Làm sao giữ
Thái độ + Tích c cự
Trong m tộ
C ngth ngă ẳ
Môi tr ng làm vi cườ ệ
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Học thuyết
quyết địnhTình hình TG
bất lợi
Môi trường
thay đổi
YOU
Nhận thức về viên đạn!
Môi trường
LV bất lợi
Kinh nghiệp
cũ
Thói quen của
Người khác
Ouch!
- Chó ăn chó . . . Tất cả mọi người đều chiến đấu
để đứng đầu
- Không ai đánh giá sự cống hiến của bạn
- Quá nhiều việc . . . Không đủ sự giúp đỡ
- Thời hạn hoàn thành CV là không tưởng
- Thời gian dài hơn giờ LV . . . Thêm việc
- Budget Constraints
- Competition is eating us alive
- Poor management / direction
- Job insecurity
Môi trường
làm việc bất lợi
Other People’s
Behavior
Bulldozers
Snipers
Exploders
ClamsClams
Patronizers
Complainers
Controller
s
Backstabber
s
Walking Wounded
Negatives
Gossips
Brown NosersSluffers
Whiners
CHANGE . . .
Challenges our
paradigms
Alters the way we think
Makes life more difficult
for a while
Causes Stress
Is an ongoing fact of life
Changing
Environment
“The only person who always
likes change is a wet baby”
Past
Experiences
Ouch!
Ouch!
Ouch!
Ouch!
Ouch!
Ouch!
Ouch!
Ouch! Ouch!
Media
Frenzy
Negative
World View
A recent Statistic:
Crime down 20% in America reporting up 600%,
Look at what you are looking at !!!
GENETIC: My Grandparents did it to me.
(Inherited traits)
PSYCHIC: My Parents did it to me.
(Upbringing)
ENVIRONMENTAL: My Spouse, my Boss,
the Company, the Economy, etc.. is doing
this to me. (Surroundings)
Determinism
Theory
“Are some people just born positive
thinkers
. . . or is it their CHOICE?”
“Are some people just born positive
thinkers
. . . or is it their CHOICE?”
Life’s Little Question
Choose the Right Luggage
Dodge
Bullets Be
Bulletproof
You’re going to get hit!
The Problem With Dodging
Bullets
Choice #2
Wear Bulletproof Armor
Áo giáp ch ng nố đạ
n tđế ừ
Áo giáp ch ng nố đạ
n tđế ừ
S t thay đ iự ự ổS t thay đ iự ự ổ
Thi t l pế ậ
áo giáp
Thi t l pế ậ
áo giáp
Thay đổi
3 thứ!
How to Change Your
Attitude
ATTITUDEATTITUDEATTITUDEATTITUDE
ATTITUDEATTITUDEATTITUDEATTITUDE
Changes happen
personally
from the
INSIDE OUT!
I am responsible . . .
. . . for who I am
. . . for what I have
. . . for what I do
ATTITUDE
ATTITUDE
ATTITUDE
ATTITUDE
So . . . Accept Responsibility
Negative
world view
YOU
FROM THE INSIDE . . . OUT!ATTITUDEATTITUDEATTITUDEATTITUDE
Step #2 Take Control
How to Change Your
Thinking
THINKINGTHINKING
THINKINGTHINKINGTHINKINGTHINKING
Changes come
from observing
logically in
every situation
Observe Your Thinking
THINKINGTHINKING
It sucks to be
him.
I
refuse
to
let
this
hook
m
e!
This is all
very
interesting
W
hat can
I do
to defuse this?
Tomorrow it will
look very
different.
I’d
like
to
beat
the
…
This is going to be
a wonderful day!
This is going to
be a crappy day!
Manage Your Self-Talk
If you think you Can, or you think you Can’t…
YOU’RE RIGHT! Henry Ford
THINKINGTHINKING
How to Change Your
Behavior
BEHAVIORBEHAVIORBEHAVIORBEHAVIOR
BEHAVIORBEHAVIORBEHAVIORBEHAVIOR
Changes take
true assessment,
determination &
discipline
Choose Your Behavior
REACTIVE
Response
RESPONSIBLE
My
Response
My
Choice
BEHAVIORBEHAVIORBEHAVIORBEHAVIOR
Stimulus
Stimulus
Steps Toward Changing
Behavior
1. Unconscious Incompetence
2. Conscience Incompetence
3. Conscience Competence
4. Unconscious Competence
BEHAVIORBEHAVIORBEHAVIORBEHAVIOR
The New YOU!The New YOU!The New YOU!The New YOU!
Add POSI+IVE Behavior
INFLUENCE YOUR ENVIRONMENT!
• Sprinkle some “positive” on the negatives
• Focus on the good of each day
• Stay out of the “feeding frenzies”
• Say “please” and “thank you”
• Practice EMPATHY
• Evaluate YOUR behavior
• Never miss an opportunity to complement
• Spread a SMILE around
Replace the BAD HABITS!
BEHAVIORBEHAVIORBEHAVIORBEHAVIOR
More POSI+IVE
Contributions
1. Is it true?
2. Is it harmful?
3. Is it necessary?
• Keep promises
• Have a forgiving view of people
• Keep an open mind with changes
• Count to 1000 if necessary
• See criticism as opportunity to improve
• Cultivate your sense of humor
• Before you say anything to anyone, ask
yourself three things
Watch your definitions -
they become thoughtsthey become thoughts
Watch your thoughts -
they become wordsthey become words
Watch your words -
they become actionsthey become actions
Watch your actions -
they become your destinythey become your destiny
Watch your definitions -
they become thoughtsthey become thoughts
Watch your thoughts -
they become wordsthey become words
Watch your words -
they become actionsthey become actions
Watch your actions -
they become your destinythey become your destiny
Remember to . . .
The Choice is YOURS
With a Bad attitude
you can never have a positive
day
With a Positive attitude
you can never have a bad
day
Choose POSI+IVE Living

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  • 1.
    Làm sao giữ Tháiđộ + Tích c cự Trong m tộ C ngth ngă ẳ Môi tr ng làm vi cườ ệ
  • 2.
    Môi tr ngườ Họcthuyết quyết địnhTình hình TG bất lợi Môi trường thay đổi YOU Nhận thức về viên đạn! Môi trường LV bất lợi Kinh nghiệp cũ Thói quen của Người khác Ouch!
  • 3.
    - Chó ănchó . . . Tất cả mọi người đều chiến đấu để đứng đầu - Không ai đánh giá sự cống hiến của bạn - Quá nhiều việc . . . Không đủ sự giúp đỡ - Thời hạn hoàn thành CV là không tưởng - Thời gian dài hơn giờ LV . . . Thêm việc - Budget Constraints - Competition is eating us alive - Poor management / direction - Job insecurity Môi trường làm việc bất lợi
  • 4.
  • 5.
    CHANGE . .. Challenges our paradigms Alters the way we think Makes life more difficult for a while Causes Stress Is an ongoing fact of life Changing Environment “The only person who always likes change is a wet baby”
  • 6.
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    Media Frenzy Negative World View A recentStatistic: Crime down 20% in America reporting up 600%, Look at what you are looking at !!!
  • 8.
    GENETIC: My Grandparentsdid it to me. (Inherited traits) PSYCHIC: My Parents did it to me. (Upbringing) ENVIRONMENTAL: My Spouse, my Boss, the Company, the Economy, etc.. is doing this to me. (Surroundings) Determinism Theory
  • 9.
    “Are some peoplejust born positive thinkers . . . or is it their CHOICE?” “Are some people just born positive thinkers . . . or is it their CHOICE?” Life’s Little Question
  • 10.
    Choose the RightLuggage Dodge Bullets Be Bulletproof
  • 11.
    You’re going toget hit! The Problem With Dodging Bullets
  • 12.
  • 13.
    Áo giáp chng nố đạ n tđế ừ Áo giáp ch ng nố đạ n tđế ừ S t thay đ iự ự ổS t thay đ iự ự ổ
  • 14.
    Thi t lpế ậ áo giáp Thi t l pế ậ áo giáp Thay đổi 3 thứ!
  • 15.
    How to ChangeYour Attitude ATTITUDEATTITUDEATTITUDEATTITUDE ATTITUDEATTITUDEATTITUDEATTITUDE Changes happen personally from the INSIDE OUT!
  • 16.
    I am responsible. . . . . . for who I am . . . for what I have . . . for what I do ATTITUDE ATTITUDE ATTITUDE ATTITUDE So . . . Accept Responsibility
  • 17.
    Negative world view YOU FROM THEINSIDE . . . OUT!ATTITUDEATTITUDEATTITUDEATTITUDE Step #2 Take Control
  • 18.
    How to ChangeYour Thinking THINKINGTHINKING THINKINGTHINKINGTHINKINGTHINKING Changes come from observing logically in every situation
  • 19.
    Observe Your Thinking THINKINGTHINKING Itsucks to be him. I refuse to let this hook m e! This is all very interesting W hat can I do to defuse this? Tomorrow it will look very different. I’d like to beat the …
  • 20.
    This is goingto be a wonderful day! This is going to be a crappy day! Manage Your Self-Talk If you think you Can, or you think you Can’t… YOU’RE RIGHT! Henry Ford THINKINGTHINKING
  • 21.
    How to ChangeYour Behavior BEHAVIORBEHAVIORBEHAVIORBEHAVIOR BEHAVIORBEHAVIORBEHAVIORBEHAVIOR Changes take true assessment, determination & discipline
  • 22.
  • 23.
    Steps Toward Changing Behavior 1.Unconscious Incompetence 2. Conscience Incompetence 3. Conscience Competence 4. Unconscious Competence BEHAVIORBEHAVIORBEHAVIORBEHAVIOR The New YOU!The New YOU!The New YOU!The New YOU!
  • 24.
    Add POSI+IVE Behavior INFLUENCEYOUR ENVIRONMENT! • Sprinkle some “positive” on the negatives • Focus on the good of each day • Stay out of the “feeding frenzies” • Say “please” and “thank you” • Practice EMPATHY • Evaluate YOUR behavior • Never miss an opportunity to complement • Spread a SMILE around Replace the BAD HABITS! BEHAVIORBEHAVIORBEHAVIORBEHAVIOR
  • 25.
    More POSI+IVE Contributions 1. Isit true? 2. Is it harmful? 3. Is it necessary? • Keep promises • Have a forgiving view of people • Keep an open mind with changes • Count to 1000 if necessary • See criticism as opportunity to improve • Cultivate your sense of humor • Before you say anything to anyone, ask yourself three things
  • 26.
    Watch your definitions- they become thoughtsthey become thoughts Watch your thoughts - they become wordsthey become words Watch your words - they become actionsthey become actions Watch your actions - they become your destinythey become your destiny Watch your definitions - they become thoughtsthey become thoughts Watch your thoughts - they become wordsthey become words Watch your words - they become actionsthey become actions Watch your actions - they become your destinythey become your destiny Remember to . . .
  • 27.
    The Choice isYOURS With a Bad attitude you can never have a positive day With a Positive attitude you can never have a bad day
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