SQL is a standard language for accessing and manipulating databases. It allows users to store, organize and analyze data in databases. There are many types of databases including relational, object-oriented, distributed, cloud, and NoSQL databases. Each database has a different structure and is suited for different purposes. A database management system (DBMS) is software that allows users to create, access, manage and control databases. It provides advantages like efficient data storage, sharing and administration but also has disadvantages like high costs and complexity.