This document discusses different forms of non-verbal communication including body language, gestures, eye contact, posture, proxemics, and touch. It provides examples of common gestures and their meanings, such as palm in palm indicating authority or hands in pockets indicating aggression. It also discusses different forms of handshakes and how they can convey dominance, weakness, or aggression. Proper eye contact and body posture are emphasized as important parts of non-verbal communication.
5. In today’s hard world you don’t just have to be able to “TALK
THE TALK” you’ve got to “WALK THE TALK”
Thereby, you know…
How to trigger positive emotions
How to ensure you are not interrupted
How to create instant rapport and trust
How to know when someone is lying
How to deal with rude and aggressive people
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8. “Eyes are so transparent
that through them
one sees the soul”
“Look a person in the
Eye when you
Talk to him”
9. Too much eye contact: dominance, lack of respect, threat, wish
to insult
Too little eye contact: not paying attention, impolite, insincere,
shy
Withdrawing eyes: signal of submission
13. Some more common gestures:
• Palm In Palm : Authority
• Hand gripping wrist : Frustration
14. • Hands in pocket : aggression
• Hands on hips : aggressive ,
achiever stance
15. Some more common gestures:
• Mouth Guard : suppressing deceitful words,
telling lie
• nose touching : listener doubting speaker’s
words, disguising own words,
mind your own business
• eye rub : avoiding eye contact, lying
• finger in mouth : needs reassurance, making decision
• chin stroking : making a decision
16. Some more common gestures:
• clenched teeth : anger, lying
• boredom gestures:
• evaluating gestures :
19. • Arms folded across the chest : unsympathetic
• Arms held loose : open positive attitude
• Upright posture : high status , I am the boss
• Bowing head : lower status
• Sideway lean : relaxation, friendliness
• Self wrapping : withdrawal, self protection
• Slouching with forward lean : lowliness
• Moderately upright : enthusiasm, friendliness
23. Kinds of touch depends on various factors:
• which part of body is touched (voluntary/involuntary)
• how long touch lasted
• pressure used
• movement after contact
• mood while touching
• relation between the two persons
24. Stiff arm hand shake : equality
Dead fish handshake: weak character