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The Importance Of Listening Skills
English is an international language that students need to learn. There are four language skills students need to master, one of which is listening skill.
Listening skill is one of the four language skills which plays important roles in language acquisition. It plays an important role in a way that it gives
inputs and presents the model of a language (Nation & Newton, 2009). Through listening, students are unconsciously trained to differ sounds, accents,
stresses, and intonations. Additionally, listening also plays a crucial part in communication. According to Mendelsohn (1994, as cited in Hamouda,
2013), language users use 40–50% of the time in listening; 25–30% in speaking; 11–16% in reading; and in writing is about 9%. Consequently,
listening is one of the English language skills students need to master due to its importance in language communication and acquisition. For that
matter, it is an obligation for teachers to help students develop listening skill.
In contrast, achieving the goal of having a good listening skill for junior high school level seems to be a challenging process. It takes time as it needs
practices more than theories. As mentioned by an English teacher of a junior high school in Malang, conducting listening practice requires a lot of
preparation and it takes time and energy. Most of the time, the teacher skipped the listening practices because there is not enough time to give students
listening practices since the time allocated for English subject at
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Listening Skills Essay
Listening is one of the important skills among three other English skills; reading, writing and speaking. Listening play significant role in language
development. Listening is the ability to hear and understand what other people say. It is also the basic skill that we have in learning language because
we listen before we speak. Just take the example of the babies. Before they can talk with their parents, they only give signs when they want to
communicate with them by crying. They only listen to the speech or sounds that close to them. By the time, they gain all of knowledge and
information from the people near them. Then, they start to imitate and try to speak. Of course, this takes time, the babies cannot talk directly when they
listen to the language. So, this is the same as the learners who try to learn English as a second language. Especially in listening ability. Listening is a
receptive skill because the learners do not need to produce the language. They only receive and try to understand the language. Receptive...show more
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It looks one way and then it sounds completely different. However, using subtitle when watch a movie video can help the learners to activates two part
of the learner's brain; listening and reading skills. Because the learners listen the movie video while read the subtitle. Beside subtitle can improve
learner listening ability. It can also help the learners unconsciously remember a new vocabulary (Vanderplank, 1988). Sometimes, the learners miss the
hearing of the vocabulary because they are not sure what is the vocabulary that spoken in the movie video, but with the help of subtitle the learner can
read the subtitle and they will keep that in their mind much better. Although, the use of subtitle sometimes can distract and disturb the learner when
they watch the movie video because they tend to read the subtitle rather than listen to English spoken language in the movie
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An Example Of Personal Listening
Listening is one of the most important processes in any sphere of life, such as business, education and relationships. Listening is more than just hearing
voices and noise, listening means concentrating, giving attention to someone talking, be open minded, attending in the discussion (Schilling, par.3),
and understanding what the person is actually interpreting, using body expression and words (Giang, par.1). These skills are required for success and a
good life. They give the solution of conflicts and difficulties, develop correctness, guarantee comprehension and create reliable relationships (Schilling,
par.1). Considering all this, it will be presented an example of someone's listening skills by an observation and an analysis and the ways of
improvement of my personal listening skills.
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I observed the negotiation from an outside angle for about half an hour at my uncle's office. During the discussion, I absorbed if the customer was a
good listener. I tried to figure out his bad and good habits in his listening skills regarding the information I learned in class and the material I read.
During my observation, I noticed a few things which I considered as important for a successful business and working time, such as their suitable
clothes and professional standing. In the beginning, the customer appeared as a good listener. As Dianne Schilling said, facing the person talking,
having eye contact with him and keeping an open mind are important habits for an effective listening (par.2, 4). Most of the time, the customer faced
my uncle and had eye contact with him showing the good habits of a listener. Indeed as Vivian Giang said, knowing and following whatthe other person
is saying considering the verbal and nonverbal indications has a huge impact in effective listening (par.1, 14, 15). The customer did follow my uncle
while talking, but there were a few cases he felt lost in the discussion. The reason, he felt lost, was that
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Essay On Speaking And Listening
1.3 Speaking and listening Listening is an important skill for the person who is learning English because in verbal communication we cannot
communicate with each other without listening to the speaker's utterances and understanding them. However, listening is a very demanding and
challenging skill for the learners to master. Many students often encounter trouble in listening to foreign people even though they are doing well in the
English classroom. According to Rubin (1995:8), "For second/foreign language learners, listening is the skill that makes the heaviest processing
demands because learners must store information in short term memory at the same time as they are working to understand the information".
Furthermore, as she explains, "Whereas in reading learners can go over the text at leisure, they generally don't have the opportunity to do so in
listening". As Broughton and et al (1988:65) claim it appears that listening is a passive skill, and speaking is an active one. This is not really true, since
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This order may not be the same, however, because of the differences in grammatical features of the diverse human languages. Further research needs
to be done so that these natural orders can be discovered and utilized in the teaching of foreign languages. Originally, my research was to include
these other natural orders, but I was unable to find any research pertaining to the languages I was studying. So I decided to focus instead on the way
grammar is taught in general in classrooms and how it is presented in
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Speaking And Listening Skills Essay
Speaking and listening skills are very important for a number of reasons:
–Spoken language is at the heart of human interaction, at home, at work and in society. –Speaking and listening skills are important in all contexts in
which learning takes place, whether it be literacy, language or numeracy, etc.–Good speaking and listening skills are a key aspect of employability:
getting a job, maintaining employment and progressing at work. –Good oral communication skills are important in other aspects of lives, for example
in family and peer relationships. –Purposeful use of speaking and listening is central to effective teaching and learning. –Speaking and listening are
important in all types of provision, be it discrete literacy and numeracy...show more content...
Shaking these loudly, softly, when marching, skipping or stomping. Playing 'guess what's inside the instrument'.
–Singing known songs loudly and then softly, stretching words in known songs and adding new words or sounds.
–Listening to a range of music with the children from rap to classical. Encourage the children to move in response to the variety of musical styles and
moods.
–Learning some action rhymes such as 'wind the bobbin up'.
–Playing some commercially produced tapes and CDs. Clapping along with familiar rhymes and learning new ones.
–Listening to the sounds the feet make when walking/running/skipping: slowly, softly, fast, stomping hard, in flip flops, boots, and high heels.
–Trying different types of claps: clapping hands softly, fast and making a pattern for the children to follow. Stomping feet. Tapping fingers. Clicking
tongue.
–Inventing a special clap routine for when someone does something really well.
–Reading or saying poems, songs, nursery songs and rhyming stories, trying to use gestures, tapping regular beats and pauses to emphasise the rhythm
of the piece.
–Adding percussion to mark the beats using hands, feet or
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Listening –Definition: "the ability to accurately receive and interpret messages in the communication process" (http://www.skillsyouneed.com
/interpersonal–skills.html) –Example: With listening skill, you can obtain more information because your subordinates will talk with you honestly.
Sometimes staffs don't want to let their boss know information, especially about bad information, but active listening skill help you to get those
information also. It enable you to make a decision based on less biased information. –Web site:
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introduces 3 methods for developing listening skill. First, we have to adjust our mind to the speaker's mind. It is called Pacing. Second, we repeat
what the speaker said so that make him/her comfortable. It is called Repeating. Third, we summarize what the speaker said so that we can assure that
we understand what he/she meant. It is called Para–phrasing. Assertiveness –Definition: "being able to stand up for your own or other people's rights in
a calm and positive way, without being either aggressive, or passively accepting 'wrong'." (http://www.skillsyouneed.com/ps/assertiveness.html)
–Example: In team meeting, you can let members know your opinion without making anyone uncomfortable or upset, even if the member have other
opinions. –Web site: Assertiveness– Tips & Techniques.
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Research Paper On Listening Skills
EXECUTIVE SUMMARY
Listening is the first communication skill which the neonate acquires. Listening refers to the technique of paying attention to what the orator is
saying. (Underwood, 1989, page 1) It involves hearing, understanding and interpreting the message conveyed. The concept of listening skills is
incomplete without a proper feedback or response. An accurate feedback will boost the morale of the speaker thus encouraging him to deliver his
messages more effectively. Listening skills helps people to become cognizant of; what the speaker is talking about. United States Department of
Labor Secretary's Commission on Achieving Necessary Skills (SCANS) have recognized five proficiencies and three foundation skills that the work
personnel but possess before they enter the workplace. Among these three foundation skills, listening skill was listed as crucial. (What Work Requires
of Schools: A SCANS Report for America 2000). Hence listening skills are decisive of personnel entering the workforce.
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Just listen" Listening is a skill which is imbibed in the early stages of life. It requires ability and a lot of practice to become an efficient listener. To
become an efficient listener a person must endeavour to get rid of the poor listening habits. (Motion Masters). A study suggests that on an average,
more than half of the time (70%) is spent by an adult on communication. People spend more time in listening as compared to the other communication
skills i.e. reading, writing and speaking. (Adler, R. et al. 2001). The role of listening skill in business world cannot be underestimated. To be an
efficient worker, a person needs to be an efficient listener. Listening is bifurcated as: content, critical, empathic, and active listening. (Films for the
Humanities and Sciences) Listening skills play a vital role in the success of any
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Listening
Listening is a difficult skill that few people ever learn.
Experts say the average person has 25% listening efficiency.
Listening with understanding, is more than just sitting back and letting words flow into your ears.
Listening is an active skill that is at least as hard as talking, maybe harder.
There is no real communication unless the listener understands, accepts, and will take action based on what was said.
The person who develops good listening skills has a head start on providing the best solutions based on information obtained during conversations.
1. WHAT ISHEARING & A person who incorporates listening with concentration is actively listening.п‚ў Listening is the absorption of the meanings
of words and sentences by the brain...show more content...
'Active listening' means, as its name suggests, actively listening. That is fully concentrating on what is being said rather than just passively 'hearing' the
message of the speaker.
Active listening involves listening with all senses. As well as giving full attention to the speaker, it is important that the 'active listener' is also 'seen' to
be listening – otherwise the speaker may conclude that what they are talking about is uninteresting to the listener.
Interest can be conveyed to the speaker by using both verbal and non–verbal messages such as maintaining eye contact, nodding your head and smiling,
agreeing by saying 'Yes' or simply 'Mmm hmm' to encourage them to continue. By providing this 'feedback' the person speaking will usually feel more
at ease and therefore communicate more easily, openly and honestly.
Listening is the most fundamental component of interpersonal communication skills. Listening is not something that just happens (that is hearing),
listening is an active process in which a conscious decision is made to listen to and understand the messages of the speaker. Listeners should remain
neutral and non–judgmental, this means trying not to take sides or form opinions, especially early in the conversation. Active listening is also about
patience – pauses and short periods of silence should be accepted. Listeners should not be tempted to jump in with questions or comments every time
there are a
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Essay Listening Skills
Listening Skills
The importance of listening effectively is obvious to our everyday activities. The fundamentals of listening appear to be quite simple; however, with
a little thought on the matter, the depth of the listening is far from basic. The similarities between hearing and listening can be deceiving. Hearing is
a physical process and listening is both physical and psychological. There are several purposes of listening. If you are a good listener, it will be a
huge help in school, at work, in relationship, and in other situations. Another positive benefit of being a good listener is the ability to easily express
information and communicate with others. You can listen to understand, listen to appreciate and you can listen...show more content...
Lisa asked whether or not she should bail her daughter out of the jail. Dr. Laura was open–minded in that conversation. She did not prejudge Lisa?s
daughter; she asked questions in order to get a feeling for what was going on. Dr. Laura wanted to know if Lisa?s daughter caused any kind of
problems before or if she lied in the past. After the short conversation, Dr. Laura was ready to give advice. Dr. Laura replied that if she was telling the
truth about the loan, she could get proof, and that would clear her from the
charges. Dr. Laura advised Lisa not to bail her out. All of these characteristics that Dr. Laura demonstrated are examples of listening to appreciate.
Another concept of listening is listening to understand, which involves verbal and nonverbal messages. This includes body language, hand movements,
posture, word–emphasis, etc. However, being on a talk radio show and interpreting verbal and nonverbal gestures is difficult. The speaker?s tone of
voice, rate of speech, and enthusiasm are the only characteristics that Dr. Laura can refer to while listening to her guests. The perfect example for this
concept from Dr. Laura?s audition would be the call from Magi; she had a question about her mother of 94 years. According to the book, vocabulary,
concentration, and memory contribute to understanding the listener; and Dr. Laura dealt with that pretty well. She focused on the main idea of the
story, which was that Magi?s mom lost the ability to
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Essay on Effective Listening
Effective Listening
The ability to listen well is an important tool for understanding others. Sadly, very few people know how to listen well. In fact, most people can think
of only one or two good listeners in their lives. Listening is not simply agreeing – it is much more. Good listeners are able to better understand and
respond to others, complete assignments accurately, settle disagreements before they escalate, and establish rapport with difficult people.
Listening is often confused with hearing. This serious misconception can lead us to believe that good listening is instinctive. In fact, good listening is an
active, sophisticated process – a learned behavior – that demands focus and attention. Listening takes place on...show more content...
Content listening can lead to serious misunderstandings and is especially deceptive because it appears the listener is tuned in.
Superficial Listeners
Superficial listeners are often judging, daydreaming, or rehersing their response this is essentially hearing, not listening. The listener is tuning in and
out thinking little of the talker, and mainly listening for a chance to jump in and take over the conversation. People who listen at this level are
pretending to listen and are often quiet and passive.
To achieve deep listening, the listener must take on certain responsibilities to help the talker and to ensure that there is agreement about the
interpretation and intent of a message. Specifically, the listener must focus on the talker and pay close attention to what is being said. Strive to
understand the meaning of the message and respond accordingly. Keep in mind that the response lets the talker know whether or not the message is
getting through and allows him or her to adjust the message accordingly.
Listener Responsibilities
Determine the talker's needs during the interaction. At the beginning of a conversation, the talker may be tentative and not say what he or she means.
Whether he or she continues often depends on the listener's initial response. Stay neutral and try to listen objectively. Direct, clear communication
rarely occurs when information flows one way. Listening blocks are obstacles that interfere with our listening they
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What Is Listening Skills Essay
Listening
According to English.com ("What is Listening? | English Club," n.d.), "Listening is receiving language through the ears. Listening involves identifying
the sounds of speech and processing them into words and sentences". Listening is the first of the four language skills which are: Listening, Speaking,
Reading, Writing. It is usually the first language skill that we learn. Thedefinition of listening skill is therefore the act of hearing attentively ("Define
Listening Skills | TutorVista.com," n.d.). We listen for entertainment, information, to understand and learn. Good listening requires self
–awareness
because the mind gets destructed easily. ("Active Listening," n.d.).
It is essential in business communication for effectiveness, team work productivity and a strong rapport with...show more content...
Some of the policies are sexual harassment, cleanliness, deadlines and in most companies proper grooming and appearance. The following website
provide essential tips on developing this skill. http://www.skillsyouneed.com/ps/assertiveness–techniques.html
Negotiation
Cambridge English Dictionary defines negotiation as the process of discussing something with someone in order to reach an agreement, or the
discussions themselves. ("negotiation Meaning in the Cambridge English Dictionary," n.d.).
It is a skill that required in getting better deals on business transactions or achieving a compromise position that will be beneficial to parties involved.
One can negotiate their terms of payment before signing the employment or contract letter. It involves weighing between what works best and what
will not.
There are quite a number of websites and on–line colleges offering good guidelines about improving on this skill but this is what I picked as the
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Essay On Listening Skills
THE IMPORTANCE OF LISTENING AND SPEAKING SKILLS
English language learning Listening and speaking the very basic and important skill is consistently interrelated with other skills reading and writing. In
the language teaching listening and speaking skills are posses significant role. The challenges towards teaching listening and speaking skills are now
better understanding because of the new strategies contributing to effective listening and speaking moreover the widespread availability of technology
supports the language learners in enhancing their listening and speaking skills. This paper lights with the prime importance of listening and speaking in
language acquisition.
KEYWORDS: Listening, speaking, Learning, Language skills, teaching...show more content...
Among the all skills listening is different between hearing and listening" (Sunita, Mishra & C.Murali krishna, 2006).
"Listening is perhaps the most essential skill for second/foreign (L2) language learning, particularly at the beginning stages. It internalises the rules of
language and facilitates the emergence of other language skills" (Stella Hurd and Tim lewis, 2008).Communication is vital part of our daily lives .we
sit in a school listen to the teachers we read the books we talk to the friends watching television and communication over through the internet.
"Communication involves at least two people: the sender and the receiver" (Viva career skills library, 2007).
Speaking which means to an interaction between two persons. Sender and receiver it is only a two communicators that play a fundamental role.
"Conversation is the most common form of dyadic communication. It links people together, be it in social or professional life. Conversation may be
defined as oral and usually informal or friendly exchange of views, ideas, etc. In the speaking skills the participant has to play the role of a speaker or
listeners are
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Active Listening Skills Essay
Active Listening Skills Reflection Paper
EDL/531
Tonya Dean
2/17/13
Paula Baucom
I interviewed Ronnie Macko, a nurse educator at Select Medical Corporation and Chris Schillig a high school and college level English instructor. I
had to conduct the interviews at separate times because of schedule conflicts. The interviews were conducted using the list of coaching/ mentoring
questions that our team had developed in week 3. I will attach each instructor's individual responses to the end of the paper for review. During the
instructor interviews active listening skills were used. Listening is used for many purposes. Listening is used to gain important information, gain
understanding, learning, and also enjoyment. Most people retain...show more content...
Name two qualities of an effective coach or mentor?
Must be a good listener and non–judgmental.
2. Why do you want to be a mentor?
I enjoy watching nurses grow in knowledge, skill and confidence and feel great gratification in helping them grow and develop their skills.
3. How do you incorporate constructive criticism into the student's feedback?
First, you have to develop an effective coach/mentor relationship with the development of mutual respect. Touch base with you mentee regularly and
praise them on jobs well done and goals met. When constructive criticism is needed, ask them to explain the situation and ask if there is anything
they should have done differently. Give encouragement and share personal experiences especially if they are not sure what they should have done
differently. Review policies and procedures with them and give them a copy for easy reference. End the conversation with praise for specific jobs
well done and tell them you have confidence that they will do better in a similar situation the next time.
4. When meeting with a mentee for the first time, how do you start the initial conversation?
Introduce yourself and share with them your professional history related to the job you are mentoring them for. Ask them to share their past
experiences related to the job you are mentoring them for with you.
5. What are some examples of your problem solving techniques when coaching?
Let the mentee explain
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Essay on Listening for Understanding
Listening for Understanding
Listening is an important form of communication. Unfortunately, many people who do not know how to listen believe they can listen well. They
often say "I have been doing this all of my life of course I can listen". Listening is not inherited, or a personality trait, it is a skill that must be worked
on and practiced.
Anybody can become a good listener if they are committed to learn how and are willing to work hard. The first mistake that people tend to make
when listening is to not make any type of comments while listening. They tend to just stand there and listen while the speaker talks. This can become
very frustrating for the speaker and the listener. While the speaker may feel like he isn't being...show more content...
Try to listen to what the speaker is trying to say and not to what is making you angry. Summarize the main points of what the speaker was saying so
that the focus is on the speaker and not you. It is always important to try and listen objectively no matter what the speaker is trying to say. By doing
this, you will become a better listener and more able to communicate with others concerning subjects that might normally make you angry to the point
that you would no longer be able to carry on a working conversation with that individual. This will make you especially valuable in the management
industry where, as a rule, people will come to you with problems that need to be resolved.
It is important to listen carefully and to withhold personal judgement. This is especially true when the subject matter or the position taken by the
speaker is making you angry. In this circumstance, your interjections, if not thoroughly thought through, may just make the person defensive. Problems
can also arise if you are too nice and give a lot of positive comments. People like it when they are being praised. This can alter what the speaker is
saying. If you continue to give positive comments the speaker will continue to want more of them from you. If you want to find out what the speaker is
really thinking you need to listen and withhold evaluation.
As well as withholding evaluation one must also show patience. While many
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Listening Process Essay
Listening is one of the most powerful tools of communication and is a process that is used to receive, convey a meaning, and respond to both verbal
and nonverbal messages. It is what we choose to do and it requires more work than speaking. Oftentimes, people simply misunderstand the difference
between listening and hearing. Hearing is a passive process that takes in sounds and noises and listening is what you choose to do. This selective
process includes 5 phases that can be acquired for us to become effective listeners in the future. The 5 phases are attending, understanding,
remembering, critically evaluating (listening), and responding. Once the 5 different areas are understood, we will become aware of what needs to
change and how we...show more content...
The last two factors of attending are to resist tuning out and avoid interruptions. When it comes to tuning out and interrupting, I have a huge dilemma
while communicating with others. Back in high school, that was one thing that I was good at; tuning out. I even still struggled with it coming into
college. In my first semester at Nassau Community College, a student asked me what we had to get done on a class assignment and I had completely
tuned out because I got easily distracted by thinking about what I needed to do when I got home. I knew that tuning out was not a pleasant idea and I
should change that before it got out of hand. I keep a constant reminder that blocking mixed thoughts and distractions will accredit me to improve in
this area of the listening process. Avoiding interruptions has always been an issue and still is to this day. It only occurs when I'm with family and/or
friends but never at school or with teachers. During an encounter with a friend, she was talking about how we don't spend enough time hanging out and
after a single minute, I interrupted her with a tangential response. Interrupting interferes with attending and tends to be a barrier for most school–going
students. If we want to prevent interruptions from happening, turn–taking should be greatly put into consideration. The next time I communicate with
family or friends, I need to keep in mind to patiently wait until it's my turn to speak.
The second phase of the
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Essay on Effective Listening Strategies
Most all human beings utilize some form of effective listening strategy throughout every conversation they are faced with. On the one hand it is
accurate to say that all humans attain knowledge by employing effective listening strategies; however, not everyone gains information from the same
strategies. No matter what culture one comes from, in order to attain information from conversations, one must seek and apply fundamentals from a list
of effective listening strategies. One of the most common lists of listening strategies happens to be focused towards business listeners. "The human
brain is built for conversation, but we achieve better results when we think strategically about listening and make a few simple, deliberate choices that
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"The first purpose for a conversation is to exchange information (Business, 2005)." In many conversations you will be talking about what someone
needs, or is offering; you may also be trying to figure out whether someone else has complementary offerings or needs. "The second purpose for having
a conversation is to build working relationships (Business, 2005)." People who know and respect one another often work together more effectively.
"Personal style can make an enormous difference in a conversation (Business, 2005)." Developing and maintaining positive personal relationships can
be one of the most important components of customer–supplier conversations, employer–employee conversations, networking conversations, team
communication, and more. "The third purpose for condoning a conversation is to attain good feelings from the conversation for you and others
involved in the conversation (Business, 2005)." Having an enjoyable and/or productive conversation can make you feel valuable, respected, and
even liked. Now that the first step is attained you are ready for the second step. The second step in making you more effective in everyday
conversations is to be aware of your choices. "At risk of stating the obvious, in conversations people generally take turns talking and listening
(Business, 2005)." Effective listeners are fully conscious of making a decision each time they decide to talk or to let someone else talk. "If you haven't
already, you can develop this
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Listening Skills In Counseling
Counseling is a process that occurs when client engage a professional counselor to set time aside expressing problems, thoughts and feelings in a
confidential space so being able to help them deal or overcome issues which cause difficulties and also helped to improve life in future. Apart from
that, a counselor is trained to listen with empathy whereby with the help of counselor, clients will slowly feel better (Dryden, W, 2010).
Listening, attending, empathy, questioning, summarising are all the counseling skills for a trained counselor. Eachskill has the own meaning to it.
These counseling skills can be very effective in a way if a trained counselor knows how and when to apply them during the session. Basically, listening
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Besides that, I reflect on the limitations and challenges of skills used by me in this role–play.
One of the most important limitations is dealing with anxiety. The moment I am face to face with clients, I am feeling nervous and out of words.
Imagine, being in a room with someone who is a stranger to me and I should not expect her to start the conversation instead. Understood that this
could be her first time being in a counseling session but to prevent her from keeping silent, I had to start a conversation to start the session.
Besides that I have to also build a relationship and trust with clients so in days ahead, she will feel comfortable conversing with me. Time is a
crucial thing for me. Basically, I have a habit of looking at the time for every five minutes although counseling session took up only an hour, but to
me, it seems to be long. Apart from that, she might think that I am bored listening to her issue but as a act of trained counselor, I steal a glance on
my watch when she grab a drink or wipe her mucus. Although it is hard to maintain by not looking at the watch each time, but to me it is a way of
respect towards our
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Listening Skills Essay
As human beings, we use our senses to learn what is going on in the world around us. In ancient times, a person's survival depended upon being able to
hear and see many dangers in the environment. Our other senses of taste, touch, and smell also helped people survive. Many people think that sight is
the most important sense. Early humans would have run into terrible danger without their sense of sight. Even today, it is hard for anyone to imagine
how they could survive without their sense of sight. However, with the days of hunting and gathering a time of the past, today's survival skills are very
different. Today,communication is one of man's most important skills, and communication depends on the sense of hearing. Even when we are...show
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One of my greatest weaknesses was my peers observed me nervously looking at the clock throughout the meeting. I was not even aware that I was
doing that, but I do know that I was concerned about the time because my other children needed to be picked up from school at a certain time. My
peers stated that I seemed that I was in hurry, and that added a note of distraction to my listening skills. Another weakness of mine was the act of
defensive listening. Every time a bad behavior was noted in my son, I was obviously offended and seemed to always have to defend my parenting
skills. My peers wrote that I seemed "on guard" throughout the entire meeting. Again, I was completely unaware of this poor listening skill as I was
engaging in it. The listening skills survey was a great way to receive objective and very helpful constructive criticism regarding my ability as a
effective listener.
Based on the results of this survey, I found that there are some informational listening skills that I could adopt to become a more effective listener.
Preparing to listen would help me in my school and personal life. I could have arranged a friend to pick up my other kids, and I could have gone
over the teacher reports, so that my son's poor behaviors were not a surprise. In school, reading the required materials and printing off power points
really helps me prepare to listen to lecture. Another skill that will help me
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The Power of Good Listening Skills Essay
Listening is the capability to correctly receive and interpret messages in the communicating procedure. Listening is essential to all communicating that
is successful, with no capacity to listen efficiently messages are readily misunderstood – the correspondent can readily become frustrated or irritated
and communication breaks down.
Listening is so significant that many top companies supply listening abilities training for his or her workers. This is unsurprising if you think about that
great listening abilities often leads to: better customer satisfaction, greater productivity with fewer errors, raised sharing of information which then may
lead to inventive and creative work.
Many entrepreneurs and successful leaders credit their success...show more content...
In addition, it can mean the difference between causing a team to neglect and efficiently directing it. http://money.usnews.com/money/blogs
/outside–voices–careers/2013/06/20/how–to–be–assertive–and–get–what–you–want–at–work Negotiation is a process where differences are settled by
individuals. This is an activity where arrangement or compromise is achieved while preventing disagreement.
In any disagreement, people intelligibly plan to reach the perfect result for his or her position (or maybe an organization is represented by them). But
the principles of equity, keeping up a relationship and seeking common advantage are the keys to your successful result.
Negotiation abilities can be of great advantage in resolving any differences that appear between others and you.
For example; you've several jobs you want to complete during the week and everyone needs their job to be finished by you so what does one
normally do in these scenarios? You request another party how pressing their job is so it is possible to prioritize them and work. You and another party
on the deadline of the job really negotiate. http://www.cnr.berkeley.edu/ucce50/ag
–labor/7labor/17.htm Like any others, Persuasion skills can be learnt
and they can be an integral part of having the ability to affect others to reach targets and your aims.
Integrating these tools when thinking about the best way to raise persuasion abilities can help
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The Importance Of Listening Skills

  • 1. The Importance Of Listening Skills English is an international language that students need to learn. There are four language skills students need to master, one of which is listening skill. Listening skill is one of the four language skills which plays important roles in language acquisition. It plays an important role in a way that it gives inputs and presents the model of a language (Nation & Newton, 2009). Through listening, students are unconsciously trained to differ sounds, accents, stresses, and intonations. Additionally, listening also plays a crucial part in communication. According to Mendelsohn (1994, as cited in Hamouda, 2013), language users use 40–50% of the time in listening; 25–30% in speaking; 11–16% in reading; and in writing is about 9%. Consequently, listening is one of the English language skills students need to master due to its importance in language communication and acquisition. For that matter, it is an obligation for teachers to help students develop listening skill. In contrast, achieving the goal of having a good listening skill for junior high school level seems to be a challenging process. It takes time as it needs practices more than theories. As mentioned by an English teacher of a junior high school in Malang, conducting listening practice requires a lot of preparation and it takes time and energy. Most of the time, the teacher skipped the listening practices because there is not enough time to give students listening practices since the time allocated for English subject at Get more content on HelpWriting.net
  • 2. Listening Skills Essay Listening is one of the important skills among three other English skills; reading, writing and speaking. Listening play significant role in language development. Listening is the ability to hear and understand what other people say. It is also the basic skill that we have in learning language because we listen before we speak. Just take the example of the babies. Before they can talk with their parents, they only give signs when they want to communicate with them by crying. They only listen to the speech or sounds that close to them. By the time, they gain all of knowledge and information from the people near them. Then, they start to imitate and try to speak. Of course, this takes time, the babies cannot talk directly when they listen to the language. So, this is the same as the learners who try to learn English as a second language. Especially in listening ability. Listening is a receptive skill because the learners do not need to produce the language. They only receive and try to understand the language. Receptive...show more content... It looks one way and then it sounds completely different. However, using subtitle when watch a movie video can help the learners to activates two part of the learner's brain; listening and reading skills. Because the learners listen the movie video while read the subtitle. Beside subtitle can improve learner listening ability. It can also help the learners unconsciously remember a new vocabulary (Vanderplank, 1988). Sometimes, the learners miss the hearing of the vocabulary because they are not sure what is the vocabulary that spoken in the movie video, but with the help of subtitle the learner can read the subtitle and they will keep that in their mind much better. Although, the use of subtitle sometimes can distract and disturb the learner when they watch the movie video because they tend to read the subtitle rather than listen to English spoken language in the movie Get more content on HelpWriting.net
  • 3. An Example Of Personal Listening Listening is one of the most important processes in any sphere of life, such as business, education and relationships. Listening is more than just hearing voices and noise, listening means concentrating, giving attention to someone talking, be open minded, attending in the discussion (Schilling, par.3), and understanding what the person is actually interpreting, using body expression and words (Giang, par.1). These skills are required for success and a good life. They give the solution of conflicts and difficulties, develop correctness, guarantee comprehension and create reliable relationships (Schilling, par.1). Considering all this, it will be presented an example of someone's listening skills by an observation and an analysis and the ways of improvement of my personal listening skills. Section 1 –...show more content... I observed the negotiation from an outside angle for about half an hour at my uncle's office. During the discussion, I absorbed if the customer was a good listener. I tried to figure out his bad and good habits in his listening skills regarding the information I learned in class and the material I read. During my observation, I noticed a few things which I considered as important for a successful business and working time, such as their suitable clothes and professional standing. In the beginning, the customer appeared as a good listener. As Dianne Schilling said, facing the person talking, having eye contact with him and keeping an open mind are important habits for an effective listening (par.2, 4). Most of the time, the customer faced my uncle and had eye contact with him showing the good habits of a listener. Indeed as Vivian Giang said, knowing and following whatthe other person is saying considering the verbal and nonverbal indications has a huge impact in effective listening (par.1, 14, 15). The customer did follow my uncle while talking, but there were a few cases he felt lost in the discussion. The reason, he felt lost, was that Get more content on HelpWriting.net
  • 4. Essay On Speaking And Listening 1.3 Speaking and listening Listening is an important skill for the person who is learning English because in verbal communication we cannot communicate with each other without listening to the speaker's utterances and understanding them. However, listening is a very demanding and challenging skill for the learners to master. Many students often encounter trouble in listening to foreign people even though they are doing well in the English classroom. According to Rubin (1995:8), "For second/foreign language learners, listening is the skill that makes the heaviest processing demands because learners must store information in short term memory at the same time as they are working to understand the information". Furthermore, as she explains, "Whereas in reading learners can go over the text at leisure, they generally don't have the opportunity to do so in listening". As Broughton and et al (1988:65) claim it appears that listening is a passive skill, and speaking is an active one. This is not really true, since ...show more content... This order may not be the same, however, because of the differences in grammatical features of the diverse human languages. Further research needs to be done so that these natural orders can be discovered and utilized in the teaching of foreign languages. Originally, my research was to include these other natural orders, but I was unable to find any research pertaining to the languages I was studying. So I decided to focus instead on the way grammar is taught in general in classrooms and how it is presented in Get more content on HelpWriting.net
  • 5. Speaking And Listening Skills Essay Speaking and listening skills are very important for a number of reasons: –Spoken language is at the heart of human interaction, at home, at work and in society. –Speaking and listening skills are important in all contexts in which learning takes place, whether it be literacy, language or numeracy, etc.–Good speaking and listening skills are a key aspect of employability: getting a job, maintaining employment and progressing at work. –Good oral communication skills are important in other aspects of lives, for example in family and peer relationships. –Purposeful use of speaking and listening is central to effective teaching and learning. –Speaking and listening are important in all types of provision, be it discrete literacy and numeracy...show more content... Shaking these loudly, softly, when marching, skipping or stomping. Playing 'guess what's inside the instrument'. –Singing known songs loudly and then softly, stretching words in known songs and adding new words or sounds. –Listening to a range of music with the children from rap to classical. Encourage the children to move in response to the variety of musical styles and moods. –Learning some action rhymes such as 'wind the bobbin up'. –Playing some commercially produced tapes and CDs. Clapping along with familiar rhymes and learning new ones. –Listening to the sounds the feet make when walking/running/skipping: slowly, softly, fast, stomping hard, in flip flops, boots, and high heels. –Trying different types of claps: clapping hands softly, fast and making a pattern for the children to follow. Stomping feet. Tapping fingers. Clicking tongue. –Inventing a special clap routine for when someone does something really well. –Reading or saying poems, songs, nursery songs and rhyming stories, trying to use gestures, tapping regular beats and pauses to emphasise the rhythm of the piece. –Adding percussion to mark the beats using hands, feet or Get more content on HelpWriting.net
  • 6. Listening –Definition: "the ability to accurately receive and interpret messages in the communication process" (http://www.skillsyouneed.com /interpersonal–skills.html) –Example: With listening skill, you can obtain more information because your subordinates will talk with you honestly. Sometimes staffs don't want to let their boss know information, especially about bad information, but active listening skill help you to get those information also. It enable you to make a decision based on less biased information. –Web site: Đ”ÂźŃŸĐłĐƒĐ‡Đ·ŃŸÒĐłâ€šâ€°ĐłĐƒĐ„ĐłĐƒâ€žĐ”â€šŃ•ĐžĐƒÒ‘ĐłĐƒÂźĐ¶ŃšÂŹĐžŃ–Đ„ĐłŃ“Â»Đ”Đ‰â„–Đ¶Ń›ŃšĐłŃ“Â»Đłâ€šâ„–Đłâ€šĐłŃ“Â«UPжі‹ http://conlabo.jp/active–listening–857#certification03 This web site introduces 3 methods for developing listening skill. First, we have to adjust our mind to the speaker's mind. It is called Pacing. Second, we repeat what the speaker said so that make him/her comfortable. It is called Repeating. Third, we summarize what the speaker said so that we can assure that we understand what he/she meant. It is called Para–phrasing. Assertiveness –Definition: "being able to stand up for your own or other people's rights in a calm and positive way, without being either aggressive, or passively accepting 'wrong'." (http://www.skillsyouneed.com/ps/assertiveness.html) –Example: In team meeting, you can let members know your opinion without making anyone uncomfortable or upset, even if the member have other opinions. –Web site: Assertiveness– Tips & Techniques. Get more content on HelpWriting.net
  • 7. Research Paper On Listening Skills EXECUTIVE SUMMARY Listening is the first communication skill which the neonate acquires. Listening refers to the technique of paying attention to what the orator is saying. (Underwood, 1989, page 1) It involves hearing, understanding and interpreting the message conveyed. The concept of listening skills is incomplete without a proper feedback or response. An accurate feedback will boost the morale of the speaker thus encouraging him to deliver his messages more effectively. Listening skills helps people to become cognizant of; what the speaker is talking about. United States Department of Labor Secretary's Commission on Achieving Necessary Skills (SCANS) have recognized five proficiencies and three foundation skills that the work personnel but possess before they enter the workplace. Among these three foundation skills, listening skill was listed as crucial. (What Work Requires of Schools: A SCANS Report for America 2000). Hence listening skills are decisive of personnel entering the workforce. There are certain...show more content... Just listen" Listening is a skill which is imbibed in the early stages of life. It requires ability and a lot of practice to become an efficient listener. To become an efficient listener a person must endeavour to get rid of the poor listening habits. (Motion Masters). A study suggests that on an average, more than half of the time (70%) is spent by an adult on communication. People spend more time in listening as compared to the other communication skills i.e. reading, writing and speaking. (Adler, R. et al. 2001). The role of listening skill in business world cannot be underestimated. To be an efficient worker, a person needs to be an efficient listener. Listening is bifurcated as: content, critical, empathic, and active listening. (Films for the Humanities and Sciences) Listening skills play a vital role in the success of any Get more content on HelpWriting.net
  • 8. Listening Listening is a difficult skill that few people ever learn. Experts say the average person has 25% listening efficiency. Listening with understanding, is more than just sitting back and letting words flow into your ears. Listening is an active skill that is at least as hard as talking, maybe harder. There is no real communication unless the listener understands, accepts, and will take action based on what was said. The person who develops good listening skills has a head start on providing the best solutions based on information obtained during conversations. 1. WHAT ISHEARING & A person who incorporates listening with concentration is actively listening.п‚ў Listening is the absorption of the meanings of words and sentences by the brain...show more content... 'Active listening' means, as its name suggests, actively listening. That is fully concentrating on what is being said rather than just passively 'hearing' the message of the speaker. Active listening involves listening with all senses. As well as giving full attention to the speaker, it is important that the 'active listener' is also 'seen' to be listening – otherwise the speaker may conclude that what they are talking about is uninteresting to the listener. Interest can be conveyed to the speaker by using both verbal and non–verbal messages such as maintaining eye contact, nodding your head and smiling, agreeing by saying 'Yes' or simply 'Mmm hmm' to encourage them to continue. By providing this 'feedback' the person speaking will usually feel more at ease and therefore communicate more easily, openly and honestly. Listening is the most fundamental component of interpersonal communication skills. Listening is not something that just happens (that is hearing), listening is an active process in which a conscious decision is made to listen to and understand the messages of the speaker. Listeners should remain neutral and non–judgmental, this means trying not to take sides or form opinions, especially early in the conversation. Active listening is also about patience – pauses and short periods of silence should be accepted. Listeners should not be tempted to jump in with questions or comments every time there are a Get more content on HelpWriting.net
  • 9. Essay Listening Skills Listening Skills The importance of listening effectively is obvious to our everyday activities. The fundamentals of listening appear to be quite simple; however, with a little thought on the matter, the depth of the listening is far from basic. The similarities between hearing and listening can be deceiving. Hearing is a physical process and listening is both physical and psychological. There are several purposes of listening. If you are a good listener, it will be a huge help in school, at work, in relationship, and in other situations. Another positive benefit of being a good listener is the ability to easily express information and communicate with others. You can listen to understand, listen to appreciate and you can listen...show more content... Lisa asked whether or not she should bail her daughter out of the jail. Dr. Laura was open–minded in that conversation. She did not prejudge Lisa?s daughter; she asked questions in order to get a feeling for what was going on. Dr. Laura wanted to know if Lisa?s daughter caused any kind of problems before or if she lied in the past. After the short conversation, Dr. Laura was ready to give advice. Dr. Laura replied that if she was telling the truth about the loan, she could get proof, and that would clear her from the charges. Dr. Laura advised Lisa not to bail her out. All of these characteristics that Dr. Laura demonstrated are examples of listening to appreciate. Another concept of listening is listening to understand, which involves verbal and nonverbal messages. This includes body language, hand movements, posture, word–emphasis, etc. However, being on a talk radio show and interpreting verbal and nonverbal gestures is difficult. The speaker?s tone of voice, rate of speech, and enthusiasm are the only characteristics that Dr. Laura can refer to while listening to her guests. The perfect example for this concept from Dr. Laura?s audition would be the call from Magi; she had a question about her mother of 94 years. According to the book, vocabulary, concentration, and memory contribute to understanding the listener; and Dr. Laura dealt with that pretty well. She focused on the main idea of the story, which was that Magi?s mom lost the ability to Get more content on HelpWriting.net
  • 10. Essay on Effective Listening Effective Listening The ability to listen well is an important tool for understanding others. Sadly, very few people know how to listen well. In fact, most people can think of only one or two good listeners in their lives. Listening is not simply agreeing – it is much more. Good listeners are able to better understand and respond to others, complete assignments accurately, settle disagreements before they escalate, and establish rapport with difficult people. Listening is often confused with hearing. This serious misconception can lead us to believe that good listening is instinctive. In fact, good listening is an active, sophisticated process – a learned behavior – that demands focus and attention. Listening takes place on...show more content... Content listening can lead to serious misunderstandings and is especially deceptive because it appears the listener is tuned in. Superficial Listeners Superficial listeners are often judging, daydreaming, or rehersing their response this is essentially hearing, not listening. The listener is tuning in and out thinking little of the talker, and mainly listening for a chance to jump in and take over the conversation. People who listen at this level are pretending to listen and are often quiet and passive. To achieve deep listening, the listener must take on certain responsibilities to help the talker and to ensure that there is agreement about the interpretation and intent of a message. Specifically, the listener must focus on the talker and pay close attention to what is being said. Strive to understand the meaning of the message and respond accordingly. Keep in mind that the response lets the talker know whether or not the message is getting through and allows him or her to adjust the message accordingly. Listener Responsibilities Determine the talker's needs during the interaction. At the beginning of a conversation, the talker may be tentative and not say what he or she means. Whether he or she continues often depends on the listener's initial response. Stay neutral and try to listen objectively. Direct, clear communication rarely occurs when information flows one way. Listening blocks are obstacles that interfere with our listening they
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  • 12. What Is Listening Skills Essay Listening According to English.com ("What is Listening? | English Club," n.d.), "Listening is receiving language through the ears. Listening involves identifying the sounds of speech and processing them into words and sentences". Listening is the first of the four language skills which are: Listening, Speaking, Reading, Writing. It is usually the first language skill that we learn. Thedefinition of listening skill is therefore the act of hearing attentively ("Define Listening Skills | TutorVista.com," n.d.). We listen for entertainment, information, to understand and learn. Good listening requires self –awareness because the mind gets destructed easily. ("Active Listening," n.d.). It is essential in business communication for effectiveness, team work productivity and a strong rapport with...show more content... Some of the policies are sexual harassment, cleanliness, deadlines and in most companies proper grooming and appearance. The following website provide essential tips on developing this skill. http://www.skillsyouneed.com/ps/assertiveness–techniques.html Negotiation Cambridge English Dictionary defines negotiation as the process of discussing something with someone in order to reach an agreement, or the discussions themselves. ("negotiation Meaning in the Cambridge English Dictionary," n.d.). It is a skill that required in getting better deals on business transactions or achieving a compromise position that will be beneficial to parties involved. One can negotiate their terms of payment before signing the employment or contract letter. It involves weighing between what works best and what will not. There are quite a number of websites and on–line colleges offering good guidelines about improving on this skill but this is what I picked as the Get more content on HelpWriting.net
  • 13. Essay On Listening Skills THE IMPORTANCE OF LISTENING AND SPEAKING SKILLS English language learning Listening and speaking the very basic and important skill is consistently interrelated with other skills reading and writing. In the language teaching listening and speaking skills are posses significant role. The challenges towards teaching listening and speaking skills are now better understanding because of the new strategies contributing to effective listening and speaking moreover the widespread availability of technology supports the language learners in enhancing their listening and speaking skills. This paper lights with the prime importance of listening and speaking in language acquisition. KEYWORDS: Listening, speaking, Learning, Language skills, teaching...show more content... Among the all skills listening is different between hearing and listening" (Sunita, Mishra & C.Murali krishna, 2006). "Listening is perhaps the most essential skill for second/foreign (L2) language learning, particularly at the beginning stages. It internalises the rules of language and facilitates the emergence of other language skills" (Stella Hurd and Tim lewis, 2008).Communication is vital part of our daily lives .we sit in a school listen to the teachers we read the books we talk to the friends watching television and communication over through the internet. "Communication involves at least two people: the sender and the receiver" (Viva career skills library, 2007). Speaking which means to an interaction between two persons. Sender and receiver it is only a two communicators that play a fundamental role. "Conversation is the most common form of dyadic communication. It links people together, be it in social or professional life. Conversation may be defined as oral and usually informal or friendly exchange of views, ideas, etc. In the speaking skills the participant has to play the role of a speaker or listeners are Get more content on HelpWriting.net
  • 14. Active Listening Skills Essay Active Listening Skills Reflection Paper EDL/531 Tonya Dean 2/17/13 Paula Baucom I interviewed Ronnie Macko, a nurse educator at Select Medical Corporation and Chris Schillig a high school and college level English instructor. I had to conduct the interviews at separate times because of schedule conflicts. The interviews were conducted using the list of coaching/ mentoring questions that our team had developed in week 3. I will attach each instructor's individual responses to the end of the paper for review. During the instructor interviews active listening skills were used. Listening is used for many purposes. Listening is used to gain important information, gain understanding, learning, and also enjoyment. Most people retain...show more content... Name two qualities of an effective coach or mentor? Must be a good listener and non–judgmental. 2. Why do you want to be a mentor? I enjoy watching nurses grow in knowledge, skill and confidence and feel great gratification in helping them grow and develop their skills. 3. How do you incorporate constructive criticism into the student's feedback? First, you have to develop an effective coach/mentor relationship with the development of mutual respect. Touch base with you mentee regularly and praise them on jobs well done and goals met. When constructive criticism is needed, ask them to explain the situation and ask if there is anything they should have done differently. Give encouragement and share personal experiences especially if they are not sure what they should have done differently. Review policies and procedures with them and give them a copy for easy reference. End the conversation with praise for specific jobs well done and tell them you have confidence that they will do better in a similar situation the next time. 4. When meeting with a mentee for the first time, how do you start the initial conversation? Introduce yourself and share with them your professional history related to the job you are mentoring them for. Ask them to share their past experiences related to the job you are mentoring them for with you. 5. What are some examples of your problem solving techniques when coaching? Let the mentee explain
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  • 16. Essay on Listening for Understanding Listening for Understanding Listening is an important form of communication. Unfortunately, many people who do not know how to listen believe they can listen well. They often say "I have been doing this all of my life of course I can listen". Listening is not inherited, or a personality trait, it is a skill that must be worked on and practiced. Anybody can become a good listener if they are committed to learn how and are willing to work hard. The first mistake that people tend to make when listening is to not make any type of comments while listening. They tend to just stand there and listen while the speaker talks. This can become very frustrating for the speaker and the listener. While the speaker may feel like he isn't being...show more content... Try to listen to what the speaker is trying to say and not to what is making you angry. Summarize the main points of what the speaker was saying so that the focus is on the speaker and not you. It is always important to try and listen objectively no matter what the speaker is trying to say. By doing this, you will become a better listener and more able to communicate with others concerning subjects that might normally make you angry to the point that you would no longer be able to carry on a working conversation with that individual. This will make you especially valuable in the management industry where, as a rule, people will come to you with problems that need to be resolved. It is important to listen carefully and to withhold personal judgement. This is especially true when the subject matter or the position taken by the speaker is making you angry. In this circumstance, your interjections, if not thoroughly thought through, may just make the person defensive. Problems can also arise if you are too nice and give a lot of positive comments. People like it when they are being praised. This can alter what the speaker is saying. If you continue to give positive comments the speaker will continue to want more of them from you. If you want to find out what the speaker is really thinking you need to listen and withhold evaluation. As well as withholding evaluation one must also show patience. While many Get more content on HelpWriting.net
  • 17. Listening Process Essay Listening is one of the most powerful tools of communication and is a process that is used to receive, convey a meaning, and respond to both verbal and nonverbal messages. It is what we choose to do and it requires more work than speaking. Oftentimes, people simply misunderstand the difference between listening and hearing. Hearing is a passive process that takes in sounds and noises and listening is what you choose to do. This selective process includes 5 phases that can be acquired for us to become effective listeners in the future. The 5 phases are attending, understanding, remembering, critically evaluating (listening), and responding. Once the 5 different areas are understood, we will become aware of what needs to change and how we...show more content... The last two factors of attending are to resist tuning out and avoid interruptions. When it comes to tuning out and interrupting, I have a huge dilemma while communicating with others. Back in high school, that was one thing that I was good at; tuning out. I even still struggled with it coming into college. In my first semester at Nassau Community College, a student asked me what we had to get done on a class assignment and I had completely tuned out because I got easily distracted by thinking about what I needed to do when I got home. I knew that tuning out was not a pleasant idea and I should change that before it got out of hand. I keep a constant reminder that blocking mixed thoughts and distractions will accredit me to improve in this area of the listening process. Avoiding interruptions has always been an issue and still is to this day. It only occurs when I'm with family and/or friends but never at school or with teachers. During an encounter with a friend, she was talking about how we don't spend enough time hanging out and after a single minute, I interrupted her with a tangential response. Interrupting interferes with attending and tends to be a barrier for most school–going students. If we want to prevent interruptions from happening, turn–taking should be greatly put into consideration. The next time I communicate with family or friends, I need to keep in mind to patiently wait until it's my turn to speak. The second phase of the Get more content on HelpWriting.net
  • 18. Essay on Effective Listening Strategies Most all human beings utilize some form of effective listening strategy throughout every conversation they are faced with. On the one hand it is accurate to say that all humans attain knowledge by employing effective listening strategies; however, not everyone gains information from the same strategies. No matter what culture one comes from, in order to attain information from conversations, one must seek and apply fundamentals from a list of effective listening strategies. One of the most common lists of listening strategies happens to be focused towards business listeners. "The human brain is built for conversation, but we achieve better results when we think strategically about listening and make a few simple, deliberate choices that ...show more content... "The first purpose for a conversation is to exchange information (Business, 2005)." In many conversations you will be talking about what someone needs, or is offering; you may also be trying to figure out whether someone else has complementary offerings or needs. "The second purpose for having a conversation is to build working relationships (Business, 2005)." People who know and respect one another often work together more effectively. "Personal style can make an enormous difference in a conversation (Business, 2005)." Developing and maintaining positive personal relationships can be one of the most important components of customer–supplier conversations, employer–employee conversations, networking conversations, team communication, and more. "The third purpose for condoning a conversation is to attain good feelings from the conversation for you and others involved in the conversation (Business, 2005)." Having an enjoyable and/or productive conversation can make you feel valuable, respected, and even liked. Now that the first step is attained you are ready for the second step. The second step in making you more effective in everyday conversations is to be aware of your choices. "At risk of stating the obvious, in conversations people generally take turns talking and listening (Business, 2005)." Effective listeners are fully conscious of making a decision each time they decide to talk or to let someone else talk. "If you haven't already, you can develop this Get more content on HelpWriting.net
  • 19. Listening Skills In Counseling Counseling is a process that occurs when client engage a professional counselor to set time aside expressing problems, thoughts and feelings in a confidential space so being able to help them deal or overcome issues which cause difficulties and also helped to improve life in future. Apart from that, a counselor is trained to listen with empathy whereby with the help of counselor, clients will slowly feel better (Dryden, W, 2010). Listening, attending, empathy, questioning, summarising are all the counseling skills for a trained counselor. Eachskill has the own meaning to it. These counseling skills can be very effective in a way if a trained counselor knows how and when to apply them during the session. Basically, listening skill involves...show more content... Besides that, I reflect on the limitations and challenges of skills used by me in this role–play. One of the most important limitations is dealing with anxiety. The moment I am face to face with clients, I am feeling nervous and out of words. Imagine, being in a room with someone who is a stranger to me and I should not expect her to start the conversation instead. Understood that this could be her first time being in a counseling session but to prevent her from keeping silent, I had to start a conversation to start the session. Besides that I have to also build a relationship and trust with clients so in days ahead, she will feel comfortable conversing with me. Time is a crucial thing for me. Basically, I have a habit of looking at the time for every five minutes although counseling session took up only an hour, but to me, it seems to be long. Apart from that, she might think that I am bored listening to her issue but as a act of trained counselor, I steal a glance on my watch when she grab a drink or wipe her mucus. Although it is hard to maintain by not looking at the watch each time, but to me it is a way of respect towards our Get more content on HelpWriting.net
  • 20. Listening Skills Essay As human beings, we use our senses to learn what is going on in the world around us. In ancient times, a person's survival depended upon being able to hear and see many dangers in the environment. Our other senses of taste, touch, and smell also helped people survive. Many people think that sight is the most important sense. Early humans would have run into terrible danger without their sense of sight. Even today, it is hard for anyone to imagine how they could survive without their sense of sight. However, with the days of hunting and gathering a time of the past, today's survival skills are very different. Today,communication is one of man's most important skills, and communication depends on the sense of hearing. Even when we are...show more content... One of my greatest weaknesses was my peers observed me nervously looking at the clock throughout the meeting. I was not even aware that I was doing that, but I do know that I was concerned about the time because my other children needed to be picked up from school at a certain time. My peers stated that I seemed that I was in hurry, and that added a note of distraction to my listening skills. Another weakness of mine was the act of defensive listening. Every time a bad behavior was noted in my son, I was obviously offended and seemed to always have to defend my parenting skills. My peers wrote that I seemed "on guard" throughout the entire meeting. Again, I was completely unaware of this poor listening skill as I was engaging in it. The listening skills survey was a great way to receive objective and very helpful constructive criticism regarding my ability as a effective listener. Based on the results of this survey, I found that there are some informational listening skills that I could adopt to become a more effective listener. Preparing to listen would help me in my school and personal life. I could have arranged a friend to pick up my other kids, and I could have gone over the teacher reports, so that my son's poor behaviors were not a surprise. In school, reading the required materials and printing off power points really helps me prepare to listen to lecture. Another skill that will help me Get more content on HelpWriting.net
  • 21. The Power of Good Listening Skills Essay Listening is the capability to correctly receive and interpret messages in the communicating procedure. Listening is essential to all communicating that is successful, with no capacity to listen efficiently messages are readily misunderstood – the correspondent can readily become frustrated or irritated and communication breaks down. Listening is so significant that many top companies supply listening abilities training for his or her workers. This is unsurprising if you think about that great listening abilities often leads to: better customer satisfaction, greater productivity with fewer errors, raised sharing of information which then may lead to inventive and creative work. Many entrepreneurs and successful leaders credit their success...show more content... In addition, it can mean the difference between causing a team to neglect and efficiently directing it. http://money.usnews.com/money/blogs /outside–voices–careers/2013/06/20/how–to–be–assertive–and–get–what–you–want–at–work Negotiation is a process where differences are settled by individuals. This is an activity where arrangement or compromise is achieved while preventing disagreement. In any disagreement, people intelligibly plan to reach the perfect result for his or her position (or maybe an organization is represented by them). But the principles of equity, keeping up a relationship and seeking common advantage are the keys to your successful result. Negotiation abilities can be of great advantage in resolving any differences that appear between others and you. For example; you've several jobs you want to complete during the week and everyone needs their job to be finished by you so what does one normally do in these scenarios? You request another party how pressing their job is so it is possible to prioritize them and work. You and another party on the deadline of the job really negotiate. http://www.cnr.berkeley.edu/ucce50/ag –labor/7labor/17.htm Like any others, Persuasion skills can be learnt and they can be an integral part of having the ability to affect others to reach targets and your aims. Integrating these tools when thinking about the best way to raise persuasion abilities can help Get more content on HelpWriting.net