Straker from www.changingminds.org
Allan & Barbara Pease
Malcolm Gladwell
John Kotter
37 Signals
Randy Pausch
And many more

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Persuasion Techniques

  • 1. Persuasion Today’s most used principles of persuasion
  • 2. Ethics Everything can be turned in a bad way. The act of persuasion can lead to great results. Always look for a win-win situation Not Ethical ! Not Ethical ! Not Ethical ! Useable but ethical issues Careful ! Do Not Use. Ever !
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  • 5. Bonding/ Compassion Do something without negotiation Works with family, friends…
  • 6. Confidence Believe in what you do Importance of body language: it has to match what you say Tips : firm handshake , smile, have your hands in your back while listening…
  • 7. Framing Give a frame to the person you want to persuade Tip: mirror the other person, use the same gestures, breathe the same way
  • 8. This is GOOD framing No sunglasses Eating at the same time Look in the eyes Sunglasses Elbows on the table Looking down Same leg position 1 2
  • 9. But be Careful One gesture has different meanings You need a full sentence to understand the meaning of a word. The same applies to a gesture
  • 10. Similarity Mr Washington lives in Washington Street Louise lives in Louisiana
  • 11. it works with numbers too YAY
  • 12. People born on 02/02 live in Two Rocks People born in 03/03 live in Three Falls
  • 13. Similarity We like people who look like us
  • 14. Trust If you’re consistent in what you do, i’ll trust you more, it lowers the uncertainty ! How to build trust? Do no harm Keep your promises Always tell the truth
  • 16. Exchange Humanitarian : Soudan helping Mexico after a flood Sales: ‘You’re a friend’ best car seller in the US Marketing : Free gifts Religion : ex of Krishna Church
  • 17. Thank you cards: Easy and efficient
  • 18. Contrast Hot water / cold water buckets experience Compare yourself to others: people look up rather than down: they feel poor Compare two people: a good looking one will look average if the other is even better looking. Sales: buy expensive item first : the add-ons will appear cheaper ($20 000 car + $1000 navigation system)
  • 19. Too much choice leads to indecisiveness
  • 20. Hurt and Rescue Good cop/bad cop: threats from bad cop, then good cop : ‘he’s serious but I can help but you need to tell me now’
  • 22. Consistency (cont) Foot in the door technique : start small and ask for more : (put a small logo for road safety on your lawn 3 weeks later you’re more willing to accept a huge billboard on your lawn for that cause)
  • 23. Alignment Be consistent in your communication, consistent messages leads to trust When your actions aren’t aligned with your beliefs: cognitive dissonance
  • 24. Arousal Sexy door-to-door salesperson can trick you into the consistency principle Not Ethical !
  • 26. Assumption Leader with a vision: act like if it was true until it becomes real
  • 27. Daring ‘I dare you to do this’ Refuse No reward I’m a coward I’m inconsistent Accept Maybe a reward I’m not a coward I’m consistent Dare somebody to do something in presence of a good looking member of the opposite sex works very well:
  • 28. Daring (cont) How to convince a: Complainer Risk taker Extravert
  • 29. Fragmentation Divide you main goal in smaller goals, Create a momentum towards it. Story of man crossing the South Pole ‘my next goal is to go to this mountain top’
  • 30. Harmony As human beings, we like harmony Negotiation : find little points of agreement to create consensus Don’t go against the flow (also social proof)
  • 31. Ownership We tend to value something more when we own it Marketing : Part of identity : you + object = 1 Apple (defend product very hard = ‘fanboy’ behavior) Auctions : Feeling of ownership: we feel like we already own the object, we don’t let go. Loss of rationality
  • 32. Persistence Using same technique over and over: The ennemy gets weaker everytime. Ex: Child with mom grocery shopping ‘If it the front door is closed : use the back door. If the back door is closed : use a ladder’
  • 34. Social Proof Highway: one line might be very long while the other one is empty ‘they might know something that I don’t know’
  • 35. Social Proof Sales : Amazon.com : ratings from other users : gives more credit We tend to like what other people like Entertainment: laugh tracks
  • 36. Social Proof (bystander effect) Kitty Genovese story: killed while 38 people were watching, noone called 911 because everyone thought someone else would do it
  • 37. Asch’s experience http://www.dailymotion.com/video/x2vf3u_asch-experience_tech Asch Principle : We’re influenced by other peoples opinion even when we know we’re right.
  • 38. If we see only this infographic we may tend to think that climate change is really not happening. But were all these scientists asked about the subject? Amplification Not Ethical !!!
  • 40. Authority We’re taught to always listen to authority (parents, teacher, police…) Milgram experiment
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  • 42. Evidence Not Ethical ! Listen to the credibility of the messenger rather than the credibility of the message
  • 45. Scarcity (H&M) Constantly sell a new collection
  • 46. Scarcity (cont) Diamond market: The De Beer family buys a lot of diamonds to keep the market in scarcity and thus high selling prices.
  • 47. Exclusivity Information that is exclusive is better valued
  • 48. Scarcity (exp) The last biscuit is valued more than the first ones
  • 49. Appeal Talk to people’s ‘good side’ Charities: how can you say no?
  • 50. Closure The mental experience of relief after a period of tension. Buy a product during shopping Saying ‘yes’ during a negotiation ‘Aha feeling’ after discovey Project management : needs closure Burrying : closure of life. Can be dangerous : addictive : look for tension to be relieved.
  • 51. Deception Not Ethical ! Usually people trust others : The other person can’t know that you’re lying. (trust principle) Good lie : persuade yourself: you have to embody the lie. Also: even better: group lie: the bigger it is, the more we tend to believe it.
  • 52. Deceipt (Body Language) Beware of body language. You can catch signals of deceipt: Hand to head gestures mouth cover nose touch ear grab eye rub (Among many others)
  • 53. Passion Be passionate about what you do !! Salesperson : believe in your product, embody it, talk about with passion. Don’t talk negatively about the opponent’s product but defend yours / Trash talk between can aslo create a story for your company Enthousiasm is communicative: smile leads to other smiles
  • 54. Substitution Create a story so that the other customer can identify himself in it. Be a lovemark ! Inspire yourself from chefs: they share their recipes and don’t feel threatened bw copycats. Read it, its’ good
  • 55. Uncertainty When in situtation of uncertainty : you tend to use three principles Social proof: you copy other people’s behavior Scarcity: uncertainty about the future Authority: you do what you’re told to
  • 58. Credits Bernhard Baumgartner bbaumgartner88@gmail.com Robert Cialdini, Arizona State University David Straker from www.changingminds.org Allan & Barbara Pease Malcolm Gladwell John Kotter 37 Signals Randy Pausch And many more