Getting a sibling when you are already an adult requires you to re-think and adjust to many things.

1. Too Many Babies
And A Teenager
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Question:
• I am 43 years old and have been
marred for 25 years
• We have 3 daughters
• Both elder girls are married and
pregnant

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• My teenage daughter is getting
ready for college
• I discovered that I am 14 weeks
pregnant
• My husband and I will keep the
baby

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• My older daughters have accepted it
• My teenage daughter does not want
to speak to us or come home
• She told us the baby will ruin her life
• How do I help her accept the
situation?

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Answer:
• Your daughter is no longer the
baby who gets lots of attention
• She feels resentment

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• She is becoming aware of her
own sexuality
• All she hears is talk of babies
• She is aware that her parents
are sexually active

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• What does she really value in
her life?
• Present everything related to
the baby so that she can see the
benefit for her

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• Is she concerned about losing
your interest?
• Tell her you value her
conversation because it is not
about babies

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• She is angry but does not want
to be seen as selfish
• If you put her emotions into
words, she will tell you whether
you are right

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• Keep the normal discipline in
the house
• Help her retain structure
• Love her

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