18. 26% of what it takes to get
promoted.
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19. • Find a partner and decide who is
A and who is B
• A will ask B for a favor such as:
– “I want you to go to the store for me to
buy some milk.”
– “I want you to come over and watch my
kids.”
– “I need $50.”
– “I need you to take notes for me.”
• B will politely say “No”
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Editor's Notes
Egyptian Father on his death bed, 3 sons must divide their inheritance of 17 camels.
What’s the message of this story?
You need a ‘wise man/woman’.
Technical Skills give you confidence
Execution coms from Self-Efficacy
Collaboration requires good responsible for /to boundaries
Influence requires intention.
Impact is the mark you leave on the world
In 1961 my father started the family hardware business…
I couldn’t find a photograph of him at the time – this one is him a bit younger
1961 was the year I was born. Here I am a few year later.
The 1960’s was a time many family businesses started.
At 10 years old I started working in my fathers business. My older sister had already began working for him later my younger sister spend time there.
Working for my father taught me many lessons.
“Right or Rich Story.”
Key message: Listen to the customer
I did not take over my father’s business. Instead I followed an interesting path that brings me here today to speak to you about your business.
Do you have the makings of a self-leader or will you spend you life in a meaningless pursuit of the comfort zone?
http://www. selfleadership.com/free
Here’s the model
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cGbvFkDhJXg&list=UUUCiK1BVikD6hAKGKvZbw7w
Self-awareness has 2 facets:
The things that are on our mind
The things at the back of our mind
https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/self-awareness-strategy-leadership-career-success-andrew-bryant
A self-awareness exercise – watch the video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wvx8onRKeyM
Intention is laser like purpose
So to be astute we must start with our selves.
We must take ownership by saying “mine” to our internal powers.
We can own our self-leadership to overcome obstacles.
Fear of Failure will stop you being successful
Confidence and Executive Presence will help you be successful.
Read this article https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/20141015082754-456861-5-c-s-for-leadership-in-a-global-company
A partner activity to demonstrate default influence styles.
Also debrief the invisible force that gets people to say “No”.
Where do you need to take control?
A story about Dave the bus driver who has influence without power.
You intention creates your influence.
You must focus on what you want.
Will you choose you put yourself in the driver seat of your life / career
Finish with Poem – Stepping Stones or stumbling blocks.
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