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SELF – DEVELOPMENT
WHAT IS
SELF?
IMMEDIATE ANSWER
IS I
IS IT TRUE
REALLY !!
3/11/2016 1
Self means - I
What are the needs of
- I
BE – “HAPPY”
So – “I” is meaningless
unless – It is associated with
“HAPPINESS”
3/11/2016 2
I HAPPINESS
“I” can not be
“HAPPY”
Unless – we are
 Health
y
 Love
 Respec
t
Our
Body
Our
Mind
That Love Has No
Meaning – Unless We Are
Loved
The most important is :
Can we be happy – unless – “PEOPLE” we are associated are
happy
3/11/2016 3
Parents
Brothers
Sisters
Neighbors
Colony / Village
Associates
Seniors
Juniors
Collogues
They As ‘I’
Have Same
Needs
HAPPINES
S
I in them can not be
happy unless they
are :
Healthy
Love (unless
they are loved)
Respect
The need for others happiness may – be
CONTRADICTING
“So happiness is ability of one person to adjust to the ‘Happiness’ of
others
he is ‘dependent’ ”.
3/11/2016 4
DEVELOPMENT
What is
Development ?Anything that is “LIVING”
grows
DEVELOPME
NT
Natura
l
Mental
Human
InductedInventions
Discoveries
Rules / Rituals
Discoveri
es
Absolution
gets
Rules &
Rituals
Inventions
Uncertainties
/ Conflicts
Creates
Mental &
Human
Inducts
Leads
3/11/2016 5
DEVELOPMENT
Natura
l
Mental Human
Inducted
Reduce
d
Improve
d
Altered
Through
* LOGIC –
REASON
3/11/2016 6
“Methods/ Means for the happiness
and happiness is accelerated or
decelerated due to human beings
mentally inducted initiatives. ”
SELF DEVELOPMENT IS
3/11/2016 7
WHAT IS OUR MAIN AIM IN
LIFE ?Probabl
y
HAVE ALL THE THINGS WE SEE
AROUND
•TV
• Mobiles
•Vehicle
•House
CAN WE REALLY GET ALL THE THINGS
AROUND USIT NEEDS
MONEY
TRUTH IS HOW MANY IN OUR COUNTRY POSSESS THESE
THINGS
PROBABLY FEW IN 120 MILLIONS
ARE THEY REALLY3/11/2016 8
When we ‘TOSS’ a coin; chance
is -EITHER
HEAD
Or
TAIL
But still can we be sure out of two possibilities we shall get
one
ANSWER
IS
NO
IN REAL LIFE PROBABILITY FOR ANYTHING WE WANT
ARE MANY-
-
-
-
-3/11/2016 9
THE THINGS THAT MAKES US HAPPY
CAN NOT BE PURCHASED
•
RESPECT
• LOVE
•
HEALTH
CANNOT BE PURCHASED BY
MONEY
ATTITUDE
In life to get three things-
99% is Attitude
1% is Luck
Attitude has to be POSITIVE
POSITIVE ATTITUDE IS:
1) Understanding What Is Taught In Our Dharma, Follow The Set
Rules & Regulations.
2) Don’t Compare With Others.
3) Reasoning / Rational Thinking.3/11/2016 10
ATTITUDE: WHAT IS TOUGHT IN
DHARMA
WHAT IS DHARMA:
“Human Brain” consistently:
 effects changes,
Every change generates side effects
Side effect causes Harms
To counter Harms rules are framed
We have to follow rules
“Ashta dasha puraneshu vyasasya vachanam
dyam,Paropkaraya pundya,
Papaya par pidanam”
3/11/2016 11
DO NOT COMPARE WITH OTHERS
COMPARING WITH OTHERS :
GENERATES UNHAPPINESS
LET US THINK “EVEL” /WRONG
TO OTHERS”
a. CONSCIOUSLY; WITH KNOWLEGE
b. UNCONSCIOUSLY: WITHOUT
KNOWLEDGE
3/11/2016 12
REASONING/RATIONALLY
 MANY TIMES WE DO THINGS BECOUSE :
OTHERS ARE DOING
IF I DON’T DO OTHERS SHALL LOUGH
OUT OF ANGER
3/11/2016 13
STEPS FOR SELF DEVELOPMENT
STEPS WHAT IS THE STEP IMPORTANCE OF STEP
ONE SELF ANALYSIS  WhatWeWantToAchieve?
 WHY WE WANT TO AHIEVE ?
HOW WE WANT TO ACHIEVE ?
TWO ROAD BLOCKS  DONT GET THE LOVE ?
 DO NOT HAVE RESOURCES!
 CAN NOT FOCUSS TO AIM !
THREE SOLUTIONS  DO NOT BLAME FATE!!
DO NOT BLAME OTHERS!!
FIND SOLUTION IN YOUR
SELF
FOUR RESOLVE
3/11/2016 14
SELF ANALYSIS
WHAT WE WANT TO ACHIEVE
 “CLARITY : WHAT WE DESIRE? :
THE HUMAN OWN NEEDS ARE NOT MUCH, WE
CAN FULFILL.
WHAT WE CAN NOT ACHIEVE IS COMPARING
WITH OTHERS ASSETS,AND CURSING FOR NOT
HAVING THE SAME
3/11/2016 15
SELF ANALYSIS
: WHY WE WANT TO ACHIEVE
“BE CLEAR WHETHER OUR DESIRE SHALL HELP
US ACHIEVING OUR BASIC NEEDS:
RESPECT
LOVE
HEALTH
Or
WE DESIRED SHALL CREATE MORE PROBLEMS
3/11/2016 16
SELF ANALYSIS:
HOW WE WANT TO ACHIEVE?
DESIRE FOR ANY THING:
 SKY IS THE LIMIT
 WE CAN DREAM FOR ANY THING
B U T I N A C T U A L L I F E T H E R E A R E
M A N Y O B S T A C L E S
3/11/2016 17
SELF ANALYSIS:
HOW WE WANT TO ACHIEVE?
ONLY RULE IS:
ACHIEVE THROUGH ETHICAL MEANS
DEVELOP OUR OWN RULES WHICH MAKES
OTHERS HAPPY.
FOLLOW THE RULES IN OUR
DHARMA
3/11/2016 18
ROAD BLOCKS
“ ROAD BLOCKS ARE POSSIBLE HINDERENCE IN
ACHIEVING OUR GOALS”
BE CLEAR ABOUT HINDERANCES PROACTIVELY
RATHER
REACT
3/11/2016 19
ROAD BLOCKS
DONT GET THE LOVE ?
 DONT GET THE LOVE ?
DO WE DESERVE?
WHAT WE HAVE DONE FOR OTHERS?
ARE WE MANIPULATING
DO NOT HAVE RESOURCES!
 CAN NOT FOCUSS TO AIM !
3/11/2016 20
ROAD BLOCKS:
DO NOT HAVE RESOURCES!
IDENTIFY WHAT RESOURCES WE WANT !
TO
GET LOVE,RESPECT AND HEALTH
WE NEED SELF INDULGENCE
 Following
3/11/2016 21
ROAD BLOCKS
CAN NOT FOCUSS TO AIM
WE HAVE MANY THINGS WHICH SHALL DIVERT US
FROM OUR AIM.
 REMEMBER :
WHETHER SUCH DIVERSIONS SHALL MAKE US HAPPY?
 THINK:
THE MOMENTORY HAPPINESS /SHORT CUTS
MAY DESTROY OUR LIFE FOR EVER
3/11/2016 22
SOLUTIONS
DO NOT BLAME FATE!!
3/11/2016 23
SOLUTIONS
DO NOT BLAME OTHERS!!
3/11/2016 24
SOLUTIONS
FIND SOLUTION IN YOUR SELF
3/11/2016 25

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Self Development

  • 1. SELF – DEVELOPMENT WHAT IS SELF? IMMEDIATE ANSWER IS I IS IT TRUE REALLY !! 3/11/2016 1
  • 2. Self means - I What are the needs of - I BE – “HAPPY” So – “I” is meaningless unless – It is associated with “HAPPINESS” 3/11/2016 2
  • 3. I HAPPINESS “I” can not be “HAPPY” Unless – we are  Health y  Love  Respec t Our Body Our Mind That Love Has No Meaning – Unless We Are Loved The most important is : Can we be happy – unless – “PEOPLE” we are associated are happy 3/11/2016 3
  • 4. Parents Brothers Sisters Neighbors Colony / Village Associates Seniors Juniors Collogues They As ‘I’ Have Same Needs HAPPINES S I in them can not be happy unless they are : Healthy Love (unless they are loved) Respect The need for others happiness may – be CONTRADICTING “So happiness is ability of one person to adjust to the ‘Happiness’ of others he is ‘dependent’ ”. 3/11/2016 4
  • 5. DEVELOPMENT What is Development ?Anything that is “LIVING” grows DEVELOPME NT Natura l Mental Human InductedInventions Discoveries Rules / Rituals Discoveri es Absolution gets Rules & Rituals Inventions Uncertainties / Conflicts Creates Mental & Human Inducts Leads 3/11/2016 5
  • 7. “Methods/ Means for the happiness and happiness is accelerated or decelerated due to human beings mentally inducted initiatives. ” SELF DEVELOPMENT IS 3/11/2016 7
  • 8. WHAT IS OUR MAIN AIM IN LIFE ?Probabl y HAVE ALL THE THINGS WE SEE AROUND •TV • Mobiles •Vehicle •House CAN WE REALLY GET ALL THE THINGS AROUND USIT NEEDS MONEY TRUTH IS HOW MANY IN OUR COUNTRY POSSESS THESE THINGS PROBABLY FEW IN 120 MILLIONS ARE THEY REALLY3/11/2016 8
  • 9. When we ‘TOSS’ a coin; chance is -EITHER HEAD Or TAIL But still can we be sure out of two possibilities we shall get one ANSWER IS NO IN REAL LIFE PROBABILITY FOR ANYTHING WE WANT ARE MANY- - - - -3/11/2016 9
  • 10. THE THINGS THAT MAKES US HAPPY CAN NOT BE PURCHASED • RESPECT • LOVE • HEALTH CANNOT BE PURCHASED BY MONEY ATTITUDE In life to get three things- 99% is Attitude 1% is Luck Attitude has to be POSITIVE POSITIVE ATTITUDE IS: 1) Understanding What Is Taught In Our Dharma, Follow The Set Rules & Regulations. 2) Don’t Compare With Others. 3) Reasoning / Rational Thinking.3/11/2016 10
  • 11. ATTITUDE: WHAT IS TOUGHT IN DHARMA WHAT IS DHARMA: “Human Brain” consistently:  effects changes, Every change generates side effects Side effect causes Harms To counter Harms rules are framed We have to follow rules “Ashta dasha puraneshu vyasasya vachanam dyam,Paropkaraya pundya, Papaya par pidanam” 3/11/2016 11
  • 12. DO NOT COMPARE WITH OTHERS COMPARING WITH OTHERS : GENERATES UNHAPPINESS LET US THINK “EVEL” /WRONG TO OTHERS” a. CONSCIOUSLY; WITH KNOWLEGE b. UNCONSCIOUSLY: WITHOUT KNOWLEDGE 3/11/2016 12
  • 13. REASONING/RATIONALLY  MANY TIMES WE DO THINGS BECOUSE : OTHERS ARE DOING IF I DON’T DO OTHERS SHALL LOUGH OUT OF ANGER 3/11/2016 13
  • 14. STEPS FOR SELF DEVELOPMENT STEPS WHAT IS THE STEP IMPORTANCE OF STEP ONE SELF ANALYSIS  WhatWeWantToAchieve?  WHY WE WANT TO AHIEVE ? HOW WE WANT TO ACHIEVE ? TWO ROAD BLOCKS  DONT GET THE LOVE ?  DO NOT HAVE RESOURCES!  CAN NOT FOCUSS TO AIM ! THREE SOLUTIONS  DO NOT BLAME FATE!! DO NOT BLAME OTHERS!! FIND SOLUTION IN YOUR SELF FOUR RESOLVE 3/11/2016 14
  • 15. SELF ANALYSIS WHAT WE WANT TO ACHIEVE  “CLARITY : WHAT WE DESIRE? : THE HUMAN OWN NEEDS ARE NOT MUCH, WE CAN FULFILL. WHAT WE CAN NOT ACHIEVE IS COMPARING WITH OTHERS ASSETS,AND CURSING FOR NOT HAVING THE SAME 3/11/2016 15
  • 16. SELF ANALYSIS : WHY WE WANT TO ACHIEVE “BE CLEAR WHETHER OUR DESIRE SHALL HELP US ACHIEVING OUR BASIC NEEDS: RESPECT LOVE HEALTH Or WE DESIRED SHALL CREATE MORE PROBLEMS 3/11/2016 16
  • 17. SELF ANALYSIS: HOW WE WANT TO ACHIEVE? DESIRE FOR ANY THING:  SKY IS THE LIMIT  WE CAN DREAM FOR ANY THING B U T I N A C T U A L L I F E T H E R E A R E M A N Y O B S T A C L E S 3/11/2016 17
  • 18. SELF ANALYSIS: HOW WE WANT TO ACHIEVE? ONLY RULE IS: ACHIEVE THROUGH ETHICAL MEANS DEVELOP OUR OWN RULES WHICH MAKES OTHERS HAPPY. FOLLOW THE RULES IN OUR DHARMA 3/11/2016 18
  • 19. ROAD BLOCKS “ ROAD BLOCKS ARE POSSIBLE HINDERENCE IN ACHIEVING OUR GOALS” BE CLEAR ABOUT HINDERANCES PROACTIVELY RATHER REACT 3/11/2016 19
  • 20. ROAD BLOCKS DONT GET THE LOVE ?  DONT GET THE LOVE ? DO WE DESERVE? WHAT WE HAVE DONE FOR OTHERS? ARE WE MANIPULATING DO NOT HAVE RESOURCES!  CAN NOT FOCUSS TO AIM ! 3/11/2016 20
  • 21. ROAD BLOCKS: DO NOT HAVE RESOURCES! IDENTIFY WHAT RESOURCES WE WANT ! TO GET LOVE,RESPECT AND HEALTH WE NEED SELF INDULGENCE  Following 3/11/2016 21
  • 22. ROAD BLOCKS CAN NOT FOCUSS TO AIM WE HAVE MANY THINGS WHICH SHALL DIVERT US FROM OUR AIM.  REMEMBER : WHETHER SUCH DIVERSIONS SHALL MAKE US HAPPY?  THINK: THE MOMENTORY HAPPINESS /SHORT CUTS MAY DESTROY OUR LIFE FOR EVER 3/11/2016 22
  • 23. SOLUTIONS DO NOT BLAME FATE!! 3/11/2016 23
  • 24. SOLUTIONS DO NOT BLAME OTHERS!! 3/11/2016 24
  • 25. SOLUTIONS FIND SOLUTION IN YOUR SELF 3/11/2016 25

Editor's Notes

  1. LET US NOT THINK WHY WE HAVE DONE WRONG: IF WE START JUSTIFYING THAN EVEN A MURDERER SHALL JUSTIFY