1. اﻷﺳﺒﺎب ﻷﻛﺜﺮ اﻟﺴﺮﯾﻊ دﻟﯿﻠﻚﺷﯿﻮﻋﺎﻏﯿﺮ ﻟﻠﺰواج
اﻟﻨﺎﺟﺢ
Your quick guide for the Most
common reasons for unsuccessful
Marriages
ﻋﻤﻠﯿﺔ إﺳﻼﻣﯿﺔ إﺟﺘﻤﺎﻋﯿﺔ ﻧﻈﺮ ﺟﮭﺔ
Practical Socio-Islamic view
اﻟﺰواج أﺳﺒﺎب أھﻢ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺳﺮﯾﻌﺔ ﻧﻈﺮةﺗﻼﻓﯿﮭﺎ ﻟﻤﺤﺎوﻟﺔ اﻟﻨﺎﺟﺢ ﻏﯿﺮاﻟﻤﻨﺎﺳﺐ اﻟﻤﺜﺎﻟﻰ اﻟﺸﺮﯾﻚ وإﺧﺘﯿﺎر
A quick look at the most important reasons for unsuccessful marriage in order to
avoid it and select the perfect suitable partner -Arabic / English-
By M.A. ElDessouky
1439
2018
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4. * Reasons for unsuccessful marriage:
1. Dishonesty (intentionally -cheating- or non intentionally -
decoration-).
This is a Major factor, affecting other factors also.
2. Common major defects concealing & cheating (e.g. lying, stealing,
physical harm, swear wards, drinking alcohol & drugs, adultery)
3. Having Doubts rather than being jealous.
4. Differences in manners and tempers.
5. Social differences (customs & traditions).
6. Truthfulness in the Willingness & ability to change.
7. Overestimation of change.
Usually the partner has acquired many traits and habits during his
life before marriage and its not easy to change either for his own will
or for his partner
8. Impatience & hurry for change.
9. Short period of acquaintances.
10. Not seeing the major differences or not appreciating its
importance.
11. Not real acceptance of social class or financial differences.
12. Not continuously talking about the problems arising and
how to solve it in a way that comforts both sides.
Not following Islamic directions in marriage
13. Not understanding that the basis of marriage is tranquility,
virtue & nirvana
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5. The man should go for tough work & Hard life outside the house
then he comes at home while he finds tranquility with his wife, and
the basis for marriage should be virtue not justice (i.e. giving more
not equal)
14. Marriage not based on affection & mercy
15. Not following the Islamic way in making love while marrying
- Foreplay.
- Decorating for the other partner.
- Caring about pleasing and satisfying each other.
16. Not following the prophet PBUH basis for right choice of a
wife.
17. Not having an agreed upon clear reference & mechanism of
conflict resolution
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