1. The author and a colleague were put in charge of leading an important religious ritual when the event coordinators had to leave unexpectedly. 2. They did not feel prepared or empowered to take charge, as they were used to just following orders. However, they managed to direct the rest of the event successfully due to feeling responsible for the group's reputation. 3. The author learned the importance of empowering and instructing all people horizontally rather than just vertically, so that everyone feels comfortable taking on new leadership roles when needed.