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Living & leading passion ima mac 05.20.11

  1. 1. Living & Leading with Passion
  2. 2. <ul><li>Thank you. </li></ul>
  3. 3. <ul><li>Dena Botbyl </li></ul><ul><li>I am. </li></ul><ul><li>Decision to change. </li></ul><ul><li>What happened? </li></ul><ul><li>IMA. </li></ul>
  4. 4. <ul><li>The Dream Study </li></ul><ul><li>Today’s talk. </li></ul>
  5. 5. <ul><li>PAID </li></ul><ul><li>P assion. </li></ul><ul><li>A uthenticity. </li></ul><ul><li>I ntensity. </li></ul><ul><li>D irection. </li></ul>
  6. 6. <ul><li>Passion </li></ul><ul><li>Please, stop. </li></ul>
  7. 7. <ul><li>Passion </li></ul><ul><li>Dream study. </li></ul><ul><li>#1 Question. </li></ul><ul><li>$1 Billion dollars. </li></ul>
  8. 8. <ul><li>Passion </li></ul>
  9. 10. <ul><li>Assignment 1 </li></ul><ul><li>Passion-hunting. </li></ul>
  10. 11. <ul><li>Authenticity </li></ul><ul><li>Leadership. </li></ul><ul><li>Real or fake? </li></ul>
  11. 12. <ul><li>Authenticity </li></ul><ul><li>Three ways to lead: </li></ul><ul><li>By example </li></ul><ul><li>By example </li></ul><ul><li>By example </li></ul>
  12. 13. <ul><li>Authenticity </li></ul><ul><li>Insight. Sometimes we refer to this as vision, but that usually has exclusive reference to the future. </li></ul><ul><li>While leaders must have vision, they need more. They need wisdom and discernment. </li></ul><ul><li>They need to be able to look at complex situations, gain clarity, and determine a course of action. </li></ul>
  13. 14. <ul><li>Authenticity </li></ul><ul><li>Initiative. Leaders go first. </li></ul><ul><li>They don’t sit on the sidelines. </li></ul><ul><li>They don’t ask others to do what they are unwilling to do themselves. </li></ul><ul><li>Instead, they lead by example. </li></ul>
  14. 15. <ul><li>Authenticity </li></ul><ul><li>Influence. It’s no coincidence that influence and influenza (the flu) come from the same root word. </li></ul><ul><li>Real leaders are contagious. People “catch” what they have. </li></ul><ul><li>People are drawn to their vision and their values. They are able to gather a following and move people to act. </li></ul><ul><li>To change metaphors, they are like human wave pools, creating a ripple effect wherever they go. </li></ul>
  15. 16. <ul><li>Authenticity </li></ul><ul><li>Impact. At the end of the day, leaders make a difference. </li></ul><ul><li>The world is changed because of their leadership. They are able to create real and lasting change. </li></ul><ul><li>Unless something has shifted, they aren’t leaders. They are only entertainers. There is a big difference. </li></ul><ul><li>The measure of leadership cannot be found in the leader; it is found in the impact the leader has on his or her followers. </li></ul>
  16. 17. <ul><li>Authenticity </li></ul><ul><li>Integrity. Not every leader is benevolent. </li></ul><ul><li>Adolf Hitler and Joseph Stalin were leaders. They had insight, initiative, influence, and impact. </li></ul><ul><li>Yet their lives were not integrated with the highest values. Integrity—or the lack thereof—ultimately determines the quality of a person’s impact. </li></ul><ul><li>In a sense, this is the foundation of authentic leadership. </li></ul>
  17. 18. <ul><li>Authenticity </li></ul><ul><li>Want your people to care? </li></ul><ul><li>½ A second of doubt – get out! </li></ul>
  18. 19. <ul><li>Intensity </li></ul><ul><li>Excuses. </li></ul><ul><li>The big “But.” </li></ul><ul><li>#1 Excuse is time. </li></ul>
  19. 20. <ul><li>Intensity </li></ul><ul><li>#1 Excuse is time. </li></ul>
  20. 21. <ul><li>Intensity </li></ul><ul><li>#2 Excuse is money. </li></ul>
  21. 22. <ul><li>Intensity </li></ul><ul><li>Determination </li></ul><ul><li>Drive </li></ul><ul><li>Strength </li></ul><ul><li>Will </li></ul>
  22. 23. <ul><li>Direction </li></ul><ul><li>Action vs. accomplishment. </li></ul><ul><li>No PAID without direction. </li></ul>
  23. 24. <ul><li>Assignment 2 </li></ul><ul><li>Goals. </li></ul>
  24. 25. <ul><li>There are four things you must do in this life: </li></ul><ul><li>Show up. </li></ul><ul><li>Speak the truth. </li></ul><ul><li>Do what you do with intensity. </li></ul><ul><li>Do not get attached to the results. </li></ul>
  25. 26. <ul><li>Questions? </li></ul>
  26. 27. <ul><li>FAQ </li></ul><ul><li>How can I tell if I am living & leading with passion? </li></ul><ul><li>What do you do in your life coaching sessions? </li></ul><ul><li>In what formats are life coaching sessions held? </li></ul><ul><li>What is the difference between life coaching (CBT) & traditional therapy? </li></ul>
  27. 28. <ul><li>Call to action. </li></ul><ul><li>Assignment 3: Gratitude. </li></ul>
  28. 29. <ul><li>Thank you. </li></ul><ul><li>[email_address] </li></ul><ul><li> </li></ul>