This document discusses why social interventions aimed at helping often fail. It provides two case studies, one of a chicken farm project that initially succeeded but was not sustainable, and one of an internet connectivity project in a village that grew local skills but faced issues paying ongoing costs. The document argues that for help to be effective it must build local capacity, respect communities, and find local champions rather than make decisions for people, and that projects need a sustainable model rather than being a one-off intervention.