Towards better dynamics and communication in Marriage- Islamic Perspective

TOWARDS BETTER DYNAMICS & COMMUNICATION IN MARRIAGE (ISLAMIC PERSPECTIVE)

FAMILY-ENDANGERED INSTITUTION IN AMERICA ,[object Object],[object Object]

How to protect ourselves from negative influences? ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]

Objectives of Marriage in Islam ,[object Object],I have only created jinns and men that they may serve Me. Zariat 51:56 The believers men and women are protectors one of another: they enjoin what is just and forbid what is evil: they observe regular prayers practice regular charity and obey Allah and His apostle. On them will Allah pour His mercy: for Allah is Exalted in power Wise. Tauba 9:71

Objectives of Marriage ,[object Object],And among His Signs is this that He created for you mates from among yourselves that ye may dwell in tranquility with them and He has put love and mercy between your (hearts); verily in that are Signs for those who reflect. Room 30:21

Objectives of Marriage ,[object Object],And of everything We have created pairs: that ye may receive instruction. Zariat 51:49

Objectives of marriage ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]

Do’s of successful marriage. ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]

Communication ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]

Communication- ,[object Object],Hidden tension with false cheeriness Adamant, irritable, angry Positive, friendly, productive Tone Change the topic Debate with hurting comments Consensus building Format To avoid conflict To win by inflicting damage Shared understanding. Goal Cut off Combative Collaborati Strategy

Communication ,[object Object],Lead to disengagement. Divisive and lead to argument Respectful, appreciated enjoyed. Attitude towards difference Criticism is avoided by avoiding controversy Toxic comments are used. Tact minimizes hurtful sayings Toxicity Listening does not occur To defend against info presented To hear what is right Purpose of listening

7 Magical S,s ,[object Object],Say to My servants that they should (only) say those things that are best: for Satan doth sow dissensions among them: for Satan is to man an avowed enemy. Isra 17:53

7 Magical S’s ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]

5 Wonderful A’s ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]

Other ingredients of successful marriage ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]

Family dynamics and family atmosphere ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]

How to attain this atmosphere Things to do. ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]

Things to avoid ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]

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Conflict resolution ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]

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Prophet’s sayings concerning marital relations ,[object Object]

Do not dislike your spouse. ,[object Object],[object Object]

Family is a test ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]

Dua وَالَّذِينَ يَقُولُونَ رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا And those who pray, "Our Lord! Grant unto us wives and offspring who will be the comfort of our eyes, and give us (the grace) to lead the righteous." Al-Qur'an, 025.074 (Al-Furqan)

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