A book of interest to all readers because of the great variety that covers every interest of the mind and heart.

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1. James Moore writes, "A friend told a wonderful story....Several years ago, a1. James Moore writes, "A friend told a wonderful story....Several years ago, a1. James Moore writes, "A friend told a wonderful story....Several years ago, a1. James Moore writes, "A friend told a wonderful story....Several years ago, a
teacher assigned to tutor children in a large city hospital was asked to help a youngteacher assigned to tutor children in a large city hospital was asked to help a youngteacher assigned to tutor children in a large city hospital was asked to help a youngteacher assigned to tutor children in a large city hospital was asked to help a young
boy who had been seriously burned in an accident. The boys regular teacher toldboy who had been seriously burned in an accident. The boys regular teacher toldboy who had been seriously burned in an accident. The boys regular teacher toldboy who had been seriously burned in an accident. The boys regular teacher told
the tutor that the class was studying irregular verbs and dangling pariciples; she wasthe tutor that the class was studying irregular verbs and dangling pariciples; she wasthe tutor that the class was studying irregular verbs and dangling pariciples; she wasthe tutor that the class was studying irregular verbs and dangling pariciples; she was
concerned that without help during his extended hospital stay, the boy might fall tooconcerned that without help during his extended hospital stay, the boy might fall tooconcerned that without help during his extended hospital stay, the boy might fall tooconcerned that without help during his extended hospital stay, the boy might fall too
far behind.far behind.far behind.far behind.
When the visiting teacher went to see the youngster, she was horrified toWhen the visiting teacher went to see the youngster, she was horrified toWhen the visiting teacher went to see the youngster, she was horrified toWhen the visiting teacher went to see the youngster, she was horrified to
discover that he was in the critical care unit. He had burned so badly all over hisdiscover that he was in the critical care unit. He had burned so badly all over hisdiscover that he was in the critical care unit. He had burned so badly all over hisdiscover that he was in the critical care unit. He had burned so badly all over his
body that he could barely talk. She tried her best to work with him on irregularbody that he could barely talk. She tried her best to work with him on irregularbody that he could barely talk. She tried her best to work with him on irregularbody that he could barely talk. She tried her best to work with him on irregular
verbs and dangling pariciples, but when she left, she honestly didn't know whetherverbs and dangling pariciples, but when she left, she honestly didn't know whetherverbs and dangling pariciples, but when she left, she honestly didn't know whetherverbs and dangling pariciples, but when she left, she honestly didn't know whether
she had helped him.she had helped him.she had helped him.she had helped him.
However, when the tutor returned the next day the head nurse was all smiles:However, when the tutor returned the next day the head nurse was all smiles:However, when the tutor returned the next day the head nurse was all smiles:However, when the tutor returned the next day the head nurse was all smiles:
"You worked a miracle yesterday! We have been so worried about that boy. He had"You worked a miracle yesterday! We have been so worried about that boy. He had"You worked a miracle yesterday! We have been so worried about that boy. He had"You worked a miracle yesterday! We have been so worried about that boy. He had
been so depressed and unresponsive. He had given up. He was just lying there,been so depressed and unresponsive. He had given up. He was just lying there,been so depressed and unresponsive. He had given up. He was just lying there,been so depressed and unresponsive. He had given up. He was just lying there,
waiting to die. But after you came, his attitude changed. He is talking. He iswaiting to die. But after you came, his attitude changed. He is talking. He iswaiting to die. But after you came, his attitude changed. He is talking. He iswaiting to die. But after you came, his attitude changed. He is talking. He is
working with us. He is fighting back, and he's beginning to respond to treatment.working with us. He is fighting back, and he's beginning to respond to treatment.working with us. He is fighting back, and he's beginning to respond to treatment.working with us. He is fighting back, and he's beginning to respond to treatment.
And now we believe he's going to make it!" The teacher was pleased, butAnd now we believe he's going to make it!" The teacher was pleased, butAnd now we believe he's going to make it!" The teacher was pleased, butAnd now we believe he's going to make it!" The teacher was pleased, but
dumbfounded. She had no idea what she had done to cause such a change.dumbfounded. She had no idea what she had done to cause such a change.dumbfounded. She had no idea what she had done to cause such a change.dumbfounded. She had no idea what she had done to cause such a change.
After the boy was released from the hospital. He explained why the teachersAfter the boy was released from the hospital. He explained why the teachersAfter the boy was released from the hospital. He explained why the teachersAfter the boy was released from the hospital. He explained why the teachers
visit had made such a difference. A simple realization had come to him that nightvisit had made such a difference. A simple realization had come to him that nightvisit had made such a difference. A simple realization had come to him that nightvisit had made such a difference. A simple realization had come to him that night
after the teacher had left.after the teacher had left.after the teacher had left.after the teacher had left.
He said, "They told me I would live, but I didn't believe them. I thought theyHe said, "They told me I would live, but I didn't believe them. I thought theyHe said, "They told me I would live, but I didn't believe them. I thought theyHe said, "They told me I would live, but I didn't believe them. I thought they
were just saying that. But when that teacher came, it made all the difference. Iwere just saying that. But when that teacher came, it made all the difference. Iwere just saying that. But when that teacher came, it made all the difference. Iwere just saying that. But when that teacher came, it made all the difference. I
realized they wouldn't send a teacher to work with a dying boy on irregular verbsrealized they wouldn't send a teacher to work with a dying boy on irregular verbsrealized they wouldn't send a teacher to work with a dying boy on irregular verbsrealized they wouldn't send a teacher to work with a dying boy on irregular verbs
and dangling pariciples.and dangling pariciples.and dangling pariciples.and dangling pariciples.
They told him he would live, but he wasnt' convinced. The action of thatThey told him he would live, but he wasnt' convinced. The action of thatThey told him he would live, but he wasnt' convinced. The action of thatThey told him he would live, but he wasnt' convinced. The action of that
teacher, coming to him with his homework, made all the difference! Actions speakteacher, coming to him with his homework, made all the difference! Actions speakteacher, coming to him with his homework, made all the difference! Actions speakteacher, coming to him with his homework, made all the difference! Actions speak
louder than words! Actions are more compelling, more contagious, and morelouder than words! Actions are more compelling, more contagious, and morelouder than words! Actions are more compelling, more contagious, and morelouder than words! Actions are more compelling, more contagious, and more

2. convconvconvconvincing.incing.incing.incing.
2. Ernest F. Scott wrote, "He has to be classified, if this is thought necessary, not2. Ernest F. Scott wrote, "He has to be classified, if this is thought necessary, not2. Ernest F. Scott wrote, "He has to be classified, if this is thought necessary, not2. Ernest F. Scott wrote, "He has to be classified, if this is thought necessary, not
with the great thinkers bu t with the men of action. It was not ideas that he gavewith the great thinkers bu t with the men of action. It was not ideas that he gavewith the great thinkers bu t with the men of action. It was not ideas that he gavewith the great thinkers bu t with the men of action. It was not ideas that he gave
us but deeds of his own, in the strength of which we can do others like them.us but deeds of his own, in the strength of which we can do others like them.us but deeds of his own, in the strength of which we can do others like them.us but deeds of his own, in the strength of which we can do others like them.
Everywhere in his teaching he lays all the stress on action, and he regards hisEverywhere in his teaching he lays all the stress on action, and he regards hisEverywhere in his teaching he lays all the stress on action, and he regards hisEverywhere in his teaching he lays all the stress on action, and he regards his
words as only the means to action. Among those who listened to him there werewords as only the means to action. Among those who listened to him there werewords as only the means to action. Among those who listened to him there werewords as only the means to action. Among those who listened to him there were
many who admiredhis ideas and declared that no other man spoke like him, but formany who admiredhis ideas and declared that no other man spoke like him, but formany who admiredhis ideas and declared that no other man spoke like him, but formany who admiredhis ideas and declared that no other man spoke like him, but for
tributes of this kind he cared nothing. "He who heareth my words and doeth themtributes of this kind he cared nothing. "He who heareth my words and doeth themtributes of this kind he cared nothing. "He who heareth my words and doeth themtributes of this kind he cared nothing. "He who heareth my words and doeth them
not is like a man who built his house upon the sand." The ideas were nothingnot is like a man who built his house upon the sand." The ideas were nothingnot is like a man who built his house upon the sand." The ideas were nothingnot is like a man who built his house upon the sand." The ideas were nothing
unless they took the form of acts.unless they took the form of acts.unless they took the form of acts.unless they took the form of acts.
And the lecture you deliver may be very wise and true,And the lecture you deliver may be very wise and true,And the lecture you deliver may be very wise and true,And the lecture you deliver may be very wise and true,
But I'd rather get my lessons by observingwhat you do;But I'd rather get my lessons by observingwhat you do;But I'd rather get my lessons by observingwhat you do;But I'd rather get my lessons by observingwhat you do;
For I might misunderstand you and the high advice you give,For I might misunderstand you and the high advice you give,For I might misunderstand you and the high advice you give,For I might misunderstand you and the high advice you give,
But there's no misunderstanding how you act and how you live.But there's no misunderstanding how you act and how you live.But there's no misunderstanding how you act and how you live.But there's no misunderstanding how you act and how you live.
One good man teaches man, men beleive what they behold;One good man teaches man, men beleive what they behold;One good man teaches man, men beleive what they behold;One good man teaches man, men beleive what they behold;
One deed of kindness noticed is worth forty that are told.One deed of kindness noticed is worth forty that are told.One deed of kindness noticed is worth forty that are told.One deed of kindness noticed is worth forty that are told.
Who stand with men of honor learns to hole his honor dear,Who stand with men of honor learns to hole his honor dear,Who stand with men of honor learns to hole his honor dear,Who stand with men of honor learns to hole his honor dear,
For right living speaks a language which to everyone is clear.For right living speaks a language which to everyone is clear.For right living speaks a language which to everyone is clear.For right living speaks a language which to everyone is clear.
Though an able speaker charms me with his elequence I say,Though an able speaker charms me with his elequence I say,Though an able speaker charms me with his elequence I say,Though an able speaker charms me with his elequence I say,
I'd rather see a sermon than to hear one, any day.I'd rather see a sermon than to hear one, any day.I'd rather see a sermon than to hear one, any day.I'd rather see a sermon than to hear one, any day.
3. Some action is better than others, and some is just stupid.3. Some action is better than others, and some is just stupid.3. Some action is better than others, and some is just stupid.3. Some action is better than others, and some is just stupid.
Several years ago, I heard the story of Larry Walters, a 33-year-old man whoSeveral years ago, I heard the story of Larry Walters, a 33-year-old man whoSeveral years ago, I heard the story of Larry Walters, a 33-year-old man whoSeveral years ago, I heard the story of Larry Walters, a 33-year-old man who
decided he wanted to see his neighborhood from a new perspective. He went down todecided he wanted to see his neighborhood from a new perspective. He went down todecided he wanted to see his neighborhood from a new perspective. He went down todecided he wanted to see his neighborhood from a new perspective. He went down to
the local army surplus store one morning and bought forty-five used weatherthe local army surplus store one morning and bought forty-five used weatherthe local army surplus store one morning and bought forty-five used weatherthe local army surplus store one morning and bought forty-five used weather
balloons. That afternoon he strapped himself into a lawn chair, to which several of hisballoons. That afternoon he strapped himself into a lawn chair, to which several of hisballoons. That afternoon he strapped himself into a lawn chair, to which several of hisballoons. That afternoon he strapped himself into a lawn chair, to which several of his
friends tied the now helium-filled balloons. He took along a six-pack of beer, afriends tied the now helium-filled balloons. He took along a six-pack of beer, afriends tied the now helium-filled balloons. He took along a six-pack of beer, afriends tied the now helium-filled balloons. He took along a six-pack of beer, a
peanut-butter-and-jelly sandwich, and a BB gun, figuring he could shoot thepeanut-butter-and-jelly sandwich, and a BB gun, figuring he could shoot thepeanut-butter-and-jelly sandwich, and a BB gun, figuring he could shoot thepeanut-butter-and-jelly sandwich, and a BB gun, figuring he could shoot the
balloons one at a time when he was ready to land.balloons one at a time when he was ready to land.balloons one at a time when he was ready to land.balloons one at a time when he was ready to land.
Walters, who assumed the balloons would lift him about 100 feet in the air, wasWalters, who assumed the balloons would lift him about 100 feet in the air, wasWalters, who assumed the balloons would lift him about 100 feet in the air, wasWalters, who assumed the balloons would lift him about 100 feet in the air, was
caught off guard when the chair soared more than 11,000 feet into the sky -- smackcaught off guard when the chair soared more than 11,000 feet into the sky -- smackcaught off guard when the chair soared more than 11,000 feet into the sky -- smackcaught off guard when the chair soared more than 11,000 feet into the sky -- smack
into the middle of the air traffic pattern at Los Angeles International Airport. Toointo the middle of the air traffic pattern at Los Angeles International Airport. Toointo the middle of the air traffic pattern at Los Angeles International Airport. Toointo the middle of the air traffic pattern at Los Angeles International Airport. Too
frightened to shoot any of the balloons, he stayed airborne for more than two hours,frightened to shoot any of the balloons, he stayed airborne for more than two hours,frightened to shoot any of the balloons, he stayed airborne for more than two hours,frightened to shoot any of the balloons, he stayed airborne for more than two hours,
forcing the airport to shut down its runways for much of the afternoon, causing longforcing the airport to shut down its runways for much of the afternoon, causing longforcing the airport to shut down its runways for much of the afternoon, causing longforcing the airport to shut down its runways for much of the afternoon, causing long
delays in flights from across the country.delays in flights from across the country.delays in flights from across the country.delays in flights from across the country.
Soon after he was safely grounded and cited by the police, reporters asked him threeSoon after he was safely grounded and cited by the police, reporters asked him threeSoon after he was safely grounded and cited by the police, reporters asked him threeSoon after he was safely grounded and cited by the police, reporters asked him three
questions:questions:questions:questions:
"Where you scared?" "Yes.""Where you scared?" "Yes.""Where you scared?" "Yes.""Where you scared?" "Yes."

3. "Would you do it again?" "No.""Would you do it again?" "No.""Would you do it again?" "No.""Would you do it again?" "No."
"Why did you do it?" "Because," he said, "you can't just sit there." Leadership,"Why did you do it?" "Because," he said, "you can't just sit there." Leadership,"Why did you do it?" "Because," he said, "you can't just sit there." Leadership,"Why did you do it?" "Because," he said, "you can't just sit there." Leadership,
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3. Ernest F. Scott wrote, "He has to be classified, if this is thought necessary, not3. Ernest F. Scott wrote, "He has to be classified, if this is thought necessary, not3. Ernest F. Scott wrote, "He has to be classified, if this is thought necessary, not3. Ernest F. Scott wrote, "He has to be classified, if this is thought necessary, not
with the great thinkers bu t with the men of action. It was not ideas that he gavewith the great thinkers bu t with the men of action. It was not ideas that he gavewith the great thinkers bu t with the men of action. It was not ideas that he gavewith the great thinkers bu t with the men of action. It was not ideas that he gave
us but deeds of his own, in the strength of which we can do others like them.us but deeds of his own, in the strength of which we can do others like them.us but deeds of his own, in the strength of which we can do others like them.us but deeds of his own, in the strength of which we can do others like them.
Everywhere in his teaching he lays all the stress on action, and he regards hisEverywhere in his teaching he lays all the stress on action, and he regards hisEverywhere in his teaching he lays all the stress on action, and he regards hisEverywhere in his teaching he lays all the stress on action, and he regards his
words as only the means to action. Among those who listened to him there werewords as only the means to action. Among those who listened to him there werewords as only the means to action. Among those who listened to him there werewords as only the means to action. Among those who listened to him there were
many who admiredhis ideas and declared that no other man spoke like him, but formany who admiredhis ideas and declared that no other man spoke like him, but formany who admiredhis ideas and declared that no other man spoke like him, but formany who admiredhis ideas and declared that no other man spoke like him, but for
tributes of this kind he cared nothing. "He who heareth my words and doeth themtributes of this kind he cared nothing. "He who heareth my words and doeth themtributes of this kind he cared nothing. "He who heareth my words and doeth themtributes of this kind he cared nothing. "He who heareth my words and doeth them
not is like a man who built his house upon the sand." The ideas were nothingnot is like a man who built his house upon the sand." The ideas were nothingnot is like a man who built his house upon the sand." The ideas were nothingnot is like a man who built his house upon the sand." The ideas were nothing
unless they took the form of acts. e presented his message most often by meansunless they took the form of acts. e presented his message most often by meansunless they took the form of acts. e presented his message most often by meansunless they took the form of acts. e presented his message most often by means
of htings he did, only adding his words in order to point their significance. It is oftenof htings he did, only adding his words in order to point their significance. It is oftenof htings he did, only adding his words in order to point their significance. It is oftenof htings he did, only adding his words in order to point their significance. It is often
objected to the Gospels that they give so much attention to the miracles, which toobjected to the Gospels that they give so much attention to the miracles, which toobjected to the Gospels that they give so much attention to the miracles, which toobjected to the Gospels that they give so much attention to the miracles, which to
our minds, however we regard them, are only indidental to the real message. Weour minds, however we regard them, are only indidental to the real message. Weour minds, however we regard them, are only indidental to the real message. Weour minds, however we regard them, are only indidental to the real message. We
would gladly exchange most of those miracle stoires for a few more of the immortalwould gladly exchange most of those miracle stoires for a few more of the immortalwould gladly exchange most of those miracle stoires for a few more of the immortalwould gladly exchange most of those miracle stoires for a few more of the immortal
sayings which take us into the mind of Jesus and disclose how he thought of Godsayings which take us into the mind of Jesus and disclose how he thought of Godsayings which take us into the mind of Jesus and disclose how he thought of Godsayings which take us into the mind of Jesus and disclose how he thought of God
and of the mysteries of life and death. But in recounting the miracles theand of the mysteries of life and death. But in recounting the miracles theand of the mysteries of life and death. But in recounting the miracles theand of the mysteries of life and death. But in recounting the miracles the
evangelists are guided by a true instinct. They realise that the ministry of Jesusevangelists are guided by a true instinct. They realise that the ministry of Jesusevangelists are guided by a true instinct. They realise that the ministry of Jesusevangelists are guided by a true instinct. They realise that the ministry of Jesus
was essentially one of action. His teaching all depends on thigns he did, and mustwas essentially one of action. His teaching all depends on thigns he did, and mustwas essentially one of action. His teaching all depends on thigns he did, and mustwas essentially one of action. His teaching all depends on thigns he did, and must
be so regarded before we can understand it. He had come not merely to instructbe so regarded before we can understand it. He had come not merely to instructbe so regarded before we can understand it. He had come not merely to instructbe so regarded before we can understand it. He had come not merely to instruct
but actually to do something which make the world different.but actually to do something which make the world different.but actually to do something which make the world different.but actually to do something which make the world different.
It has always been remarked as very strange that so little is said in the laterIt has always been remarked as very strange that so little is said in the laterIt has always been remarked as very strange that so little is said in the laterIt has always been remarked as very strange that so little is said in the later
New Testament books about the teaching of Jesus. All the counsels offered inNew Testament books about the teaching of Jesus. All the counsels offered inNew Testament books about the teaching of Jesus. All the counsels offered inNew Testament books about the teaching of Jesus. All the counsels offered in
these books are based on that teaching, and in several places Paul refers directlythese books are based on that teaching, and in several places Paul refers directlythese books are based on that teaching, and in several places Paul refers directlythese books are based on that teaching, and in several places Paul refers directly
to sayings of the Lord, showing that he had knowledge of them. Yet hte emphasis into sayings of the Lord, showing that he had knowledge of them. Yet hte emphasis into sayings of the Lord, showing that he had knowledge of them. Yet hte emphasis into sayings of the Lord, showing that he had knowledge of them. Yet hte emphasis in
Paul's writings and in all the others is on the redeeming work which Christ had done,Paul's writings and in all the others is on the redeeming work which Christ had done,Paul's writings and in all the others is on the redeeming work which Christ had done,Paul's writings and in all the others is on the redeeming work which Christ had done,
and hwat he taught seems almost to be forgotten. From this, it has been inferredand hwat he taught seems almost to be forgotten. From this, it has been inferredand hwat he taught seems almost to be forgotten. From this, it has been inferredand hwat he taught seems almost to be forgotten. From this, it has been inferred
that the whole character of Jesus' religion had somehow changed. He had appearedthat the whole character of Jesus' religion had somehow changed. He had appearedthat the whole character of Jesus' religion had somehow changed. He had appearedthat the whole character of Jesus' religion had somehow changed. He had appeared
as a teacher but had been transformed into the maker of a new life, and so to thinkas a teacher but had been transformed into the maker of a new life, and so to thinkas a teacher but had been transformed into the maker of a new life, and so to thinkas a teacher but had been transformed into the maker of a new life, and so to think
of him had become the essence of Christian faith. But the New Testament writersof him had become the essence of Christian faith. But the New Testament writersof him had become the essence of Christian faith. But the New Testament writersof him had become the essence of Christian faith. But the New Testament writers
have truly understood the purpose of Jesus. His mind was set on effecting a greathave truly understood the purpose of Jesus. His mind was set on effecting a greathave truly understood the purpose of Jesus. His mind was set on effecting a greathave truly understood the purpose of Jesus. His mind was set on effecting a great
work to which God had appointed him. His teaching was only a part of his work, justwork to which God had appointed him. His teaching was only a part of his work, justwork to which God had appointed him. His teaching was only a part of his work, justwork to which God had appointed him. His teaching was only a part of his work, just
as laying a foundation is part of the erection of a great building. The church in theas laying a foundation is part of the erection of a great building. The church in theas laying a foundation is part of the erection of a great building. The church in theas laying a foundation is part of the erection of a great building. The church in the
later time looked only at the building as it now sttod complete.later time looked only at the building as it now sttod complete.later time looked only at the building as it now sttod complete.later time looked only at the building as it now sttod complete.
4. Willard L. Sperry wrote, "Coleridge does not leave us without suggestive help.4. Willard L. Sperry wrote, "Coleridge does not leave us without suggestive help.4. Willard L. Sperry wrote, "Coleridge does not leave us without suggestive help.4. Willard L. Sperry wrote, "Coleridge does not leave us without suggestive help.
There is one sure way of giving freshness and importance to the most commonplaceThere is one sure way of giving freshness and importance to the most commonplaceThere is one sure way of giving freshness and importance to the most commonplaceThere is one sure way of giving freshness and importance to the most commonplace
mazims--that of reflecting on them in direct reference to our own state amazims--that of reflecting on them in direct reference to our own state amazims--that of reflecting on them in direct reference to our own state amazims--that of reflecting on them in direct reference to our own state a

4. commonplace truth to its uncommon lustre, you need only translate it into action."commonplace truth to its uncommon lustre, you need only translate it into action."commonplace truth to its uncommon lustre, you need only translate it into action."commonplace truth to its uncommon lustre, you need only translate it into action."
It is here that we begin to understand the meaning of the originality of JesusIt is here that we begin to understand the meaning of the originality of JesusIt is here that we begin to understand the meaning of the originality of JesusIt is here that we begin to understand the meaning of the originality of Jesus
and its suggestions for our own time. Schweitzer says that in those days mostand its suggestions for our own time. Schweitzer says that in those days mostand its suggestions for our own time. Schweitzer says that in those days mostand its suggestions for our own time. Schweitzer says that in those days most
Jews, like the aged Simeon in the temple, were mrely"waiting for th econslation ofJews, like the aged Simeon in the temple, were mrely"waiting for th econslation ofJews, like the aged Simeon in the temple, were mrely"waiting for th econslation ofJews, like the aged Simeon in the temple, were mrely"waiting for th econslation of
Israel," but that Jesus "laid hold of the wheel of the world to set it moving." HeIsrael," but that Jesus "laid hold of the wheel of the world to set it moving." HeIsrael," but that Jesus "laid hold of the wheel of the world to set it moving." HeIsrael," but that Jesus "laid hold of the wheel of the world to set it moving." He
restored its first uncommon lustre to the Messianic hope of Israel by translating itrestored its first uncommon lustre to the Messianic hope of Israel by translating itrestored its first uncommon lustre to the Messianic hope of Israel by translating itrestored its first uncommon lustre to the Messianic hope of Israel by translating it
into action."into action."into action."into action."
5. I'd rather see a sermon than hear one any day;5. I'd rather see a sermon than hear one any day;5. I'd rather see a sermon than hear one any day;5. I'd rather see a sermon than hear one any day;
I'd rather one should walk with me than merely tell the way.I'd rather one should walk with me than merely tell the way.I'd rather one should walk with me than merely tell the way.I'd rather one should walk with me than merely tell the way.
The eye's a better pupil and more willing than the ear;The eye's a better pupil and more willing than the ear;The eye's a better pupil and more willing than the ear;The eye's a better pupil and more willing than the ear;
Fine counsel is confusing, but example's always clear;Fine counsel is confusing, but example's always clear;Fine counsel is confusing, but example's always clear;Fine counsel is confusing, but example's always clear;
And the best of all the preachers are the men wholive their creeds,And the best of all the preachers are the men wholive their creeds,And the best of all the preachers are the men wholive their creeds,And the best of all the preachers are the men wholive their creeds,
For to see good put in action is what everybody needs.For to see good put in action is what everybody needs.For to see good put in action is what everybody needs.For to see good put in action is what everybody needs.
6. There are two ways to get to the top of an oak tree. You6. There are two ways to get to the top of an oak tree. You6. There are two ways to get to the top of an oak tree. You6. There are two ways to get to the top of an oak tree. You
can climb it or you can sit on an acorn and wait. We need tocan climb it or you can sit on an acorn and wait. We need tocan climb it or you can sit on an acorn and wait. We need tocan climb it or you can sit on an acorn and wait. We need to
actively live the Christian life and not passively sit on ouractively live the Christian life and not passively sit on ouractively live the Christian life and not passively sit on ouractively live the Christian life and not passively sit on our
platitudes.platitudes.platitudes.platitudes.
- Zig Ziglar- Zig Ziglar- Zig Ziglar- Zig Ziglar
7.7.7.7.
ACTS 26:28ACTS 26:28ACTS 26:28ACTS 26:28
Have you ever watched a game where your team was coming from behind andHave you ever watched a game where your team was coming from behind andHave you ever watched a game where your team was coming from behind andHave you ever watched a game where your team was coming from behind and
almost won, but the game ended too soon? Have you seen a runner come up to thealmost won, but the game ended too soon? Have you seen a runner come up to thealmost won, but the game ended too soon? Have you seen a runner come up to thealmost won, but the game ended too soon? Have you seen a runner come up to the
finish line and almost win but another runner just made it a fraction of a secondfinish line and almost win but another runner just made it a fraction of a secondfinish line and almost win but another runner just made it a fraction of a secondfinish line and almost win but another runner just made it a fraction of a second
sooner? Have you ever got a paper back where some of the answers were only onesooner? Have you ever got a paper back where some of the answers were only onesooner? Have you ever got a paper back where some of the answers were only onesooner? Have you ever got a paper back where some of the answers were only one
number off? It was 37, when 38 was right. You almost got it, but it is just as wrongnumber off? It was 37, when 38 was right. You almost got it, but it is just as wrongnumber off? It was 37, when 38 was right. You almost got it, but it is just as wrongnumber off? It was 37, when 38 was right. You almost got it, but it is just as wrong
as the one who got 34 or 20, for as the saying goes, a miss is as good as a mile. Inas the one who got 34 or 20, for as the saying goes, a miss is as good as a mile. Inas the one who got 34 or 20, for as the saying goes, a miss is as good as a mile. Inas the one who got 34 or 20, for as the saying goes, a miss is as good as a mile. In
other words, if you are shooting at a deer, and you only miss by an inch, you don'tother words, if you are shooting at a deer, and you only miss by an inch, you don'tother words, if you are shooting at a deer, and you only miss by an inch, you don'tother words, if you are shooting at a deer, and you only miss by an inch, you don't
have anymore meat to take home than the shooter who missed by a mile. The wholehave anymore meat to take home than the shooter who missed by a mile. The wholehave anymore meat to take home than the shooter who missed by a mile. The wholehave anymore meat to take home than the shooter who missed by a mile. The whole
point is, almost is not good enough in most areas of life. Jesus said in John 17:4, "Ipoint is, almost is not good enough in most areas of life. Jesus said in John 17:4, "Ipoint is, almost is not good enough in most areas of life. Jesus said in John 17:4, "Ipoint is, almost is not good enough in most areas of life. Jesus said in John 17:4, "I
have finished the work which you gave me to do." So often we say, I almost finished,have finished the work which you gave me to do." So often we say, I almost finished,have finished the work which you gave me to do." So often we say, I almost finished,have finished the work which you gave me to do." So often we say, I almost finished,
but that's not good enough. What is the bridge builder said the bridge is almostbut that's not good enough. What is the bridge builder said the bridge is almostbut that's not good enough. What is the bridge builder said the bridge is almostbut that's not good enough. What is the bridge builder said the bridge is almost
done, and let people drive over it and their car went off into the river because onedone, and let people drive over it and their car went off into the river because onedone, and let people drive over it and their car went off into the river because onedone, and let people drive over it and their car went off into the river because one
end was not yet finished. Do you think people would be satisfied that it was almostend was not yet finished. Do you think people would be satisfied that it was almostend was not yet finished. Do you think people would be satisfied that it was almostend was not yet finished. Do you think people would be satisfied that it was almost
done? Do you like chicken that has slimmy parts because it is only almost done?done? Do you like chicken that has slimmy parts because it is only almost done?done? Do you like chicken that has slimmy parts because it is only almost done?done? Do you like chicken that has slimmy parts because it is only almost done?
Most people don't like things almost done-they like finished things. Paul said, not, IMost people don't like things almost done-they like finished things. Paul said, not, IMost people don't like things almost done-they like finished things. Paul said, not, IMost people don't like things almost done-they like finished things. Paul said, not, I
almost finished the race, but he said in II Tim. 4:7, "I have fought a good fight, Ialmost finished the race, but he said in II Tim. 4:7, "I have fought a good fight, Ialmost finished the race, but he said in II Tim. 4:7, "I have fought a good fight, Ialmost finished the race, but he said in II Tim. 4:7, "I have fought a good fight, I
have finished my course, I have kept the faith."have finished my course, I have kept the faith."have finished my course, I have kept the faith."have finished my course, I have kept the faith."
ADAMADAMADAMADAM

5. 1.Another classroom story involving early American history comes from a Sunday1.Another classroom story involving early American history comes from a Sunday1.Another classroom story involving early American history comes from a Sunday1.Another classroom story involving early American history comes from a Sunday
School teacher who asked who the first man was. A class member answered, "GeorgeSchool teacher who asked who the first man was. A class member answered, "GeorgeSchool teacher who asked who the first man was. A class member answered, "GeorgeSchool teacher who asked who the first man was. A class member answered, "George
Washington." When the teacher informed the student that Adam was the first man,Washington." When the teacher informed the student that Adam was the first man,Washington." When the teacher informed the student that Adam was the first man,Washington." When the teacher informed the student that Adam was the first man,
not George Washington, youngster responded, "Oh, well, if you are speaking ofnot George Washington, youngster responded, "Oh, well, if you are speaking ofnot George Washington, youngster responded, "Oh, well, if you are speaking ofnot George Washington, youngster responded, "Oh, well, if you are speaking of
foreigners, maybe he was." - So much for American History ...foreigners, maybe he was." - So much for American History ...foreigners, maybe he was." - So much for American History ...foreigners, maybe he was." - So much for American History ...
ADMONITIONADMONITIONADMONITIONADMONITION
1. He was graduated from the finest four-star Christian college. The product of a1. He was graduated from the finest four-star Christian college. The product of a1. He was graduated from the finest four-star Christian college. The product of a1. He was graduated from the finest four-star Christian college. The product of a
distinguished evangelical church, he had a good personal grasp of the Scriptures.distinguished evangelical church, he had a good personal grasp of the Scriptures.distinguished evangelical church, he had a good personal grasp of the Scriptures.distinguished evangelical church, he had a good personal grasp of the Scriptures.
From a strong Christian family, he was a personable and handsome green shoot --From a strong Christian family, he was a personable and handsome green shoot --From a strong Christian family, he was a personable and handsome green shoot --From a strong Christian family, he was a personable and handsome green shoot --
the whole nine yards!the whole nine yards!the whole nine yards!the whole nine yards!
Like many in his league, however, he was riding rather than building on hisLike many in his league, however, he was riding rather than building on hisLike many in his league, however, he was riding rather than building on hisLike many in his league, however, he was riding rather than building on his
background. At seminary he was acceptable, certainly not outstanding. He sufferedbackground. At seminary he was acceptable, certainly not outstanding. He sufferedbackground. At seminary he was acceptable, certainly not outstanding. He sufferedbackground. At seminary he was acceptable, certainly not outstanding. He suffered
from a severe case of the blahs, turning in papers that would make better kindlingfrom a severe case of the blahs, turning in papers that would make better kindlingfrom a severe case of the blahs, turning in papers that would make better kindlingfrom a severe case of the blahs, turning in papers that would make better kindling
than academic projects. He generally frittered away his time.than academic projects. He generally frittered away his time.than academic projects. He generally frittered away his time.than academic projects. He generally frittered away his time.
Toward the end of his four-year tour of divine duty, I had developed an excellentToward the end of his four-year tour of divine duty, I had developed an excellentToward the end of his four-year tour of divine duty, I had developed an excellentToward the end of his four-year tour of divine duty, I had developed an excellent
personal relationship and I called him into my office.personal relationship and I called him into my office.personal relationship and I called him into my office.personal relationship and I called him into my office.
"Bill, I'm disappointed in you.""Bill, I'm disappointed in you.""Bill, I'm disappointed in you.""Bill, I'm disappointed in you."
"Really, Prof, why?" His eyed widened and blinked."Really, Prof, why?" His eyed widened and blinked."Really, Prof, why?" His eyed widened and blinked."Really, Prof, why?" His eyed widened and blinked.
"Well, I could be wrong but my evaluation of you is this: you are a ten-cylinder man"Well, I could be wrong but my evaluation of you is this: you are a ten-cylinder man"Well, I could be wrong but my evaluation of you is this: you are a ten-cylinder man"Well, I could be wrong but my evaluation of you is this: you are a ten-cylinder man
operating on about three, and comparing yourself with others who have only two."operating on about three, and comparing yourself with others who have only two."operating on about three, and comparing yourself with others who have only two."operating on about three, and comparing yourself with others who have only two."
The atmosphere electrified. He flushed, stifled internal anger, and left. Apparently heThe atmosphere electrified. He flushed, stifled internal anger, and left. Apparently heThe atmosphere electrified. He flushed, stifled internal anger, and left. Apparently heThe atmosphere electrified. He flushed, stifled internal anger, and left. Apparently he
felt he had been misunderstood and our friendship bond weakened. Upon reflectionfelt he had been misunderstood and our friendship bond weakened. Upon reflectionfelt he had been misunderstood and our friendship bond weakened. Upon reflectionfelt he had been misunderstood and our friendship bond weakened. Upon reflection
he cooled to thinking temperature. "Maybe Prof is right. Could it be that he's thehe cooled to thinking temperature. "Maybe Prof is right. Could it be that he's thehe cooled to thinking temperature. "Maybe Prof is right. Could it be that he's thehe cooled to thinking temperature. "Maybe Prof is right. Could it be that he's the
only man who loves me enough to tell it like it is? He blew my cover."only man who loves me enough to tell it like it is? He blew my cover."only man who loves me enough to tell it like it is? He blew my cover."only man who loves me enough to tell it like it is? He blew my cover."
In time our rapport was mended. Bill went on to become a military chaplain, servingIn time our rapport was mended. Bill went on to become a military chaplain, servingIn time our rapport was mended. Bill went on to become a military chaplain, servingIn time our rapport was mended. Bill went on to become a military chaplain, serving
with distinction and impact. One of the cherished letters in my file is from Bill,with distinction and impact. One of the cherished letters in my file is from Bill,with distinction and impact. One of the cherished letters in my file is from Bill,with distinction and impact. One of the cherished letters in my file is from Bill,
thanking me for caring enough to face him with my convictions. Counsellors canthanking me for caring enough to face him with my convictions. Counsellors canthanking me for caring enough to face him with my convictions. Counsellors canthanking me for caring enough to face him with my convictions. Counsellors can
often be cowards, not caring enough to confront. Probably the reason I was sensitiveoften be cowards, not caring enough to confront. Probably the reason I was sensitiveoften be cowards, not caring enough to confront. Probably the reason I was sensitiveoften be cowards, not caring enough to confront. Probably the reason I was sensitive
to Bill's problem is that I had walked the same street some years before.to Bill's problem is that I had walked the same street some years before.to Bill's problem is that I had walked the same street some years before.to Bill's problem is that I had walked the same street some years before.
Prior to graduation from Wheaton College, an administrator called me into his officePrior to graduation from Wheaton College, an administrator called me into his officePrior to graduation from Wheaton College, an administrator called me into his officePrior to graduation from Wheaton College, an administrator called me into his office
and "read me the riot act." Every time I opened by mouth he told me to keep it shut.and "read me the riot act." Every time I opened by mouth he told me to keep it shut.and "read me the riot act." Every time I opened by mouth he told me to keep it shut.and "read me the riot act." Every time I opened by mouth he told me to keep it shut.
I, too, stormed out of his office, hotter than a hornet, only to reflect that he wasI, too, stormed out of his office, hotter than a hornet, only to reflect that he wasI, too, stormed out of his office, hotter than a hornet, only to reflect that he wasI, too, stormed out of his office, hotter than a hornet, only to reflect that he was
really right. My conclusion: I finally met the first person in twenty-two years whoreally right. My conclusion: I finally met the first person in twenty-two years whoreally right. My conclusion: I finally met the first person in twenty-two years whoreally right. My conclusion: I finally met the first person in twenty-two years who
loved me enough to look me in the eye and challenge me with my greatest problemloved me enough to look me in the eye and challenge me with my greatest problemloved me enough to look me in the eye and challenge me with my greatest problemloved me enough to look me in the eye and challenge me with my greatest problem
-- an undisciplined tongue. In fact, in review I believe that flaw could have been fatal-- an undisciplined tongue. In fact, in review I believe that flaw could have been fatal-- an undisciplined tongue. In fact, in review I believe that flaw could have been fatal-- an undisciplined tongue. In fact, in review I believe that flaw could have been fatal
to my ministry. Another template had been furnished by the Spirit-controlled manto my ministry. Another template had been furnished by the Spirit-controlled manto my ministry. Another template had been furnished by the Spirit-controlled manto my ministry. Another template had been furnished by the Spirit-controlled man
who truly loved me, and who, like a good surgeon, was willing to hurt in order towho truly loved me, and who, like a good surgeon, was willing to hurt in order towho truly loved me, and who, like a good surgeon, was willing to hurt in order towho truly loved me, and who, like a good surgeon, was willing to hurt in order to
heal.heal.heal.heal.
Too often I have seen marriages go down the drain, relationships deteriorate to theToo often I have seen marriages go down the drain, relationships deteriorate to theToo often I have seen marriages go down the drain, relationships deteriorate to theToo often I have seen marriages go down the drain, relationships deteriorate to the
point of destruction, people with glaring personal limitation go unchecked -- allpoint of destruction, people with glaring personal limitation go unchecked -- allpoint of destruction, people with glaring personal limitation go unchecked -- allpoint of destruction, people with glaring personal limitation go unchecked -- all

6. because Christians who know precisely what is wrong will not love sufficiently tobecause Christians who know precisely what is wrong will not love sufficiently tobecause Christians who know precisely what is wrong will not love sufficiently tobecause Christians who know precisely what is wrong will not love sufficiently to
tackle the problem.tackle the problem.tackle the problem.tackle the problem.
"I was afraid I would hurt their future," is one lame excuse. But that is exactly what"I was afraid I would hurt their future," is one lame excuse. But that is exactly what"I was afraid I would hurt their future," is one lame excuse. But that is exactly what"I was afraid I would hurt their future," is one lame excuse. But that is exactly what
happens.happens.happens.happens.
My mind recalls the words of our Lord to Peter when he veered off course; it seems aMy mind recalls the words of our Lord to Peter when he veered off course; it seems aMy mind recalls the words of our Lord to Peter when he veered off course; it seems aMy mind recalls the words of our Lord to Peter when he veered off course; it seems a
harsh slash to the disciple who had a short time before confessed him as Lord. "Outharsh slash to the disciple who had a short time before confessed him as Lord. "Outharsh slash to the disciple who had a short time before confessed him as Lord. "Outharsh slash to the disciple who had a short time before confessed him as Lord. "Out
of my sight, Satan! You are a stumbling block to me; you do not have in mind theof my sight, Satan! You are a stumbling block to me; you do not have in mind theof my sight, Satan! You are a stumbling block to me; you do not have in mind theof my sight, Satan! You are a stumbling block to me; you do not have in mind the
things of God, but the things of men." (Matthew 16:23) These words came for thethings of God, but the things of men." (Matthew 16:23) These words came for thethings of God, but the things of men." (Matthew 16:23) These words came for thethings of God, but the things of men." (Matthew 16:23) These words came for the
lips of the One who loves with everlasting love.lips of the One who loves with everlasting love.lips of the One who loves with everlasting love.lips of the One who loves with everlasting love.
A former pastor told me about his experience of sinking into an illicit sexualA former pastor told me about his experience of sinking into an illicit sexualA former pastor told me about his experience of sinking into an illicit sexualA former pastor told me about his experience of sinking into an illicit sexual
relationship. He said he felt like an exhausted swimmer battling alone in the poundingrelationship. He said he felt like an exhausted swimmer battling alone in the poundingrelationship. He said he felt like an exhausted swimmer battling alone in the poundingrelationship. He said he felt like an exhausted swimmer battling alone in the pounding
surf, unable to escape the strong undertow, about to go down for the last time. Onsurf, unable to escape the strong undertow, about to go down for the last time. Onsurf, unable to escape the strong undertow, about to go down for the last time. Onsurf, unable to escape the strong undertow, about to go down for the last time. On
shore he could see all the people of his church. Some were shaking their heads inshore he could see all the people of his church. Some were shaking their heads inshore he could see all the people of his church. Some were shaking their heads inshore he could see all the people of his church. Some were shaking their heads in
weeping and despair; others were shouting and shaking their fists in anger andweeping and despair; others were shouting and shaking their fists in anger andweeping and despair; others were shouting and shaking their fists in anger andweeping and despair; others were shouting and shaking their fists in anger and
frustration. There were words of encouragement and gestures of good will. Therefrustration. There were words of encouragement and gestures of good will. Therefrustration. There were words of encouragement and gestures of good will. Therefrustration. There were words of encouragement and gestures of good will. There
they were, all lined up, watching and waiting for something to happen. Only one manthey were, all lined up, watching and waiting for something to happen. Only one manthey were, all lined up, watching and waiting for something to happen. Only one manthey were, all lined up, watching and waiting for something to happen. Only one man
stepped forward and risked everything to plunge into the water and help the victimstepped forward and risked everything to plunge into the water and help the victimstepped forward and risked everything to plunge into the water and help the victimstepped forward and risked everything to plunge into the water and help the victim
to safety.to safety.to safety.to safety.
Am I willing to be that man?Am I willing to be that man?Am I willing to be that man?Am I willing to be that man?
Footprints, Howard & Jeanne Hendricks, Multnomah Press, 1981 Page 40-42Footprints, Howard & Jeanne Hendricks, Multnomah Press, 1981 Page 40-42Footprints, Howard & Jeanne Hendricks, Multnomah Press, 1981 Page 40-42Footprints, Howard & Jeanne Hendricks, Multnomah Press, 1981 Page 40-42
ADOPTEDADOPTEDADOPTEDADOPTED
1. Teacher Debbie Moon's first graders were discussing a picture of a family. One1. Teacher Debbie Moon's first graders were discussing a picture of a family. One1. Teacher Debbie Moon's first graders were discussing a picture of a family. One1. Teacher Debbie Moon's first graders were discussing a picture of a family. One
little boy in the picture had a different color hair than the other family members. Onelittle boy in the picture had a different color hair than the other family members. Onelittle boy in the picture had a different color hair than the other family members. Onelittle boy in the picture had a different color hair than the other family members. One
child suggested that he was adopted and a little girl named Jocelynn Jay said, "Ichild suggested that he was adopted and a little girl named Jocelynn Jay said, "Ichild suggested that he was adopted and a little girl named Jocelynn Jay said, "Ichild suggested that he was adopted and a little girl named Jocelynn Jay said, "I
know all about adoptions because I was adopted." "What does it mean to beknow all about adoptions because I was adopted." "What does it mean to beknow all about adoptions because I was adopted." "What does it mean to beknow all about adoptions because I was adopted." "What does it mean to be
adopted?" asked another child. "It means," said Jocelynn, "that you grew in ouradopted?" asked another child. "It means," said Jocelynn, "that you grew in ouradopted?" asked another child. "It means," said Jocelynn, "that you grew in ouradopted?" asked another child. "It means," said Jocelynn, "that you grew in our
mommy's heart instead of her tummy."mommy's heart instead of her tummy."mommy's heart instead of her tummy."mommy's heart instead of her tummy."
ADULTERYADULTERYADULTERYADULTERY
1.1.1.1.Definition of an AffairDefinition of an AffairDefinition of an AffairDefinition of an Affair
Hilde Houlding, coordinator of the Calgary Family Service Bureau's counselingHilde Houlding, coordinator of the Calgary Family Service Bureau's counselingHilde Houlding, coordinator of the Calgary Family Service Bureau's counselingHilde Houlding, coordinator of the Calgary Family Service Bureau's counseling
division, describes an affair in this way:division, describes an affair in this way:division, describes an affair in this way:division, describes an affair in this way:
An affair is often an attempt to find a little bit ofAn affair is often an attempt to find a little bit ofAn affair is often an attempt to find a little bit ofAn affair is often an attempt to find a little bit of
paradise on the side, pursuing the belief that if oneparadise on the side, pursuing the belief that if oneparadise on the side, pursuing the belief that if oneparadise on the side, pursuing the belief that if one
just finds the right sexual partner there will be instantjust finds the right sexual partner there will be instantjust finds the right sexual partner there will be instantjust finds the right sexual partner there will be instant
happiness and everything will fall into place. An affair ishappiness and everything will fall into place. An affair ishappiness and everything will fall into place. An affair ishappiness and everything will fall into place. An affair is
often able to fulfill this myth until it itself becomes aoften able to fulfill this myth until it itself becomes aoften able to fulfill this myth until it itself becomes aoften able to fulfill this myth until it itself becomes a
relationship that has to be worked at and looked at in arelationship that has to be worked at and looked at in arelationship that has to be worked at and looked at in arelationship that has to be worked at and looked at in a

7. long-term light.long-term light.long-term light.long-term light.
Seen in this way "paradise" soon becomes a prison.Seen in this way "paradise" soon becomes a prison.Seen in this way "paradise" soon becomes a prison.Seen in this way "paradise" soon becomes a prison.
See: Prov 5:1-23; Prov 6:23-29See: Prov 5:1-23; Prov 6:23-29See: Prov 5:1-23; Prov 6:23-29See: Prov 5:1-23; Prov 6:23-29
2.2.2.2. Probably no story better illustrates how the sweet, stolen water of adultery turnsProbably no story better illustrates how the sweet, stolen water of adultery turnsProbably no story better illustrates how the sweet, stolen water of adultery turnsProbably no story better illustrates how the sweet, stolen water of adultery turns
invariably sour than the story of Camelot. In this epic tale, the relationship of Kinginvariably sour than the story of Camelot. In this epic tale, the relationship of Kinginvariably sour than the story of Camelot. In this epic tale, the relationship of Kinginvariably sour than the story of Camelot. In this epic tale, the relationship of King
Arthur and Queen Guenevere is trespassed upon when Arthur's most renowned andArthur and Queen Guenevere is trespassed upon when Arthur's most renowned andArthur and Queen Guenevere is trespassed upon when Arthur's most renowned andArthur and Queen Guenevere is trespassed upon when Arthur's most renowned and
trusted knight Lancelot gingerly slips his toe across the marital boundary. It startedtrusted knight Lancelot gingerly slips his toe across the marital boundary. It startedtrusted knight Lancelot gingerly slips his toe across the marital boundary. It startedtrusted knight Lancelot gingerly slips his toe across the marital boundary. It started
with a look -- an innocent look, without premeditation or evil intent. But it was awith a look -- an innocent look, without premeditation or evil intent. But it was awith a look -- an innocent look, without premeditation or evil intent. But it was awith a look -- an innocent look, without premeditation or evil intent. But it was a
short, slippery step from a look to lust, from infatuation to infidelity. The lookshort, slippery step from a look to lust, from infatuation to infidelity. The lookshort, slippery step from a look to lust, from infatuation to infidelity. The lookshort, slippery step from a look to lust, from infatuation to infidelity. The look
eventually led to a touch. The touch sometime later led to a kiss. The kiss, toeventually led to a touch. The touch sometime later led to a kiss. The kiss, toeventually led to a touch. The touch sometime later led to a kiss. The kiss, toeventually led to a touch. The touch sometime later led to a kiss. The kiss, to
adultery. And adultery, to tragedy.adultery. And adultery, to tragedy.adultery. And adultery, to tragedy.adultery. And adultery, to tragedy.
See: Prov 9:13-18See: Prov 9:13-18See: Prov 9:13-18See: Prov 9:13-18
3.3.3.3. Jim BakkerJim BakkerJim BakkerJim Bakker
I knew that what I was doing went directly against everything I believed as aI knew that what I was doing went directly against everything I believed as aI knew that what I was doing went directly against everything I believed as aI knew that what I was doing went directly against everything I believed as a
Christian. I had never cheated on my wife in all our years of marriage. Jessica Hahn,Christian. I had never cheated on my wife in all our years of marriage. Jessica Hahn,Christian. I had never cheated on my wife in all our years of marriage. Jessica Hahn,Christian. I had never cheated on my wife in all our years of marriage. Jessica Hahn,
however, seemed quite comfortable with the situation. I simply abandoned myself tohowever, seemed quite comfortable with the situation. I simply abandoned myself tohowever, seemed quite comfortable with the situation. I simply abandoned myself tohowever, seemed quite comfortable with the situation. I simply abandoned myself to
the moment. We did not make love; we had sex. When it was over, I quickly left thethe moment. We did not make love; we had sex. When it was over, I quickly left thethe moment. We did not make love; we had sex. When it was over, I quickly left thethe moment. We did not make love; we had sex. When it was over, I quickly left the
room, and in a daze, hurried to the elevator and pressed the button marking theroom, and in a daze, hurried to the elevator and pressed the button marking theroom, and in a daze, hurried to the elevator and pressed the button marking theroom, and in a daze, hurried to the elevator and pressed the button marking the
eighth floor. The winter afternoon sun was already beginning to slide down on theeighth floor. The winter afternoon sun was already beginning to slide down on theeighth floor. The winter afternoon sun was already beginning to slide down on theeighth floor. The winter afternoon sun was already beginning to slide down on the
horizon as I stepped inside my room. I was horrified. Oh, God! What have I done? Ihorizon as I stepped inside my room. I was horrified. Oh, God! What have I done? Ihorizon as I stepped inside my room. I was horrified. Oh, God! What have I done? Ihorizon as I stepped inside my room. I was horrified. Oh, God! What have I done? I
had not considered the consequences of my absurd attempt to make Tammy Fayehad not considered the consequences of my absurd attempt to make Tammy Fayehad not considered the consequences of my absurd attempt to make Tammy Fayehad not considered the consequences of my absurd attempt to make Tammy Faye
jealous. I had not even paused to think of the potential ramifications of my actionsjealous. I had not even paused to think of the potential ramifications of my actionsjealous. I had not even paused to think of the potential ramifications of my actionsjealous. I had not even paused to think of the potential ramifications of my actions
while I was giving in to the temptation of having sex with a woman other than mywhile I was giving in to the temptation of having sex with a woman other than mywhile I was giving in to the temptation of having sex with a woman other than mywhile I was giving in to the temptation of having sex with a woman other than my
wife. I had simply reacted. I had opened the door to attack on the ministry I headed,wife. I had simply reacted. I had opened the door to attack on the ministry I headed,wife. I had simply reacted. I had opened the door to attack on the ministry I headed,wife. I had simply reacted. I had opened the door to attack on the ministry I headed,
my family, and me personally. Worse yet, the devil had not made me do any of it; Imy family, and me personally. Worse yet, the devil had not made me do any of it; Imy family, and me personally. Worse yet, the devil had not made me do any of it; Imy family, and me personally. Worse yet, the devil had not made me do any of it; I
had done it of my own stubborn will. I disrobed and immediately stepped into thehad done it of my own stubborn will. I disrobed and immediately stepped into thehad done it of my own stubborn will. I disrobed and immediately stepped into thehad done it of my own stubborn will. I disrobed and immediately stepped into the
shower, turning the water on as hot as I could stand it. I never felt so dirty in all myshower, turning the water on as hot as I could stand it. I never felt so dirty in all myshower, turning the water on as hot as I could stand it. I never felt so dirty in all myshower, turning the water on as hot as I could stand it. I never felt so dirty in all my
life.life.life.life.
Maybe if I make the water hotter, it will wash it all away, I thought.Maybe if I make the water hotter, it will wash it all away, I thought.Maybe if I make the water hotter, it will wash it all away, I thought.Maybe if I make the water hotter, it will wash it all away, I thought.
-- Jim Bakker, I Was Wrong, (Nelson, 1996), p. 21.-- Jim Bakker, I Was Wrong, (Nelson, 1996), p. 21.-- Jim Bakker, I Was Wrong, (Nelson, 1996), p. 21.-- Jim Bakker, I Was Wrong, (Nelson, 1996), p. 21.
See: Psa 51:1-4; Prov 6:32; Prov 9:17; Eph 4:22; James 1:13-15See: Psa 51:1-4; Prov 6:32; Prov 9:17; Eph 4:22; James 1:13-15See: Psa 51:1-4; Prov 6:32; Prov 9:17; Eph 4:22; James 1:13-15See: Psa 51:1-4; Prov 6:32; Prov 9:17; Eph 4:22; James 1:13-15
ADVERSITYADVERSITYADVERSITYADVERSITY
1. Contrary to what might be expected, I look back on experiences that at the time1. Contrary to what might be expected, I look back on experiences that at the time1. Contrary to what might be expected, I look back on experiences that at the time1. Contrary to what might be expected, I look back on experiences that at the time
seemed especially desolating and painful with particular satisfaction. Indeed, I canseemed especially desolating and painful with particular satisfaction. Indeed, I canseemed especially desolating and painful with particular satisfaction. Indeed, I canseemed especially desolating and painful with particular satisfaction. Indeed, I can
say with complete truthfulness that everything I have learned in my 75 years in thissay with complete truthfulness that everything I have learned in my 75 years in thissay with complete truthfulness that everything I have learned in my 75 years in thissay with complete truthfulness that everything I have learned in my 75 years in this
world, everything that has truly enhanced and enlightened my experience, has beenworld, everything that has truly enhanced and enlightened my experience, has beenworld, everything that has truly enhanced and enlightened my experience, has beenworld, everything that has truly enhanced and enlightened my experience, has been
through affliction and not through happiness. Malcolm Muggeridge, in Homemade,through affliction and not through happiness. Malcolm Muggeridge, in Homemade,through affliction and not through happiness. Malcolm Muggeridge, in Homemade,through affliction and not through happiness. Malcolm Muggeridge, in Homemade,
July, 1990July, 1990July, 1990July, 1990

8. 2.2.2.2. C.S. Lewis likened God's use of adversity to walking a dog. If theC.S. Lewis likened God's use of adversity to walking a dog. If theC.S. Lewis likened God's use of adversity to walking a dog. If theC.S. Lewis likened God's use of adversity to walking a dog. If the
dog gets its leash wrapped around a pole and tries to continue runningdog gets its leash wrapped around a pole and tries to continue runningdog gets its leash wrapped around a pole and tries to continue runningdog gets its leash wrapped around a pole and tries to continue running
forward, he will only tighten the leash more. Both the dog and theforward, he will only tighten the leash more. Both the dog and theforward, he will only tighten the leash more. Both the dog and theforward, he will only tighten the leash more. Both the dog and the
owner are after the same end, forward motion, but the owner mustowner are after the same end, forward motion, but the owner mustowner are after the same end, forward motion, but the owner mustowner are after the same end, forward motion, but the owner must
resist the dog by pulling him opposite the direction he wants to go.resist the dog by pulling him opposite the direction he wants to go.resist the dog by pulling him opposite the direction he wants to go.resist the dog by pulling him opposite the direction he wants to go.
The master, sharing the same intention but understanding better thanThe master, sharing the same intention but understanding better thanThe master, sharing the same intention but understanding better thanThe master, sharing the same intention but understanding better than
the dog where he really wants to go, takes an action preciselythe dog where he really wants to go, takes an action preciselythe dog where he really wants to go, takes an action preciselythe dog where he really wants to go, takes an action precisely
opposite to that of the dog's will. It is in this way that God usesopposite to that of the dog's will. It is in this way that God usesopposite to that of the dog's will. It is in this way that God usesopposite to that of the dog's will. It is in this way that God uses
adversity.adversity.adversity.adversity.
See: reference{Isa 30:20}{Isaiah 30:20}; reference{RomSee: reference{Isa 30:20}{Isaiah 30:20}; reference{RomSee: reference{Isa 30:20}{Isaiah 30:20}; reference{RomSee: reference{Isa 30:20}{Isaiah 30:20}; reference{Rom
5:3-5}{Romans 5:3-5}: reference{1 Pet 1:6-7}{1 Peter 1:6-7}5:3-5}{Romans 5:3-5}: reference{1 Pet 1:6-7}{1 Peter 1:6-7}5:3-5}{Romans 5:3-5}: reference{1 Pet 1:6-7}{1 Peter 1:6-7}5:3-5}{Romans 5:3-5}: reference{1 Pet 1:6-7}{1 Peter 1:6-7}
3.3.3.3.ADVERSITY PARADOXADVERSITY PARADOXADVERSITY PARADOXADVERSITY PARADOX
"Prosperity is a great teacher; adversity is a greater. Possession"Prosperity is a great teacher; adversity is a greater. Possession"Prosperity is a great teacher; adversity is a greater. Possession"Prosperity is a great teacher; adversity is a greater. Possession
pampers the mind; privation trains and strengthens it."pampers the mind; privation trains and strengthens it."pampers the mind; privation trains and strengthens it."pampers the mind; privation trains and strengthens it."
- William Hazlitt- William Hazlitt- William Hazlitt- William Hazlitt
"The good things of prosperity are to be wished; but the good things"The good things of prosperity are to be wished; but the good things"The good things of prosperity are to be wished; but the good things"The good things of prosperity are to be wished; but the good things
that belong to adversity are to be admired."that belong to adversity are to be admired."that belong to adversity are to be admired."that belong to adversity are to be admired."
- Seneca- Seneca- Seneca- Seneca
"No man is more unhappy than the one who is never in adversity; the"No man is more unhappy than the one who is never in adversity; the"No man is more unhappy than the one who is never in adversity; the"No man is more unhappy than the one who is never in adversity; the
greatest affliction of life is never to be afflicted."greatest affliction of life is never to be afflicted."greatest affliction of life is never to be afflicted."greatest affliction of life is never to be afflicted."
- Anonymous- Anonymous- Anonymous- Anonymous
"Adversity makes men, and prosperity makes monsters.""Adversity makes men, and prosperity makes monsters.""Adversity makes men, and prosperity makes monsters.""Adversity makes men, and prosperity makes monsters."
- Victor Hugo- Victor Hugo- Victor Hugo- Victor Hugo
/mAdversity/mAdversity/mAdversity/mAdversity
/sBetter Than Prosperity/sBetter Than Prosperity/sBetter Than Prosperity/sBetter Than Prosperity
The sun and the wind were arguing who's power was greatest the windThe sun and the wind were arguing who's power was greatest the windThe sun and the wind were arguing who's power was greatest the windThe sun and the wind were arguing who's power was greatest the wind
proposed this test "See the man walking on that road the one who canproposed this test "See the man walking on that road the one who canproposed this test "See the man walking on that road the one who canproposed this test "See the man walking on that road the one who can
take his cloak shall be determined most powerful." Since the windtake his cloak shall be determined most powerful." Since the windtake his cloak shall be determined most powerful." Since the windtake his cloak shall be determined most powerful." Since the wind
devised the test he chose to go first. He blew very hard but for alldevised the test he chose to go first. He blew very hard but for alldevised the test he chose to go first. He blew very hard but for alldevised the test he chose to go first. He blew very hard but for all
his bluster the man only cluched the cloak the tighter. The sun washis bluster the man only cluched the cloak the tighter. The sun washis bluster the man only cluched the cloak the tighter. The sun washis bluster the man only cluched the cloak the tighter. The sun was
now offered his chance. The sun smilled down on the man and soon henow offered his chance. The sun smilled down on the man and soon henow offered his chance. The sun smilled down on the man and soon henow offered his chance. The sun smilled down on the man and soon he
began to grow warm by and by the man removed his cloak and sat down onbegan to grow warm by and by the man removed his cloak and sat down onbegan to grow warm by and by the man removed his cloak and sat down onbegan to grow warm by and by the man removed his cloak and sat down on
a log to enjoy the sun. When the man arose he forgot that he hada log to enjoy the sun. When the man arose he forgot that he hada log to enjoy the sun. When the man arose he forgot that he hada log to enjoy the sun. When the man arose he forgot that he had
left his cloak lying on the log and happily continued on his way.left his cloak lying on the log and happily continued on his way.left his cloak lying on the log and happily continued on his way.left his cloak lying on the log and happily continued on his way.
Moral: Adversity makes one more determined to hold to what protectionMoral: Adversity makes one more determined to hold to what protectionMoral: Adversity makes one more determined to hold to what protectionMoral: Adversity makes one more determined to hold to what protection
he has while prosperity can easily loosen his grip.he has while prosperity can easily loosen his grip.he has while prosperity can easily loosen his grip.he has while prosperity can easily loosen his grip.

9. ADVICEADVICEADVICEADVICE
1. 1. Never have more children than you have car windows.1. 1. Never have more children than you have car windows.1. 1. Never have more children than you have car windows.1. 1. Never have more children than you have car windows.
2. Never loan your car to someone to whom you have given birth.2. Never loan your car to someone to whom you have given birth.2. Never loan your car to someone to whom you have given birth.2. Never loan your car to someone to whom you have given birth.
3. Pick your friends carefully. A "friend" never goes on a diet when you are fat or3. Pick your friends carefully. A "friend" never goes on a diet when you are fat or3. Pick your friends carefully. A "friend" never goes on a diet when you are fat or3. Pick your friends carefully. A "friend" never goes on a diet when you are fat or
tells you how lucky you are to have a husband who remembers Mother's Day--whentells you how lucky you are to have a husband who remembers Mother's Day--whentells you how lucky you are to have a husband who remembers Mother's Day--whentells you how lucky you are to have a husband who remembers Mother's Day--when
his gift is a smoke alarm.his gift is a smoke alarm.his gift is a smoke alarm.his gift is a smoke alarm.
4. Sieze the moment. Remember all those women on the Titanic who waved off the4. Sieze the moment. Remember all those women on the Titanic who waved off the4. Sieze the moment. Remember all those women on the Titanic who waved off the4. Sieze the moment. Remember all those women on the Titanic who waved off the
dessert cart.dessert cart.dessert cart.dessert cart.
5. Know the difference between success and fame. Success is Mother Teresa. Fame5. Know the difference between success and fame. Success is Mother Teresa. Fame5. Know the difference between success and fame. Success is Mother Teresa. Fame5. Know the difference between success and fame. Success is Mother Teresa. Fame
is Madonna.is Madonna.is Madonna.is Madonna.
6. Never be in a hurry to terminate a marriage. Remember, you may need this man-6. Never be in a hurry to terminate a marriage. Remember, you may need this man-6. Never be in a hurry to terminate a marriage. Remember, you may need this man-6. Never be in a hurry to terminate a marriage. Remember, you may need this man-
woman someday to finish a sentence.woman someday to finish a sentence.woman someday to finish a sentence.woman someday to finish a sentence.
7. There are no guarantees in marraige. If that's what you're looking for, go live with7. There are no guarantees in marraige. If that's what you're looking for, go live with7. There are no guarantees in marraige. If that's what you're looking for, go live with7. There are no guarantees in marraige. If that's what you're looking for, go live with
a Sears battery.a Sears battery.a Sears battery.a Sears battery.
8. Never go to a class reunion pregnant. They will think that's all you have been8. Never go to a class reunion pregnant. They will think that's all you have been8. Never go to a class reunion pregnant. They will think that's all you have been8. Never go to a class reunion pregnant. They will think that's all you have been
doing since you graduated. Erma Bombeckdoing since you graduated. Erma Bombeckdoing since you graduated. Erma Bombeckdoing since you graduated. Erma Bombeck
9. Forget each kindness that you do as soon as you have done it. Forget the praise9. Forget each kindness that you do as soon as you have done it. Forget the praise9. Forget each kindness that you do as soon as you have done it. Forget the praise9. Forget each kindness that you do as soon as you have done it. Forget the praise
that falls to you the moment you have won it. Forget the slander that you hearthat falls to you the moment you have won it. Forget the slander that you hearthat falls to you the moment you have won it. Forget the slander that you hearthat falls to you the moment you have won it. Forget the slander that you hear
before you can repeat it. Forget each slight, each spite, each sneer, whenever youbefore you can repeat it. Forget each slight, each spite, each sneer, whenever youbefore you can repeat it. Forget each slight, each spite, each sneer, whenever youbefore you can repeat it. Forget each slight, each spite, each sneer, whenever you
may meet it. Remember every promise made and keep it to the letter. Remembermay meet it. Remember every promise made and keep it to the letter. Remembermay meet it. Remember every promise made and keep it to the letter. Remembermay meet it. Remember every promise made and keep it to the letter. Remember
those who lend you aid and be a grateful debtor. Remember all the happiness thatthose who lend you aid and be a grateful debtor. Remember all the happiness thatthose who lend you aid and be a grateful debtor. Remember all the happiness thatthose who lend you aid and be a grateful debtor. Remember all the happiness that
comes your way in living. Forget each worry and distress; be hopeful and forgiving.comes your way in living. Forget each worry and distress; be hopeful and forgiving.comes your way in living. Forget each worry and distress; be hopeful and forgiving.comes your way in living. Forget each worry and distress; be hopeful and forgiving.
Remember good, remember truth, remember heaven is above you. And you will find,Remember good, remember truth, remember heaven is above you. And you will find,Remember good, remember truth, remember heaven is above you. And you will find,Remember good, remember truth, remember heaven is above you. And you will find,
through age and youth, that many will love you.through age and youth, that many will love you.through age and youth, that many will love you.through age and youth, that many will love you.
10.10.10.10. He who can take Advice, is sometimes superior to him who can give it.He who can take Advice, is sometimes superior to him who can give it.He who can take Advice, is sometimes superior to him who can give it.He who can take Advice, is sometimes superior to him who can give it.
11. "Advice is like snow, the softer it falls, the longer it dwells and the deeper it11. "Advice is like snow, the softer it falls, the longer it dwells and the deeper it11. "Advice is like snow, the softer it falls, the longer it dwells and the deeper it11. "Advice is like snow, the softer it falls, the longer it dwells and the deeper it
sinks into the mind."sinks into the mind."sinks into the mind."sinks into the mind."
- Samuel Coleridge- Samuel Coleridge- Samuel Coleridge- Samuel Coleridge
AFFECTIONSAFFECTIONSAFFECTIONSAFFECTIONS
- Blessedness of making God the object of:...... Ps 91:14- Blessedness of making God the object of:...... Ps 91:14- Blessedness of making God the object of:...... Ps 91:14- Blessedness of making God the object of:...... Ps 91:14
- - Carnal affections should be mortified:...... Ro 8:13; 13:14; 1Co 9:27; Col 3:5;- - Carnal affections should be mortified:...... Ro 8:13; 13:14; 1Co 9:27; Col 3:5;- - Carnal affections should be mortified:...... Ro 8:13; 13:14; 1Co 9:27; Col 3:5;- - Carnal affections should be mortified:...... Ro 8:13; 13:14; 1Co 9:27; Col 3:5;
1Th 4:51Th 4:51Th 4:51Th 4:5
- - Carnal affections crucified in saints:...... Ro 6:6; Ga 5:24- - Carnal affections crucified in saints:...... Ro 6:6; Ga 5:24- - Carnal affections crucified in saints:...... Ro 6:6; Ga 5:24- - Carnal affections crucified in saints:...... Ro 6:6; Ga 5:24
- - Christ claims the first place in:..... Mt 10:37; Lu 14:26- - Christ claims the first place in:..... Mt 10:37; Lu 14:26- - Christ claims the first place in:..... Mt 10:37; Lu 14:26- - Christ claims the first place in:..... Mt 10:37; Lu 14:26
- - Enkindled by communion with Christ:..... Lu 24:32- - Enkindled by communion with Christ:..... Lu 24:32- - Enkindled by communion with Christ:..... Lu 24:32- - Enkindled by communion with Christ:..... Lu 24:32
- - False teachers seek to captivate:...... Ga 1:10; 4:17; 2Ti 3:6; 2Pe 2:3,18; Re- - False teachers seek to captivate:...... Ga 1:10; 4:17; 2Ti 3:6; 2Pe 2:3,18; Re- - False teachers seek to captivate:...... Ga 1:10; 4:17; 2Ti 3:6; 2Pe 2:3,18; Re- - False teachers seek to captivate:...... Ga 1:10; 4:17; 2Ti 3:6; 2Pe 2:3,18; Re
2:14,202:14,202:14,202:14,20
- - Of saints, supremely set on God:...... Ps 42:1; 73:25; 119:10- - Of saints, supremely set on God:...... Ps 42:1; 73:25; 119:10- - Of saints, supremely set on God:...... Ps 42:1; 73:25; 119:10- - Of saints, supremely set on God:...... Ps 42:1; 73:25; 119:10
- - Of the wicked, not sincerely set on God:...... Isa 58:1,2; Eze 33:31,32; Lu 8:13- - Of the wicked, not sincerely set on God:...... Isa 58:1,2; Eze 33:31,32; Lu 8:13- - Of the wicked, not sincerely set on God:...... Isa 58:1,2; Eze 33:31,32; Lu 8:13- - Of the wicked, not sincerely set on God:...... Isa 58:1,2; Eze 33:31,32; Lu 8:13
- - Of the wicked, are unnatural and perverted:...... Ro 1:31; 2Ti 3:3; 2Pe 2:10- - Of the wicked, are unnatural and perverted:...... Ro 1:31; 2Ti 3:3; 2Pe 2:10- - Of the wicked, are unnatural and perverted:...... Ro 1:31; 2Ti 3:3; 2Pe 2:10- - Of the wicked, are unnatural and perverted:...... Ro 1:31; 2Ti 3:3; 2Pe 2:10

10. - - Should not grow cold:...... Ps 106:12,13; Mt 24:12; Ga 4:15; Re 2:4- - Should not grow cold:...... Ps 106:12,13; Mt 24:12; Ga 4:15; Re 2:4- - Should not grow cold:...... Ps 106:12,13; Mt 24:12; Ga 4:15; Re 2:4- - Should not grow cold:...... Ps 106:12,13; Mt 24:12; Ga 4:15; Re 2:4
- - Should be supremely set upon God:..... De 6:3; Mr 12:30- - Should be supremely set upon God:..... De 6:3; Mr 12:30- - Should be supremely set upon God:..... De 6:3; Mr 12:30- - Should be supremely set upon God:..... De 6:3; Mr 12:30
- - Should be set upon the commandments of God:..... Ps 19:8-10;- - Should be set upon the commandments of God:..... Ps 19:8-10;- - Should be set upon the commandments of God:..... Ps 19:8-10;- - Should be set upon the commandments of God:..... Ps 19:8-10;
119:20,97,103,167119:20,97,103,167119:20,97,103,167119:20,97,103,167
- - Should be set upon the house and worship of God:..... 1Ch 29:3; Ps 26:8; 27:4;- - Should be set upon the house and worship of God:..... 1Ch 29:3; Ps 26:8; 27:4;- - Should be set upon the house and worship of God:..... 1Ch 29:3; Ps 26:8; 27:4;- - Should be set upon the house and worship of God:..... 1Ch 29:3; Ps 26:8; 27:4;
84:1,284:1,284:1,284:1,2
- - Should be set upon the people of God:..... Ps 16:3; Ro 12:10; 2Co 7:13-16; 1Th- - Should be set upon the people of God:..... Ps 16:3; Ro 12:10; 2Co 7:13-16; 1Th- - Should be set upon the people of God:..... Ps 16:3; Ro 12:10; 2Co 7:13-16; 1Th- - Should be set upon the people of God:..... Ps 16:3; Ro 12:10; 2Co 7:13-16; 1Th
2:82:82:82:8
- - Should be set upon heavenly things:..... Col 3:1,2- - Should be set upon heavenly things:..... Col 3:1,2- - Should be set upon heavenly things:..... Col 3:1,2- - Should be set upon heavenly things:..... Col 3:1,2
- - Should be zealously engaged for God:..... Ps 69:9; 119:139; Ga 4:18- - Should be zealously engaged for God:..... Ps 69:9; 119:139; Ga 4:18- - Should be zealously engaged for God:..... Ps 69:9; 119:139; Ga 4:18- - Should be zealously engaged for God:..... Ps 69:9; 119:139; Ga 4:18
AFFIRMATIONAFFIRMATIONAFFIRMATIONAFFIRMATION
1. Recently, I heard a touching story which illustrates the power that words have to1. Recently, I heard a touching story which illustrates the power that words have to1. Recently, I heard a touching story which illustrates the power that words have to1. Recently, I heard a touching story which illustrates the power that words have to
change a life -- a power that lies right in the hands of those reading this article.change a life -- a power that lies right in the hands of those reading this article.change a life -- a power that lies right in the hands of those reading this article.change a life -- a power that lies right in the hands of those reading this article.
Mary had grown up knowing that she was different from the other kids, and she hatedMary had grown up knowing that she was different from the other kids, and she hatedMary had grown up knowing that she was different from the other kids, and she hatedMary had grown up knowing that she was different from the other kids, and she hated
it. She was born with a cleft palate and had to bear the jokes and stares of cruelit. She was born with a cleft palate and had to bear the jokes and stares of cruelit. She was born with a cleft palate and had to bear the jokes and stares of cruelit. She was born with a cleft palate and had to bear the jokes and stares of cruel
children who teased her non-stop about her misshaped lip, crooked nose, andchildren who teased her non-stop about her misshaped lip, crooked nose, andchildren who teased her non-stop about her misshaped lip, crooked nose, andchildren who teased her non-stop about her misshaped lip, crooked nose, and
garbled speech.garbled speech.garbled speech.garbled speech.
With all the teasing, Mary grew up hating the fact that she was "different". She wasWith all the teasing, Mary grew up hating the fact that she was "different". She wasWith all the teasing, Mary grew up hating the fact that she was "different". She wasWith all the teasing, Mary grew up hating the fact that she was "different". She was
convinced that no one, outside her family, could ever love her ... until she enteredconvinced that no one, outside her family, could ever love her ... until she enteredconvinced that no one, outside her family, could ever love her ... until she enteredconvinced that no one, outside her family, could ever love her ... until she entered
Mrs. Leonard's class. Mrs. Leonard had a warm smile, a round face, and shiny brownMrs. Leonard's class. Mrs. Leonard had a warm smile, a round face, and shiny brownMrs. Leonard's class. Mrs. Leonard had a warm smile, a round face, and shiny brownMrs. Leonard's class. Mrs. Leonard had a warm smile, a round face, and shiny brown
hair. While everyone in her class liked her, Mary came to love Mrs. Leonard.hair. While everyone in her class liked her, Mary came to love Mrs. Leonard.hair. While everyone in her class liked her, Mary came to love Mrs. Leonard.hair. While everyone in her class liked her, Mary came to love Mrs. Leonard.
In the 1950's, it was common for teachers to give their children an annual hearingIn the 1950's, it was common for teachers to give their children an annual hearingIn the 1950's, it was common for teachers to give their children an annual hearingIn the 1950's, it was common for teachers to give their children an annual hearing
test. However, in Mary's case, in addition to her cleft palate, she was barely able totest. However, in Mary's case, in addition to her cleft palate, she was barely able totest. However, in Mary's case, in addition to her cleft palate, she was barely able totest. However, in Mary's case, in addition to her cleft palate, she was barely able to
hear out of one ear. Determined not to let the other children have anotherhear out of one ear. Determined not to let the other children have anotherhear out of one ear. Determined not to let the other children have anotherhear out of one ear. Determined not to let the other children have another
"difference" to point out, she would cheat on the test each year. The "whisper test""difference" to point out, she would cheat on the test each year. The "whisper test""difference" to point out, she would cheat on the test each year. The "whisper test""difference" to point out, she would cheat on the test each year. The "whisper test"
was given by having a child walk to the classroom door, turn sideways, close one earwas given by having a child walk to the classroom door, turn sideways, close one earwas given by having a child walk to the classroom door, turn sideways, close one earwas given by having a child walk to the classroom door, turn sideways, close one ear
with a finger, and then repeat something which the teacher whispered. Mary turnedwith a finger, and then repeat something which the teacher whispered. Mary turnedwith a finger, and then repeat something which the teacher whispered. Mary turnedwith a finger, and then repeat something which the teacher whispered. Mary turned
her bad ear towards her teacher and pretended to cover her good ear. She knew thather bad ear towards her teacher and pretended to cover her good ear. She knew thather bad ear towards her teacher and pretended to cover her good ear. She knew thather bad ear towards her teacher and pretended to cover her good ear. She knew that
teachers would often say things like, "The sky is blue," or "What color are yourteachers would often say things like, "The sky is blue," or "What color are yourteachers would often say things like, "The sky is blue," or "What color are yourteachers would often say things like, "The sky is blue," or "What color are your
shoes?" But not on that day. Surely, God put seven words in Mrs. Leonard's mouthshoes?" But not on that day. Surely, God put seven words in Mrs. Leonard's mouthshoes?" But not on that day. Surely, God put seven words in Mrs. Leonard's mouthshoes?" But not on that day. Surely, God put seven words in Mrs. Leonard's mouth
that changed Mary's life forever. When the "Whisper test" came, Mary heard thethat changed Mary's life forever. When the "Whisper test" came, Mary heard thethat changed Mary's life forever. When the "Whisper test" came, Mary heard thethat changed Mary's life forever. When the "Whisper test" came, Mary heard the
words: "I wish you were my little girl."words: "I wish you were my little girl."words: "I wish you were my little girl."words: "I wish you were my little girl."
Dads, I wish there was some way that I could communicate to you the incredibleDads, I wish there was some way that I could communicate to you the incredibleDads, I wish there was some way that I could communicate to you the incredibleDads, I wish there was some way that I could communicate to you the incredible
blessing which affirming words impart to children. I wish, too, that you could sit inblessing which affirming words impart to children. I wish, too, that you could sit inblessing which affirming words impart to children. I wish, too, that you could sit inblessing which affirming words impart to children. I wish, too, that you could sit in
my office, when I counsel, and hear the terrible damage that individuals received frommy office, when I counsel, and hear the terrible damage that individuals received frommy office, when I counsel, and hear the terrible damage that individuals received frommy office, when I counsel, and hear the terrible damage that individuals received from
not hearing affirming words -- particularly affirming words from a father. While wordsnot hearing affirming words -- particularly affirming words from a father. While wordsnot hearing affirming words -- particularly affirming words from a father. While wordsnot hearing affirming words -- particularly affirming words from a father. While words
from a godly teacher can melt a heart, words from a father can powerfully set thefrom a godly teacher can melt a heart, words from a father can powerfully set thefrom a godly teacher can melt a heart, words from a father can powerfully set thefrom a godly teacher can melt a heart, words from a father can powerfully set the
course of a life.course of a life.course of a life.course of a life.
If affirming words were something rarely spoken in your home growing up, let me giveIf affirming words were something rarely spoken in your home growing up, let me giveIf affirming words were something rarely spoken in your home growing up, let me giveIf affirming words were something rarely spoken in your home growing up, let me give
you some tips on words and phrases that can brighten your own child's eyes and life.you some tips on words and phrases that can brighten your own child's eyes and life.you some tips on words and phrases that can brighten your own child's eyes and life.you some tips on words and phrases that can brighten your own child's eyes and life.