BODY LANGUAGE
WHATS YOUR BODY TELLING YOU?
• BODY LANGUAGE:THE GESTURES, POSES,MOVEMENTS AND
EXPRESSIONS THAT A PERSON USES TO COMMUNICATE.
• 7% VERBAL(CONVEYED THROUGH WORDS)
• 38% VOCAL(INTONATION,PITCH,PAUSES,ETC.)
• 55% NON-VERBAL(BODY LANGUAGE)
BODY LANGUAGE
KINESICS PROXEMICS HAPTICS
FIVE TYPES OF BODY LANGUAGE :
EYE CONTACT
FACIAL EXPRESSION
POSTURES AND STANCE
GESTURES
SPACE RELATIONSHIP
PURPOSE FOR EYE CONTACT
• SPEAKING INFORMATION
• SHOWING INTEREST AND ATTENTION
• INVITING AND CONTROLLING INTERACTION
• DOMINEERING,THREATENING,INFLUENCING OTHERS
• PROVIDING FEEDBACK DURING SPEECH
• REVEALING ATTITUDES
• TOO MUCH EYE CONTACT : DOMINANTS,LACK OF
RESPECT,THREAT,WISH TO INSULT.
• TOO LIL EYE CONTACT : NOT PAYING ATTENTION,
IMPOLITE , INSINCERE, SHY.
• WITHDRAWING EYES : SIGNAL OF SUBMISSION.
CAN FACE SPEAK???
• HAPPINESS
• SADNESS
• DISPLEASURE
• ANGER
• FEAR
• INTEREST
SOME COMMON GESTURES
• SHOULDER SHRUG : I DON’T KNOW.
• PUFFED CHEST : PRIDE OR ACHIEVEMENT.
• SUCKED STOMACH : I AM NOT AS FAT AS I LOOK
• FINGER CROSSING : PROTECTION
• EYE RUB: AVOIDING EYE CONTACT , LYING
• NOSE TAPPING : MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS
• THUMB UPPING : BEST LUCK,VICTORY
• RUBBING PALM TOGETHER : POSITIVE EXPECTATION
• THUMB AND FINGER RUBBING : MONEY EXPECTANCY
• HANDS CLENCHED TOGETHER : CONFIDENT
• STEEPLING HANDS : FRUSTRATED , REQUEST
• HANDS IN POCKET : AGRESSION
• HANDS ON HIPS : AGGRESSIVE,ACHIEVER STANCE
• CHIN STROKING : MAKING A DECISION
• MOUTH GUARD : SUPRESSING DECEITFULL
WORDS,TELLING LIE.
POSTURES AND STANCE
• STANDING
• SITTING
• LYING
SOME COMMON POSTURES
• SAGGING : DEPRESSION
• FORWARD LEAN : POSITIVE ATTITUDE
• BACKWARD LEAN : NEGATIVE ATTITUDE
• ARMS FOLDED ACROSS THE CHEST : UNSYMPATHETIC
• ARMS HELD LOOSE : OPEN POSITIVE ATTITUDE
• UPRIGHT POSTURE : HIGH STATUS , I AM THE BOSS
• BOWING HEAD : LOWER STATUS
• SELF WRAPPING : WITHDRAWAL , SELF PROTECTION
• MODERATELY UPRIGHT : ENTHUSIASM , FRIENDLINESS
PROXEMICS
WHEN YOU INVADE MY SPACE
REACTIONS TO AN INVASION OF YOUR SPACE :
1.FEEL TROUBLED
2.GET DEFENSIVE
3.BECOME AGGRESSIVE
4.RETALIATE
HAPTICS
• BODY CONTACT : ACCIDENTAL
• TOUCH : DELIBERATE
TYPES OF TOUCH :
• FUNCTIONAL
• SOCIAL
• GENIAL
• PASSIONATE
KINDS OF TOUCH DEPENDS ON VARIOUS
FACTORS
• WHICH PART OF BODY IS TOUCHED ( VOLUNTARY / INVOLUNTARY )
• HOW LONG THE TOUCH LASTED
• PRESSURE USED
• MOVEMENT AFTER CONTACT
• MOOD WHILE TOUCHING
• RELATION BETWEEN THE TWO PERSON
TYPES OF HANDSHAKE
• STIFF ARM HANDSHAKE : EQUALITY
• DEAD FISH HANDSHAKE : WEAK CHARACTER
• AGGRESSIVE HANDSHAKE
• POLITITIAN HANDSHAKE
• PALM DOWN : DOMINANCE
• PALM UP : SUBMISSION
• KNUCKLE GRINDER : AGRESSION
• FINGER TIP GRAB : KEEP AT CONSIDERABLE DISTANCE
• ARM PULLING : INSECURITY
DOUBLE HANDED HANDSHAKE
• UPPER ARM GRIP : TRANSMITS FEELING
• SHOULDER HOLD : PENETRATES INTIMATE ZONE
HOW TO BE ATTRACTIVE
• EYE CONTACT
• FACIAL EXPRESSION
• HEAD MOVEMENTS
• GESTURES
• POSTURES
• PROXIMITY
• BODY CONTACT
• APPEARANCE AND PHYSIQUE
• TIMING AND SYNCHRONIZATION

Importance of Body-Language & Gestures & Postures

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  • 2.
    WHATS YOUR BODYTELLING YOU? • BODY LANGUAGE:THE GESTURES, POSES,MOVEMENTS AND EXPRESSIONS THAT A PERSON USES TO COMMUNICATE. • 7% VERBAL(CONVEYED THROUGH WORDS) • 38% VOCAL(INTONATION,PITCH,PAUSES,ETC.) • 55% NON-VERBAL(BODY LANGUAGE)
  • 3.
    BODY LANGUAGE KINESICS PROXEMICSHAPTICS FIVE TYPES OF BODY LANGUAGE : EYE CONTACT FACIAL EXPRESSION POSTURES AND STANCE GESTURES SPACE RELATIONSHIP
  • 4.
    PURPOSE FOR EYECONTACT • SPEAKING INFORMATION • SHOWING INTEREST AND ATTENTION • INVITING AND CONTROLLING INTERACTION • DOMINEERING,THREATENING,INFLUENCING OTHERS • PROVIDING FEEDBACK DURING SPEECH • REVEALING ATTITUDES
  • 5.
    • TOO MUCHEYE CONTACT : DOMINANTS,LACK OF RESPECT,THREAT,WISH TO INSULT. • TOO LIL EYE CONTACT : NOT PAYING ATTENTION, IMPOLITE , INSINCERE, SHY. • WITHDRAWING EYES : SIGNAL OF SUBMISSION.
  • 6.
    CAN FACE SPEAK??? •HAPPINESS • SADNESS • DISPLEASURE • ANGER • FEAR • INTEREST
  • 7.
    SOME COMMON GESTURES •SHOULDER SHRUG : I DON’T KNOW. • PUFFED CHEST : PRIDE OR ACHIEVEMENT. • SUCKED STOMACH : I AM NOT AS FAT AS I LOOK • FINGER CROSSING : PROTECTION • EYE RUB: AVOIDING EYE CONTACT , LYING • NOSE TAPPING : MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS • THUMB UPPING : BEST LUCK,VICTORY • RUBBING PALM TOGETHER : POSITIVE EXPECTATION • THUMB AND FINGER RUBBING : MONEY EXPECTANCY • HANDS CLENCHED TOGETHER : CONFIDENT
  • 8.
    • STEEPLING HANDS: FRUSTRATED , REQUEST • HANDS IN POCKET : AGRESSION • HANDS ON HIPS : AGGRESSIVE,ACHIEVER STANCE • CHIN STROKING : MAKING A DECISION • MOUTH GUARD : SUPRESSING DECEITFULL WORDS,TELLING LIE.
  • 9.
    POSTURES AND STANCE •STANDING • SITTING • LYING
  • 10.
    SOME COMMON POSTURES •SAGGING : DEPRESSION • FORWARD LEAN : POSITIVE ATTITUDE • BACKWARD LEAN : NEGATIVE ATTITUDE • ARMS FOLDED ACROSS THE CHEST : UNSYMPATHETIC • ARMS HELD LOOSE : OPEN POSITIVE ATTITUDE • UPRIGHT POSTURE : HIGH STATUS , I AM THE BOSS • BOWING HEAD : LOWER STATUS • SELF WRAPPING : WITHDRAWAL , SELF PROTECTION • MODERATELY UPRIGHT : ENTHUSIASM , FRIENDLINESS
  • 11.
    PROXEMICS WHEN YOU INVADEMY SPACE REACTIONS TO AN INVASION OF YOUR SPACE : 1.FEEL TROUBLED 2.GET DEFENSIVE 3.BECOME AGGRESSIVE 4.RETALIATE
  • 12.
    HAPTICS • BODY CONTACT: ACCIDENTAL • TOUCH : DELIBERATE TYPES OF TOUCH : • FUNCTIONAL • SOCIAL • GENIAL • PASSIONATE
  • 13.
    KINDS OF TOUCHDEPENDS ON VARIOUS FACTORS • WHICH PART OF BODY IS TOUCHED ( VOLUNTARY / INVOLUNTARY ) • HOW LONG THE TOUCH LASTED • PRESSURE USED • MOVEMENT AFTER CONTACT • MOOD WHILE TOUCHING • RELATION BETWEEN THE TWO PERSON
  • 14.
    TYPES OF HANDSHAKE •STIFF ARM HANDSHAKE : EQUALITY • DEAD FISH HANDSHAKE : WEAK CHARACTER • AGGRESSIVE HANDSHAKE • POLITITIAN HANDSHAKE • PALM DOWN : DOMINANCE • PALM UP : SUBMISSION • KNUCKLE GRINDER : AGRESSION • FINGER TIP GRAB : KEEP AT CONSIDERABLE DISTANCE • ARM PULLING : INSECURITY
  • 15.
    DOUBLE HANDED HANDSHAKE •UPPER ARM GRIP : TRANSMITS FEELING • SHOULDER HOLD : PENETRATES INTIMATE ZONE
  • 16.
    HOW TO BEATTRACTIVE • EYE CONTACT • FACIAL EXPRESSION • HEAD MOVEMENTS • GESTURES • POSTURES • PROXIMITY • BODY CONTACT • APPEARANCE AND PHYSIQUE • TIMING AND SYNCHRONIZATION