2. Can You Tolerate
Criticism?
Do you procrastinate ?
How do you get past procrastination ?
People don’t do things because they are afraid of being
evaluated – they live in an A+ / F- world – bifactorial world.
World of either or – splitting – can’t see grey. They would
rather get an F- rather than an A+ - they avoid evaluation.
Anxiety of Evaluation – when criticism is expected. Like a
boss – dictating rather than teaching.
Three sources of Angst: (1) Background of Day to Day a
reflection of our own personal history; (2) Interpersonal
Angt – the employees that stay away from a grouchy boss;
(3) Systemic Anxiety such as IBM or a Casino or FAHC.
3. Systemic Anxiety
You can feel it when you are around it - they fight the
systemic anxiety – how can avoid someone demanding
more of me ?
Deming: away from the problems of the individual and
stop blaming people – and direct change to process.
Recognize when Process is over-done like UPS and
Amazon.
Marriages that is focussed on task rather than quality of
life – what did you do for me today.
When you de-personalize someone they “get even.”
4. Corporation vs.
Adversarial Relationship
The problem with corporate America is that it teaches
that competition and adversarial relationships move
people to a higher levels of functioning.
Most organizations have people providing 90%
solutions to 2% problems.
Money is the not the best tool for motivating workers
– what is ?
How do you like to be coached ? Bobby Knights and
Phil Jacksons.
How do you determine coachability when hiring
someone ?
5. Are you coachable ?
How ? Curious about learning, what you have to
teach and do they internalize alternatives ? It is a golf
swing ?
Workaholics are not more productive than those who
work an 8-hour day because they don’t believe in
what they do – they second guess themselves –
expectations are not clear.
Most psychic energy is spent thinking about what you
are going to do next.
Multi-taskers are highly inefficient
Most Anxious are the multi-taskers – they can’t stay
focused and the angst spreads like a contagion.
6. Fear As Motivator
Fear is the Worst Motivator – leads to second
guessing.
Leads cookie-cutting your job and a lack of
innovation and risk taking.
Work for the Common Good – when Fear is
present – adversarial relations are born and power
becomes the primary objective – reptilian survival
– hitting the golf ball is a finesse and not power
smash
Workers don’t trust their intuition in a fear based
environment – survival is the primary task and
hence you can not get system change
7. Motivators
Praise, Empowerment
Praise
Respect
Recognition
Avoiding the Automatic “No” (Coachability )
When fear is present – workers don’t trust
praise, respect or recognition.
8. Elimination of Fear
How – keeping on reminding workers that their job
is secure and they are valued…… workers that
functioning well know they won’t get fired.
People started working longer hours – all gripped
with the fear of losing their position – they are not
being more productive – not staying focused on
the Mission of their company – and they don’t have
a way of measuring how well they are doing ??
Measuring and The Self-reward System
9. What Job Description
Says
Definition of the job the worker is doing.
Most Job Descriptions are vague
A Job Description should define Reports and Who
the Worker Reports to.
10. Who Sets The Emotional
Valence of the Workplace
?
If the CEO is uptight – everyone is uptight
Uptight people can’t learn
Uptight people focus or innovate and are always
2nd guessing
11. People and Questions
and Change
People can’t create behavioral change unless they
know what the rules are: mow back field for a load of
gravel.
In a work place if you see someone struggle you
pitch in – but that doesn’t happen. Example of
competition.
People in a work place should not compete against
one another but against their competitor.
What freezes people is a sense of always being
evaluated.
People don’t teach they dictate.
12. Exercise in Change
Change begins with curiousity
Foundation of intimacy – discovering the other
person.
Pair up – discover one another – it attacks bigotry
Bigotry – we make up our minds in 7-seconds
Hire-ability