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Los Angeles County Department of Mental Health Domestic Violence
- 1. Los Angeles County Department of Mental Health Module 5 Domestic Violence
- 2. OVERVIEW What we will cover ABOUT MENTAL HEALTH DEPRESSION SUICIDE INTERGENERATIONAL ISSUES DOMESTIC ABUSE
- 4. 85% of domestic abuse victims are women 15% of domestic abuse victims are men http://www.clarkprosecutor.org/html/domviol/facts.htm
- 5. Due to the influence of social media, domestic violence has been less of a taboo in certain cultures. what does it mean to you?
- 6. Why is it difficult to speak about this topic? 1) What is the difficulty? 2) How did you initiate the conversation? Due to the influence of social media, domestic violence has been less of a taboo in certain cultures. what does it mean to you?
- 7. Today, we will start this conversation. Why is it difficult to speak about this topic? 1) What is the difficulty? 2) How did you initiate the conversation? Due to the influence of social media, domestic violence has been less of a taboo in certain cultures. what does it mean to you?
- 8. FOUR TYPES Emotional/Mental of domestic abuse The aim of emotional abuse is to chip away at your feelings of self-worth and independence. Emotional abuse is sometimes harder than physical abuse to define and recognize. A bruise will heal but the damage to a person’s self esteem can last forever. The following are some examples of emotional abuse: Ignoring a partner’s feelings Ridiculing or insulting a partner, calling names, (i.e a whore) or shouting at partners. Ridiculing or insulting valued beliefs, religion, race, heritage, or class Withholding approval, appreciation, or affection as punishment Continually criticizing, calling names, or shouting at partners
- 9. FOUR TYPES Physical of domestic abuse An abuser uses physical force against their victim as a means of seeking power over them. Research indicated that men overwhelmingly perpetrate this violence and that when women do engage in this level of violence, it is most likely to be self-defense against a violent male partner. The following are some examples of physical abuse: Pushing, kicking, slapping, punching, scratching Pulling or ripping out hair Strangling Biting Spitting at or near partner Throwing objects at or near partner Subjecting someone to reckless driving
- 10. FOUR TYPES Sexual of domestic abuse Sexual abuse is a difficult aspect of domestic violence, both to discuss and, at times, identify. The following are some examples of sexual abuse: Reproductive coercion (i.e. birth control sabotage) Using a sexual derogatory name Forcing a partner to strip, forcing a partner to have sex and/or oral sex, unwanted touching Forcing a partner to become a sex worker or prostitute Accusing a partner of promiscuity Forcing a partner to watch pornography, forcing the victim to watch the abusive partner have sex with others Sexual violence is used by abusers in the same way that physical violence is used to establish control.
- 11. FOUR TYPES Financial of domestic abuse Financial abuse is an often unknown, yet very common, form of domestic violence. The following are some examples of financial abuse: Having all bank accounts in the abuser’s name Controlling how, when, and where money is spent Assigning an allowance (often very small or unrealistic cost of living) Denying a partner the right to work outside the home or make any financial contribution to the family Controlling all or most of the finances It occurs when one partner is controlling the financial independence and freedom of the other partner.
- 12. Domestic violence can begin at any time, in the first year or after many years of two partners living together. It may also begin, continue, or escalate after a couple has separated. Domestic abuse may occur at home or in a public place. Typically, the pattern of abuse only tends to get worse over time. Whatever form it takes, domestic violence is rarely a single occuring incident, but a pattern of abusive and controlling behaviors through which the abuser seeks power over their victim. HOW OFTEN IS THEIR A DOMESTIC VIOLENCE ABUSE?
- 13. 1 IN EVERY 4 WOMEN WILL EXPERIENCE DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IN HER LIFETIME Domestic violence can begin at any time, in the first year or after many years of two partners living together. It may also begin, continue, or escalate after a couple has separated. Domestic abuse may occur at home or in a public place. Typically, the pattern of abuse only tends to get worse over time. Whatever form it takes, domestic violence is rarely a single occuring incident, but a pattern of abusive and controlling behaviors through which the abuser seeks power over their victim.
- 14. INTIMATE PARTNER VIOLENCE RESULTS IN MORE THAN 18.5 MILLION MENTAL HEALTH CARE VISITS EACH YEAR Domestic violence can begin at any time, in the first year or after many years of two partners living together. It may also begin, continue, or escalate after a couple has separated. Domestic abuse may occur at home or in a public place. Typically, the pattern of abuse only tends to get worse over time. Whatever form it takes, domestic violence is rarely a single occuring incident, but a pattern of abusive and controlling behaviors through which the abuser seeks power over their victim.
- 15. MOST CASES OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE ARE NEVER REPORTED MAKING IT ONE OF THE MOST CHRONICALLY UNDERREPORTED CRIMES Domestic violence can begin at any time, in the first year or after many years of two partners living together. It may also begin, continue, or escalate after a couple has separated. Domestic abuse may occur at home or in a public place. Typically, the pattern of abuse only tends to get worse over time. Whatever form it takes, domestic violence is rarely a single occuring incident, but a pattern of abusive and controlling behaviors through which the abuser seeks power over their victim.
- 16. MYTHS ABOUT DOMESTIC ABUSE Sexual assault is provoked by flirting and style of dress. Men can’t be raped. Victims of abuse are crazy if they choose to stay in an abusive relationship. Middle-class women do not get battered as frequently or as violently as poor women. People who are religious do not batter and are not victims of battering.
- 17. DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IN THE ARAB COMMUNITY In 2009, 241 Muslims participated in a study about depression: Reported domestic abuse in their current marriage (34 people) Reported domestic abuse in their previous marriage (44 people) reported a miscarriage as a result of domestic violence (10 people) 14% 18% 4.3% http://www.peacefulfamilies.org/Dv%20Muslim%20Communities%20EWIC%202011.pdf
- 18. A study of 1,418 Lebanese women attending primary health centers found that: 35% experienced domestic violence DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IN THE ARAB COMMUNITY
- 19. A study of 1,418 Lebanese women attending primary health centers found that: Of that 35%, 35% experienced domestic violence 98% of women reported verbal/ emotional abuse 68% of women reported physical abuse DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IN THE ARAB COMMUNITY
- 20. Another study of 190 Muslims reported: were physically abused (95 people) were emotionally abused (119 people) were sexually abused (26 people) 50% 63% 14% reported that the death of a family member was due to domestic violence (6 people) 3% DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IN THE ARAB COMMUNITY http://www.peacefulfamilies.org/Dv%20Muslim%20Communities%20EWIC%202011.pdf
- 21. A survey from Muslim Americans Do you personally know anyone who has been physically or emotionally abused by their spouse? Yes (87.95%) No (11.14%) I do not know what the question means (0.91%) A poll from “Muslim Matters” DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IN THE ARAB COMMUNITY
- 22. Stigma Social consequences Financial reasons Children Fear of public perception WHY DON’T WE TALK ABOUT IT
- 23. CYCLE OF ABUSE Abuse Guilt Excuses Normal Behavior Fantasy Set-Up Abuser lashes out with aggressive or violent behavior. Abuse is about power and dominance. Abuser feels guilty, but not about their actions. Worried about possibility of getting caught and facing consequences of behavior. Abuser rationalizes actions. Finds ways to blame the victim and avoid taking responsibility. Abuser tries to act as calmly and normally as possible to regain control and keep victim in relationship. May act as if nothing occurred or may become charming and persuasive. Gives victim false hope. Abuser begins to fantasize about abusing victim again. Spends time thinking of things victim has done wrong and how victim will have to suffer for those things. Abuser sets up victim into thinking they’ve done wrong and creates a situation where they can justifiably abuse.
- 24. RECOGNIZE THE SIGNS Tactics Abusers Use 5 6 7 8 1 2 3 4 Coercion and Threats Intimidation Emotional Abuse Isolation Minimizing, Denying, and Blaming Using Children Economic Abuse Male Privilege
- 25. EFFECTS ON CHILDREN Witnessing violence between one’s parents or caretakers is the strongest risk factor of transmitting violent behavior from one generation to the next Boys who witness domestic violence are twice as likely to abuse their own partners and children when they become adults 30%-60% of perpetrators of intimate partner violence also abuse children in the household
- 26. RECOGNIZE THE SIGNS Seem afraid or anxious to please partner Check in with partner to report actions often Receive frequent, harassing phone calls Talk about partner’s temper, jealousy or possessiveness Have frequent injuries, and pass them off as ‘accidents’ Frequently miss work, school, or social occasions without explanation Dress in clothing designed to hide scars or bruises Show major personality changes People who are abused may:
- 27. RECOGNIZE THE SIGNS 5 6 7 8 1 2 3 4 Have Suicidal Thoughts Feel Defensive or Distrustful Feel Guilt or Ashamed Feel Emotionally Distressed Alcohol and/or drug abuse Overeating or have a loss of appetite Having frequent headaches Have high blood pressure Examples of Major Personality/Physical Changes:
- 28. TIPS AND ADVICE What to do if someone you love is in a domestic violence relationship Call the Police when you know the violence is occurring. DO NOT intervene yourself during the conflict. Refrain from giving advice: rather listen, reflect what you hear, explore options, be supportive. Encourage the victim to keep extra clothing, a small amount of money, and copies of all documents at a friends home. Call and collect names of potentially helpful persons or agencies. Keep a list for yourself and give one to the abuser or the victim. 1/2
- 29. TIPS AND ADVICE What to do if someone you love is in a violent relationship Take pictures of the victims wounds and bruises and keep them in a safe place for her. Remember, it is not your responsibility to be the rescuer at all times. Include her children in relaxing, enjoyable activities to provide diversion and alternative role modeling for them. Try not to be offended when the victim or abuser does not do what you want him/her to do. People are inclined to accept help only when they are willing to make changes. 2/2
- 30. TIPS AND ADVICE “You are not alone. I care about you and am here for you, no matter what.” “No matter what you did, you do not deserve this.” “Promise me that if you need to talk, you’ll come to me.” “If you need to go to the police [or court or a lawyer], I can go with you to offer support.” What to say http://www.clicktoempower.org/domestic-violence-facts/what-to-say-when-you-think-someone-is-being-abused
- 31. Never ask “Why?” (Implies that the victim/survivor was at fault) Never minimize or compare (Saying things like “At least you weren’t killed, at least it wasn’t rape, at least...”) Never ask “Why didn’t you tell someone?” TIPS AND ADVICE What NOT to say
- 32. Be willing to continue spiritual guidance within the scope of their ministry, even if or after you’ve referred them to a mental health professional for therapy. Be familiar with the resources in your community. Recognize the secondary victims (family, friends, community, etc) TIPS AND ADVICE Pastoral Care
- 33. If you or someone you know needs help or more information, please call: THE NATIONAL DOMESTIC VIOLENCE HOTLINE 1-800-799-7233 THE NATIONAL SEXUAL ASSAULT HOTLINE 1-800-656-4673 THE NATIONAL TEEN DATING ABUSE HOTLINE 1-866-331-9474 CALL THE LA COUNTY DMH ACCESS HOTLINE 1-800-854-7771