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Safety PlanningBatterer-generated risksLife-generated
risksBattered women's safety planning strategiesThe role of the
advocatesBattered Women's Risk Analysis Chart
Personalized Safety Plan
Barbara Hart and Jane Stuehling, PCADV, 524 McKnight Street,
Reading, PA 19601
PCADV, 1992
Name:
Date:
Review dates:
The following steps represent my plan for increasing my safety
and preparing in
advance for the possibility for further violence. Although I do
not have control
over my partner's violence, I do have a choice about how to
respond to him/her
and how to best get myself and my children to safety.
Step 1: Safety During A Violent Incident.
Women cannot always avoid violent incidents. In order to
increase safety, battered women may use a variety of strategies.
I can use some or all of the following strategies:
A. If I decide to leave, I will__________________________ .
(Practice how to get out safely. What doors, windows, elevators,
stairwells or fire escapes would you use?)
B. I can keep my purse and car keys ready and put them
___________________(place) in order to leave quickly.
C. I can tell ______________________ about the violence and
request they call the police if they hear suspicious noises
coming from my house. I can also tell
____________________________about the violence and request
they call the police if they hear suspicious noises coming from
my house.
D. I can teach my children how to use the telephone to contact
the police and
the fire department.
E. I will use__________________________ as my code word
with my children or my friends so they can call for help.
F. If I have to leave my home, I will
go_____________________________ . (Decide this even if you
don't think there will be a next time.) If I cannot go to the
location above, then I can go to _____________________or
_____________________________.
G. I can also teach some of these strategies to some/all of my
children.
H. When I expect we are going to have an argument, I will try
to move to a space
that is lowest risk, such as_________________________ . (Try
to avoid arguments in the bathroom, garage, kitchens, near
weapons or in rooms without access to an outside door.)
I. I will use my judgment and intuition. If the situation is very
serious, I
can give my partner what he/she wants to calm him/her down. I
have to protect
myself until I/we are out of danger.
Step 2: Safety When Preparing to Leave.
Battered women frequently leave the residence they share with
the battering partner. Leaving must be done with a careful plan
in order to increase safety. Batterers often strike back when
they believe that a battered woman is leaving a relationship.
I can use some or all of the following safety strategies:
A. I will leave money and an extra set of keys
with_____________________ so I can leave quickly.
B. I will keep copies of important documents or keys at
__________________________.
C. I will open a savings account by_______________________ ,
to increase my independence.
D. Others things I can do to increase my independence include:
_____________________________________________________
___________________
E. The domestic violence program's hotline number
is_________________________ . I can seek shelter by calling
this hotline.
F. I can keep change for phone calls on me at all times. I
understand that if I
use my telephone credit card, the following month the telephone
bill will tell
my batterer those numbers that I called after I left. To keep my
telephone
communications confidential, I must either use coins or I might
get a friend to
permit me to use their telephone credit card for a limited time
when I first
leave.
G. I will check with__________________________ and
__________________________to see who would be able to let
me stay with them or lend me some money.
H. I can leave extra clothes
with_____________________________________ .
I. I will sit down and review my safety plan
every__________________________ in order to plan the safest
way to leave the residence. _____________________(domestic
violence advocate or friend) has agreed to help me review this
plan.
J. I will rehearse my escape plan and, as appropriate, practice it
with my
children.
Step 3: Safety in My Own Residence.
There are many things that a woman can do to increase her
safety in her own residence. It may impossible to do everything
at once, but safety measures can be added step by step.
Safety measures I can use include:
A. I can change the locks on my doors and windows as soon as
possible.
B. I can replace wooden doors with steel/metal doors.
C. I can install security systems including additional locks,
window bars, poles
to wedge against doors, an electronic system, etc.
D. I can purchase rope ladders to be used for escape from
second floor windows.
E. I can install smoke detectors and purchase fire extinguishers
for each floor
in my house/apartment.
F. I can install an outside lighting system that lights up when a
person is
coming close to my house.
G. I will teach my children how to use the telephone to make a
collect call to
me and to ____________________(friend/minister/other) in the
event that my partner takes the children.
H. I will tell people who take care of my children which people
have permission
to pick up my children and that my partner is not permitted to
do so. The people
I will inform about pick-up permission include:
School______________________________________
Day care staff________________________________
Babysitter___________________________________
Sunday school teacher_________________________
Teacher_____________________________________
Others______________________________________
I. I can inform__________________ (neighbor),
____________________(pastor), and
_____________________(friend) that my partner no longer
resides with me and they should call the police if he is observed
near my residence.
Step 4: Safety with a Protection Order.
Many batterers obey protection orders, but one can never be
sure which violent partner will obey and which will violate
protection orders. I recognize that I may need to ask the police
and the courts to enforce my protection order.
The following are some steps that I can take to help the
enforcement of my
protection order:
A. I will keep my protection order
_______________________(location). (Always keep it on or
near your person. If you change purses, that's the first thing that
should go in.)
B. I will give my protection order to police departments in the
community where
I work, in those communities where I usually visit family or
friends, and in the
community where I live.
C. There should be a county registry of protection orders that
all police
departments can call to confirm a protection order. I can check
to make sure
that my order is in the registry. The telephone number for the
county registry
of protection orders is_______________________________ .
D. For further safety, if I often visit other counties, I might file
my protection order with the court in those counties. I will
register my protection order in the following counties:
____________________,____________________ , and
__________________.
E. I can call the local domestic violence program if I am not
sure about B., C.,
or D. above or if I have some problem with my protection order.
F. I will inform my employer, my minister, my closest friend
and __________________ that I have a protection order in
effect.
G. If my partner destroys my protection order, I can get another
copy from the
courthouse located at ____________________________ .
H. If my partner violates the protection order, I can call the
police and report
a violation, contact my attorney, call my advocate, and/or
advise the court of
the violation.
I. If the police do not help, I can contact my advocate or
attorney and will
file a complaint with the chief of the police department.
J. I can also file a private criminal complaint with the district
justice in the
jurisdiction where the violation occurred or with the district
attorney. I can
charge my battering partner with a violation of the protection
order and all the
crimes that he commits in violating the order. I can call the
domestic violence
advocate to help me with this.
Step 5: Safety on the Job and in Public.
Each battered woman must decide if and when she will tell
others that her partner has battered her and that she may be at
continued risk. Friends, family and co-workers can help to
protect women. Each woman should consider carefully which
people to invite to help secure her safety.
I might do any or all of the following:
A. I can inform my boss, the security supervisor and at work of
my situation.
B. I can ask________________________ to help screen my
telephone calls at work.
C. When leaving work, I can
______________________________________.
D. When driving home if problems occur, I can
_________________________________.
E. If I use public transit, I
can__________________________________________ .
F. I can use different grocery stores and shopping malls to
conduct my business
and shop at hours that are different than those when residing
with my battering
partner.
G. I can use a different bank and take care of my banking at
hours different
from those I used when residing with my battering partner.
H. I can also
_______________________________________________.
Step 6: Safety and Drug or Alcohol Use.
Most people in this culture use alcohol. Many use mood-altering
drugs. Much of this use is legal and some is not. The legal
outcomes of using illegal drugs can be very hard on a battered
woman, may hurt her relationship with her children and put her
at a disadvantage in other legal actions with her battering
partner. Therefore, women should carefully consider the
potential cost of the use of illegal drugs. But beyond this, the
use of any alcohol or other drugs can reduce a woman's
awareness and ability to act quickly to protect herself from her
battering partner. Furthermore, the use
of alcohol or other drugs by the batterer may give him/her an
excuse to use
violence. Therefore, in the context of drug or alcohol use, a
woman needs to
make specific safety plans.
If drug or alcohol use has occurred in my relationship with the
battering partner, I can enhance my safety by some or all of the
following:
A. If I am going to use, I can do so in a safe place and with
people who
understand the risk of violence and are committed to my safety.
B. I can
also_________________________________________________
____ .
C. If my partner is using, I can
__________________________________________.
D. I might also
____________________________________________________.
E. To safeguard my children, I
might_______________________ and_________________ .
Step 7: Safety and My Emotional Health.
The experience of being battered and verbally degraded by
partners is usually exhausting and emotionally draining.
The process of building a new life for myself takes much
courage and incredible
energy. To conserve my emotional energy and resources and to
avoid hard emotional times, I can do some of the following:
A. If I feel down and ready to return to a potentially abusive
situation, I can
____________________________________________.
B. When I have to communicate with my partner in person or by
telephone, I can
__________________________________________________.
C. I can try to use "I can . . ." statements with myself and to be
assertive
with others.
D. I can tell myself - "_____________________ " - whenever I
feel others are trying to control or abuse me.
E. I can read_____________________________________ to
help me feel stronger.
F. I can call _______________________, and as other resources
to be of support to me.
G. Other things I can do to help me feel stronger are
_____________________, _________________________and
___________________________.
H. I can attend workshops and support groups at the domestic
violence program or
______________________, or to gain support and strengthen
my relationships with other people.
Step 8: Items to Take When Leaving.
When women leave partners, it is important to take certain
items with them. Beyond this, women sometimes give an extra
copy of papers and an extra set of clothing to a friend just in
case they have to leave quickly.
Items with asterisks on the following list are the most important
to take. If
there is time, the other items might be taken, or stored outside
the home.
These items might best be placed in one location, so that if we
have to leave in
a hurry, I can grab them quickly.
When I leave, I should take:
* Identification for myself
* Children's birth certificates
* My birth certificate
* Social Security cards
* School and vaccination records
* Money
* Checkbook, ATM (Automatic Teller Machine) card
* Credit cards
* Keys - house/car/office
* Driver's license and registration
* Medications
Welfare identification
Work permits
Green card
Passport(s)
Divorce papers
Medical records - for all family members
Lease/rental agreement, house deed, mortgage payment book
Bank books
Insurance papers
Small saleable objects
Address book
Pictures
Jewelry
Children's favorite toys and/or blankets
Items of special sentimental value
Telephone numbers I need to know:
Police department - home
Police department - school
Police department - work
Battered women's program
County registry of protection orders
Work number
Supervisor's home number
Minister
Other

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Safety PlanningBatte.docx

  • 1. Safety PlanningBatterer-generated risksLife-generated risksBattered women's safety planning strategiesThe role of the advocatesBattered Women's Risk Analysis Chart Personalized Safety Plan Barbara Hart and Jane Stuehling, PCADV, 524 McKnight Street,
  • 2. Reading, PA 19601 PCADV, 1992 Name: Date: Review dates: The following steps represent my plan for increasing my safety and preparing in advance for the possibility for further violence. Although I do not have control over my partner's violence, I do have a choice about how to respond to him/her and how to best get myself and my children to safety. Step 1: Safety During A Violent Incident. Women cannot always avoid violent incidents. In order to increase safety, battered women may use a variety of strategies. I can use some or all of the following strategies: A. If I decide to leave, I will__________________________ . (Practice how to get out safely. What doors, windows, elevators, stairwells or fire escapes would you use?) B. I can keep my purse and car keys ready and put them ___________________(place) in order to leave quickly. C. I can tell ______________________ about the violence and request they call the police if they hear suspicious noises coming from my house. I can also tell ____________________________about the violence and request they call the police if they hear suspicious noises coming from my house. D. I can teach my children how to use the telephone to contact the police and
  • 3. the fire department. E. I will use__________________________ as my code word with my children or my friends so they can call for help. F. If I have to leave my home, I will go_____________________________ . (Decide this even if you don't think there will be a next time.) If I cannot go to the location above, then I can go to _____________________or _____________________________. G. I can also teach some of these strategies to some/all of my children. H. When I expect we are going to have an argument, I will try to move to a space that is lowest risk, such as_________________________ . (Try to avoid arguments in the bathroom, garage, kitchens, near weapons or in rooms without access to an outside door.) I. I will use my judgment and intuition. If the situation is very serious, I can give my partner what he/she wants to calm him/her down. I have to protect myself until I/we are out of danger. Step 2: Safety When Preparing to Leave. Battered women frequently leave the residence they share with the battering partner. Leaving must be done with a careful plan in order to increase safety. Batterers often strike back when they believe that a battered woman is leaving a relationship. I can use some or all of the following safety strategies: A. I will leave money and an extra set of keys with_____________________ so I can leave quickly. B. I will keep copies of important documents or keys at __________________________. C. I will open a savings account by_______________________ , to increase my independence.
  • 4. D. Others things I can do to increase my independence include: _____________________________________________________ ___________________ E. The domestic violence program's hotline number is_________________________ . I can seek shelter by calling this hotline. F. I can keep change for phone calls on me at all times. I understand that if I use my telephone credit card, the following month the telephone bill will tell my batterer those numbers that I called after I left. To keep my telephone communications confidential, I must either use coins or I might get a friend to permit me to use their telephone credit card for a limited time when I first leave. G. I will check with__________________________ and __________________________to see who would be able to let me stay with them or lend me some money. H. I can leave extra clothes with_____________________________________ . I. I will sit down and review my safety plan every__________________________ in order to plan the safest way to leave the residence. _____________________(domestic violence advocate or friend) has agreed to help me review this plan. J. I will rehearse my escape plan and, as appropriate, practice it with my children. Step 3: Safety in My Own Residence. There are many things that a woman can do to increase her
  • 5. safety in her own residence. It may impossible to do everything at once, but safety measures can be added step by step. Safety measures I can use include: A. I can change the locks on my doors and windows as soon as possible. B. I can replace wooden doors with steel/metal doors. C. I can install security systems including additional locks, window bars, poles to wedge against doors, an electronic system, etc. D. I can purchase rope ladders to be used for escape from second floor windows. E. I can install smoke detectors and purchase fire extinguishers for each floor in my house/apartment. F. I can install an outside lighting system that lights up when a person is coming close to my house. G. I will teach my children how to use the telephone to make a collect call to me and to ____________________(friend/minister/other) in the event that my partner takes the children. H. I will tell people who take care of my children which people have permission to pick up my children and that my partner is not permitted to do so. The people I will inform about pick-up permission include: School______________________________________ Day care staff________________________________ Babysitter___________________________________ Sunday school teacher_________________________ Teacher_____________________________________ Others______________________________________ I. I can inform__________________ (neighbor), ____________________(pastor), and
  • 6. _____________________(friend) that my partner no longer resides with me and they should call the police if he is observed near my residence. Step 4: Safety with a Protection Order. Many batterers obey protection orders, but one can never be sure which violent partner will obey and which will violate protection orders. I recognize that I may need to ask the police and the courts to enforce my protection order. The following are some steps that I can take to help the enforcement of my protection order: A. I will keep my protection order _______________________(location). (Always keep it on or near your person. If you change purses, that's the first thing that should go in.) B. I will give my protection order to police departments in the community where I work, in those communities where I usually visit family or friends, and in the community where I live. C. There should be a county registry of protection orders that all police departments can call to confirm a protection order. I can check to make sure that my order is in the registry. The telephone number for the county registry of protection orders is_______________________________ . D. For further safety, if I often visit other counties, I might file my protection order with the court in those counties. I will register my protection order in the following counties: ____________________,____________________ , and __________________. E. I can call the local domestic violence program if I am not
  • 7. sure about B., C., or D. above or if I have some problem with my protection order. F. I will inform my employer, my minister, my closest friend and __________________ that I have a protection order in effect. G. If my partner destroys my protection order, I can get another copy from the courthouse located at ____________________________ . H. If my partner violates the protection order, I can call the police and report a violation, contact my attorney, call my advocate, and/or advise the court of the violation. I. If the police do not help, I can contact my advocate or attorney and will file a complaint with the chief of the police department. J. I can also file a private criminal complaint with the district justice in the jurisdiction where the violation occurred or with the district attorney. I can charge my battering partner with a violation of the protection order and all the crimes that he commits in violating the order. I can call the domestic violence advocate to help me with this. Step 5: Safety on the Job and in Public. Each battered woman must decide if and when she will tell others that her partner has battered her and that she may be at continued risk. Friends, family and co-workers can help to protect women. Each woman should consider carefully which people to invite to help secure her safety. I might do any or all of the following:
  • 8. A. I can inform my boss, the security supervisor and at work of my situation. B. I can ask________________________ to help screen my telephone calls at work. C. When leaving work, I can ______________________________________. D. When driving home if problems occur, I can _________________________________. E. If I use public transit, I can__________________________________________ . F. I can use different grocery stores and shopping malls to conduct my business and shop at hours that are different than those when residing with my battering partner. G. I can use a different bank and take care of my banking at hours different from those I used when residing with my battering partner. H. I can also _______________________________________________. Step 6: Safety and Drug or Alcohol Use. Most people in this culture use alcohol. Many use mood-altering drugs. Much of this use is legal and some is not. The legal outcomes of using illegal drugs can be very hard on a battered woman, may hurt her relationship with her children and put her at a disadvantage in other legal actions with her battering partner. Therefore, women should carefully consider the potential cost of the use of illegal drugs. But beyond this, the use of any alcohol or other drugs can reduce a woman's awareness and ability to act quickly to protect herself from her battering partner. Furthermore, the use of alcohol or other drugs by the batterer may give him/her an excuse to use violence. Therefore, in the context of drug or alcohol use, a
  • 9. woman needs to make specific safety plans. If drug or alcohol use has occurred in my relationship with the battering partner, I can enhance my safety by some or all of the following: A. If I am going to use, I can do so in a safe place and with people who understand the risk of violence and are committed to my safety. B. I can also_________________________________________________ ____ . C. If my partner is using, I can __________________________________________. D. I might also ____________________________________________________. E. To safeguard my children, I might_______________________ and_________________ . Step 7: Safety and My Emotional Health. The experience of being battered and verbally degraded by partners is usually exhausting and emotionally draining. The process of building a new life for myself takes much courage and incredible energy. To conserve my emotional energy and resources and to avoid hard emotional times, I can do some of the following: A. If I feel down and ready to return to a potentially abusive situation, I can ____________________________________________. B. When I have to communicate with my partner in person or by telephone, I can __________________________________________________.
  • 10. C. I can try to use "I can . . ." statements with myself and to be assertive with others. D. I can tell myself - "_____________________ " - whenever I feel others are trying to control or abuse me. E. I can read_____________________________________ to help me feel stronger. F. I can call _______________________, and as other resources to be of support to me. G. Other things I can do to help me feel stronger are _____________________, _________________________and ___________________________. H. I can attend workshops and support groups at the domestic violence program or ______________________, or to gain support and strengthen my relationships with other people. Step 8: Items to Take When Leaving. When women leave partners, it is important to take certain items with them. Beyond this, women sometimes give an extra copy of papers and an extra set of clothing to a friend just in case they have to leave quickly. Items with asterisks on the following list are the most important to take. If there is time, the other items might be taken, or stored outside the home. These items might best be placed in one location, so that if we have to leave in a hurry, I can grab them quickly. When I leave, I should take:
  • 11. * Identification for myself * Children's birth certificates * My birth certificate * Social Security cards * School and vaccination records * Money * Checkbook, ATM (Automatic Teller Machine) card * Credit cards * Keys - house/car/office * Driver's license and registration * Medications Welfare identification Work permits Green card Passport(s) Divorce papers Medical records - for all family members Lease/rental agreement, house deed, mortgage payment book Bank books Insurance papers Small saleable objects Address book Pictures Jewelry Children's favorite toys and/or blankets Items of special sentimental value Telephone numbers I need to know: Police department - home Police department - school Police department - work Battered women's program County registry of protection orders Work number Supervisor's home number Minister
  • 12. Other