Spiritual Intelligence
                         By
                  Cindy Wigglesworth



President, Deep Change
Author, SQ21: The Twenty-One Skills of Spiritual Intelligence
www.SQ21book.com
Cindy Wigglesworth
 BA, MA Duke University
 20 years in Human Resources
  Management at ExxonMobil
 Founder/CEO of Deep Change,
  Inc.
 Creator of SQ21™ Spiritual
  Intelligence self-assessment
 Author of SQ21: The Twenty-One
  Skills of Spiritual Intelligence



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Intelligence Defined
                  • Innate potential that
                    is brought into form
                    through practice
                  • Adeptness or
                    appropriately
                    reasoned behavior
                    or choice

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Multiple Intelligences
                                                          Highly
                                                          Developed
Cognitive




                                                          Developed

                                                          Under
                                                          Developed
 IQ                 EQ           SQ           PQ

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The SQ21 Spiritual
Intelligence Model




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Spiritual Leaders
• Name some people you admire
  whom you would consider to be
  Spiritual Leaders
  – Can be alive or dead
     • May never have met the person
  – Fictional or real
  – Don’t have to be perfect
• List the TRAITS of these Spiritual
  Leaders that cause you to admire them
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Typical list…
• Major religious figures: Jesus, Buddha, Mohammed,
  Moses, Abraham, Lord Krishna, saints (e.g. Mother
  Teresa), Dalai Lama
• Political leaders: Gandhi, Nelson Mandela, Martin
  Luther King, Jr., Jimmy Carter
• Relatives: Mom, Dad, Grandmother, Grandfather,
  Aunt, Uncle, children
• Teachers, local religious leaders, guidance
  counselors
• Authors/TV: Oprah, Dr. Phil, Deepak Chopra, others
• Others: my co-worker, my neighbor, my patients, my
  boss, animals/pets

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Common Traits of Spiritual Leaders
• Loving / Compassionate                  • Peaceful / nonviolent
• Humble                                  • Visionary
• Honesty/Integrity,
                                          • Outstanding teachers
  Authenticity
• Wise                                    • Able to inspire others
• Courageous                              • Great leaders
• Faithful                                • Persistent
• Forgiving                               • See the gifts inside other
• Accepting                                   people and develop them
• Calm, centered


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Spirituality: A Definition
Spirituality is the innate human need to
connect with something larger than
ourselves (something sacred or Divine).
We care about this because we have:
  •   “Why” questions (Why is there suffering?)
  •   “What” questions (What should I be doing?
      Direction and Purpose for our lives)
  •   “How” questions (ethics, right action)
  •   And because we are sometimes in great pain…
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Definition of
      Spiritual Intelligence
“Spiritual Intelligence is the ability to
behave with Wisdom and Compassion
while maintaining inner and outer peace
(Equanimity) regardless of the situation.”
Cindy Wigglesworth



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Higher Self & “Love one another”
  • The Golden Rule exists in all the major
    faith traditions and in most philosophies of
    life (treat others as you wish to be treated)
  • We want “Love.” But what is Love?

        Love is a Bird with two wings…


    Com
          pass
                     ion                          Wis dom

    So spiritual intelligence is acting with Love…
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Goal: Higher Self Drives, Ego
           “navigates”
Think of your Ego
as an important
part of the whole. It
can sometimes
have good advice
but shouldn’t be
“behind the wheel”!
                                        Ego              Higher Self

                                                Good Partners
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SQ21 - 21 Skills of Spiritual Intelligence
                             Self / self focused                              Other focused
                    1. Self / self Awareness                           2. Universal Awareness
                                                                  6.    Awareness of interconnectedness
                    1. Awareness of own worldview
                                                                  7.    Awareness of worldviews of others
What You See




                    2. Awareness of Life Purpose
-Inner World




                                                                  8.    Breadth of Time perception
                    3. Awareness of Values Hierarchy
                                                                  9.  Awareness of limitations / power of
                    4. Complexity of inner thought                    human perception
                    5. Awareness of Ego self / Higher             10. Awareness of Spiritual Laws
                       Self
                                                                  11. Experience of transcendent oneness

                     3. Self/self Mastery                        4. Social Mastery, Spiritual
What Other People
See – Outer World




                    12.   Commitment to spiritual growth               Presence
                    13.   Keeping Higher Self in charge          17. Wise and effective teacher
                    14.   Living your purpose and values         18. Wise and effective change agent
                    15.   Sustaining faith                       19. Makes Compassionate & Wise decisions
                    16. Seeking guidance from                    20. Being a calming, healing presence
                        Spirit/Higher Self
                                                                 21. Aligned with the ebb and flow of life


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Benefits
• Less stress, less drama
• More joy
• Able to see more perspectives
• More options for decision making
• A calming healing presence
• Better leadership


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“S O U L”
STop, Breathe, Pray / Ask for
  help

O Bserve yourself, get Mindful
U Nderstand deeply – What are you ego ’s
   concerns? Reframe, see Compassion

L Oving response – loving to you and others
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For the full 9 Step Process:



                     More information:
                     www.SQ21book.com
                     and
                     www.deepchange.com




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  • 1.
    Spiritual Intelligence By Cindy Wigglesworth President, Deep Change Author, SQ21: The Twenty-One Skills of Spiritual Intelligence www.SQ21book.com
  • 2.
    Cindy Wigglesworth  BA,MA Duke University  20 years in Human Resources Management at ExxonMobil  Founder/CEO of Deep Change, Inc.  Creator of SQ21™ Spiritual Intelligence self-assessment  Author of SQ21: The Twenty-One Skills of Spiritual Intelligence 2012 Deep Change, Inc. All Rights Reserved 2
  • 3.
    Intelligence Defined • Innate potential that is brought into form through practice • Adeptness or appropriately reasoned behavior or choice 2012 Deep Change, Inc. All Rights Reserved 3
  • 4.
    Multiple Intelligences Highly Developed Cognitive Developed Under Developed IQ EQ SQ PQ 2012 Deep Change, Inc. All Rights Reserved 4
  • 5.
    The SQ21 Spiritual IntelligenceModel 2012 Deep Change, Inc. All Rights Reserved 5
  • 6.
    Spiritual Leaders • Namesome people you admire whom you would consider to be Spiritual Leaders – Can be alive or dead • May never have met the person – Fictional or real – Don’t have to be perfect • List the TRAITS of these Spiritual Leaders that cause you to admire them 2012 Deep Change, Inc. All Rights Reserved 6
  • 7.
    Typical list… • Majorreligious figures: Jesus, Buddha, Mohammed, Moses, Abraham, Lord Krishna, saints (e.g. Mother Teresa), Dalai Lama • Political leaders: Gandhi, Nelson Mandela, Martin Luther King, Jr., Jimmy Carter • Relatives: Mom, Dad, Grandmother, Grandfather, Aunt, Uncle, children • Teachers, local religious leaders, guidance counselors • Authors/TV: Oprah, Dr. Phil, Deepak Chopra, others • Others: my co-worker, my neighbor, my patients, my boss, animals/pets 2012 Deep Change, Inc. All Rights Reserved 7
  • 8.
    Common Traits ofSpiritual Leaders • Loving / Compassionate • Peaceful / nonviolent • Humble • Visionary • Honesty/Integrity, • Outstanding teachers Authenticity • Wise • Able to inspire others • Courageous • Great leaders • Faithful • Persistent • Forgiving • See the gifts inside other • Accepting people and develop them • Calm, centered 2012 Deep Change, Inc. All Rights Reserved 8
  • 9.
    Spirituality: A Definition Spiritualityis the innate human need to connect with something larger than ourselves (something sacred or Divine). We care about this because we have: • “Why” questions (Why is there suffering?) • “What” questions (What should I be doing? Direction and Purpose for our lives) • “How” questions (ethics, right action) • And because we are sometimes in great pain… 2012 Deep Change, Inc. All Rights Reserved 9
  • 10.
    Definition of Spiritual Intelligence “Spiritual Intelligence is the ability to behave with Wisdom and Compassion while maintaining inner and outer peace (Equanimity) regardless of the situation.” Cindy Wigglesworth 2012 Deep Change, Inc. All Rights Reserved 10
  • 11.
    Higher Self &“Love one another” • The Golden Rule exists in all the major faith traditions and in most philosophies of life (treat others as you wish to be treated) • We want “Love.” But what is Love? Love is a Bird with two wings… Com pass ion Wis dom So spiritual intelligence is acting with Love… 2012 Deep Change, Inc. All Rights Reserved 11
  • 12.
    Goal: Higher SelfDrives, Ego “navigates” Think of your Ego as an important part of the whole. It can sometimes have good advice but shouldn’t be “behind the wheel”! Ego Higher Self Good Partners 2012 Deep Change, Inc. All Rights Reserved 12
  • 13.
    SQ21 - 21Skills of Spiritual Intelligence Self / self focused Other focused 1. Self / self Awareness 2. Universal Awareness 6. Awareness of interconnectedness 1. Awareness of own worldview 7. Awareness of worldviews of others What You See 2. Awareness of Life Purpose -Inner World 8. Breadth of Time perception 3. Awareness of Values Hierarchy 9. Awareness of limitations / power of 4. Complexity of inner thought human perception 5. Awareness of Ego self / Higher 10. Awareness of Spiritual Laws Self 11. Experience of transcendent oneness 3. Self/self Mastery 4. Social Mastery, Spiritual What Other People See – Outer World 12. Commitment to spiritual growth Presence 13. Keeping Higher Self in charge 17. Wise and effective teacher 14. Living your purpose and values 18. Wise and effective change agent 15. Sustaining faith 19. Makes Compassionate & Wise decisions 16. Seeking guidance from 20. Being a calming, healing presence Spirit/Higher Self 21. Aligned with the ebb and flow of life ©2000-2005 Conscious Pursuits, Inc. All Rights Reserved.
  • 14.
    Benefits • Less stress,less drama • More joy • Able to see more perspectives • More options for decision making • A calming healing presence • Better leadership 2012 Deep Change, Inc. All Rights Reserved 14
  • 15.
    “S O UL” STop, Breathe, Pray / Ask for help O Bserve yourself, get Mindful U Nderstand deeply – What are you ego ’s concerns? Reframe, see Compassion L Oving response – loving to you and others (c) 2000-2011 Conscious Pursuits, Inc. All Rights Reserved 15
  • 16.
    For the full9 Step Process: More information: www.SQ21book.com and www.deepchange.com 2012 Deep Change, Inc. All Rights 16

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