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1. Fear of Communication
February 10, 2020
Fear of communication and talking to someone else that
one has the urge to do but for fear of outcome is a major
liability to freedom and better answers. We are the only
living thing with all the tools to communicate to our
desires.Why not use them? The fear of communicating
with another is self censorship, lack of self worth, and a
fear of free speech. You in essence become an enemy to
yourself. It may happen with a partner or especially with
someone regarded as an authority figure who in reality
wants to have your communication.
It’s natural to feel a little hesitation in communicating at times especially with someone who we
don’t know or feel a bit uncomfortable or perhaps intimidated by. Avoiding connection is a time
to ask yourself why? Sometimes the best communication is just a positive attitude and a smile.
It’s a good idea to always move in the direction of communication even if it’s uncomfortable if
you feel the urgency to do it or even have trepidations about it. One of life’s
blessings is to be friendly while letting go of negative perceptions on
outcome. Approach interactions that are verbal with good intent yet
no.expectation of outcome that you are attached to.
Self confidence is to know yourself and seek the best, most
positive way to interact. Be of light heart, but of sincere
intention and as conscious as possible of empathy and
compassion for the other. No communication can be a
building of both your anxieties and perhaps the others who
us anticipating your initiation of communication.
Communication is an art both verbally, emotionally, and with body language.
Nothing happens in the world without communication and that nothing is
sometimes ‘something’ that is more uncomfortable than the breaking through the
barrier of 'communication resistance’ was. Of course, using skillful means of
communication always starts from the heart and discernment of best ways
mentally. Fear of communication is a form of punishment of the self. Silent,
positive communication from two or more hearts connecting is also a valuable way
of connecting. The key is always proceed with the highest intent and with empathy
toward the others receptivity.
Keep open the door of communication as well as leaving an open door for others to
communicate with you, and importantly making it easy for them. The same boiling water that
softens the potato, hardens the egg. It’s about what you are made of, not the circumstances.
A smart person knows what to say, a wise person know whether to say it or not. YOU ARE THE
RESISTANCE AND THE SOLUTION.
Arhata~