Smoking And A Young Husband

Smoking And a
Young Husband
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Question:
• I am getting married and want to
give up smoking
• My fiancé thinks my smoking is
romantic
• I don’t want him to start smoking

• I am much older than him and
don’t want to be a bad influence
• We are very happy despite the
age difference
• Our Christian faith is very
important to us

• We are saving sex for marriage
• I have only had sex with my late
husband
• My fiancé has never had sex
• What if our expectations are not
met?

Answer:
• You are hiding behind the
smoke screen because you
don’t want to confront the
issues

• You have made rules to regulate
the things you don’t want to
deal with
• Your rules are failing
• The absence of cigarettes does
not guarantee love

• Sex is always meaningful with a
person you share love with
• Sex is not a test that you can fail

• You blame the cigarettes for
your other doubts
• You need to face your doubts
before you get married

Scenario 1:
• You marry your soulmate and
want to share your life with him
• You are emotionally and
mentally on the same level
despite the age difference

• He is mature enough to make
his own decisions

Scenario 2:
• You are marrying a boy half your
age because it feels good
• You want to be a good parent and
wife and help him grow up

• Which scenario applies to you?
• You need to get clarity before
marrying him

• You don’t need to prove love by
giving up cigarettes
• Be honest with yourself and
then you can give up smoking
for your own health

• Face your deepest fears,
whether you get married or not
• You will survive

Thank You

Smoking And A Young Husband

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