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newsletter.
HOW
 WELL
DO YOU
KNOW
 GOD?

         Jeremiah 9:23-24
          You can boast 
DID YOU
KNOW OUR
 LORD HAS
EMOTIONS?
    HE
 REJOICES
  IN THE
 CHOICES
WE MAKE.    Zephaniah 3:17
Does GOD
 Forget?
 Does He
  Need
  To Be
Reminded
    ?         Malachi 3:16
           Why is there a book?
STEWARDSHIP

        WHAT IS IT?

 It’s the management of your
family, time, money, body, ho
 use, car, and everything God
      entrusts to our care
THE WHY
     OF STEWARDSHIP?


It’s commanded in scripture.

     Wise and Faithful
Stewardship is not an option
   but a command to the
          Believer.
THE HOW OF
      STEWARDSHIP?

 Give thought to your ways,
 read, follow and obey the
         Scriptures.
Pray and seek godly counsel.
  Joshua 1:8, Psalms 1:1,
      1 Timothy 6:6-19
Parents - A Beacon to follow
       Tools to train your children
                     because…
“Principles without Application lead to frustration”

                Roy L. Russell, CFP
Question:

 Who learns more?
 The Student
 The Teacher


Are you a Teacher?
Kids are watching
and learning from you!
Are You a Proactive Parent?

 Take an active role teaching our children and
 grandchildren.
    Deut 4:1-9
 Act differently than those around us.
   Rom 12:2, Eph 4:17
 Look ahead and prepare for upcoming dangers.
   Prov 22:3
 Become pro-active and train our children.
   Eph 6:4
 Amos 3:3 & 1 Cor 11:11 – agree with spouse.
Proactive vs. Reactive

 Discipline – why, when and how
 Planning for the future – vacations, holidays, marriage
 Balancing a checkbook – age 15 or 16
 Their first job – what to expect
 Buying their first car – no borrowing
 Planning for college – have children pay ½
 Their first credit card – never carry balance
 Gifts or Inheritances - Sudden wealth: often Misused
  or Mismanaged and gone in 18 months.
People remember:
        – 10% of what we read
        – 20% of what we hear
        – 30% of what we see
        – 50% of what we both see and hear
        – 70% of what we say
        – 90% of what we both say and do

    Active learning requires that we are
          involved in the learning;
     we need to hear it, see it, and do it
               to really get it!
Three ways we learn:


 Seeing it – Visual (reading and watching others)


 Hearing it – Listening or Auditory (preaching &
 training)

 Doing it – Experience or Kinesthetic (hands-on)
 What we learn depends on who influences us
 the most.
  The world’s philosophy from the god of this world
  Biblical Priorities from the God of the universe


 As parents we need to develop convictions to
 live by a standard.
  The shifting sands of the world’s philosophy
  The rock solid, consistent teachings from God’s Word.
  We must adjust our view of life: Rom 12:1-2; Eph 4-5:12
  Our old nature vs. The new nature
Notice God’s judgment for doing nothing


       ~ Man’s natural tendency ~

 Fig tree - Luke 13:6-9; Matt 21:18-19
 Ten Virgins - Matt 25:1-13
 Talents of silver - Matt 25:14-30
 Building on rock or sand - Matt 7:24-27
Our Children Learn

                     By seeing it
                     (watching others)

 Influenced by peer pressure – Luke 12:15
   What is teaching your children – The World or the Word?

 Deceitfulness of wealth – Mark 4:19
     Divorce rate is 50% - this applies to us and our
      children!
 Dangers of credit cards - Proverbs 22:3
   a wise man looks ahead… and makes provision.
Dangers of Credit Cards

 Me first – buy now pay later
 Credit cards – average balance $8,000+ and the
  typical family carries 10 different cards.
 Using Plastic – we spend on average 34% more
  money when using credit cards.
                                            My wants
                             Sacrificial
    Luxuries                 Giving
       &         Spending
    Pleasures

                                 Giving     Saving
Citibank Ad



Now you can Borrow
  Enough Money
      To be
    Completely
   Out of Debt!
Children Learn by our Priorities
 1. Teach them to keep these LIFEstyle
   Priorities in order. What do they hear?

    Your Faith
      Salvation, Sanctification, avoiding Stagnation

    Your Family
      Spouse, Children, Parents and Peers

    Your Finances
      Give, Save, Spend, Offerings and Luxuries

    Your Future
      A Christian’s Will
Children learn through experience

1. The Four Quarter Method of Stewardship
          Weekly repetitive training reinforces priorities.

    Weekly allowance starting at Age 6
      Share the household income
      Train them to manage money
      Not directly related to chores
    Four Quarters every Sunday morning
      1stQuarter                ,      2nd Quarter
      3rd Quarter               ,      4th Quarter

        Increase each year with age
4 Quarter Method of Stewardship

            ~ some helpful hints ~
   Accountability and Reward
     If you don’t inspect it you can not expect it!
     Match Long-Term savings and invest every Christmas

   No borrowing, No Advances
   Never spend it all
   Earnings >$25 in any one week
     – no allowance needed that week
     - simply not needed. Not an entitlement!
2. The Surprise Package Company -
    Look for opportunities to Give –
           in the church & in the community.

  a.   Planned giving – help children look for individuals or
       families, saved or unsaved, who have a financial need.

      Staple $100 to a paper with the words:
       “From the Surprise Package Company from your
        friends at Trinity Bible Fellowship Church.”

      Each Child delivers envelope secretly to house. Knocks
       on door and hides. They never tell anyone.
b.   Benefits to the Family:

    God will not hear our prayers if we close
     our ears to the cry of the poor - Prov 21:13
    Children begin to give of their own money.
    Children begin to discern who should
     receive gifts, when they should be given
     and how much should be given.
    Children learn to be much more
     thankful as they see the needs of
     others.
How are You Doing?


Here are a few suggestions that may help you teach
 your children money habits for life.

These are general aids
for all children. The stage
of development of the
child will dictate how
involved you get with
the topics presented.
1. Give each of your children some money to manage.

2. Help your children set up a Giving, Savings and
  Spending plan. Teach them to invest.

3. Avoid using money as a reward or punishment.

4. Avoid paying children for regular household chores
  that are shared family responsibilities such as
  washing the dishes, taking out the trash, cleaning
  floors, etc. Consider paying them for special jobs
  (e.g. cleaning the garage)
5. Set a good example by being truthful about
  money matters.

6. Give your children more financial responsibilities
  as they get older.

7. Be a good money manager, giving my children a
  good example to follow.

8. Help your children understand the difference
  between necessities and luxuries.
9. Praise your children if they have made wise
   decisions with their money.

10. Help your children find ways to earn extra
    money that is age appropriate and suits their
    abilities and skills.

11. Allow your children to make mistakes related to
money and help them to understand the consequences.

12. Help your children look for the needs of others.
Our You Ready?

     We must take the challenge
    to learn, apply & teach these
     principles to our children

            Luke 6:46-49
 Are you building your life and your
 family on the Rock of the Word or on the
 shifting sands of the world’s philosophy?

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Parenting - Training Children

  • 1. Copies of our notes and Power Point can be downloaded at: WWW .T HE L IFE G ROUP . ORG You may also download our Legacy Family Data Sheet if you would like a personal review and specific recommendations related to your overall Stewardship. You may also sign up for our free quarterly financial newsletter.
  • 2. HOW WELL DO YOU KNOW GOD? Jeremiah 9:23-24 You can boast 
  • 3. DID YOU KNOW OUR LORD HAS EMOTIONS? HE REJOICES IN THE CHOICES WE MAKE. Zephaniah 3:17
  • 4. Does GOD Forget? Does He Need To Be Reminded ? Malachi 3:16 Why is there a book?
  • 5. STEWARDSHIP WHAT IS IT? It’s the management of your family, time, money, body, ho use, car, and everything God entrusts to our care
  • 6. THE WHY OF STEWARDSHIP? It’s commanded in scripture. Wise and Faithful Stewardship is not an option but a command to the Believer.
  • 7. THE HOW OF STEWARDSHIP? Give thought to your ways, read, follow and obey the Scriptures. Pray and seek godly counsel. Joshua 1:8, Psalms 1:1, 1 Timothy 6:6-19
  • 8. Parents - A Beacon to follow Tools to train your children because… “Principles without Application lead to frustration” Roy L. Russell, CFP
  • 9. Question:  Who learns more? The Student The Teacher Are you a Teacher? Kids are watching and learning from you!
  • 10. Are You a Proactive Parent?  Take an active role teaching our children and grandchildren.  Deut 4:1-9  Act differently than those around us.  Rom 12:2, Eph 4:17  Look ahead and prepare for upcoming dangers.  Prov 22:3  Become pro-active and train our children.  Eph 6:4  Amos 3:3 & 1 Cor 11:11 – agree with spouse.
  • 11. Proactive vs. Reactive  Discipline – why, when and how  Planning for the future – vacations, holidays, marriage  Balancing a checkbook – age 15 or 16  Their first job – what to expect  Buying their first car – no borrowing  Planning for college – have children pay ½  Their first credit card – never carry balance  Gifts or Inheritances - Sudden wealth: often Misused or Mismanaged and gone in 18 months.
  • 12. People remember:  – 10% of what we read  – 20% of what we hear  – 30% of what we see  – 50% of what we both see and hear  – 70% of what we say  – 90% of what we both say and do Active learning requires that we are involved in the learning; we need to hear it, see it, and do it to really get it!
  • 13. Three ways we learn:  Seeing it – Visual (reading and watching others)  Hearing it – Listening or Auditory (preaching & training)  Doing it – Experience or Kinesthetic (hands-on)
  • 14.  What we learn depends on who influences us the most.  The world’s philosophy from the god of this world  Biblical Priorities from the God of the universe  As parents we need to develop convictions to live by a standard.  The shifting sands of the world’s philosophy  The rock solid, consistent teachings from God’s Word.  We must adjust our view of life: Rom 12:1-2; Eph 4-5:12  Our old nature vs. The new nature
  • 15. Notice God’s judgment for doing nothing ~ Man’s natural tendency ~  Fig tree - Luke 13:6-9; Matt 21:18-19  Ten Virgins - Matt 25:1-13  Talents of silver - Matt 25:14-30  Building on rock or sand - Matt 7:24-27
  • 16. Our Children Learn By seeing it (watching others)  Influenced by peer pressure – Luke 12:15  What is teaching your children – The World or the Word?  Deceitfulness of wealth – Mark 4:19  Divorce rate is 50% - this applies to us and our children!  Dangers of credit cards - Proverbs 22:3  a wise man looks ahead… and makes provision.
  • 17. Dangers of Credit Cards  Me first – buy now pay later  Credit cards – average balance $8,000+ and the typical family carries 10 different cards.  Using Plastic – we spend on average 34% more money when using credit cards. My wants Sacrificial Luxuries Giving & Spending Pleasures Giving Saving
  • 18. Citibank Ad Now you can Borrow Enough Money To be Completely Out of Debt!
  • 19. Children Learn by our Priorities 1. Teach them to keep these LIFEstyle Priorities in order. What do they hear?  Your Faith  Salvation, Sanctification, avoiding Stagnation  Your Family  Spouse, Children, Parents and Peers  Your Finances  Give, Save, Spend, Offerings and Luxuries  Your Future  A Christian’s Will
  • 20. Children learn through experience 1. The Four Quarter Method of Stewardship Weekly repetitive training reinforces priorities.  Weekly allowance starting at Age 6  Share the household income  Train them to manage money  Not directly related to chores  Four Quarters every Sunday morning  1stQuarter , 2nd Quarter  3rd Quarter , 4th Quarter  Increase each year with age
  • 21. 4 Quarter Method of Stewardship ~ some helpful hints ~  Accountability and Reward  If you don’t inspect it you can not expect it!  Match Long-Term savings and invest every Christmas  No borrowing, No Advances  Never spend it all  Earnings >$25 in any one week  – no allowance needed that week  - simply not needed. Not an entitlement!
  • 22. 2. The Surprise Package Company - Look for opportunities to Give – in the church & in the community. a. Planned giving – help children look for individuals or families, saved or unsaved, who have a financial need.  Staple $100 to a paper with the words: “From the Surprise Package Company from your friends at Trinity Bible Fellowship Church.”  Each Child delivers envelope secretly to house. Knocks on door and hides. They never tell anyone.
  • 23. b. Benefits to the Family:  God will not hear our prayers if we close our ears to the cry of the poor - Prov 21:13  Children begin to give of their own money.  Children begin to discern who should receive gifts, when they should be given and how much should be given.  Children learn to be much more thankful as they see the needs of others.
  • 24. How are You Doing? Here are a few suggestions that may help you teach your children money habits for life. These are general aids for all children. The stage of development of the child will dictate how involved you get with the topics presented.
  • 25. 1. Give each of your children some money to manage. 2. Help your children set up a Giving, Savings and Spending plan. Teach them to invest. 3. Avoid using money as a reward or punishment. 4. Avoid paying children for regular household chores that are shared family responsibilities such as washing the dishes, taking out the trash, cleaning floors, etc. Consider paying them for special jobs (e.g. cleaning the garage)
  • 26. 5. Set a good example by being truthful about money matters. 6. Give your children more financial responsibilities as they get older. 7. Be a good money manager, giving my children a good example to follow. 8. Help your children understand the difference between necessities and luxuries.
  • 27. 9. Praise your children if they have made wise decisions with their money. 10. Help your children find ways to earn extra money that is age appropriate and suits their abilities and skills. 11. Allow your children to make mistakes related to money and help them to understand the consequences. 12. Help your children look for the needs of others.
  • 28. Our You Ready? We must take the challenge to learn, apply & teach these principles to our children Luke 6:46-49  Are you building your life and your family on the Rock of the Word or on the shifting sands of the world’s philosophy?