20. Reality of the job
• Long working hours
• Emotional work
• No work-family balance
• Multitasker
• High responsibilty
• Critical decisions
• Poor social life
• Fear of failure
• Increasing competition
• Difficult patients
• Workaholics are admired
40. AWARENESS
• First step of stress management
• Listen to your body
• Many live in denial
• Many are so stressed that is their
“new” normal
41. BALANCE
• Stress comes from our perception of the
situation
• Technically, the actual situation is not
stressful, our perceptions MAKE IT stressful
• Sometimes we are right, sometimes we are
wrong!
• Our thoughts control our behaviour
• There are common unhelpful patterns of
thinking
70. No one is going to come and save us
• Take charge of your stress and
recharge yourself
• Have a personal physician or a
psychiatrist.
• Avoid self medication
• Not everything works for everyone.
The word stress is only 60 yrs old …stress is the result of perceived ddemands ouotweighing the perceived capability of our body to cope.
Everyone of us wishes to be happy but are we happy ….arewe rellly stressed and if yes what is the proof
An ineterseting study was done for a lal the professional sadly narenddra may ajayamamta could not be a part of it as it as regarind childrn so parents were askedd will they let their children choose the same professions as theirs
Politician were all hands up 100 pecent wantedd their children to take up the same ffamily business gandhi family is the model for it
Actors also said yes we alll want our all sons and daughters I this same profession whether they look like our kaam wali bai or doodhwala
But baat aa kar atki doctors par only half of themwanted their sons to take up mediccine…..why is it so that we do not like our profession
Everyone of wants to be in thepapers….lately some doctors made it in the headlines but unfortnately they were not able to read it as it was about their sad suicide…….yes wee doctors top all the professions in terms of suicides in 12 percent males 18 females
Highest n all professions
50 have suicidal ideation
Medical students it is higher
Anaesthetist highest suicide rates
Not only that we have some more certificates…..we have an a plus in ….
Still it is a thing to wonder that we are the manufacturing unit if doctors for the whole world…I woder which parents are sending their kids to this profession
Lets see what if some of our boyylwoood actorss decide to become doctors will they be able to retian their charm in this stressfull business and if no how wud they ultimately look
Say name of actors
What are the things that make this professions so stessful//……Have imissed some….some doctors added people expect doctor to be very rich …they think do saal me gaadi aa gayi…or shaadi me ladkewale ask for lot of money…..ya they must e sucesful…we
Long working hrs….there is noimit to how uch you can work….shutter subah 7 nhi khol sakte hai aur raat 12 tak bhi khula reh sakta hai clinc
No work life faliy balance ….showme one wife who is happy marrying a doctor…ahe rejects all your money for spending time with you and in their heart they wait fo say sundays to come so thay feel there is someone I their life
Multitasker …the worst thing of our profesions …..we havetos earch for our place khade hokar paint karvao…furniture banao..pamplets bato …khudh hi prescription rakho …..davai…ka padiku bandho…khud is pt ko bulao khudi spaisa lo khus hi chutta aapo ..khhud dava samjjhao
Team work is always helpful you have someone to talk to and it is very relieving mentally to share with someone whiich is npot possible inour one man business…….
Highly responsible job as we are always dealing with the lives of people
Critical decisions ….we have to be very quick in deciding about the treatemnts ,…we can t say ruk phaiya tere chest pain ko do minite rok sakte ho to roko main treatment batata hu
Poor socal life how many of you have real friends
Newer difficulties await us with ocnsumer act and people attitudebecome intolerant towards doctors
Logo to ssmjha dengebut illnesses which are infective non controllable…which cause serious life treat and which have no meds are coming so it is a stress for usto how to deal with them
yes
We all have experineed stress we all know how it feels what happens in stress butt can anyone try todefine it…illhelp you remmeber priyanca chopra whenever u feel streesed……
What is the most important word in this definition it is not priyancha chopra …it is percceived
stress is the result of perceived ddemands ouotweighing the perceived capability of our body to cope…..but is I spercceived …..whats app story of cocokroachif youdecide to look at something as stress then it wil become stressfull ffor you
Lets see wher estress originates…seat if hippocampus…..Presume god is a programmer and he developed this amazing software to deal with dangers or predator in the animals version 0.1 stess reaction software seat is hippocampus
Fight or flight reaction is intiatated
Thru two physiological pathwasy ….hpa nad autonomic pathway
Tel them why and how the cchanges cur
he was so impressed with this sofware that he retained it in his advanced versions 0.9
Since god retained the same software in this advanced versions like0.9 there is no danger today but still things like traffic or too many patient or too less pats is percceived as a predator and the system is activated…….now ealier versions me since the stimuli were 3 to 5 per day the system ud switch off and return to normal but today in thses bhagam wali zindagi the stimuli are 200 to 300 and our systemis ina constant state of activation as if we were on a cortisol drip
80 % responsible for all the mpordern illness……
hydrophobia
Rel aavaeli 2006 ma after people perception about rain changed and they used be scaredof rain
No wmany times our perception is rules by our thinking attern which ismost of the itmes ffaulty and to beblamed …let see na example and you will relaise it more correctly
Thisis the basis of worlds most famous and succesfull therapy called cognitive behaviour therapy and we start with behaviour nad go back from mood to thought and make the person realise that it is faulty nad he will have to change it
One of the top ten prayers of the world
Like top tenleadders and richest peole the re is a top tenof prayers nad this prayer features in it it ….it is the best stress managemnet mantra so far that I have come across….it is the cruzx if all the talk that I am giving today and even if you forget al that I talk and remmeber only this much it will help you life long……see and apply it to your wife nad rcceptionist ….you cant change wife so you ask god to give serenity to accept it but you can change your car so ask god to have the courage to change it
Thisis a photo from google office …it must have been decads that ou were on a lasserpatti…..Keep a photo of family…..some keep wifes photo which inspire sthem that if we can endureher for 5 hrs …what is thi spt who will talk for more 5 mins lets hear her also
DISPLACEMENT IS A VERY COMMONLY USED vidya vinayen shobhate….always maintian good credentials wit your subordinate….how you behave decides how your pt will behave with you……you scold ur receptinist she scold hthe pts and they in return share it with you…..it is as if you realese that negitivity in the nevironment and it keeps cirulating in the atosphere of your clinic…
Assertiveness helps to manage stressful situations, and will , in time, help to reduce their frequency.
Lack of assertiveness often shows low self - esteem and low self - confidence. The key to assertiveness is verbal and non - verbal communication. Extending our range of communication skills will improve our assertiveness. Being assertive involves standing up for your personal rights and expressing your thoughts, feelings and beliefs directly, honestly and spontaneously in ways that don’t infringe the rights of others.
Make a list
What MUST be done
What SHOULD be done
What would you LIKE to do
Cut out time wasting
Learn to drop unimportant activities
Say no or delegate
A monogramed suit of your name may not be able to do what a mufferler and a cap can do…..so do not attribute your valu eto external thingsthink of how you are as a person and forget about those who measure you from your welath……
Plan sundays for family…vacations inadvance….plan ur carreer also…
We always have this bad habit of comparing,,,if we ddo not have pat we ring our neighbour and then slowly ask hi what is he doing so he says nothing yaar no pat and then you feel very relaxed …hassh I am not the only one who has no pta….evenif our friend doent pick th ephone we get worriedd oh is he so bust that he is not naswering my phone and then he calls back and say arey had gone to drink tea and was getying bored as no pts……you feel relaxed I am not the onlyone who is sitting free…….