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SMSV Coptic Orthodox ChurchSMSV Coptic Orthodox Church
Premarital Program 2015Premarital Program 2015
Joe SaadJoe Saad
Certified Christian CounsellorCertified Christian Counsellor
(416) 876-6194(416) 876-6194
joesaadca@hotmail.comjoesaadca@hotmail.com
““Marriage is a Covenant with God &Marriage is a Covenant with God &
Spouse”Spouse”
Session 2: We are different yet one!Session 2: We are different yet one!
4) Naked &
unashamed: Mutual
Trust & Safety
1) Humility in
relationship
Ced us
2) God the designer
of marriage:
He’s in control
Cornerstones of Home-Church:
Biblical Marriage Genesis 2: 7-25
3) Unified in God:
Oneness
What is Emotional Connection?What is Emotional Connection?
Genuine feelings that bind two people in
harmony who feel special to each other
What does it mean to be one?What does it mean to be one?
• They leave & cleave: physically &
emotionally
• One flesh, yet 2 personalities
• They appreciate each other’ differences &
reactions
• They feel safe and trust each other
• They understand & support each other
• They help each other grow.
• They love each other unconditionally
Grandma passes down more thanGrandma passes down more than
just her China!!just her China!!
Gender Differences: blessings!!Gender Differences: blessings!!
How Man feels & reacts?
- When stressed he stays in cave
- Achievement oriented
- Cares for work & sports
- Thinks solutions
- Motivated when feels needed
- Visually aroused
- Biggest mistake: he offers
solutions & invalidates feelings
how woman differs?
- When stressed she connects
- Relationship oriented
- Cares for home & kids
- Cares for empathy
- Motivated when feel cherished
- Emotionally Communicative
- Biggest mistake: she offers
unsolicited advice and direction
Personality DifferencesPersonality Differences
Myers Briggs Personality IndexMyers Briggs Personality Index
Love LanguagesLove Languages
Ask yourself important Questions!!Ask yourself important Questions!!
- Can I respect & love my spouse as myself?
- Are we going to reflect Christ/Church
relationship?
- Can I accept our differences?
- Can I forgive him/her?
- Can we help each other grow?
5 Love Languages5 Love Languages
• Words of affirmation
• Acts of Service
• Quality time
• Receiving gifts
• Physical touch
5 Love Languages5 Love Languages
• Words of affirmation
• Acts of Service
• Quality time
• Receiving gifts
• Physical touch

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Premarital 2015-different yet one

  • 1. SMSV Coptic Orthodox ChurchSMSV Coptic Orthodox Church Premarital Program 2015Premarital Program 2015 Joe SaadJoe Saad Certified Christian CounsellorCertified Christian Counsellor (416) 876-6194(416) 876-6194 joesaadca@hotmail.comjoesaadca@hotmail.com ““Marriage is a Covenant with God &Marriage is a Covenant with God & Spouse”Spouse” Session 2: We are different yet one!Session 2: We are different yet one!
  • 2. 4) Naked & unashamed: Mutual Trust & Safety 1) Humility in relationship Ced us 2) God the designer of marriage: He’s in control Cornerstones of Home-Church: Biblical Marriage Genesis 2: 7-25 3) Unified in God: Oneness
  • 3. What is Emotional Connection?What is Emotional Connection? Genuine feelings that bind two people in harmony who feel special to each other
  • 4. What does it mean to be one?What does it mean to be one? • They leave & cleave: physically & emotionally • One flesh, yet 2 personalities • They appreciate each other’ differences & reactions • They feel safe and trust each other • They understand & support each other • They help each other grow. • They love each other unconditionally
  • 5. Grandma passes down more thanGrandma passes down more than just her China!!just her China!! Gender Differences: blessings!!Gender Differences: blessings!! How Man feels & reacts? - When stressed he stays in cave - Achievement oriented - Cares for work & sports - Thinks solutions - Motivated when feels needed - Visually aroused - Biggest mistake: he offers solutions & invalidates feelings how woman differs? - When stressed she connects - Relationship oriented - Cares for home & kids - Cares for empathy - Motivated when feel cherished - Emotionally Communicative - Biggest mistake: she offers unsolicited advice and direction
  • 6. Personality DifferencesPersonality Differences Myers Briggs Personality IndexMyers Briggs Personality Index Love LanguagesLove Languages
  • 7. Ask yourself important Questions!!Ask yourself important Questions!! - Can I respect & love my spouse as myself? - Are we going to reflect Christ/Church relationship? - Can I accept our differences? - Can I forgive him/her? - Can we help each other grow?
  • 8.
  • 9. 5 Love Languages5 Love Languages • Words of affirmation • Acts of Service • Quality time • Receiving gifts • Physical touch
  • 10. 5 Love Languages5 Love Languages • Words of affirmation • Acts of Service • Quality time • Receiving gifts • Physical touch