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How to Schmooze
How to Schmooze
How to Schmooze
How to connect with clients, colleagues and
             competitors
How to Schmooze
How to connect with clients, colleagues and
             competitors
How to Schmooze
How to connect with clients, colleagues and
             competitors
How to connect with clients, colleagues and
                     competitors
How to Schmooze
How to connect with clients, colleagues and
                     competitors
How to Schmooze
How to Schmooze
How to Schmooze
Today’s Class Outline
Today’s Class Outline
• Introductions: both you and me.
Today’s Class Outline
• Introductions: both you and me.
• Course outline: 10 Sessions. What
  happens?
Today’s Class Outline
• Introductions: both you and me.
• Course outline: 10 Sessions. What
  happens?
• Today’s takeaways
Today’s Class Outline
• Introductions: both you and me.
• Course outline: 10 Sessions. What
  happens?
• Today’s takeaways
• Today’s assignment
Today’s Class Outline
• Introductions: both you and me.
• Course outline: 10 Sessions. What
  happens?
• Today’s takeaways
• Today’s assignment
• Evaluation/Exams of the Course
Today’s Class Outline
Introduction
Introduction
•   About me (5 minutes)
•   Rules of the course (5 minutes)
        •   How to address me?
        •   Cell phone
        •   Punctuality
        •   Q & A interactions
•   Please introduce yourselves (20 minutes)
        •   Power of first impressions
Course Design
Course Design
Course Design
Course Design
• Behavioral Modification
Course Design
• Behavioral Modification
• Tools and techniques
Course Design
• Behavioral Modification
• Tools and techniques
• Role playing
Course Design
• Behavioral Modification
• Tools and techniques
• Role playing
• Interactions
Course Design
• Behavioral Modification
• Tools and techniques
• Role playing
• Interactions
• Functional Areas to develop expertise
Course Design
• Behavioral Modification
• Tools and techniques
• Role playing
• Interactions
• Functional Areas to develop expertise
• Outside Experts
Behavioral Modification
Behavioral Modification

• Self monitoring: what is that?
Behavioral Modification

• Self monitoring: what is that?
• Connection with clients. Common interest
Behavioral Modification

• Self monitoring: what is that?
• Connection with clients. Common interest
• Don’t lose yourself
Behavioral Modification

• Self monitoring: what is that?
• Connection with clients. Common interest
• Don’t lose yourself
• Empathy. Ability to anticipate their needs
Behavioral Modification

• Self monitoring: what is that?
• Connection with clients. Common interest
• Don’t lose yourself
• Empathy. Ability to anticipate their needs
• Negotiation and Closure
Course Tool-kit
Course Tool-kit
• Websites
• Reading
• Reference
• Projects
• Classroom presentation
• Interactions: one to one and one to many
1. Introduction
1. Introduction
2. Art
1. Introduction
2. Art
3. Live Networking/Roleplaying
1. Introduction
2. Art
3. Live Networking/Roleplaying
4. Food and Table Etiquette
1. Introduction
2. Art
3. Live Networking/Roleplaying
4. Food and Table Etiquette
5. Architecture
1. Introduction
2. Art
3. Live Networking/Roleplaying
4. Food and Table Etiquette
5. Architecture
6. Design/Fashion
1. Introduction
2. Art
3. Live Networking/Roleplaying
4. Food and Table Etiquette
5. Architecture
6. Design/Fashion
7. Collectibles-- watches, fountain pens, cars
1. Introduction
2. Art
3. Live Networking/Roleplaying
4. Food and Table Etiquette
5. Architecture
6. Design/Fashion
7. Collectibles-- watches, fountain pens, cars
8. Sports
1. Introduction
2. Art
3. Live Networking/Roleplaying
4. Food and Table Etiquette
5. Architecture
6. Design/Fashion
7. Collectibles-- watches, fountain pens, cars
8. Sports
9. Trends, travel, trivia, humour
1. Introduction
2. Art
3. Live Networking/Roleplaying
4. Food and Table Etiquette
5. Architecture
6. Design/Fashion
7. Collectibles-- watches, fountain pens, cars
8. Sports
9. Trends, travel, trivia, humour
10. Pulling it all together/Farewell
How to Introduce yourself
How to Introduce yourself
How to Introduce yourself

• Tone: Upbeat, positive, well modulated
• Body language
• 58% of communication comes from body
  language
• 35% comes from the tone you use
• 7% is content
Body Language
Body Language

• Is your body language too overbearing?
• Are you too aggressive?
• Watch your client. Imitate them.
• Mirroring: tone, pace, body language
• Practice sessions.
What to say
What to say
• A genuine compliment helps: shoes
• Don’t just say, I admire you.
• Ask them a question that will show your
  admiration
• Drop information about yourself but do so
  appropriately.
• It was great chatting. Let me go get a drink
Tailor your introductions
Tailor your introductions

• Know what to say to whom
• Begin with their name.
• If there are foreigners, slow down.
• Choose three things
• Names, names, names.
Today’s Homework
Today’s Homework
• Research one artist of your choice and
  prepare an 5 sentence description of the
  artist that you will present to us next class.
  Include some information but I am
  interested in your opinion of the artist.
• Examples of artists: Raza,Vaikuntam, MF
  Hussain, Bharti Kher, Subodh Gupta, or any
  other artist from the past or present
References
References

• India Art Summit Website
• Arts Trust
• Saffron Art
• Indian Art Collectors
• Art India Magazine
Takeaways from today
• Never underestimate the power of a good
  introduction
• Creating a connect with your client or
  counterparty can make all the difference
• When you connect through non-business
  subjects, it is non-threatening and therefore
  will be deeper.
Takeaways from today
Takeaways from today
• Never underestimate the power of a good
  introduction
• Creating a connect with your client or
  counterparty can make all the difference
• When you connect through non-business
  subjects, it is non-threatening and therefore
  will be deeper.
See you Friday!

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