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© Kamla-Raj 2015 J Soc Sci, 42(1,2): 1-9 (2015)
Black Fathers’ Involvement in the Early Education of Their
Children and Associated Factors: South African Context
NoncedoKhewu1
andEmmanualO.Adu2
School of Continuing and General Education, University of Fort Hare,
East London, South Africa
Telephone: 1
<+27 (0)82 511 8909>, 2
<+27 (0)84 925 1948>
E-mail: 1
<noncedo.khewu@gmail.com>, 2
<eadu@ufh.ac.za>
KEYWORDS Black Fathers. Early Education. Associated Factors. Absent Fathers. Responsible Fathering. Fathering
Ideology
ABSTRACT Father’s absence in their children’s early lives is very prevalent in South Africa, especially among
Black fathers. The purpose of this study is to examine the level of Black fathers’ involvement in the early
education of their children and other associated factors in South Africa. The paper has two main findings; firstly,
with regard to non-involvement in their children’s early lives, Black fathers have a high percentage due to their
socioeconomic status and HIV/AIDS-related high mortality rate. Secondly, South Africa has acknowledged the
criticality of the absent fathers’ problem and is embarking on programs meant to address the internal and external
causative factors as well as to promote father involvement through sharing of ideas on responsible fathering. Thus,
it is recommended that to address this problem there is a need to undertake the following: research studies,
benchmarking, community counselling, policy reviews and integration of responsible fathering ideology in the
school curriculum.
INTRODUCTION
Posel and Devey (2006) reported that South
Africa occupies a second position after Namibia
with regard to the high rate of father absence in
their children’s early lives. Khunou (2006) and
Ritcher and Dawes (2008) also mentioned that,
in addition to father absence, South Africa has
low rates of paternal maintenance and high rates
of children neglect by their fathers. Findings from
Statistics SouthAfrica (2011) also revealed that
as a result of father absence only about a third
of South African pre-school children live in the
same homes as their fathers. The above men-
tioned view was also confirmed by Grange (2013)
who further noted that a recent South African
Institute of Race Relations survey found that
only 36% of South African children have their
fathers living with them. Most children live with
their mothers, maternal uncles, grandfathers as
well as siblings (Ritcher et al. 2011).
Posel and Devey (2006) shared that several
national household surveys estimated that in
2002, 55% of rural BlackAfrican children (age 15
years and younger) did not live with their fa-
thers.Asurvey conducted in 2007 also suggest-
ed that father absence was increasing, partly
because HIV/AIDS-related mortality was increas-
ing (Richter and Morrell 2008). In 2008, Richter
and Morrell (2008) discovered that from South
African men who are estimated to be fathers,
approximately 50% do not have daily contact
with their children. As much as the findings of
Statistics SouthAfrica (2011) shared that “many”
absent South African fathers support their chil-
dren and remain in contact with them despite
living apart, this was challenged by a study un-
dertaken by Hosegood and Madhavan (2012).
The study investigated social and residential
arrangements of biological fathers and children
in 11,000 households in the northern KwaZulu-
Natal and its findings were that rural BlackAfri-
can children (age 15 years and younger) did not
live with their fathers and only a few fathers
maintained constant contact with their children
(Hosegood and Madhavan 2012).
Posel and Devey (2006) explained that father
absence varies across racial groups; for exam-
ple, in 2002, fewer than 40% of Black children,
ages 15 years or younger lived with their fa-
thers, compared to almost 90% of White and
Indian children. Posel and Devey (2006) and Hill
(2008) noted that the racial disparity was linked
to the socio-economic status; an example given
was that in 2005, 51% of the 22,732 resident chil-
dren with living biological parents lived in a
household where their biological father was not
a member. Out of 49% children whose fathers,
2 NONCEDO KHEWU AND EMMANUAL O. ADU
were considered to be a member of the house-
hold, 44% of these children were not co-resi-
dent with their fathers because the father was
living primarily somewhere else (Posel and De-
vey 2006; Hill 2008). Posel and Devey (2006) and
Hill (2008) further added that among children
whose mothers had died, the proportion of chil-
dren whose fathers do not belong to the same
household is significantly higher than among
non-orphans, that is, 68% compared to 49%
among non-orphans. The proportion of African
children under the age of 15 years with absent
living fathers increased from 45% to 52% be-
tween 1996 and 2009 (Eddy and Holborn 2011).
It is important to note that the absence of fa-
thers in their children’s early lives is not only a
South African social problem, many countries
are experiencing it, Garcia et al. (2008) reported
that, In Africa, fathers are absent from nearly a
third of households, after Namibia and South
Africa, Zimbabwe, Malawi and Kenya have the
same problem… (p. 153).
Lamb and Day (2003) noted that absent fa-
thers are also very prevalent in Canada; Britain
and United States. It is also imperative to cau-
tion that in anAfrican context, fathers’involve-
ment with children may be underestimated if it is
measured only in terms of current physical co-
residence (Richter et al. 2006). Desmond and
Desmond (2006) argued that from a Black man’s
perspective responsible fathering mainly means
economic support for their children.Apopularly
held belief is that if a Black man is not financially
supporting his children, he should rather dis-
tance himself from his children (Mavungu 2013).
Rabe (2006) also interviewed mines’ workers that
were living in single-sex hostels around the gold
mines and only got home to their rural families
once a year. The interviewed mine workers con-
sidered financially supporting their children as
the core responsibility of a good father, and stat-
ed that they undertook to work in dangerous
conditions so that they could support their chil-
dren (Rabe 2006). To confirm the criticality of
the role of a Black man as a provider for his
children, in the northern KwaZulu-Natal, Hill et
al. (2008) also investigated which parents main-
ly paid for the children’s school fees and the
findings were that biological fathers were the
persons primarily responsible for paying school
fees for 47% of children between 6-17 years and
with both biological parents living. Desmond
and Desmond (2006) said that men feel like fail-
ures and are shameful when they cannot sup-
port their children, largely because they are out
of work and this often lead man to avoid being
involved fathers. Unemployment obviously ex-
acerbates this problem, one man who participat-
ed in a research study said,
As you lose your job, you start feeling the
distance, you start making the distance. All the
time when I go there, I don’t have anything. I
must stop going there. How is my child going to
look at me? What will my child say? (p. 228).
Ramphele (2006) confirmed this truth by not-
ing that,
Desertion by fathers is often prompted by
their inability to bear the burden of being pri-
mary providers. The burden of failure becomes
intolerable for those who lack the capacity to
generate enough income as uneducated and
unskilled labourers (p. 1).
As much as Black man put more emphasis
on their role as providers, Richter and Morrell
(2006) cautioned that it is critical to share ideas
about fatherhood because it is dangerous to
mostly equate fatherhood with being a provider.
Grange (2013) argued that the father’s role is not
only to provide but also to protect, care and
nurture for children. Grange (2013) added that
father’s absence can be defined as either phys-
ical or emotional-therefore whilst he may reside
at home, a father can also be emotionally unre-
sponsive to his family. Mkhize (2004) further ar-
gued that in addition to being a provider, father-
hood must also consider dimensions like access
or time spent in the presence of the child, pater-
nal engagement and direct interaction with the
child. Although, many authors agreed that pro-
viding for children is the main role of a Black fa-
ther, Rabe (2007) argued that the father’s socio-
economic status has an influence on the role Black
fathers play in their children’s lives. Rabe (2007)
reported that where work patterns and employ-
ment have been favourable, there is evidence of
working class men embracing an engaged form of
fatherhood like reading to their children and tak-
ing an interest in their schooling.
As much as the role that Black fathers claim
to play in their children’s lives is explained, that
is, to be providers, it is imperative to note that
there are a number of other factors that also in-
hibit Black fathers from being involved in their
children’s lives. Cultural practices like being
unable to afford to pay intlawulo (damages for
impregnating a girl) or lobola (bride wealth/dow-
BLACK FATHERS’ INVOLVEMENT IN THE EARLY EDUCATION OF THEIR CHILDREN 3
ry) cause Black men to prefer not to acknowl-
edge paternity, therefore, opting to be absent in
a child’s life (Hunter 2006). Patriarchal attitudes
related to their perceived superiority to women
and children also exacerbate the distance be-
tween fathers and their children (Grange 2013).
In addition, in an African kinship, children are
valued by the whole family and are frequently
sent to live with close relatives for varying
lengths of time to get to know the extended fam-
ily and kin and to consolidate ties, however, this
also results in fathers being absent in their chil-
dren’s early lives (Anderson 2005).
Absent fatherhood is also not a recent phe-
nomenon in South African because the apart-
heid era also had negative consequences that
also led to absent fatherhood. Social unrests
were prevalent as a result children’s schooling
was always disrupted and families were forced
to send their children to urban areas to access
better quality schools, or to rural schools to find
stability and safety from violent urban protests
and school closures (Richter et al. 2006; Ntshoe
2002). Colonial powers also forced local people
into paid work by levying taxes that required
them to earn money (Horwitz 2001), therefore, a
large number of fathers left their homes in search
of job opportunities. Posel (2003) also support-
ed the argument that the migrant labour system
contributed greatly to the alienation of fathers
from their children as he noted that a pattern of
male migration from rural to urban areas was es-
tablished with families separated for long peri-
ods of time. As women were left to raise the
children alone, as much as girls were also affect-
ed, many Black men grew up without fathers
and had no role models to teach them how to be
fathers themselves (Grange 2013). Although,
from an African perspective being a provider is
seen as an honourable role of a father, it must
also be mentioned that beside other cultural and
political factors that may lead to absent fathers,
there are also cases that are a result of heartless-
ness and indifference to the welfare of children
as well as a callous disregard for legal obliga-
tions of care. In a story set in KwaZulu-Natal in
the 1980’s, Polela (2012:3) described how,
“…his father murdered his mother and then
turned his back on him and his sister (him aged
3 and the sister 5)”
This indifference to the welfare of children
as well as the disregard for law is also highlight-
ed by the concept of social fathers that is highly
prevalent with Black fathers.Asocial father (non-
biological) may pay maintenance for a child of a
former partner with whom he has regular con-
tact or pay for his sisters or brother’s children
but may not have acknowledged a child of an-
other partner he no longer sees (Mkhize 2004;
Rabe 2007). A social father may also have little
contact with his own children in a former house-
hold because he has moved in with a woman
who has children from her previous relationship
and he has become their primary source of sup-
port (Mkhize 2004; Rabe 2007). Thus, it means
for social fathers, having a close relationship
with the mother of the child is a determinant for
the father’s closeness and support for his chil-
dren.
In explaining the consequences of absent
fatherhood, Lindegger (2006) shared that grown
men who never knew their fathers or who expe-
rienced violence, neglect or abuse through the
hands of their fathers, communicate deep sad-
ness about their experience and a longing to
have had a father or a better father than they
had, and to be themselves better fathers to their
children. Despite the negative results linked to
absent fatherhood, Morrell and Jewkes (2011)
noted that there are positive results that can be
observed if correct intervention measures are
implemented. Some boys that had fathers to care,
received affectionate care, were socialised to
understand men’s roles and were chosen to take
on the role of being a father, looking after sib-
lings, parents and/or grandparents-some of
these cases yielded very positive results.
Rationale
Grange (2013) cautioned that while father-
lessness might have become common, it should
never be regarded as “normal”-therefore redress-
ing the state of fatherlessness has become noth-
ing short of urgent, as the fallout can be devas-
tating. Grange (2013) noted that the absence of
a father in a child’s life, physically or emotional-
ly, can profoundly disadvantage the child in
adulthood. Global research has found that chil-
dren growing up without fathers are at a signif-
icant disadvantage when it comes to education,
employment, behaviour and relationships
(Grange 2013). Boys growing up in absent fa-
ther households are more likely to display “hy-
per-masculine” behaviour, including aggression,
while girls who grow up without fathers are more
4 NONCEDO KHEWU AND EMMANUAL O. ADU
likely to have low self-esteem, engage in risky
sexual behaviour, and have difficulties forming
and maintaining relationships (Grange 2013).
Richter and Morrell (2006) posited that absent
fathers account for many young adults contrib-
uting directly to the health, crime and other so-
cial crises being faced today. Richter et al. (2011:
2) believed,
“Supportive fathers give girls self-confi-
dence, and help boys develop healthy mascu-
linity and clear identity. One of the biggest im-
pacts of an involved father is that he gives cred-
ibility to school work. Children stay at school
longer if their fathers support them in educa-
tion. Children benefit from the financial sup-
port, care and protection of men. A man can
make all the difference to a child’s life by pre-
venting or stopping abuse perpetrated by oth-
er men. Supportive fathers give girls self-confi-
dence and help boys develop healthy mascu-
linity and a clear identity.”
Richter et al. (2011) also noted that one of
the biggest influences of an involved father is
that he gives credibility and encouragement for
educational achievement, as a result children
stay longer at school and achieves far more if
their fathers support them in education. It is
against this background that it is critical to ex-
amine the level of Black father’s involvement in
the early education of their children and other
associated factors.
TheoreticalFramework:
Responsible Fathering
Responsible fathering in Levine and Pitt’s
theory that suggests that there “ought,” to be a
set of desired norms for evaluating fathers’ be-
haviour, therefore, there is a moral code (right/
wrong) that suggests that some fathering style
could be judged “responsible or “irresponsible”
(Levine and Pitt 1995). Responsible fathering
refers to both resident and non-resident fathers
which is a reflection of the diversity of fathers’
situations and also addresses both fathers that
are absent, that is “deadbeat,” as well as those
that are emotionally uninvolved (Doherty 1990).
McGraw and Walker (2000) noted that the re-
sponsible fathering theory applies to fathers
across all social classes and racial groups, not
narrowly to men in lower social classes or mi-
nority groups. Levine and Pitt’s (1995) explained
that a man who behaves responsibly to his child
does the following: he waits to make a baby un-
til he is prepared emotionally and financially to
support his child; he establishes his legal pater-
nity if and when he does make a baby; he active-
ly shares with the child’s mother in the continu-
ing emotional and physical care of their child,
from pregnancy onwards; and he shares with
the child’s mother in the continuing financial
support of their child, from pregnancy onwards.
In examining the extent in which Black fa-
thers are involved in their children’s early edu-
cation, and what influences their involvement, it
is clear that there are a number of moral values
Black fathers need to uphold, in order for them
to be viewed as responsible fathers. As afore-
mentioned, Desmond and Desmond (2006) not-
ed that to some Black men responsible fathering
mainly means economic support for their chil-
dren, therefore, a Black man who is not finan-
cially supporting his children should rather dis-
tance himself from his children. However, Day
and Lamb (2004) reported that there is a new
emerging breed of fathers called “new fathers”;
these fathers are both providers and caregivers
for their children. These men are willing to at-
tend health centres, walk and drive children to
and from school as well as provide care at home,
if their female partners are employed (Richter
2006; Cabrera et al. 2000). Thus, it is clear that
South Africa has two sets of Black fathers that
subscribe to different moral values and have dif-
ferent interpretations of what responsible father-
ing means. These different interpretations also
influence the way and the extent in which these
Black fathers get involved in their children’s early
education lives as well as in other factors.
CONCEPTUALISATION OFA FATHER
According to Ponzetti (2003), a “father” is a
man who has engendered a child, a male parent,
or a person who takes responsibility for protect-
ing, caring, and rearing. Kervorkian (2010) and
Stibbe (2010) noted that a biological father is
obliged to maintain contact; pay partial child
support and also support the child in other ways,
for example, morally, emotionally, academically
or physically. It must be noted that there are
people that contest the appropriateness of us-
ing the term “father”, to every man that has
impregnated a woman as Mkhize (2006) strong-
ly argued that there is no direct correspondence
between being a biological father and discharg-
BLACK FATHERS’ INVOLVEMENT IN THE EARLY EDUCATION OF THEIR CHILDREN 5
ing the roles of a father. Mkhize (2006) believed
that there are men who are not biological fathers
but often play critical roles in the lives of chil-
dren that they share a space with. Mkhize (2006)
further added that a father provides financial
support, constancy, presence and emotional
support. However, for the purpose of this study,
the father under discussion is a biological fa-
ther, that is a father that has engendered a child.
As aforementioned in the introductory re-
marks Desmond and Desmond (2006) shared that
from a Black man’s perspective responsible fa-
thering mainly means economic support for your
children. However, Nosseir (2003) challenged
Desmond and Desmond (2006) assertions by
noting that in a traditional African context a fa-
ther’s role is defined as a provider or breadwin-
ner, however, in addition to economic support;
fathers have a responsibility as well for moral
oversight over children and gender role model-
ling. In addition, traditionally, a father still con-
stitutes the authority figure and in consequence
he shoulders major responsibilities for the mem-
bers of his family (Nosseir 2003). In the light of
that, Lamb (2000) cautioned that due to emerg-
ing social trends, with regard to Black men in
South Africa, the traditional definition of a fa-
ther is being reviewed. Cabrera et al (2000) not-
ed that as the socio cultural contexts are chang-
ing there is an emergence of a new grouping of
Black fathers, the “new father”.A“new father”
notion has emerged with the increasing commit-
ment of men to their families and the well-being
of their children (Marsiglio and Roy 2012; Roy
2008). According to Day and Lamb (2004) the
“new father” is a man who is both a provider
and a caregiver for his children and doesn’t sub-
scribe to the belief that fathers are only sup-
posed to financial providers.
Causes ofAbsent Fathers
Various factors have been identified as caus-
al factors to absent fatherhood. Factors that have
a direct link to fathers are the following: the fa-
ther honestly doesn’t know that he is the father
of a child (Hunter 2006); the father had an ab-
sent father so fatherhood wasn’t modelled to
him (Swartz and Bhana 2009); suspicion of pa-
ternity fraud as biological links are often as-
sumed (Bellis et al. 2005); allegations of promis-
cuity and multiple partners levelled towards
mothers (Kaufman et al. 2000); young fathers
refusal of paternity due to their unpreparedness
to assume financial and social obligations of
parenthood (Kaufman et al. 2000); parents warn-
ing their young sons against claiming paternity
if that will force them to abandon education or
strain the family’s meagre resources (Swartz et
al. 2013); a poor relationship between the moth-
er and the child’s father (Swart et al. 2013); un-
employment or low earning power causing a fa-
ther to be denied access to a child or the father
deciding to keep his distance (Desmond and
Desmond 2006); fathers migration to other parts
of the country in search of employment (Richter
et al. 2011); the belief that caring for a child is a
dutyofawoman(Mavungu2013)andplainheart-
lessness and indifference to the welfare of chil-
drenaswellasacallousdisregardforlaw(Mkhize
2004; Rabe 2007). Some of the latter causes are a
reason why some fathers are called “deadbeat
fathers”. In Xhosa there is an idiom that de-
scribes a “deadbeat” father, as: “ufe ethwele
umnqwazi”, that is he is dead with his hat on,
meaning the father is as good as dead because
physically, he is walking around but economi-
cally he is useless (Magona 1990).
Craddock (2013) noted that mothers served
as gatekeepers in the father--child relationship,
both inside and outside marriage, therefore, ac-
cess to the child can be influenced by mothers
in the following ways: mother’s personal feel-
ings about the father (Richter et al. 2011; Khunou
2006); young mothers under their parents care
being dictated by their parents to deny fathers
accessto the child (Swartz et al. 2013); and wom-
en’s empowerment which challenges the notion
of men as heads of families may cause a father to
resent his family (Grange 2013).
A child’s gender, age and developmental
stage can be a cause for father absence in the
following ways: fathers find it easier to be more
involved with their sons, especially with older
ones, presumably because they can identify with
them and are more comfortable communicating
with them (Oliker 2011); fathers may not be com-
fortable with their daughters because they can-
not relate to them (Krohn et al. 2001) and lastly,
some fathers withdraw more from parent- ado-
lescent conflict than mothers do (Nielsen 2014).
Consequences ofAbsent Fatherhood
Many authors noted that absent fatherhood
have both negative and positive consequences
6 NONCEDO KHEWU AND EMMANUAL O. ADU
in the lives of children. Amongst the positives
that were mentioned Desmond and Desmond
(2006) believed a household with a father in res-
idence is likely to be better off as children’s nu-
trition, health care, and schooling are likely to
be encouraged and supported, and if present,
the mother is likely to feel assisted in her role.
With regard to safety fathers protect and buffer
children against neglectful or harsh parenting
by a distant, demoralized or overburdened moth-
er and fathers can also shield their children from
potential exploitation and abuse by other men
(Guma and Henda 2004). With regard to identity,
acknowledged biological fatherhood is an im-
portant element of identity development as Black
children take their fathers clan names and be-
come part of the wider circle of family and kin
(Richter et al. 2010). Academically, researches
indicated that children whose fathers remain
present achieve better results at school and have
higher self-esteem (Carslon 2006; Richter et al.
2011).
The negative consequences of absent father-
hood is that with regard to a child’s moral and
emotional development, Ramphele (2002) be-
lieved that being considered fatherless gener-
ates in children a sense of loss and confusion
and such children are more likely to experience
emotional disturbances and depression. Absent
fatherhood is identified as one of the contribut-
ing factors to the spread of HIV/AIDS, violence
and the high incidence of rape (Grange 2013).
Richter et al. (2011) advised that girls without
fathers are prone to early pregnancy, bearing
children outside marriage, marrying early, or get-
ting divorced. Rossenberg and Bradford-Wilcox
(2006) noted that there are more consistent evi-
dences that father absence can have a negative
impact on the child’s educational attainment. In
support of that Eddy and Holborn (2011) sug-
gested that the presence of a father can contrib-
ute to cognitive development, intellectual func-
tioning, and school achievement of a child. Nu-
merous studies also found that an active and
nurturing style of fathering is associated with
better verbal skills, intellectual functioning, and
academic achievement (Rossenberg et al. 2006).
Rossenberg et al. (2006) further added that chil-
dren with involved caring fathers have better
educational outcomes as a number of studies
suggest that fathers who are nurturing and play-
ing have children with higher IQ’s as well as
better linguistic and cognitive capabilities. Palk-
ovitz (2002) also believed that toddlers with in-
volved fathers start school with higher levels of
readiness and can handle stress and frustration
associated with schooling.
THEEXTENTOF BLACK FATHERS
INVOLVEMENT INTHEIR CHILDREN’S
EARLY EDUCATION AND
OTHER FACTORS
With relation to the level of Black fathers’
involvement in the early education of their chil-
dren and associated factors, firstly, literature re-
vealed that non-involvement of Black fathers in
their children’s early lives is highly prevalent in
South Africa, the country occupies a second
position after Namibia and is also leading in low
rates of paternal maintenance and high rates of
children neglect (Hosegood and Madhavan
2012; Lamb and Day 2003).
Secondly, it was also found that, in South
Africa the father’s non-involvement in their chil-
dren’s early lives varies across racial groups;
Black fathers have a higher percentage compared
to Whites and Indians and this racial disparity
is linked to socioeconomic status and HIV/AIDS-
related mortality of Black fathers (Hill 2008).
Thirdly, some Black fathers view active in-
volvement as meaning mainly financial support
for their children but there is an emerging new
breed of fathers (new fathers) that is reviewing
the traditional view of father involvement and
are actively involved as both providers and car-
egivers and this “new fathers” emergence is
linked to work patterns and employment that is
favourable (Day and Lamb 2004; Desmond and
Desmond 2006; Mavungu 2013; Rabe 2007).
The fourth discovery is that, there are vari-
ous factors that impede father involvement, and
these factors are external and internal; external
factors are those that the child’s parents or any-
one involved has no control over them, like un-
employment and cultural prescripts and internal
factors are those linked to the decisions taken
by the child’s parents, like a mother preventing
a father to see a child because of their personal
differences (Morrell and Jewkes 2011).
The fifth thing that was unearthed was that
SouthAfrica is becoming increasingly aware of
the need to support and promote father involve-
ment through a platform of sharing ideas and
mentoring and there is a belief that the strategy
is highly effective as there are reported positive
BLACK FATHERS’ INVOLVEMENT IN THE EARLY EDUCATION OF THEIR CHILDREN 7
results related to its implementation despite con-
stant unsubstantiated media reports that young
fathers are choosing to be uninvolved in their
children’s lives (Grange 2013; Richter et al. 2010;
Richter and Morrell 2006; Swartz et al. 2013).
The sixth and the last discovery was that,
delayed entry into fatherhood as one moral val-
ue promoted by the responsible fathering theo-
ry produced positive results because there are
evidences that men who delay fatherhood until
their thirties and forties are more involved in
their children lives (Ponzetti 2003).
CONCLUSION
In conclusion, it is clear from the latter dis-
cussion that, although, there is an emergence of
the “new father”, that is, the father that is will-
ing to be involved in all aspects of his child’s
development, however, there is still a concern-
ing number of Black fathers who believed that a
father’s duty is only limited to financial support.
As much there are other reasons for Black fa-
ther’s non-involvement, it has also been discov-
ered that the father’s inability to provide finan-
cial support to his child is the main source of un-
involved fatherhood, whether that is linked to
child maintenance or the cultural prescript that a
man must pay damages after impregnating a
woman. Lack of finances, thereof, causes fathers
to be hindered from accessing their children or
out of embarrassment fathers decide to keep
their distance from their children. Thus, it is a
clear the fathers financial strength is a determi-
nant for his involvement in his child’s life. In the
light of the above, there is an urgent need to
address this belief and its negative implications
on children’s growth and well-being need to be
highlighted as well.
From personal experience the author never
got to see “my father” till he passed on in 1985,
the reason shared was that when the delegation
was sent to his home, his family promised to
come and pay the “damages” - they never came
- and that was a reason he never made an at-
tempted to see me or was never allowed to see
me. The opinion shared about “my father” not
having contact with the author is a “protected”
statement because the author only heard one
side of the story (from my maternal family) and
“my father” never had an opportunity or never
gave himself time to share his reasons with the
son. It is possible that the father may have had
other reasons not to make contact with the au-
thor. However, reasons given by the author’s
maternal family or those that could be given by
“my father” can never compensate for the pain,
the disappointment, the longing, the waiting, the
questions and the hope that the author would
see his “father” one day - only to be told that
the author’s father had passed on a few years
ago.
RECOMMENDATIONS
In view of the findings of this study the re-
searchers recommend that the following be done:
Conduct research studies, firstly, to investi-
gate why there has not been an improvement
with relation to Black father’s involvement in
their children’s lives after the implementation of
policies and programs that were meant to ad-
dress poverty and unemployment in Black com-
munities and secondly, investigate whether the
“new fathers” active involvement is linked to
their favourable employment status or is it linked
to their moral obligation to be involved fathers
whether they can/cannot provide for their chil-
dren. Learn from the success stories related to
the intervention /mentoring programmes that
have been implemented for Black orphaned and
abandoned boys and to share learnt lessons with
other communities. The media can also be used
to popularize issues around responsible father-
ing as well as the success stories related to the
intervention/mentoring programs.
Review relevant policies to ensure that all
issues related to responsible fathering are main-
streamed into all policies and to implement these
policies and programs in different government
and community platforms.
Conduct community counselling with an aim
of highlighting the positives and the negatives
of “culture based” decisions and how at times
such decisions can produce “unintended” con-
sequences, children’s rights violation. Incorpo-
rate in the school curriculum issues related to
different family forms so that children can be
assisted to understand the dynamics of family
life as well as father absence and this could as-
sist in preventing problems like depression and
indiscipline that may be emanating from the
child’s anger issues. Black fathers must also be
encouraged to participate in school activities so
that they can give support aimed at improve-
ment of student achievement and inculcation of
good values.
8 NONCEDO KHEWU AND EMMANUAL O. ADU
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  • 1. © Kamla-Raj 2015 J Soc Sci, 42(1,2): 1-9 (2015) Black Fathers’ Involvement in the Early Education of Their Children and Associated Factors: South African Context NoncedoKhewu1 andEmmanualO.Adu2 School of Continuing and General Education, University of Fort Hare, East London, South Africa Telephone: 1 <+27 (0)82 511 8909>, 2 <+27 (0)84 925 1948> E-mail: 1 <noncedo.khewu@gmail.com>, 2 <eadu@ufh.ac.za> KEYWORDS Black Fathers. Early Education. Associated Factors. Absent Fathers. Responsible Fathering. Fathering Ideology ABSTRACT Father’s absence in their children’s early lives is very prevalent in South Africa, especially among Black fathers. The purpose of this study is to examine the level of Black fathers’ involvement in the early education of their children and other associated factors in South Africa. The paper has two main findings; firstly, with regard to non-involvement in their children’s early lives, Black fathers have a high percentage due to their socioeconomic status and HIV/AIDS-related high mortality rate. Secondly, South Africa has acknowledged the criticality of the absent fathers’ problem and is embarking on programs meant to address the internal and external causative factors as well as to promote father involvement through sharing of ideas on responsible fathering. Thus, it is recommended that to address this problem there is a need to undertake the following: research studies, benchmarking, community counselling, policy reviews and integration of responsible fathering ideology in the school curriculum. INTRODUCTION Posel and Devey (2006) reported that South Africa occupies a second position after Namibia with regard to the high rate of father absence in their children’s early lives. Khunou (2006) and Ritcher and Dawes (2008) also mentioned that, in addition to father absence, South Africa has low rates of paternal maintenance and high rates of children neglect by their fathers. Findings from Statistics SouthAfrica (2011) also revealed that as a result of father absence only about a third of South African pre-school children live in the same homes as their fathers. The above men- tioned view was also confirmed by Grange (2013) who further noted that a recent South African Institute of Race Relations survey found that only 36% of South African children have their fathers living with them. Most children live with their mothers, maternal uncles, grandfathers as well as siblings (Ritcher et al. 2011). Posel and Devey (2006) shared that several national household surveys estimated that in 2002, 55% of rural BlackAfrican children (age 15 years and younger) did not live with their fa- thers.Asurvey conducted in 2007 also suggest- ed that father absence was increasing, partly because HIV/AIDS-related mortality was increas- ing (Richter and Morrell 2008). In 2008, Richter and Morrell (2008) discovered that from South African men who are estimated to be fathers, approximately 50% do not have daily contact with their children. As much as the findings of Statistics SouthAfrica (2011) shared that “many” absent South African fathers support their chil- dren and remain in contact with them despite living apart, this was challenged by a study un- dertaken by Hosegood and Madhavan (2012). The study investigated social and residential arrangements of biological fathers and children in 11,000 households in the northern KwaZulu- Natal and its findings were that rural BlackAfri- can children (age 15 years and younger) did not live with their fathers and only a few fathers maintained constant contact with their children (Hosegood and Madhavan 2012). Posel and Devey (2006) explained that father absence varies across racial groups; for exam- ple, in 2002, fewer than 40% of Black children, ages 15 years or younger lived with their fa- thers, compared to almost 90% of White and Indian children. Posel and Devey (2006) and Hill (2008) noted that the racial disparity was linked to the socio-economic status; an example given was that in 2005, 51% of the 22,732 resident chil- dren with living biological parents lived in a household where their biological father was not a member. Out of 49% children whose fathers,
  • 2. 2 NONCEDO KHEWU AND EMMANUAL O. ADU were considered to be a member of the house- hold, 44% of these children were not co-resi- dent with their fathers because the father was living primarily somewhere else (Posel and De- vey 2006; Hill 2008). Posel and Devey (2006) and Hill (2008) further added that among children whose mothers had died, the proportion of chil- dren whose fathers do not belong to the same household is significantly higher than among non-orphans, that is, 68% compared to 49% among non-orphans. The proportion of African children under the age of 15 years with absent living fathers increased from 45% to 52% be- tween 1996 and 2009 (Eddy and Holborn 2011). It is important to note that the absence of fa- thers in their children’s early lives is not only a South African social problem, many countries are experiencing it, Garcia et al. (2008) reported that, In Africa, fathers are absent from nearly a third of households, after Namibia and South Africa, Zimbabwe, Malawi and Kenya have the same problem… (p. 153). Lamb and Day (2003) noted that absent fa- thers are also very prevalent in Canada; Britain and United States. It is also imperative to cau- tion that in anAfrican context, fathers’involve- ment with children may be underestimated if it is measured only in terms of current physical co- residence (Richter et al. 2006). Desmond and Desmond (2006) argued that from a Black man’s perspective responsible fathering mainly means economic support for their children.Apopularly held belief is that if a Black man is not financially supporting his children, he should rather dis- tance himself from his children (Mavungu 2013). Rabe (2006) also interviewed mines’ workers that were living in single-sex hostels around the gold mines and only got home to their rural families once a year. The interviewed mine workers con- sidered financially supporting their children as the core responsibility of a good father, and stat- ed that they undertook to work in dangerous conditions so that they could support their chil- dren (Rabe 2006). To confirm the criticality of the role of a Black man as a provider for his children, in the northern KwaZulu-Natal, Hill et al. (2008) also investigated which parents main- ly paid for the children’s school fees and the findings were that biological fathers were the persons primarily responsible for paying school fees for 47% of children between 6-17 years and with both biological parents living. Desmond and Desmond (2006) said that men feel like fail- ures and are shameful when they cannot sup- port their children, largely because they are out of work and this often lead man to avoid being involved fathers. Unemployment obviously ex- acerbates this problem, one man who participat- ed in a research study said, As you lose your job, you start feeling the distance, you start making the distance. All the time when I go there, I don’t have anything. I must stop going there. How is my child going to look at me? What will my child say? (p. 228). Ramphele (2006) confirmed this truth by not- ing that, Desertion by fathers is often prompted by their inability to bear the burden of being pri- mary providers. The burden of failure becomes intolerable for those who lack the capacity to generate enough income as uneducated and unskilled labourers (p. 1). As much as Black man put more emphasis on their role as providers, Richter and Morrell (2006) cautioned that it is critical to share ideas about fatherhood because it is dangerous to mostly equate fatherhood with being a provider. Grange (2013) argued that the father’s role is not only to provide but also to protect, care and nurture for children. Grange (2013) added that father’s absence can be defined as either phys- ical or emotional-therefore whilst he may reside at home, a father can also be emotionally unre- sponsive to his family. Mkhize (2004) further ar- gued that in addition to being a provider, father- hood must also consider dimensions like access or time spent in the presence of the child, pater- nal engagement and direct interaction with the child. Although, many authors agreed that pro- viding for children is the main role of a Black fa- ther, Rabe (2007) argued that the father’s socio- economic status has an influence on the role Black fathers play in their children’s lives. Rabe (2007) reported that where work patterns and employ- ment have been favourable, there is evidence of working class men embracing an engaged form of fatherhood like reading to their children and tak- ing an interest in their schooling. As much as the role that Black fathers claim to play in their children’s lives is explained, that is, to be providers, it is imperative to note that there are a number of other factors that also in- hibit Black fathers from being involved in their children’s lives. Cultural practices like being unable to afford to pay intlawulo (damages for impregnating a girl) or lobola (bride wealth/dow-
  • 3. BLACK FATHERS’ INVOLVEMENT IN THE EARLY EDUCATION OF THEIR CHILDREN 3 ry) cause Black men to prefer not to acknowl- edge paternity, therefore, opting to be absent in a child’s life (Hunter 2006). Patriarchal attitudes related to their perceived superiority to women and children also exacerbate the distance be- tween fathers and their children (Grange 2013). In addition, in an African kinship, children are valued by the whole family and are frequently sent to live with close relatives for varying lengths of time to get to know the extended fam- ily and kin and to consolidate ties, however, this also results in fathers being absent in their chil- dren’s early lives (Anderson 2005). Absent fatherhood is also not a recent phe- nomenon in South African because the apart- heid era also had negative consequences that also led to absent fatherhood. Social unrests were prevalent as a result children’s schooling was always disrupted and families were forced to send their children to urban areas to access better quality schools, or to rural schools to find stability and safety from violent urban protests and school closures (Richter et al. 2006; Ntshoe 2002). Colonial powers also forced local people into paid work by levying taxes that required them to earn money (Horwitz 2001), therefore, a large number of fathers left their homes in search of job opportunities. Posel (2003) also support- ed the argument that the migrant labour system contributed greatly to the alienation of fathers from their children as he noted that a pattern of male migration from rural to urban areas was es- tablished with families separated for long peri- ods of time. As women were left to raise the children alone, as much as girls were also affect- ed, many Black men grew up without fathers and had no role models to teach them how to be fathers themselves (Grange 2013). Although, from an African perspective being a provider is seen as an honourable role of a father, it must also be mentioned that beside other cultural and political factors that may lead to absent fathers, there are also cases that are a result of heartless- ness and indifference to the welfare of children as well as a callous disregard for legal obliga- tions of care. In a story set in KwaZulu-Natal in the 1980’s, Polela (2012:3) described how, “…his father murdered his mother and then turned his back on him and his sister (him aged 3 and the sister 5)” This indifference to the welfare of children as well as the disregard for law is also highlight- ed by the concept of social fathers that is highly prevalent with Black fathers.Asocial father (non- biological) may pay maintenance for a child of a former partner with whom he has regular con- tact or pay for his sisters or brother’s children but may not have acknowledged a child of an- other partner he no longer sees (Mkhize 2004; Rabe 2007). A social father may also have little contact with his own children in a former house- hold because he has moved in with a woman who has children from her previous relationship and he has become their primary source of sup- port (Mkhize 2004; Rabe 2007). Thus, it means for social fathers, having a close relationship with the mother of the child is a determinant for the father’s closeness and support for his chil- dren. In explaining the consequences of absent fatherhood, Lindegger (2006) shared that grown men who never knew their fathers or who expe- rienced violence, neglect or abuse through the hands of their fathers, communicate deep sad- ness about their experience and a longing to have had a father or a better father than they had, and to be themselves better fathers to their children. Despite the negative results linked to absent fatherhood, Morrell and Jewkes (2011) noted that there are positive results that can be observed if correct intervention measures are implemented. Some boys that had fathers to care, received affectionate care, were socialised to understand men’s roles and were chosen to take on the role of being a father, looking after sib- lings, parents and/or grandparents-some of these cases yielded very positive results. Rationale Grange (2013) cautioned that while father- lessness might have become common, it should never be regarded as “normal”-therefore redress- ing the state of fatherlessness has become noth- ing short of urgent, as the fallout can be devas- tating. Grange (2013) noted that the absence of a father in a child’s life, physically or emotional- ly, can profoundly disadvantage the child in adulthood. Global research has found that chil- dren growing up without fathers are at a signif- icant disadvantage when it comes to education, employment, behaviour and relationships (Grange 2013). Boys growing up in absent fa- ther households are more likely to display “hy- per-masculine” behaviour, including aggression, while girls who grow up without fathers are more
  • 4. 4 NONCEDO KHEWU AND EMMANUAL O. ADU likely to have low self-esteem, engage in risky sexual behaviour, and have difficulties forming and maintaining relationships (Grange 2013). Richter and Morrell (2006) posited that absent fathers account for many young adults contrib- uting directly to the health, crime and other so- cial crises being faced today. Richter et al. (2011: 2) believed, “Supportive fathers give girls self-confi- dence, and help boys develop healthy mascu- linity and clear identity. One of the biggest im- pacts of an involved father is that he gives cred- ibility to school work. Children stay at school longer if their fathers support them in educa- tion. Children benefit from the financial sup- port, care and protection of men. A man can make all the difference to a child’s life by pre- venting or stopping abuse perpetrated by oth- er men. Supportive fathers give girls self-confi- dence and help boys develop healthy mascu- linity and a clear identity.” Richter et al. (2011) also noted that one of the biggest influences of an involved father is that he gives credibility and encouragement for educational achievement, as a result children stay longer at school and achieves far more if their fathers support them in education. It is against this background that it is critical to ex- amine the level of Black father’s involvement in the early education of their children and other associated factors. TheoreticalFramework: Responsible Fathering Responsible fathering in Levine and Pitt’s theory that suggests that there “ought,” to be a set of desired norms for evaluating fathers’ be- haviour, therefore, there is a moral code (right/ wrong) that suggests that some fathering style could be judged “responsible or “irresponsible” (Levine and Pitt 1995). Responsible fathering refers to both resident and non-resident fathers which is a reflection of the diversity of fathers’ situations and also addresses both fathers that are absent, that is “deadbeat,” as well as those that are emotionally uninvolved (Doherty 1990). McGraw and Walker (2000) noted that the re- sponsible fathering theory applies to fathers across all social classes and racial groups, not narrowly to men in lower social classes or mi- nority groups. Levine and Pitt’s (1995) explained that a man who behaves responsibly to his child does the following: he waits to make a baby un- til he is prepared emotionally and financially to support his child; he establishes his legal pater- nity if and when he does make a baby; he active- ly shares with the child’s mother in the continu- ing emotional and physical care of their child, from pregnancy onwards; and he shares with the child’s mother in the continuing financial support of their child, from pregnancy onwards. In examining the extent in which Black fa- thers are involved in their children’s early edu- cation, and what influences their involvement, it is clear that there are a number of moral values Black fathers need to uphold, in order for them to be viewed as responsible fathers. As afore- mentioned, Desmond and Desmond (2006) not- ed that to some Black men responsible fathering mainly means economic support for their chil- dren, therefore, a Black man who is not finan- cially supporting his children should rather dis- tance himself from his children. However, Day and Lamb (2004) reported that there is a new emerging breed of fathers called “new fathers”; these fathers are both providers and caregivers for their children. These men are willing to at- tend health centres, walk and drive children to and from school as well as provide care at home, if their female partners are employed (Richter 2006; Cabrera et al. 2000). Thus, it is clear that South Africa has two sets of Black fathers that subscribe to different moral values and have dif- ferent interpretations of what responsible father- ing means. These different interpretations also influence the way and the extent in which these Black fathers get involved in their children’s early education lives as well as in other factors. CONCEPTUALISATION OFA FATHER According to Ponzetti (2003), a “father” is a man who has engendered a child, a male parent, or a person who takes responsibility for protect- ing, caring, and rearing. Kervorkian (2010) and Stibbe (2010) noted that a biological father is obliged to maintain contact; pay partial child support and also support the child in other ways, for example, morally, emotionally, academically or physically. It must be noted that there are people that contest the appropriateness of us- ing the term “father”, to every man that has impregnated a woman as Mkhize (2006) strong- ly argued that there is no direct correspondence between being a biological father and discharg-
  • 5. BLACK FATHERS’ INVOLVEMENT IN THE EARLY EDUCATION OF THEIR CHILDREN 5 ing the roles of a father. Mkhize (2006) believed that there are men who are not biological fathers but often play critical roles in the lives of chil- dren that they share a space with. Mkhize (2006) further added that a father provides financial support, constancy, presence and emotional support. However, for the purpose of this study, the father under discussion is a biological fa- ther, that is a father that has engendered a child. As aforementioned in the introductory re- marks Desmond and Desmond (2006) shared that from a Black man’s perspective responsible fa- thering mainly means economic support for your children. However, Nosseir (2003) challenged Desmond and Desmond (2006) assertions by noting that in a traditional African context a fa- ther’s role is defined as a provider or breadwin- ner, however, in addition to economic support; fathers have a responsibility as well for moral oversight over children and gender role model- ling. In addition, traditionally, a father still con- stitutes the authority figure and in consequence he shoulders major responsibilities for the mem- bers of his family (Nosseir 2003). In the light of that, Lamb (2000) cautioned that due to emerg- ing social trends, with regard to Black men in South Africa, the traditional definition of a fa- ther is being reviewed. Cabrera et al (2000) not- ed that as the socio cultural contexts are chang- ing there is an emergence of a new grouping of Black fathers, the “new father”.A“new father” notion has emerged with the increasing commit- ment of men to their families and the well-being of their children (Marsiglio and Roy 2012; Roy 2008). According to Day and Lamb (2004) the “new father” is a man who is both a provider and a caregiver for his children and doesn’t sub- scribe to the belief that fathers are only sup- posed to financial providers. Causes ofAbsent Fathers Various factors have been identified as caus- al factors to absent fatherhood. Factors that have a direct link to fathers are the following: the fa- ther honestly doesn’t know that he is the father of a child (Hunter 2006); the father had an ab- sent father so fatherhood wasn’t modelled to him (Swartz and Bhana 2009); suspicion of pa- ternity fraud as biological links are often as- sumed (Bellis et al. 2005); allegations of promis- cuity and multiple partners levelled towards mothers (Kaufman et al. 2000); young fathers refusal of paternity due to their unpreparedness to assume financial and social obligations of parenthood (Kaufman et al. 2000); parents warn- ing their young sons against claiming paternity if that will force them to abandon education or strain the family’s meagre resources (Swartz et al. 2013); a poor relationship between the moth- er and the child’s father (Swart et al. 2013); un- employment or low earning power causing a fa- ther to be denied access to a child or the father deciding to keep his distance (Desmond and Desmond 2006); fathers migration to other parts of the country in search of employment (Richter et al. 2011); the belief that caring for a child is a dutyofawoman(Mavungu2013)andplainheart- lessness and indifference to the welfare of chil- drenaswellasacallousdisregardforlaw(Mkhize 2004; Rabe 2007). Some of the latter causes are a reason why some fathers are called “deadbeat fathers”. In Xhosa there is an idiom that de- scribes a “deadbeat” father, as: “ufe ethwele umnqwazi”, that is he is dead with his hat on, meaning the father is as good as dead because physically, he is walking around but economi- cally he is useless (Magona 1990). Craddock (2013) noted that mothers served as gatekeepers in the father--child relationship, both inside and outside marriage, therefore, ac- cess to the child can be influenced by mothers in the following ways: mother’s personal feel- ings about the father (Richter et al. 2011; Khunou 2006); young mothers under their parents care being dictated by their parents to deny fathers accessto the child (Swartz et al. 2013); and wom- en’s empowerment which challenges the notion of men as heads of families may cause a father to resent his family (Grange 2013). A child’s gender, age and developmental stage can be a cause for father absence in the following ways: fathers find it easier to be more involved with their sons, especially with older ones, presumably because they can identify with them and are more comfortable communicating with them (Oliker 2011); fathers may not be com- fortable with their daughters because they can- not relate to them (Krohn et al. 2001) and lastly, some fathers withdraw more from parent- ado- lescent conflict than mothers do (Nielsen 2014). Consequences ofAbsent Fatherhood Many authors noted that absent fatherhood have both negative and positive consequences
  • 6. 6 NONCEDO KHEWU AND EMMANUAL O. ADU in the lives of children. Amongst the positives that were mentioned Desmond and Desmond (2006) believed a household with a father in res- idence is likely to be better off as children’s nu- trition, health care, and schooling are likely to be encouraged and supported, and if present, the mother is likely to feel assisted in her role. With regard to safety fathers protect and buffer children against neglectful or harsh parenting by a distant, demoralized or overburdened moth- er and fathers can also shield their children from potential exploitation and abuse by other men (Guma and Henda 2004). With regard to identity, acknowledged biological fatherhood is an im- portant element of identity development as Black children take their fathers clan names and be- come part of the wider circle of family and kin (Richter et al. 2010). Academically, researches indicated that children whose fathers remain present achieve better results at school and have higher self-esteem (Carslon 2006; Richter et al. 2011). The negative consequences of absent father- hood is that with regard to a child’s moral and emotional development, Ramphele (2002) be- lieved that being considered fatherless gener- ates in children a sense of loss and confusion and such children are more likely to experience emotional disturbances and depression. Absent fatherhood is identified as one of the contribut- ing factors to the spread of HIV/AIDS, violence and the high incidence of rape (Grange 2013). Richter et al. (2011) advised that girls without fathers are prone to early pregnancy, bearing children outside marriage, marrying early, or get- ting divorced. Rossenberg and Bradford-Wilcox (2006) noted that there are more consistent evi- dences that father absence can have a negative impact on the child’s educational attainment. In support of that Eddy and Holborn (2011) sug- gested that the presence of a father can contrib- ute to cognitive development, intellectual func- tioning, and school achievement of a child. Nu- merous studies also found that an active and nurturing style of fathering is associated with better verbal skills, intellectual functioning, and academic achievement (Rossenberg et al. 2006). Rossenberg et al. (2006) further added that chil- dren with involved caring fathers have better educational outcomes as a number of studies suggest that fathers who are nurturing and play- ing have children with higher IQ’s as well as better linguistic and cognitive capabilities. Palk- ovitz (2002) also believed that toddlers with in- volved fathers start school with higher levels of readiness and can handle stress and frustration associated with schooling. THEEXTENTOF BLACK FATHERS INVOLVEMENT INTHEIR CHILDREN’S EARLY EDUCATION AND OTHER FACTORS With relation to the level of Black fathers’ involvement in the early education of their chil- dren and associated factors, firstly, literature re- vealed that non-involvement of Black fathers in their children’s early lives is highly prevalent in South Africa, the country occupies a second position after Namibia and is also leading in low rates of paternal maintenance and high rates of children neglect (Hosegood and Madhavan 2012; Lamb and Day 2003). Secondly, it was also found that, in South Africa the father’s non-involvement in their chil- dren’s early lives varies across racial groups; Black fathers have a higher percentage compared to Whites and Indians and this racial disparity is linked to socioeconomic status and HIV/AIDS- related mortality of Black fathers (Hill 2008). Thirdly, some Black fathers view active in- volvement as meaning mainly financial support for their children but there is an emerging new breed of fathers (new fathers) that is reviewing the traditional view of father involvement and are actively involved as both providers and car- egivers and this “new fathers” emergence is linked to work patterns and employment that is favourable (Day and Lamb 2004; Desmond and Desmond 2006; Mavungu 2013; Rabe 2007). The fourth discovery is that, there are vari- ous factors that impede father involvement, and these factors are external and internal; external factors are those that the child’s parents or any- one involved has no control over them, like un- employment and cultural prescripts and internal factors are those linked to the decisions taken by the child’s parents, like a mother preventing a father to see a child because of their personal differences (Morrell and Jewkes 2011). The fifth thing that was unearthed was that SouthAfrica is becoming increasingly aware of the need to support and promote father involve- ment through a platform of sharing ideas and mentoring and there is a belief that the strategy is highly effective as there are reported positive
  • 7. BLACK FATHERS’ INVOLVEMENT IN THE EARLY EDUCATION OF THEIR CHILDREN 7 results related to its implementation despite con- stant unsubstantiated media reports that young fathers are choosing to be uninvolved in their children’s lives (Grange 2013; Richter et al. 2010; Richter and Morrell 2006; Swartz et al. 2013). The sixth and the last discovery was that, delayed entry into fatherhood as one moral val- ue promoted by the responsible fathering theo- ry produced positive results because there are evidences that men who delay fatherhood until their thirties and forties are more involved in their children lives (Ponzetti 2003). CONCLUSION In conclusion, it is clear from the latter dis- cussion that, although, there is an emergence of the “new father”, that is, the father that is will- ing to be involved in all aspects of his child’s development, however, there is still a concern- ing number of Black fathers who believed that a father’s duty is only limited to financial support. As much there are other reasons for Black fa- ther’s non-involvement, it has also been discov- ered that the father’s inability to provide finan- cial support to his child is the main source of un- involved fatherhood, whether that is linked to child maintenance or the cultural prescript that a man must pay damages after impregnating a woman. Lack of finances, thereof, causes fathers to be hindered from accessing their children or out of embarrassment fathers decide to keep their distance from their children. Thus, it is a clear the fathers financial strength is a determi- nant for his involvement in his child’s life. In the light of the above, there is an urgent need to address this belief and its negative implications on children’s growth and well-being need to be highlighted as well. From personal experience the author never got to see “my father” till he passed on in 1985, the reason shared was that when the delegation was sent to his home, his family promised to come and pay the “damages” - they never came - and that was a reason he never made an at- tempted to see me or was never allowed to see me. The opinion shared about “my father” not having contact with the author is a “protected” statement because the author only heard one side of the story (from my maternal family) and “my father” never had an opportunity or never gave himself time to share his reasons with the son. It is possible that the father may have had other reasons not to make contact with the au- thor. However, reasons given by the author’s maternal family or those that could be given by “my father” can never compensate for the pain, the disappointment, the longing, the waiting, the questions and the hope that the author would see his “father” one day - only to be told that the author’s father had passed on a few years ago. RECOMMENDATIONS In view of the findings of this study the re- searchers recommend that the following be done: Conduct research studies, firstly, to investi- gate why there has not been an improvement with relation to Black father’s involvement in their children’s lives after the implementation of policies and programs that were meant to ad- dress poverty and unemployment in Black com- munities and secondly, investigate whether the “new fathers” active involvement is linked to their favourable employment status or is it linked to their moral obligation to be involved fathers whether they can/cannot provide for their chil- dren. Learn from the success stories related to the intervention /mentoring programmes that have been implemented for Black orphaned and abandoned boys and to share learnt lessons with other communities. The media can also be used to popularize issues around responsible father- ing as well as the success stories related to the intervention/mentoring programs. Review relevant policies to ensure that all issues related to responsible fathering are main- streamed into all policies and to implement these policies and programs in different government and community platforms. Conduct community counselling with an aim of highlighting the positives and the negatives of “culture based” decisions and how at times such decisions can produce “unintended” con- sequences, children’s rights violation. Incorpo- rate in the school curriculum issues related to different family forms so that children can be assisted to understand the dynamics of family life as well as father absence and this could as- sist in preventing problems like depression and indiscipline that may be emanating from the child’s anger issues. Black fathers must also be encouraged to participate in school activities so that they can give support aimed at improve- ment of student achievement and inculcation of good values.
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