* It's not material gains that give true happiness. It is wisdom, compassion and loving-kindness. * Care and words that are encouraging will help the child in developing.

1. Story To Reflect
Upon 43
It Was In Your Eyes
It was a bitter, cold evening in Virginia many years ago. The old man
waited for a ride across the river. The wait seemed endless. His body
became numb and stiff from the frigid north wind.
He heard the faint, steady rhythm of approaching hooves galloping
along the frozen path. Anxiously, he watched as several horsemen
passed by. Finally, the last rider neared the spot. The old man caught
the rider's eye and said, "Sir, would you mind giving an old man a ride
to the other side?
The rider replied, "Sure. Hop aboard." Seeing the old man was unable
to lift his half-frozen body from the ground, the horseman dismounted
and helped the old man onto the horse. The horseman took the old man
not just across the river, but to his destination, which was just a few
miles away.
As they neared the tiny cottage, the horseman inquired, "Sir, I notice
that you let several other riders pass by trying to secure a ride. Then I
came up and you immediately asked me for a ride. I'm curious why, on
such a bitter winter night, you would wait and ask the last rider. What if
I had refused and left you there?"
The old man replied, "I looked into the eyes of the other riders and
immediately saw there was no concern for my situation. But when I
looked into your eyes, kindness and compassion were evident. I knew,
then and there, that your gentle spirit would welcome the opportunity to
give me assistance in my time of need."
"I'm most grateful for what you have said," he told the old man. "May I
never get too busy in my own affairs that I fail to respond to the needs
of others with kindness and compassion."
With that, Thomas Jefferson turned his horse around and made his way
back to the White House.
Reflection
* In a highly materialistic world, there is a lack of the practice of
kindness and compassion among many.
* Actions rooted in greed, self-interest and self-centredness are
getting more prevalent… how many would reach out to others in
kindness and compassion?

2. Story To
Reflect Upon 44
The Power of
Encouragement
Dante Gabriel Rossetti, the famous 19th-century poet and artist,
was once approached by an elderly man. The old fellow had some
sketches and drawings that he wanted Rossetti to look at and tell
him if they were any good, or if they at least showed potential
talent.
Rossetti looked them over carefully. After the first few, he knew
that they were worthless, showing not the least sign of artistic
talent. But Rossetti was a kind man but he had to tell the old man
the truth.
The old man was disappointed. He then apologized for taking up
Rossetti’s time, but he asked Rossetti to look at a few more
drawings done by a young art student.
Rossetti looked over the second batch of sketches and
immediately became enthusiastic over the talent they revealed.
"These," he said, "oh, these are good. This young student has
great talent. He should be given every help and encouragement in
his career as an artist. He has a great future if he will work hard
and stick to it."
Rossetti could see that the old fellow was deeply moved. "Who is
this fine young artist?" he asked. "Your son?"
"No," said the old man sadly. "It is me - 40 years ago. If only I
had heard your praise then! For you see, I got discouraged and
gave up - too soon."
Reflection
* Words of encouragement and praise can do wonders to spur
a child to great achievements.
* Negative actions like corporal punishment, scoldings,
blame and condemnation oftentimes bring negative results.