How to Stay POSI + IVE in a TOUGH Work Environment
The Environment YOU Beware the Bullets! Determinism Theory Negative World View Changing Environment Negative Work Environment Past Experiences Other People’s Behavior Ouch!
-   Dog eat dog . . . everyone fighting to get ahead - No one appreciates your contributions  - Too much work . . . not enough help - Deadlines are unrealistic - Longer hours . . . additional work - Budget Constraints - Competition is eating us alive - Poor management / direction - Job insecurity Negative Work Environment
Bulldozers Snipers Exploders Clams Patronizers Complainers Controllers Backstabbers Walking Wounded Negatives Gossips Brown Nosers Sluffers Whiners Other People’s Behavior
Challenges our paradigms Alters the way we think Makes life more difficult for a while Causes Stress Is an ongoing fact of life “ The only person who always likes change is a wet baby” CHANGE . . .   Changing Environment
Past Experiences Ouch! Ouch! Ouch! Ouch! Ouch! Ouch! Ouch! Ouch! Ouch!
Media Frenzy A recent Statistic: Crime down  20%  in America reporting up  600% , Look at what you are looking at !!! Negative World View
GENETIC :  My Grandparents did it to me. (Inherited traits) PSYCHIC :  My Parents did it to me. (Upbringing) ENVIRONMENTAL :  My Spouse, my Boss, the Company, the Economy, etc.. is doing this to me.  (Surroundings) Determinism Theory
  “ Are some people just  born  positive    thinkers  . . . or is it their  CHOICE ?” Life’s Little Question
Choose the Right Luggage Dodge Bullets Be Bulletproof
The Problem With Dodging Bullets You’re going to get hit!
Choice #2   Wear Bulletproof Armor
Bulletproof Armor Comes from SELF CHANGE
Putting on the Armor Change  3 Things!
How to  Change  Your  Attitude ATTITUDE ATTITUDE Changes happen personally from the  INSIDE OUT!
I am responsible . . .  . . . for who I am . . . for what I have . . . for what I do So . . . Accept Responsibility ATTITUDE
Step #2  Take Control Negative world view YOU FROM THE INSIDE . . . OUT! Ownership Values Mission Discipline ATTITUDE
How to  Change  Your  Thinking THINKING THINKING Changes come from observing  logically  in  every situation
Observe  Your  Thinking THINKING It sucks to be him. I refuse to let this hook me! This is all very interesting What can I do to defuse this? Tomorrow it will look very different. I’d like to beat the …
Manage  Your  Self - Talk If you think you Can, or you think you Can’t… YOU’RE RIGHT ! Henry Ford THINKING This is going to be a wonderful day! This is going to be a crappy day!
How to  Change  Your  Behavior BEHAVIOR BEHAVIOR Changes take true assessment, determination & discipline
Choose Your Behavior REACTIVE RESPONSIBLE BEHAVIOR Response My Response My Choice Stimulus Stimulus
Steps Toward Changing Behavior 1.   Unconscious Incompetence 2.   Conscience Incompetence 3.   Conscience Competence 4.   Unconscious Competence BEHAVIOR The New YOU!
Add   POSI + IVE   Behavior INFLUENCE YOUR ENVIRONMENT! Sprinkle some “positive” on the negatives Focus on the good of each day Stay out of the “feeding frenzies” Say “please” and “thank you” Practice  EMPATHY Evaluate  YOUR  behavior  Never miss an opportunity to complement Spread a SMILE around Replace the BAD HABITS! BEHAVIOR
More  POSI + IVE  Contributions 1.  Is it true? 2.  Is it harmful? 3.  Is it necessary? Keep promises Have a forgiving view of people Keep an open mind with changes Count to 1000 if necessary See criticism as opportunity to improve Cultivate your sense of humor Before you say anything to anyone, ask yourself three things
Watch your definitions -  they become thoughts Watch your thoughts -  they become words Watch your words -  they become actions Watch your actions -  they become your destiny Remember to . . .
The Choice is YOURS With a Bad attitude  you can never have a positive day With a Positive attitude  you can never have a bad day
Choose   POSI + IVE   Living

Stayingpositive

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    How to StayPOSI + IVE in a TOUGH Work Environment
  • 2.
    The Environment YOUBeware the Bullets! Determinism Theory Negative World View Changing Environment Negative Work Environment Past Experiences Other People’s Behavior Ouch!
  • 3.
    - Dog eat dog . . . everyone fighting to get ahead - No one appreciates your contributions - Too much work . . . not enough help - Deadlines are unrealistic - Longer hours . . . additional work - Budget Constraints - Competition is eating us alive - Poor management / direction - Job insecurity Negative Work Environment
  • 4.
    Bulldozers Snipers ExplodersClams Patronizers Complainers Controllers Backstabbers Walking Wounded Negatives Gossips Brown Nosers Sluffers Whiners Other People’s Behavior
  • 5.
    Challenges our paradigmsAlters the way we think Makes life more difficult for a while Causes Stress Is an ongoing fact of life “ The only person who always likes change is a wet baby” CHANGE . . . Changing Environment
  • 6.
    Past Experiences Ouch!Ouch! Ouch! Ouch! Ouch! Ouch! Ouch! Ouch! Ouch!
  • 7.
    Media Frenzy Arecent Statistic: Crime down 20% in America reporting up 600% , Look at what you are looking at !!! Negative World View
  • 8.
    GENETIC : My Grandparents did it to me. (Inherited traits) PSYCHIC : My Parents did it to me. (Upbringing) ENVIRONMENTAL : My Spouse, my Boss, the Company, the Economy, etc.. is doing this to me. (Surroundings) Determinism Theory
  • 9.
    Are some people just born positive thinkers . . . or is it their CHOICE ?” Life’s Little Question
  • 10.
    Choose the RightLuggage Dodge Bullets Be Bulletproof
  • 11.
    The Problem WithDodging Bullets You’re going to get hit!
  • 12.
    Choice #2 Wear Bulletproof Armor
  • 13.
    Bulletproof Armor Comesfrom SELF CHANGE
  • 14.
    Putting on theArmor Change 3 Things!
  • 15.
    How to Change Your Attitude ATTITUDE ATTITUDE Changes happen personally from the INSIDE OUT!
  • 16.
    I am responsible. . . . . . for who I am . . . for what I have . . . for what I do So . . . Accept Responsibility ATTITUDE
  • 17.
    Step #2 Take Control Negative world view YOU FROM THE INSIDE . . . OUT! Ownership Values Mission Discipline ATTITUDE
  • 18.
    How to Change Your Thinking THINKING THINKING Changes come from observing logically in every situation
  • 19.
    Observe Your Thinking THINKING It sucks to be him. I refuse to let this hook me! This is all very interesting What can I do to defuse this? Tomorrow it will look very different. I’d like to beat the …
  • 20.
    Manage Your Self - Talk If you think you Can, or you think you Can’t… YOU’RE RIGHT ! Henry Ford THINKING This is going to be a wonderful day! This is going to be a crappy day!
  • 21.
    How to Change Your Behavior BEHAVIOR BEHAVIOR Changes take true assessment, determination & discipline
  • 22.
    Choose Your BehaviorREACTIVE RESPONSIBLE BEHAVIOR Response My Response My Choice Stimulus Stimulus
  • 23.
    Steps Toward ChangingBehavior 1. Unconscious Incompetence 2. Conscience Incompetence 3. Conscience Competence 4. Unconscious Competence BEHAVIOR The New YOU!
  • 24.
    Add POSI + IVE Behavior INFLUENCE YOUR ENVIRONMENT! Sprinkle some “positive” on the negatives Focus on the good of each day Stay out of the “feeding frenzies” Say “please” and “thank you” Practice EMPATHY Evaluate YOUR behavior Never miss an opportunity to complement Spread a SMILE around Replace the BAD HABITS! BEHAVIOR
  • 25.
    More POSI+ IVE Contributions 1. Is it true? 2. Is it harmful? 3. Is it necessary? Keep promises Have a forgiving view of people Keep an open mind with changes Count to 1000 if necessary See criticism as opportunity to improve Cultivate your sense of humor Before you say anything to anyone, ask yourself three things
  • 26.
    Watch your definitions- they become thoughts Watch your thoughts - they become words Watch your words - they become actions Watch your actions - they become your destiny Remember to . . .
  • 27.
    The Choice isYOURS With a Bad attitude you can never have a positive day With a Positive attitude you can never have a bad day
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    Choose POSI + IVE Living

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